Roger Mathews and Jenni Farley are very much on the outs.
Yes, the Jersey Shore star filed for divorce back in September -- but there was sightings of the married couple out and about since then, along with promises from Mathews that he would win her back.
But no longer.
As documented HERE, Mathews and Farley got into such a heated confrontation last week that police were called to the scene and a restraining order granted against Roger.
Mathews then blasted his estranged wife as "hate-filled" and claimed she is keeping him from their kids.
But is she, really?
And what actually transpired that evening?
We have the answers below!
The Future is Bleak
Mathews and Farley celebrated their three-year wedding anniversary in October, just two months prior to this blowout. How did things go so south so quickly?
This is How the Argument Got Started:
We had heard for awhile that Farley's work schedule had long been an issue for Mathews, and that's what came up again last Thursday night: "Jenni and Roger got into an argument over Jenni working so much,” a Hollywood Life source now says. “They’re both amazing parents, but Roger feels Jenni works a lot. Jenni was supposed to have Meilani and had to work last minute and Roger got angry so they got into an argument over it."
The Police Were Called to Intervene
But not by Jenni! This is the main bombshell dropped by Hollywood Life. "Roger called the cops and the cops came and nothing happened so Roger then left the home to do a podcast," the website alleges.
Roger Mathews Has a Podcast??
No, not one of his own. But he appears as a guest sometimes. Just this week, he sat down with MMA star Frankie Edgar for a podcast called Frankie & The 4 F's.
Okay, Whatever. So Then What Happened?
"While Roger was out, Jenni then proceeded to get an order of protection against Roger," this insider continues. "Roger then proceeded to come home. The cops were at the home and Roger could no longer be, so the cops gave him a ride in the back of their car to a friend’s home."
How Did Roger React?
Not well! He posted "several of his social media videos from the back of the cop car," the website continues. "Roger found out about the restraining order upon returning home from the podcast and left immediately without any further issues."
What Did Mathews Say in These Videos?
Oh boy. He said A LOT. "I’m doing my best to stay composed right now, although I’m really upset for my children," he said early in these many recordings. "My wife, earlier tonight, we had a disagreement because she’s leaving again tomorrow for work and promised my daughter that she would be hanging out with her all day, whereas my daughter has the flu."
So Far, So Legit, Right?
This actually corresponds to what Hollywood Life has written, as does this part of Roger's rant after the incident: "Jenni became completely, uncontrollably emotional like she always does and said she was calling the police. And I said, ‘For what? What did I do?’ I said, ‘I’ll call the police myself.'"
But Then the Rant Took a Turn
Mathews went from just describing events to blasthing his wife: "This is my liberty and my justice. Jenni has more fans than me and more influence than me but what she does not have and has never had is the truth on her side. There is no “my truth” there is only THE TRUTH” and the public is about to see that in its rawest form. No narration needed. Just stay tuned. Justice will prevail in the end. I have nothing to hide."
No Narration Needed
And yet Mathews went ahead and narrated... a lot. "This is the level my ex wife takes it to after telling my kids their dad is a piece of sh-t and she’s sorry she ever had children with him," he also said on Instagram. "She gets so emotional and irrational in her anger this is the level she brings it too. Saddest day of my life watching her tell my daughter ‘she is sorry she had children with your daddy’. The truth will come out. The truth will set you free. I will never stop fighting for my kids."
JWOWW is Irresponsible!
Continued Mathews: "I don’t go away for months at a time, for weeks at a time. I’m always there for my children. Always. And I’m not allowed to be there for my children anymore because somebody else is so hate filled that they would do that to the father of their children, to a great father to their children. It’s sad, man. It’s just sad."
JWOWW? More Like JSUCKS!
Roger continued to take the harshest jabs possible at Farley. For example: "I’m not allowed to be there for my children anymore because somebody else is so hate-filled that they would do that to the father of their children, to a great father to their children."
In a twist, Snooki shared security footage from Jenni's home of her pal talking to the cops. In the video above, we hear Farley saying that Roger isn't a bad dad and she doesn't want to keep their children from him.
I'm a Fighter!
Mathews proceeded to do and say all he could in order to defend his reputation.
He Also Quoted Cyndi Lauper
He really got you here, Jenni!
Did Things Really Have to Get This Messy?
No. Says this source: "Roger has a way of pushing Jenni’s buttons. Roger calling the cops to begin with was just extreme and unnecessary."
Where Does Jenni Stand?
We barely know, really. "Jenni hasn’t discussed divorce on Jersey Shore. Jenni hasn’t shared many details or given interviews, as she wants to keep this as private as possible," Hollywood Life writes. "Her focus was always her kids. She has even passed up paid interviews to discuss her divorce because she never wants her kids to grow up seeing anything negative."
Here is Farley's Statement on the Matter:
In part, she said: "Certain events transpired last night which lead (sic) Jenni to involve the authorities, as she felt it was in her best interests, and the best interests of her children to do so. Any statements and social media posts depicting anything to the contrary are entirely false, misleading and intentionally designed to cast Jenni in a negative light. She is proud to be a hardworking parent who provides for her children."
Oh, and Matthews Hung with His Son Over the Weekend
Here is the visual proof. Farley is absolutely letting him co-parent while they work through this issue.