Just because you go on a reality TV show to find love, it doesn’t mean you will.
The Bachelor and its many spinoffs have been on the air for over seventeen years.
It may have seemed like these Bachelor Nation stars found love on one of the ABC shows, but they’re with someone different today.
Have a look below.
DeAnna Pappas
DeAnna got engaged to Jesse Csincsak on The Bachelorette Season 4, but their relationship did not stand the test of time. Pappas went on to marry Stephen Stagliano in 2012. They welcomed a daughter Addison in 2014 and a son Austin in 2016.
Ali Fedotowsky
When The Bachelorette Season 6 wrapped, Ali seemed loved up with Roberto Martinez, but the engagement came to a halt in 2011. She subsequently got close to Kevin Manno, the same man she married in 2017. They have two children together!
Bob Guiney
We forgot all about this dude, but here we go: He and Estella Gardinier, Bob’s final pick from The Bachelor Season 4 split up. He got married to Rebecca Budig in the aftermath, but they split up after six years of marriage. But he followed that one up with Jessica Canyon. They’re married and have a son!
Byron Velvick
Byron called off his engagement to Mary Delgado in 2009 but got married to Belinda Velvick in 2015. They have one daughter.
Jillian Harris
Harris was got engaged to Ed Swiderski on Season 5 of The Bachelorette. It didn’t work out. Years later, Harris announced her engagement to Justin Pasutto in 2016. They’re now married and have two kids.
Juan Pablo Galavis
Things quickly went south between Galavis and Nikki Ferrell — the final rose recipient of The Bachelor Season 18. But Galavis moved on to Osmariel Villalobos and the pair got married in August 2017.
Meredith Phillips
Meredith met Ian McKee on Season 2 of The Bachelorette, but things went south when filming stopped. Meredith married Michael Broady in 2011.
Andrew Firestone
Firestone ended Season 3 of The Bachelor in a relationship with Jen Schefft, but he wound up getting hitched to Ivana Bozilovic in 2008. They have three kids together.
Charlie O’Connell
This is another suitor we can’t remember. He split Sarah Brice, who he gave the final rose to on The Bachelor Season 7. Their relationship was all over the place, and they called it quits for good in 2010. He went on to marry Anna Sophia Berglund in 2018.
Jesse Palmer
Jesse Palmer decided against proposing to Jessica Bowlin at the end of The Bachelor Season 5. Maybe he could tell there wasn’t a big enough connection there. However, he got engaged to girlfriend Emely Fardo in 2019.
Emily Maynard
Maynard was engaged to Brad Womack and then Jef Holm. As you can probably tell, neither worked out. She married Tyler Johnson in 2014, and now have three kids.
Travis Stork
Sarah Stone may have won his heart on The Bachelor, but it fizzled out quickly. He then got married to Charlotte Brown, but they divorced after three years in 2015. More recently he married Parris Bell.
Matt Grant
Matt and Shayne Lamas decided to part ways in 2008. 10 years later, he married Rebecca Moring. Good things come to those who wait, it seems.