i have mixed emotions on this situation with amber and gary.as far as if it would be a choice of between the two parents,gary is more stable-minded with parenting.however,i do know,or think, that amber needs a lot of help with several issued that she has going on;also she has a lot of growing up to do.she is stuck in the media frenzy,and taking ,even the bad criticism,to her head,and believing she is somewhat famous.she just doesn't get it!if gary were to get custody of sweet leah, could he really leave amber alone, so that he could be a better father to leah,and to get his life straight for himself and is daughter?i'm not quite sure he could!i really haven't seen any sign that they really get the wake-up call that this should be.it's a very sad situation.gary should realize that it is about his daughter only, forget about amber,and let her get her life straight for herself!it's hard to say,for sure,what should happen in this case.there are a lot of points to look at,and decifer each and every one of them!
what can you not say about this situation!!!it makes my blood boil when i see a "mom"act like this...i am a mommy, and my babies are my world, my reason for breathing, my life-support.i would not ever even think of subjecting my family to this kind of trash!!nor would i ever lay my hands on the wonderful father of my children!!! yes, from what i have seen,because you don't see behind closed doors,gary has a big heart,and endurance;however i stopped feeling sorry for him,because he was ,or is , allowing her to do all of this to him.he has had a choice to get himself out of the relationship,but he went back and forth with it,knowing the consequences..he could have just accepted the fact ,if not for himself, but for his beautiful daughter,leah, that his relationship with amber ,was completely unhealthy, and dangerous!!you leave, and you move on, and live for your children...so, no i cannot pity him or amber, at all, only pity their beautiful, innocent baby girl!! it does, however,make me even more appreciative for my wonderful family.
well,there's always more than meets the eye!!! nobody, including press, knows things that happen behind closed doors!!! so, you can't ever really have an exact judgement...all we can truly know, and comment about, is what comes out of that person't mouth;so...with that said....jesse has shown,with his own admittance,that he is not a faithful man, no matter if he has found his best friend, or not!if he was that unhappy in his marriage to sandra bullock,whom i think is beautiful,bright, and smartly talented,then he should have ended the marriage the "right way".sit down and be truthful with her,get an attorney, and,if you want out of the marriage, get a divorce...then, you move on with whom you say is your"best friend" with that said...i'm not sure how much kat should expect from this..he has a long history of being unfaithful with his women...whom he also has said were his best friends...i think kat,deep down, knows this,but is being very "nieve".it will always be a lesson learned...i also think that it can almost speaks for itself,her moral standards,knowing the facts that are true with jesse and sandra!! you live, you learn, but not everyone learns smart!!
