90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After Tell All Recap: Ashley Storms Off the Stage!

90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After Season 4 Tell All

Larissa

For starters, this was filmed months ago. At the time, Larissa couldn’t film in person — which is a real shame — because of her then-upcoming court date. So Larissa had to teleconference in.

Colt was there, though

After picking fights with each and every one of his castmates, he wasn’t exactly trying to make friends. Even so, Debbie was there to support her son.

Colt gave a confession … of love?

He pours his heart out to Larissa, saying that if they could just talk to each other without drama, he’d be open to trying again. He even blurts out “I still f–king love you.”

Larissa’s reply was shocking

“Never say never,” Larissa teases. But you can tell that her heart’s not in it.

See, Larissa isn’t streaming alone

Her boyfriend, Eric, is there with her, and he joins her on screen.

Colt flips out

Coltee storms off of the set and angrily argues with producers that his marriage (which is over) and his love life (which is nonexistent) are not a “joke” to be mocked on television. Aren’t they, though?

Don’t worry, though

They’re not actually going to get back together. We hope. That long national nightmare appears to be well and truly over. For her part, Larissa wishes Colt happiness as they both go their separate ways.

Moving on to Ashley

Ashley is … truly miserable, here. She’s deep in her feelings and one of those feelings is humiliation. She also admits that she was controlling towards Jay during their marriage.

Jay is … still Jay

As always, he continues to insinuate that there’s some secret other side to the story that explains all of his rampant cheating.

So why did their marriage last as long as it did?

Ashley is feeling very defensive about this, but she explains that she loved him. She also says that this is why she was so controlling — or tried to be so controlling — during their marriage. That’s pretty heartbreaking.

So what was the final straw?

Ashley reveals that she was up in the wee hours — about 4am. She saw Jay’s phone repeatedly lighting up. She says that she doesn’t search his phone, but glanced at it and saw that he was getting spammed with heart emojis. Then she read — and discovered that he was in a whole other relationship with a girl close to his age.

Ashley also clashed with Paola a bit

Pao could not for the life of her understand why Ashley had tolerated multiple cheating scandals from Jay. This is a super touchy subject for Ashley, probably because part of her feels the same way.

Then Jay makes his accusation

He tries to claim that Ashley had been talking to her ex, as if that might somehow justify his cheating. It wouldn’t.

Notably …

This was filmed months ago, before Jay was in custody and before leaked text messages accusing Jay of abuse and spousal rape were made public. That extremely serious topic did not come up at the Tell All.

Then there’s Nicole

Like Larissa, Azan had to video conference in, so we mostly just hear from Nicole

Obviously, people have questions

Now they’re saying that there IS a shop, or will be. Nicole DID give him $6,000 to help with opening a shop, allegedly. Azan says that he has the space for it picked up and lined up.

The timeframe is still … deeply vague

Azan says that having a shop of his own will be the only way to support Nicole and May when they come to Morocco, and yet he doesn’t seem to have any real plans to make that happen. Or if he does, he’s not sharing.

Speaking of secrets …

Remember that “family emergency” that forced them to cancel the Grenada trip at the last minute? Well, they’re still not even hinting at what that was. Shaun Robinson does such a good job of politely humoring this claim that absolutely no one believes.

Azan still sounds like he’s encouraging Nicole to come

Nicole’s story has been one of the most stressful to watch for a lot of viewers, because whether or not Azan loves her isn’t really relevant if he isn’t taking the right steps to be with her. Meanwhile, she seems to dismiss any doubts or criticisms.

Elizabeth and Andrei

Speaking of men who aren’t stepping up or impressing audiences in the slightest, Andrei claims that he has found work.

Andrei drives a truck … sometimes

It sounds like he is self-employed and drives 40 hours in a week — or even 60. But some weeks, he drives zero hours. That’s not super helpful when you’re trying to provide for your family.

Andrei is still bitter about Elizabeth’s dad

By the way, that truck that Andrei is driving? Mr. Potthast paid for that, too.

Andrei still thinks that money is “control”

He seems to think that working for Elizabeth’s dad in any capacity would boil down to the same thing.

There was one nice thing

Elizabeth’s mom popped out on stage (we love seeing all of these family and guest stars btw) holding baby Eleanor, who was just too cute for words.

But it doesn’t sound like anything is resolved

If Andrei can’t mature enough to get a steady job to provide for his family, it’s not clear how long he and Elizabeth can really go on like this.

Russ and Paola

As much as they both love Axel, there are a lot of problems in their marriage and things don’t seem to be getting better.

Paola is not happy

She’s not happy with Russ when he’s at home — it seems like she always perceives him as doing something wrong. She’s not happy with Russ when he’s traveling for work, either, because he’s gone.

Russ is feeling the misery, too

He admits that he has tried to get Paola to go to couples counseling with him, but she has so far refused. It sounds like she just doesn’t want to right now, which is difficult to understand.

They both love Axel

However, it doesn’t sound like he’s helped make their mariage stronger.

That’s … really sad

These two seem to have so much going for them. We hope that they’ve made wiser decisions and entered counseling since this was filmed.