Speaking with People about the state of her relationship with her ex these days, Kate Gosselin definitely did not bash the hell out of Jon!
Hey, considering how things ended between them and the way their war of words and custody played out, neutral is a very positive step.
"It's gotten more peaceful, which is good," Kate said. "He's working now, which is great. He has somewhere else to put his attention."
Although Kate considers her parenting skills "very different" from those of Jon Gosselin, she believes whatever he's doing is getting it done.
"The kids enjoy spending time with him," she says.
"They wish he would see them more, but as long as they come home happy – and more or less they do – I'm okay with that, so that's good."
Of course, she's not exactly pining for Jon.
"I want somebody who is older, at least in their 40s," Kate says. "I can't be bothered with these little boys." Ohhh, couldn't resist, could you?!