90 Day Fiance Before The 90 Days Finale: Who Got Married? Who Broke Up?

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We have previously reported on many spoilers from this season's 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days Tell All special.

But we could only work to fill in the gaps between what we had seen thus far and the end of the season to come.

Sunday night, the season finale aired on TLC.

Who got married? Who got engaged?

Who got DUMPED? Now we know.

There's a lot to unpack here, that's for sure. Take a look below and see where all of the Season 4 couples stand:

1. Yolanda Ballard and "Williams" are DONE

Yolanda Ballard and "Williams" are DONE
The season finale may have had plenty of twists and turns, but we didn't get a real resolution from Yolanda.

2. That's because he was a catfish

That's because he was a catfish
Yes, 90 Day Fiance's careful editing made David Murphey's lady love, Lana, look like a catfish for the longest time.

3. But "Williams" was the real deal ... in terms of being fake

But "Williams" was the real deal ... in terms of being fake
We have heard so much speculation about the mind -- or minds -- behind Williams, and the voice behind his "British" accent.

4. Soon, we'll know more

Soon, we'll know more
Yolanda filmed the Tell All with a catfishing expert, so we will hopefully learn more about that whole situation ... and maybe Yolanda will be better prepared for scammers in the future.

5. Big Ed Brown and Rosemarie Vega are DONE

Big Ed Brown and Rosemarie Vega are DONE
Ed was arguably this season's biggest breakout star ... and also one of this season's villains. As had already been made clear, Ed and Rosemarie are over.

6. He is brokenhearted

He is brokenhearted
"It broke my heart. I spent a lot of time, a lot of money but I just wanted to be happy," Ed expressed during the finale.

7. He knows what he wants

He knows what he wants
"I wanted what every couple I see every day has: I want intimacy. I want love," Ed lamented.

8. He plans to try again

He plans to try again
Ed announced that he is undeterred in his quest for love, saying: "I’m not ready to give up."

9. It won't be with Rose

It won't be with Rose
Rosemarie has vocally accused Ed of using her for fame, and fans have echoed the sentiment after the way that he lied to her throughout their relationship and treated her all season long.

10. Avery Warner and Ash Naeck are ... together?

Avery Warner and Ash Naeck are ... together?
Bear with us for a moment, because this is a little complicated. Though the finale ended with Avery flying back to the US, they were sure that it wasn't the end.

11. They parted ways but did not break up

They parted ways but did not break up
Instead, Avery and Ash decided to make their relationship work as a long distance relationship, as countless people do -- and have done in particular during the COVID-19 pandemic.

12. But ...

But ...
We all know that Ash's role as a father was just one factor in their relationship struggles. Other conflicts aside, Ash coming to the US would mean Taj losing touch with his father.

13. Ultimately ...

Ultimately ...
As we have previously reported, Ash and Avery are not currently together, as Ash confirmed in a comment weeks ago (as captured by 90 Day Fiance blogger John Yates). It looks like the Tell All is going to show us a bit more of that.

14. Geoffrey Paschel and Varya Maline are ENGAGED

Geoffrey Paschel and Varya Maline are ENGAGED
We'd already seen the Tell All spoilers reveal that Geoffrey was with Varya but could scarcely believe it ourselves.

15. Remember Mary Wallace?

Remember Mary Wallace?
Geoffrey had proposed to Varya, been turned down, broken up with her, flown home, hooked up with Mary, and ignored all of Varya's attempts at contact before Varya showed up at his door unannounced.

16. A lot of fans were "team Mary"

A lot of fans were "team Mary"
At least, those who aren't familiar with Geoffrey's lengthy and harrowing criminal history, or his most recent arrest from less than a year ago after yet another girlfriend accused him of brutal domestic violence.

17. But Geoffrey seemed to love having these women fight over him

But Geoffrey seemed to love having these women fight over him
After spending more time with Varya, he proposed yet again ... and this time, Varya said yes. They are engaged

18. Notably ...

Notably ...
Geoffrey has a looming court date for his domestic violence charges from last year, though the trial date keeps getting pushed back due to the pandemic. We sincerely hope that Varya and Mary both remain safe and well.

19. Baby Girl Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar got MARRIED

Baby Girl Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar got MARRIED
There's a bit of an asterisk implied with this one, but first things first: despite endless conflict, Lisa and Usman did go through with their marriage.

20. They had a lot of issues

They had a lot of issues
But Lisa resolved to power through them, heading back to the US to apply for Usman's spousal visa.

21. However ...

However ...
As we all know, at the Tell All, Usman accused Lisa of calling him the N-word. He has also spoken about this a little on social media.

22. So now ...

So now ...
Over the weekend, really just hours before the two got married on TV, it was revealed that Lisa had broken up with Usman and accused him of using her for fame ... apparently, her big issue was HIM calling HER out for using the N-word. Folks, he is not the bad guy in that story.

23. Erika Owens and Stephanie Matto are OVER

Erika Owens and Stephanie Matto are OVER
This is not a particularly surprising twist for Erika and Stephanie, given how their every interaction went all season long.

24. Seriously ...

Seriously ...
Stephanie has acknowledged that she had some serious jealousy and insecurity issues to tackle.

25. Erika had a great point

Erika had a great point
Stephanie should have tackled those before flying out to Australia, endangering her fragile health, and putting both of them through so much time and drama.

26. it was rough to watch

it was rough to watch
We all had high hopes for 90 Day Fiance's first same-sex couple. Fortunately, the second one is right around the corner. Fingers crossed?

27. On the positive side

On the positive side
Stephanie did come out as bisexual to her mother, which was a huge personal milestone for her. We wish her further growth. From the Tell All leaks, it looks like she and Erika are barely on speaking terms.

28. David Murphey and Lana got ENGAGED

David Murphey and Lana got ENGAGED
After years of "talking," after spending tens of thousands to talk to her, after getting stood up repeatedly and hiring a private investigator and after showing up at a random home unannounced ... Lana was real.

29. David proposed! Lana said yes!

David proposed! Lana said yes!
Most people learn their partner's phone number and address before proposing, but sure, whatever.

30. Lana has big plans

Lana has big plans
"I am very happy because David proposed to me we can finally start the process of getting a visa and be together in Las Vegas," Lana announced. "Now we can use the phone for talking more often and will be able to leave the dating site finally. I don’t know how I’ll tell my family that I am engaged because this all happened really unexpectedly and fast!"

31. Also ...

Also ...
We know that by the Tell All, they are "not together" in some capacity, though David expresses hope for the future. Oh boy.

32. Darcey Silva and Tom Brooks are DONE

Darcey Silva and Tom Brooks are DONE
To no one's surprise, Darcey and Tom are still broken up.

33. It's not a shocker

It's not a shocker
For one thing, we've all seen bits of Tom's dating life since then. Both he and Darcey have moved on.

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