Look, Adam Lind is just not a good person.
Not even a little bit.
He's been in the public eye for nearly a decade now, and in all that time, has he shown even one redeeming quality?
Not so much.
Quite the opposite, really.
All the way back in the day, when Aubree was a tiny little baby, Adam wasn't very nice to Chelsea or Aubree, although to his credit, he did see the kid every once in a while.
In the middle of a fight, we saw him text Chelsea Houska to call her a "fat stretch mark bitch" and to "tell me where and when to sign the rights over for that mistake."
It gets worse!
As time went on, he treated Chelsea worse and worse, and he honestly never seemed all that interested in being a good father for Aubree.
Or even a present father, honestly.
When he and Chelsea broke up, he mostly saw Aubree when she went to visit his parents, but for a while she went over to his own house, too.
But then he started doing meth.
And it goes without saying that things went downhill fast after that.
We're not sure exactly when his addiction began, but he failed a court-ordered drug test all the way back in 2017.
We heard that things were so bad that even though he owned his home, he failed to pay his bills, so he just sat in the house without electricity, doing drugs.
In addition to the meth, which we can all surely agree is enough badness all on its own, he's repeatedly fallen behind on his child support payments.
And then came the domestic violence arrests.
His exes have said that he's broken bones, pushed and shoved them, and poor Taylor Halbur said that once he killed some puppies her dog had.
Like, he gave up custody of the daughter he shares with Taylor.
He is not a good person.
As for Aubree, at this point in time they're going through a visitation center to spend time together.
But as we've seen on this season of Teen Mom 2, he's been missing those visits.
Thank goodness for Cole DeBoer, right?!
Chelsea and Cole have been together for several years now, and after they got married in the fall of 2016, he officially became Aubree's stepfather.
You probably know this, but boy, has that man stepped up for that little girl.
One example of how he's stepped up is Aubree's annual Father-Daughter dance!
A few years ago, Aubree invited Adam to the dance, and he said he'd take her, but never showed up.
As he told her later, he had a weight-lifting competition to go to instead.
So Cole dressed up and took her, and they had a great time together.
Now we're pretty sure Adam isn't even invited.
We've talked about Cole and Aubree's annual dance date before, but it's that time again!
Yep, last night was the big dance, and Cole took to Instagram to document the occasion.
"Father Daughter Dance success!!!!" he captioned these photos. "I am very proud of who this sweet girl is becoming the older she gets!"
"I swear she is already an adult," he said.
"In the truck on the way to the dance I told her, 'you know that I love you and that I will always protect you and always be here for you whenever you need me!'"
In response, "She said, trust me I know that."
He then put a whole bunch of heart emojis, heart eyes emojis, and crying emojis, because he is adorable.
This is just the absolute sweetest, right?
Literally everyone who commented on Cole's post agreed.
"You're an amazing man," one of his followers told him. "So happy Aubree has you in her life."
Another wrote "You're the best thing that's ever happened to her! Keep it up!"
One person summed it all up pretty well with "I'm crying and I don't even know y'all. How sweet."
And then, as always, the adoption talk began.
"Adopt her already!!!!!" an excited fan pleaded. "You two deserve each other."
Another comment read "She's so blessed to have you!!! I wish you could officially adopt her!!!"
There were tons and tons of comments like these, about how Adam should hand over his rights to Cole so he could officially become her father.
Really, that's a definite possibility -- that's what Adam did with his other daughter.
It would be no surprise at all if Adam signed away his parental rights so Cole could adopt Aubree.
And wouldn't that be so exciting if it happened?!