to follow your heart,respnses
March 4th, 2009 3:48 PM
To all those that say to jason "follow your heart,you did the right thing." I do NOT agree! We are given both a head AND a heart. Yes,if you can not make a relationship work,it's best to break up.What upsets me is how CRUEL and DISRESPECTFUL Jason was to Melissa.He could have broke up with her in PRIVATE,She said the only explanaton he gave her was that he said he was "Sorry",(an engagement is a serious commited relationship)"sorry" is NOT an explanation! She is left dangleing and to wonder what went wrong. This is down right DISRESPECTFUL!!! Jason put a ring on Melissa's finger as a symble of his love and commitment,then as soon as something does not go as Jason expects he says," Im out of here because I have another option(Molly and now even Deannna!)"If you lead with your heart and you what you have between your legs, then you will get a mess such as this!! Melissa was in it with her heart completely and also her head,She said," why are you not fighting for us??? " He did not have a
confused?
March 4th, 2009 2:19 PM
Boy meets girl,They fall in love,They live happily ever after!!! How did this get to be such a mess!?!! I can not believe that this is reality. This was all scripted..one BIG act. The Bachlor producers,Chris and Jason were all in on it. The woman, the dates, for Jason were NOT! This is what I believe. However, the Bachlor show did not expect that by playing these kind of hurtful games with the american public, their ratings will go down.( look at all the comments about not watching the show again!) This show has gone from a show where single people find love to a show that is scripted to produce hate and negativity. Yes, this last Bachlor show has been unlike the others BUT because the producers and Jason decided to do so. I belive that Jason is also a good actor. What he did to Melissa,chosing her and telling the whole world that she is the love his life,giving her a ring, and then months later without even a good explanation to Mallissa,parading her on national T.V (Chris saying o
Tricia
March 4th, 2009 1:58 PM
OMG!! Jason you are such a jerk. I have been wanting to scream this at the top of my lungs ever since I saw you dump Melissa. It was so obvious how much she loved you just by watching her on the show. But you followed your heart right? I bet. It sounds like you thought and that was the problem. I hope you are happy with Molly. She is just as ridiculous as you are.
VV
March 4th, 2009 1:28 PM
i think is stupid to have this show
yikes!
March 4th, 2009 1:04 PM
I have read the negative coments..My first question is that Jason is a psycology major,he was dumped previously and he has a young child that he is dragging through this mess..first Deanna,then Melissa, then now Molly.He has more knowledge because of his psycology major than most of us and yet after being hurt himself(devorce and Deanna) then continues to hurt others deeply(ty will definately be effected and also all those others involved). When someone continues to hurt others they have no regrets and do what is best for them only. In the first round he got sympathy from everyone when Deanna did not pick him. Now the tables have turned and people feel very negative about his actions. Rightfully so! It took some time to know Jason and we all know that actions speak louder than words. He is not believable at this point. Molly, I beliew is desparate. Most woman do not want to be second and to go back to him after much talk is not enough. Has she talked with his ex? What a about his psyc
charming
March 4th, 2009 10:54 AM
Jason, and please stop acting like a celebrity and going on different Talk Shows, audience are people like us and they all hate you so stop making a fool of your self saying again and again that at least I was honest or rest of the good stuff about you.......you are not a gentleman, you are the biggest jerk alive, actually we all think that you are not a MAN at all. I hope that Molly's family and friends put some sense into her and she leaves you asap........ha ha ha......wont' that be nice.
Marilyn
March 4th, 2009 10:53 AM
I don't think Melissa was too shocked by the break-up. She didn't even sit close to him or give him a kiss - all she did was hug him when she came on, so I think she knew what was coming. A new relationship shouldn't require work. He did what was right by breaking up with Melissa and saving them both future heartache. I don't think ABC should have sensationalized it like they did. But it was 6 weeks ago, so Melissa had to agree to the terms too.
Lauren
March 4th, 2009 9:45 AM
Jason,
I think that you should follow your heart and do what is best for you. Even if that is being with Molly and not Melissa. Follow your heart.
If that finale was not scripted, then you are the lowest possible excuse for a man that I have ever seen. You seem to be so emotional, but what you think you are is a good actor. You do not have a heart...so I guess you think it is ok to break someone who does. Hope your relationship with Molly lasts a little longer....the way she so willingly took back a scumbag like you, she deserves you. At least for as long as she has great conversation and all the crap you said Melissa had changed away from the cameras.
