Nobody's drinking champagne, either
To be fair, at least it's not a dry wedding. But it's a weird toast, as a redditor who commented will explain shortly.
She's basically charging an admission fee
Obviously, bringing a wedding present is ideal if you can afford one. But this demand is in very poor taste.
The end is polite
A number of people suspect that the coordinator may have written the rest of the letter, while the bride may have written the list.
So, about that toast
That is a very weird choice. Sure, you CAN toast with liquor, but that does not mean that you should.
Everyone thinks this
That said, it's always possible that someone else wrote the list, or that it was a horrifying group effort. Sometimes, committees make things worse.
This redditor had a great idea
You know what? That definitely meets the letter of the list of demands, if not the spirit.