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Member Since: 4/6/2010I am an Inspirational Relationship Builder. I am at my best when in the service to others. Can I help you? No I am not a psychic. I do not believe that a psychic can truly tell the future at all. The reason is that even I can see the "possible" infinite "futures" that we all are in command of. The issue is thru our God given right of "Free Will", and the lack of reality, the decisions we often make change our future, and can block our true life path from us.
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Sandra Bullock-Jesse James Divorce Countdown: Moving Van in the House! (4/6/2010)
“There could not been a better match than between these two very loving people The issue is that the very traits that should enhance their marriage is also the very traits that have put them on a path to destruction of their marriage, because they do not truly “know” themselves, and the spiritual needs of the other” Jesse is suffering from a deficit of self man confidence. This is an area he has suffered with many times in the past. Sandra’s deep need for attention at this time has led Jesse to have feelings that he can not “Please” Sandra. Jesse feels that nothing he does pleases her, and has left him doubting his own abilities as a man. This is why I see he has allowed himself to be with women that appear to be “Less Than” Sandra. The women themselves are not important to Jesse. The confidence building is. Deep inside himself he has had feelings of inadequacy due to his illusion that he can not please Sandra. When in fact he does please her, she is just in a cycle of deep need right now, and not so much a need for Jesse to be the warrior and “Fix” everything, but more a validating from the man she loves, and trusted. Jesse just did not understand this, and instead he feels it as a failure in himself. Jesse’s ability as the “fixer” the “builder”. Jesse must find the strength to accept that he does not have to fix everything, Just be there for Sandra. Be her friend. She was always there for you. “I see that Jesse is not following the advice contained in The Love Reading. The more involved with the outside world he has become, the more he has alienated Sandra which has ended up distancing them from each other. Sandra needing his attention more, and more, and his need to “shake the trees” professionally, which also boost his confidence in himself, has led his eyes and attention away from Sandra when she needs him most. This has caused many arguments and feelings of distrust, and doubts which could have led Jesse to seek out false “understanding” and false “confidence building” in another’s arms. I see that Jesse feels that if he is accused of cheating that he may as well do it in his search for understanding. Jesse does not see, his repeating the same mistakes, as in earlier relationships. Instead of seeking outside his marriage he needed to seek “inside” and by giving strength to Sandra, he would have given strength to himself. I see that Sandra is in a rough place right now, and is vulnerable to anyone willing to give her the attention that she needs, and with the Infidelity, and impending divorce she needs plenty, but not from the wrong source. If she falls for this in her weakened state another failed relationship will ensue. I see it. It will come to pass if this path is taken. I see that they can re-build the marriage, but there must be a 125% commitment made from Jesse to Sandra, and he must stay at it. This means him going against every instinct he has previously followed, and for once in his life…..stick to it! Sandra is a very proud and unique woman. Jesse must prove to her that he wants her, and their marriage….Jesse must be attentive to Sandra, and have daily contact with her any way he can. Even just leaving flowers at her door step, even if she puts them in the trash and proclaims that she does not want them, she really does, and Jesse…..She is Worth it! He must redeem himself to her, and by helping her heal, Jesse can gain the confidence that he needs. It will not be a fast and easy thing for Jesse, and because he is prone to give up and move on, he very well may lose out on the true love that he and Sandra were meant to have. It will take “Thinking Outside The Box” They are Soul Mates, but as with everything worth having, it must be forged through the furnace to make it strong, and this forging process is where many fail”. “Please, everyone who reads this, there are currently 10 divorces occurring every 60 seconds in the USA at this time. It is at epic levels, and it has been revealed to me that the answers are very simple, although we have deceived ourselves into thinking thru our ego that it is impossible to reconcile.” “The person you are with is the person you were destined to be with. The key to marriage is to “Know Thyself, and to Know Each Other” Please allow me to help you “Discover” both. Kevin
