I think Jason made the right choice in the end.Good luck Jason and Molly you both deserve to be happy! i think you make a great couple
JM
March 3rd, 2009 11:29 PM
woh...........How can Molly BELIEVE ANYTHING THIS GUYS SAYS.!
oops. Yeah right.....TY was important. How about what in your
pants......I don't believe those tears.
What the heck?
March 3rd, 2009 11:18 PM
Does anyone know why Jason is divorced? Does he have full custody of Ty? And, where is his ex-wife and why did she allow her son to be a part of this circus?
sarah mccall
March 3rd, 2009 10:07 PM
i think you are a complete moron. Melissa this great girl who loves you. i can even tell how much she loves you from watching it on freakin tv, and you let her go. in a douche bag way i might add. what a joke. you deserve it. and Molly if you read this he might do the same to you so forget that. I fell in love watching you, because you are just so darn cute but after what you did hunny you are just a typical male who deserves not what Melissa had to offer. hope you don't treat your son like that.
Melissa
March 3rd, 2009 10:01 PM
Way to go Jason! Follow your heart! I know it isn;t the prettiest situation, but you are doing what is best for you. You have to do what is best for yourself, even if it means hurting someone else. It is better to end things right away if you don't feel the future is there. I totally feel for you in this situation. Take care, and remember, follow your heart all the way!
curlygirl00 Rank: Z-Lister
March 3rd, 2009 8:37 PM
jason how the hell could u do this to melissa i thought you loved her but well i guess not you mad the wrong choice picking molly and i will never watch the bachelor again because of u, u have no heart and u clearly showed that i hope that u always regret dumping melissa and how can u be so selfish!!! when i watched the after the final rose i was screaming at my tv u pissed me off!!!!!!!!!!!!
NOW U KNOW
March 3rd, 2009 7:04 PM
Jason i'm quite sure u know by now that the whole world hates u, at least most of it. u used mellissa to reach fame. ur ex-wife must be glad she's no longer living with such a jerk
LATTY
March 3rd, 2009 6:58 PM
jason i hate u 4 being an asshole and hurting that girl on national television. u r a self-absorbed self centered prick and i hope ur new replacement molly realizes this and dumps u pretty soon
Debbie
March 3rd, 2009 6:50 PM
I can NOt believe what an idiot Jason is. I will never watch this show again. I guess one of the lessons here is that I dont think anyone can expect to really fall in love and make the engagement comittment in just 6 weeks of tv time. Jason is disgusting- just goes to show that looks mean nothing- he's cute but his character is dispicable. I think Mellissa will be better off without him.
Jason- do you have the phone numbers for the other 23 top finalists so you can call them when you get tired of Molly?
paigers13
March 3rd, 2009 5:47 PM
jason why did you pick mel and dump her?
lolo
March 3rd, 2009 4:23 PM
you should of took meilssa loves tie as much as she loves
you asssssssssssssssssssssss
Lauren
March 3rd, 2009 3:41 PM
i understand why everyone is so upset. i am pissed off too! i was rooting for Melissa since day one. She's so down to earth and sweet. I never hated Molly but something just didn't seem right about her. Jason you shouldn't have done that to Melissa and i understand that your feelings changed but you shouldn't have done it on National television even if it was on your contract.
with that said, you're not the man who i thought you were. No money is worth more than love! peace nigga.
Vegas
March 3rd, 2009 3:18 PM
He'll regret this decision to let Melissa go. Good Luck.
Eve
March 3rd, 2009 2:43 PM
What an A*$&^hole!!! I am not watching another Bachelor EVER!!!
Nicole
March 3rd, 2009 1:59 PM
Jason, you are one piece of trash! I followed the whole show and what you did to Melissa words cannot even describe. You even told Molly that she was wrong when she stated you were making the worse possible choice. Way to let America know who you really are because obviously Melissa wanted to work things out and you didnt want to. I feel 100% sorry for your son especially. He doesnt deserve this one bit. If Molly is smart SHE WILL NOT GO BACK TO YOU!
