Tameka Foster is hated on.
We’re talking about someone that almost makes Simon Monjack seem appealing to most our readers.
It’s hard to pinpoint the exact reason, but fans of Usher believe he’s making a grave mistake by marrying this supposed home wrecker. With that in mind, Essence magazine sat down with Tameka recently.
Essence.com: Do you and Usher spend a lot of time together?
Tameka Foster: Usher and I are friends. We are road dogs. We hang out like friends. We shop, laugh, work out, get mad in the middle of the day about what we want to eat, debate about what’s fattening in a smoothie and just do regular things.
Essence.com: How does Usher get along with your three sons?
Foster: Usher loves my children. My ex-husband and I have joint custody. It’s a wonderful arrangement that allows me time to do things with Usher one-on-one and to spend time with the kids. I’m not looking for a father for my kids because they have one. They just happen to be lucky enough to have two strong men in their lives.
The Hollywood Gossip note: Critics treat Tameka worse than other famous fiancees, such as Alexis Phifer, because they believe she is looking for a new, rich father for her kids.
Essence.com: You’ve been labeled a “poor mom” because, supposedly, you’re never with the kids. Your reaction?
Foster: Do you think Usher would really be engaged to a woman who would leave her kids? My children are with us much more than people think. They’ve gone to the Bahamas with us and attended play-off games. I purposely keep my children out of view. I don’t want them scrutinized and talked about because that would be a problem. Everyone wants to know, “Where are her kids?” Out of these pictures, that’s where.
The Hollywood Gossip note: It’s a course of action Britney Spears tried to use with Jayden James, too.
Essence.com: Shifting gears a bit, is it true that Usher’s mom fired you as his stylist and you in turn convinced Usher to fire her as his manager?
Foster: I never worked for Usher’s mom; I worked for Usher. Now, I don’t know if she persuaded him to feel certain ways about me, but she never fired me.
Essence.com: So does that mean you and future mother-in-law have beef?
Foster: No, we do not. Any mother with a son as successful as Usher is going to have raised eyebrows about any woman who comes around. I’d be the same way about any one of my sons. His mother and I have a great rapport. There are no hard feelings and I had nothing to do with his decision to no longer have his mother manage him.
So there you have it, people. Are you still against Tameka? Might she get a bad rap? Or, like Blake Fielder-Civil, is it just normal for those marrying celebrities to face a bit of scrutiny?