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This week, Asuelu Pulaa hinted at divorce from Kalani Faagata after announcing that he is “single.”

A split seems at odds with some other recent content. Fans want to know what’s true.

Asuelu has made another post.

The 90 Day Fiance alum is basically posting a list of complaints about Kalani, and expressing his desire to move.

He uses their previously established “safe word,” like for BDSM except for when they’re upset and need to stop a conversation. He goes off and takes some time to process these feelings.

Asuelu recently shared a TikTok video featuring the caption: “When people know that I’m single.”

While the message was ambiguous, the 90 Day Fiance alum seemed to be declaring that they were over.

Clearly, he wanted people to see the post, because he shared it on Instagram.

At the same time, Asuelu has also shared videos featuring Kalani.

It could be the case that he is recycling older videos to entertain fans.

Asuelu could also be trying to lead fans on or deliberately confuse them.

Asuelu Pulaa and Kalani Faagata on 90 Day Diaries
Photo via Discovery+

We must keep that in mind as we view all of his posts.

Reality stars have to keep fans on their toes sometimes.

Kalani and Asuelu are also under NDAs that keep them from sharing too much about their lives.

“Here she is,” Asuelu captioned a “recent” video that featured Kalani.

“People keep asking where is [your] wife,” he acknowledged.

“I said idk,” Asuelu admitted.

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Asuelu complained: “She don’t wanna join my live she doesn’t want film tiktok with with me.”

He griped that “she’s different from how she used [to be].”

“She doesn’t wanna go out with me,” Asuelu added bitterly.

“Everything she needs I supply for her,” Asuelu claimed, “[especially] the boys.”

He teased: “I have [a lot] to said but I can’t I’m under the contract my life is under control.”

“It’s hard,” Asuelu expressed, “[because] I wanna have my own space but she don’t.”

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“She doesn’t want to communicate anymore…” Asuelu lamented.

“Hopefully we sell this house very soon,” he expressed.

Asuelu concluded: “So I can go back to work.”

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In the past, viewers often saw one major obstacle in Kalani and Asuelu’s marriage:

Asuelu’s mother, Lesina, and sister, Tammy.

Lesina and Tammy made easy scapegoats, because they were causing problems on purpose.

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There was, for instance, the time that Lesina demanded to take Asuelu back home.

Announcing that she did not “care about” her own grandchildren, she wanted to put her son to work.

This was one incident when Tammy tried to physically fight Kalani.

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Tammy has proven to be more combative.

She has threatened Kalani and also Kalani’s fan-favorite sister, Kolini.

There was an incident when Asuelu had to rush his mother and sister out of the house before a fight broke out.

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However, Kalani and Asuelu have made it very clear that they are perfectly capable of having marital problems on their own.

They do not need help from Asuelu’s meddling family or their desire to leech money from them.

It might be nice if Kalani and Asuelu can patch things up, but some 90 Day Fiance fans would like to see Kalani walk away.