Lisa
March 3rd, 2009 1:42 PM
Ladies...you are not nice. Granted what went down last night was not nice nor was it the best situation. ABC knows how to pull viewers in and I am sure gave little option to the people involved on contact prior to coming out on that stage. We have all heard stories about old flames dating again and things fall into place and work out. The stories about always thinking of someone from the past, that they stay in the back of your mind. The only difference is that in the real world, people date one person at a time. So for Jason going with his heart after reality set in, I would have much rather seen that then coming on the show and making everything look happily ever after. Life is messy. Relationships are messy. Melissa is a great girl who will find the right man. Molly is a great girl who will have to decide if Jason is the one for her. Jason will have to follow his heart, even if it is the path that is not pretty. I wish them all the best. Jason included
March 4th, 2009 3:48 PM
To all those that say to jason "follow your heart,you did the right thing." I do NOT agree! We are given both a head AND a heart. Yes,if you can not make a relationship work,it's best to break up.What upsets me is how CRUEL and DISRESPECTFUL Jason was to Melissa.He could have broke up with her in PRIVATE,She said the only explanaton he gave her was that he said he was "Sorry",(an engagement is a serious commited relationship)"sorry" is NOT an explanation! She is left dangleing and to wonder what went wrong. This is down right DISRESPECTFUL!!! Jason put a ring on Melissa's finger as a symble of his love and commitment,then as soon as something does not go as Jason expects he says," Im out of here because I have another option(Molly and now even Deannna!)"If you lead with your heart and you what you have between your legs, then you will get a mess such as this!! Melissa was in it with her heart completely and also her head,She said," why are you not fighting for us??? " He did not have a
March 4th, 2009 2:19 PM
Boy meets girl,They fall in love,They live happily ever after!!! How did this get to be such a mess!?!! I can not believe that this is reality. This was all scripted..one BIG act. The Bachlor producers,Chris and Jason were all in on it. The woman, the dates, for Jason were NOT! This is what I believe. However, the Bachlor show did not expect that by playing these kind of hurtful games with the american public, their ratings will go down.( look at all the comments about not watching the show again!) This show has gone from a show where single people find love to a show that is scripted to produce hate and negativity. Yes, this last Bachlor show has been unlike the others BUT because the producers and Jason decided to do so. I belive that Jason is also a good actor. What he did to Melissa,chosing her and telling the whole world that she is the love his life,giving her a ring, and then months later without even a good explanation to Mallissa,parading her on national T.V (Chris saying o
March 4th, 2009 1:58 PM
OMG!! Jason you are such a jerk. I have been wanting to scream this at the top of my lungs ever since I saw you dump Melissa. It was so obvious how much she loved you just by watching her on the show. But you followed your heart right? I bet. It sounds like you thought and that was the problem. I hope you are happy with Molly. She is just as ridiculous as you are.
March 4th, 2009 1:28 PM
i think is stupid to have this show
March 4th, 2009 1:04 PM
I have read the negative coments..My first question is that Jason is a psycology major,he was dumped previously and he has a young child that he is dragging through this mess..first Deanna,then Melissa, then now Molly.He has more knowledge because of his psycology major than most of us and yet after being hurt himself(devorce and Deanna) then continues to hurt others deeply(ty will definately be effected and also all those others involved). When someone continues to hurt others they have no regrets and do what is best for them only. In the first round he got sympathy from everyone when Deanna did not pick him. Now the tables have turned and people feel very negative about his actions. Rightfully so! It took some time to know Jason and we all know that actions speak louder than words. He is not believable at this point. Molly, I beliew is desparate. Most woman do not want to be second and to go back to him after much talk is not enough. Has she talked with his ex? What a about his psyc
March 4th, 2009 10:54 AM
Jason, and please stop acting like a celebrity and going on different Talk Shows, audience are people like us and they all hate you so stop making a fool of your self saying again and again that at least I was honest or rest of the good stuff about you.......you are not a gentleman, you are the biggest jerk alive, actually we all think that you are not a MAN at all. I hope that Molly's family and friends put some sense into her and she leaves you asap........ha ha ha......wont' that be nice.
March 4th, 2009 10:53 AM
I don't think Melissa was too shocked by the break-up. She didn't even sit close to him or give him a kiss - all she did was hug him when she came on, so I think she knew what was coming. A new relationship shouldn't require work. He did what was right by breaking up with Melissa and saving them both future heartache. I don't think ABC should have sensationalized it like they did. But it was 6 weeks ago, so Melissa had to agree to the terms too.
March 4th, 2009 9:45 AM
Jason,
I think that you should follow your heart and do what is best for you. Even if that is being with Molly and not Melissa. Follow your heart.
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March 4th, 2009 8:54 AM
If that finale was not scripted, then you are the lowest possible excuse for a man that I have ever seen. You seem to be so emotional, but what you think you are is a good actor. You do not have a heart...so I guess you think it is ok to break someone who does. Hope your relationship with Molly lasts a little longer....the way she so willingly took back a scumbag like you, she deserves you. At least for as long as she has great conversation and all the crap you said Melissa had changed away from the cameras.
