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Cynthia Nixon finds herself in a bit of trouble within the gay community.

The actress – best known for her role as Miranda on Sex and the City, and in a committed relationship with Christine Marinoni – is profiled this week in The New York Times and tells the newspaper:

“I gave a speech recently, an empowerment speech to a gay audience, and it included the line ‘I’ve been straight and I’ve been gay, and gay is better.’ And they tried to get me to change it, because they said it implies that homosexuality can be a choice. And for me, it is a choice.”

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Cynthia Nixon has shaved her head for a role in a Broadway play. But that’s not why the actress is making headlines.

Nixon made these comments around the same time Washington became the seventh state to legalize gay marriage, and she doesn’t see her viewpoint as contrasting with the stance of many activists.

“A certain section of our community is very concerned that it not be seen as a choice, because if it’s a choice, then we could opt out,” the actress says. “I say it doesn’t matter if we flew here or we swam here, it matters that we are here and we are one group and let us stop trying to make a litmus test for who is considered gay and who is not.

“I am very annoyed about this issue. Why can’t it be a choice? Why is that any less legitimate? It seems we’re just ceding this point to bigots who are demanding it, and I don’t think that they should define the terms of the debate.”

What do you think of Nixon’s comments?