Marriage is complicated.
Throw in a time limit, an international move, cultural differences, and sudden reality stardom, and you have a recipe for drama.
Sometimes, you have a recipe for disaster -- real world, scary disaster.
Leida Margaretha accused Eric Rosenbrook of abuse and the couple called the police.
Since then, we have learned a lot more about the alleged incident -- both sides have confirmed aspects of the story.
This is serious
On January 20, 2019, Leida and Eric were visited by police. It was very early Sunday morning, and the married 90 Day Fiance couple had just had a fight.
Leida accused Eric of domestic violence
In a series of "leaked" messages, Leida claimed that Eric had pulled her hair painfully -- and that wasn't the most upsetting part.
Read Leida's words for yourself
As you can see, she says that she had thratened suicide, but that Eric had taken the knife from her -- it was after this, Leida writes, that he abused her.
She says she doesn't want to live with him anymore
These text messages were "leaked" -- we'll get into that later.
Then Eric shared his side
Eric acknowledges much of what happened, saying that he was focused on saving her life, and essentially that he got carried away.
Abuse is never acceptable
Eric may have explained why he went too far and pulled her hair, but that is not an excuse. We hope that both he and Leida know this.