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The Bachelor stars Vienna Girardi and Jake Pavelka ended their engagement this week, and the reason(s) behind the split continue to produce amazing gossip.

Not shockingly, the Breakup of the Century dominates the celebrity news tabloid circuit this week, with both sides’ accusations garnering provocative headlines.

In an interview with Star, Vienna says she was “bawling the entire time” when she penned her breakup letter to Jake, and reveals her motivation for leaving:

He wouldn’t put out.

During their first month together, they couldn’t keep their hands off each other, Vienna Girardi claims. But soon enough, they developed major intimacy issues.

“We haven’t been intimate in months,” she says. “More than four months. At first his excuse was that he was fasting. The second excuse? He didn’t feel like it.”

Jake Pavelka is a monster, supposedly. A prude monster.

“The third excuse was that he felt that I wouldn’t understand that he wants to wait until marriage, even though I told him I’d support him,” continued the sad Vienna.

“The last excuse was that we fight so much I push him away. I was like, really? Which is it? I have been living six months with a guy who won’t be intimate with me!”

In public, however, it was a different story.

“He kisses me only if we’re on a red carpet or if cameras are there,” she says. “Besides that, I have to ask for a kiss, and if I do he’ll pucker his lips and just peck me.”

“I’m like, that’s how I kiss my grandmother!”

The funny thing is that we always pegged Jake for this type of guy. He tells a very different version of events to Us, however, which you can read after the jump …

According to that celebrity gossip magazine, there was growing tension between Jake Pavelka and his fiancee long before they announced their split Monday night.

That’s no surprise, but what did shock Jake was that Vienna was telling people she was single while he taping Drop Dead Diva, then dumped his ass on the phone.

There are also allegations of her cheating with Gregory Michael of Greek fame, whom Girardi “made out with” last weekend and partied with hours after the split.

“She made it very clear they were not together,” says a source of the former Hooters waitress, who now boasts two broken engagements and a failed marriage.

Cheating was the final straw for Jake. It often works that way.

“He has no tolerance for infidelity,” a source tells Us Weekly of Jake Pavelka. “At first he gave her the benefit of the doubt, but soon realized the rumors were true.”

“He realized he couldn’t be blinded by love anymore.”

Of course, “there were other things” wrong in their seven-month relationship, adds the Jake insider: “She was jealous of him and did not support his career.”

His career being a professional reality TV star who jumped headlong into Dancing with the Stars the very night The Bachelor season finale aired. The nerve.

“The cheating was just the final straw. Things had been troubled for awhile.” We have little doubt about that statement … like from the moment they met.

I’m totally on