Desiree Hartsock on The Bachelorette Breakup: Blindsided and Heartbroken By Brooks!

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While careful not to reveal The Bachelorette spoilers concerning next Monday's finale, Desiree Hartsock is speaking out about last night's events.

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    I must say I disagree with Tina. Just because you may for whatever reason think Brooks is gay doesn't make it so. Apparently when the group were in Atlantic City there was a hot tub scene that was to hot and heavy between Brooks and Desiree to show as it would have shown exactly who Desiree wanted to be with. Also on that night Brooks took Desiree out of the room where the party was going on and the show didn't put that part of there one on one time in the show.

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    I'm a 70-year-old female professional entertainer who knows a little something about closeted gays still attempting to "have it all". So this is what I think about Brooks and Desiree. I noticed the first RED FLAG when Brooks always remained quiet and stayed in the background "opinion-wise" every time another guy was discovered (by the rest of the pack) to "not be there for the right reasons". I noticed another RED FLAG when Brooks always expressed his rather girlie sensitivity, coupled with his constant tendency to over-analyze and avoid actually answering, especially when the subject of "progress toward commitment" came up. I noticed a RED FLAG when Brooks would use sensitive "poetry" and inject yet another dissertation on his introspective "takes on life", instead of directly answering Desiree's veiled queries as to how things were progressing (for him). What really lit up my RED FLAG lightbulb was the fact that Brooks waited until the morning before the Fantasy Suite Night to pull out of the competition. Now, I might not be a world-renowned expert on gay RED FLAGS, but from my own experience I DO know for sure that the one thing a gay man fears, dreads and tries to avoid is the thought of actually having to sleep with a woman and perform convincingly -- which is difficult, if not impossible, even when the woman is someone he really likes or even loves. Remember, folks, loving a woman (mother, sister, friend) is very different from actually being in love (with a lover). For some still-closeted gays, there seems to remain a real temptation to try to have it ALL in life (a trophy woman, a marriage, kids and a heterosexual standing in their own communities to protect their careers) -- but nevertheless it's very, very tough to have to face actually SPENDING THE NIGHT with a woman and performing convincingly. Now, I don't know for sure if Brooks is or is not gay, but if he has gay tendencies he's still in the closet about them and hasn't even shared them with his family. Regardless, it's heartbreaking for a heterosexual woman who falls in love with a gay man. I'm done now - thanks for listening.

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    I'm a 70-year-old female professional entertainer who knows a little something about closeted gays still attempting to "have it all". So this is what I think about Brooks and Desiree. I noticed the first RED FLAG when Brooks always remained quiet and stayed in the background "opinion-wise" every time another guy was discovered (by the rest of the pack) to "not be there for the right reasons". I noticed another RED FLAG when Brooks always expressed his rather girlie sensitivity, coupled with his constant tendency to over-analyze and avoid actually answering, especially when the subject of "progress toward commitment" came up. I noticed a RED FLAG when Brooks would use sensitive "poetry" and inject yet another dissertation on his introspective "takes on life", instead of directly answering Desiree's veiled queries as to how things were progressing (for him). What really lit up my RED FLAG lightbulb was the fact that Brooks waited until the morning before the Fantasy Suite Night to pull out of the competition. Now, I might not be a world-renowned expert on gay RED FLAGS, but from my own experience I DO know for sure that the one thing a gay man fears, dreads and tries to avoid is the thought of actually having to sleep with a woman and perform convincingly -- which is difficult, if not impossible, even when the woman is someone he really likes or even loves. Remember, folks, loving a woman (mother, sister, friend) is very different from actually being in love (with a lover). For some still-closeted gays, there seems to remain a real temptation to try to have it ALL in life (a trophy woman, a marriage, kids and a heterosexual standing in their own communities to protect their careers) -- but nevertheless it's very, very tough to have to face actually SPENDING THE NIGHT with a woman and performing convincingly. Now, I don't know for sure if Brooks is or is not gay, but if he has gay tendencies he's still in the closet about them and hasn't even shared them with his family. Regardless, it's heartbreaking for a heterosexual woman who falls in love with a gay man. I'm done now - thanks for listening.

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    POSTSCRIPT...OMG!!! I forgot to say I'm talking about CHRIS, not Brooks!!!!! Seriously. No Brooks and no Drew!!!

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    Steadfast with his feelings; expressive; solid; knows who he is and what he wants; knows what he has to offer; family oriented; people person; lives and breathes his conviction. Handsome, (tans up real well by the end); athletic; great smile with reassuring glances; definitely in-love with Des! Shows comfort with PDA but not overtly sexual because his commitment is more enduring.

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    I have been saying this from the very beginning that this guy Brooks is definitely GAY....PERIOD.....If he does come back, & she's engaged to him, this will be the most f...ed up season EVER...I'm done watching this crap.....eww

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    Breakups are very emotional, but it doesn't mean that you can't move forward in the new reality. It doesn't mean that you can't love someone else. Brooks just leveled the playing field. She can reconsider her feeling and the stability that each has to offer and weigh whether that is what she wants.

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    So like the opening line from the TV show Cops ... "Bad girl, bad girl! Whatcha gonna do when they (Drew and Chris) come for you?" Is Desiree gonna say, "The man I have loved since the first day ... the love of my life ... has dumped me. My heart is broken and cannot be mended. This season is over for me. I just want to go home. I could never love you as much as I love him. You can go home now, if you want. Or, we can get married ..... as long as you never forget that you were my second choice."

    It appears the proverbial cat is about to get out of the bag, and Desiree is going to have to face the music ..... AND IT IS LONG PASSED TIME !! Chris and Drew are about to realize they've been played for the biggest fools on the planet. They both have every right to hate Des' guts, and every right to say so on national television. I'm almost looking forward to that last show.

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    he just wanted to be a milkman the rest of his life.

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    Shut. Up. Abe




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