After a year and a half of dating and three postponed wedding dates, Ali Fedotowsky and Roberto Martinez broke up this month, a rep for the reality star said.
The 27-year-old former Facebook employee and accepted insurance agent Martinez's proposal on the finale of The Bachelorette's sixth season in 2010.
She and Martinez, 28, moved in together in his hometown of San Diego, and things appeared to be going well. That is, of course, until they weren't.
In the wake of of the split, however, Ali has already moved out of the home they shared, because "she's actually really upset right now," a pal says.
"She's devastated, and she's just going to be laying low for a while." Adds another source of the couple: "They haven't been well for a long time."
"Their relationship has been tumultuous since day one," another insider said, despite the outwardly happy appearance the couple was known for.
"They're either extremely happy or they can't stand each other."
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