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March 3rd, 2009 11:40 PM
I think Jason made the right choice in the end.Good luck Jason and Molly you both deserve to be happy! i think you make a great couple
March 3rd, 2009 11:29 PM
woh...........How can Molly BELIEVE ANYTHING THIS GUYS SAYS.!
oops. Yeah right.....TY was important. How about what in your
pants......I don't believe those tears.
March 3rd, 2009 11:18 PM
Does anyone know why Jason is divorced? Does he have full custody of Ty? And, where is his ex-wife and why did she allow her son to be a part of this circus?
March 3rd, 2009 10:07 PM
i think you are a complete moron. Melissa this great girl who loves you. i can even tell how much she loves you from watching it on freakin tv, and you let her go. in a douche bag way i might add. what a joke. you deserve it. and Molly if you read this he might do the same to you so forget that. I fell in love watching you, because you are just so darn cute but after what you did hunny you are just a typical male who deserves not what Melissa had to offer. hope you don't treat your son like that.
March 3rd, 2009 10:01 PM
Way to go Jason! Follow your heart! I know it isn;t the prettiest situation, but you are doing what is best for you. You have to do what is best for yourself, even if it means hurting someone else. It is better to end things right away if you don't feel the future is there. I totally feel for you in this situation. Take care, and remember, follow your heart all the way!
Rank: Z-Lister
March 3rd, 2009 8:37 PM
jason how the hell could u do this to melissa i thought you loved her but well i guess not you mad the wrong choice picking molly and i will never watch the bachelor again because of u, u have no heart and u clearly showed that i hope that u always regret dumping melissa and how can u be so selfish!!! when i watched the after the final rose i was screaming at my tv u pissed me off!!!!!!!!!!!!
March 3rd, 2009 7:04 PM
Jason i'm quite sure u know by now that the whole world hates u, at least most of it. u used mellissa to reach fame. ur ex-wife must be glad she's no longer living with such a jerk
March 3rd, 2009 6:58 PM
jason i hate u 4 being an asshole and hurting that girl on national television. u r a self-absorbed self centered prick and i hope ur new replacement molly realizes this and dumps u pretty soon
March 3rd, 2009 6:50 PM
I can NOt believe what an idiot Jason is. I will never watch this show again. I guess one of the lessons here is that I dont think anyone can expect to really fall in love and make the engagement comittment in just 6 weeks of tv time. Jason is disgusting- just goes to show that looks mean nothing- he's cute but his character is dispicable. I think Mellissa will be better off without him.
Jason- do you have the phone numbers for the other 23 top finalists so you can call them when you get tired of Molly?
March 3rd, 2009 5:47 PM
jason why did you pick mel and dump her?
March 3rd, 2009 4:23 PM
you should of took meilssa loves tie as much as she loves
you asssssssssssssssssssssss
March 3rd, 2009 3:41 PM
i understand why everyone is so upset. i am pissed off too! i was rooting for Melissa since day one. She's so down to earth and sweet. I never hated Molly but something just didn't seem right about her. Jason you shouldn't have done that to Melissa and i understand that your feelings changed but you shouldn't have done it on National television even if it was on your contract.
with that said, you're not the man who i thought you were. No money is worth more than love! peace nigga.
March 3rd, 2009 3:18 PM
He'll regret this decision to let Melissa go. Good Luck.
March 3rd, 2009 2:43 PM
What an A*$&^hole!!! I am not watching another Bachelor EVER!!!
March 3rd, 2009 1:59 PM
Jason, you are one piece of trash! I followed the whole show and what you did to Melissa words cannot even describe. You even told Molly that she was wrong when she stated you were making the worse possible choice. Way to let America know who you really are because obviously Melissa wanted to work things out and you didnt want to. I feel 100% sorry for your son especially. He doesnt deserve this one bit. If Molly is smart SHE WILL NOT GO BACK TO YOU!
March 3rd, 2009 1:42 PM
Ladies...you are not nice. Granted what went down last night was not nice nor was it the best situation. ABC knows how to pull viewers in and I am sure gave little option to the people involved on contact prior to coming out on that stage. We have all heard stories about old flames dating again and things fall into place and work out. The stories about always thinking of someone from the past, that they stay in the back of your mind. The only difference is that in the real world, people date one person at a time. So for Jason going with his heart after reality set in, I would have much rather seen that then coming on the show and making everything look happily ever after. Life is messy. Relationships are messy. Melissa is a great girl who will find the right man. Molly is a great girl who will have to decide if Jason is the one for her. Jason will have to follow his heart, even if it is the path that is not pretty. I wish them all the best. Jason included