Lisa, you're right. I guess maybe I was hoping that by poking a bit of fun with Mike/Leslie/Savannah, Destini/Lyssa, etc. I could get her to face her loneliness and better herself. But I think you probably have a valid point. There's a problem with this woman that goes way deeper than the fat that's covering her body. I think she doesn't want to lose the fat because she's hiding under it. Losing it might mean having to face the world and it doesn't appear that she has the skills to do that.
So I'll stop now....
Mike Says:
March 17th, 2008 2:03 PM
victoria/lisa etc....
The only thing the same in these comments by these different people is that we think you are a dumbass and full of crap and hate. The thing you need to work on is your soul. It is dark and full of hate and anger. Just remember when the day comes and people (if any) are standing around your grave what will they be thinking. "She was such a skinny person" or "what a bitch" or "you know she was a good person who cared for others" What good are you doing in this world by spreading hate and making up crap about people that you don't even know.
Here's a big tip for improving your life and to be happy. Care, pray for forgiviness and understand that your freedom of expression is fine but when it is to hurt and lie and belittle others it is a crime aginst humanity.
Also be careful about the seeds you sow. They will grow.
Savannah Says:
March 17th, 2008 7:33 PM
Well I see that Victoria has yet taken on another personality. How do I know this? I know this because anytime someone disagrees with her it is 'Oh, this is 1 person saying all these things against me' but if you sway in her favor, then you are another person. Like it has been said before, there are more people that disagree with you than those that agree with you. So get over it already. You are so full of yourself it is unreal. And as far as being angry as you so state. I can't speak for the others but as for myself I have no reason to be angry. I have a wonderful life and wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. I have a wonderful husband and daughter that brings so much joy and happiness to my life. As for being a fattie as you like to say, sorry hun, the only thing fattie here is your ego. So, grow up already and get a life and please, please, please get the mental help that you need so badly!
OggieBad Says:
March 26th, 2008 9:10 AM
Hi guys, I came across this page only today and spent the whole hour reading the comments - it is 1am now and I really should go to bed. Before I go, here's what I think:
1) Keely looks happy and has great boobs!
2) Victoria sounds obsessed and narrow-minded, but just like Paris Hilton (on a smaller scale of course), she managed to generate a lot of attention and should start a 'Anti-Twinkies Club' (I doubt it'll ever take off, but give it a go lady - you do need something to do)
3) Finally, f*ck I wish I had this much traffic on my website... maybe I should post Keely's photo on it? :-)
Gemma Says:
March 26th, 2008 2:35 PM
Ugh. Only other fat women think Keely looks good. What was she thinking getting that bloated. She used to be so pretty. Now her thighs are the size of a trick. Gross. At least she's good motivation to keep in shape. No one wants to end up looking like that.
Katie Says:
March 27th, 2008 4:25 PM
Her thighs are the size of a trick?? What is a trick? Sounds like another person who is stuck on theirself.
jenny Says:
March 29th, 2008 12:47 AM
Leslie--OMG, you are a real life CSI? How cool! How is having a job like that? Is it really how glamorous the tv shows make it or is it pretty dull in real life? Congrats on being married for 20 years, that's a great milestone!
Destini--Only 22? You're a spring chick! I remember those happy carefree days :). Good for you for coaching. I bet it feels great getting out there and working with the young.
Have a great weekend everyone!
Katherine Says:
March 30th, 2008 12:20 PM
I think Keely will eventually do the right thing and lose weight. A lot of stars who made excuses justifying fuller figures and all that rubbish eventually faced the reality and are now high-profile about getting fit. That is good because being fat isn't just unhealthy but depressing. Fat people are generally very unhappy and lonely. I lost 72 pounds and have to say it was the best thing I ever did. When I was fat I was really angry at the world. It is amazing how much better my life became after I got in shape. I actually have friends now. It's so cool!
Name Withheld Says:
March 30th, 2008 7:01 PM
I hate seeing photos like this because I'm the size of Keely even after losing twenty pounds. When people comment on how fat she is it makes me want to scream because it reminds me of how far I have to go. On the other hand it is good incentive. Being too heavy is unacceptable in this society. It might not be fair but it is just how our culture is. I don't think it is fair but at the same time the shame I feel over my weight motivates me to keep on exercising. I don't want to continue to embarrass my husband and kids. They don't come out and say that they are ashamed of me but I know they would prefer me to look and feel better about myself. I think I owe it not just to myself but to them to take control of my weight. I'm sure Keely probably struggles with this too and wish people wouldn't be so hard on her. Heavy people know they don't look or feel good. We don't need someone telling us what we already know.
Lyssa Says:
March 31st, 2008 1:07 AM
How the hell did I get thrown into the multiple personality poole??? I just suggested everyone stop fighting and agree to disagree. I never took anyone's side. Please do not put me into the middle of the weird war some ya'll got going on. I know why I have a few extra pounds on me its called being 6 mos pregnant. I still eat well for mine and my childs sake but lets face it I'm gonna still gain weight right??? lol I just stay active so after the baby its not so hard to get into routine to shed that weight. I would prefer though not to see my name slashed with a bunch of others because like I said I never sided with anyone so don't lump me with anyone whether they be one or many. But I would appreciate being separated as the individual that I am thank you very much. If some of you choose to have a pissing contest on here go for it. But Victoria I would once again appreciate you not lumping me together with other people. I am very much my own person. If you read the other things I have written you would see that.
Destini Says:
March 31st, 2008 7:44 AM
Sorry Lyssa, that is what you get for disagreeing with Victoria. That is the point that we have all tried to make to her, but she thinks that all that disagree with her, HAS to be 1 person. Sorry that you got put into it, non of us asked for it. She just doesn't like it when people don't side with her. 6 moths pregnant?? That great, CONGRATS!!
Destini Says:
March 31st, 2008 7:46 AM
And yes Victoria, I see that I have a couple of misspelled words. Was not meant to happen, but I had my dog up in my lap and she was getting on the keyboard. So thanks, no remarks needed.
J.L. Says:
April 2nd, 2008 11:39 AM
Blech! Fat people shouldn't run on the beach. That's how the earthquakes that cause tsunamis are created.
FeistyGirl007 Says:
April 3rd, 2008 12:39 PM
APPARENTLY, KEELEY NOW HAS A MEDICAL PROBLEM, SOMEONE JUST INFORMED ME, THAT REQUIRES HER TO TAKE LIFE SAVING MEDICATION, WHICH CAUSES SEVERE WEIGHT GAIN...SHE DOES THIS FOR HER FAMILY SO THAT SHE DOESNT DIE...AS FOR ALL OF YOU RUDE PEOPLE WHO ARE SO QUICK TO CRITICIZE AND JUDGE OVERWEIGHT PEOPLE, SHAME ON ALL OF YOU. THIS COULD JUST AS EASILY HAPPEN TO ANY OF YOU TOO. YOU MAKE ME SICK.
Jennifer Says:
April 3rd, 2008 1:39 PM
Wow It seems like everyone here needs some sort of validation. Im not "skinny" nor am I "fat" I run 3-5 miles a day and lift weights. By the way im 180 and a size 12/14. I eat right and everything too. I am not trying to be something im not.. only the best I can be for me.
Jennifer Says:
April 3rd, 2008 1:42 PM
Yes Keely should probably start working out. You can tell she doesnt by the amount of loose skin and her legs. I doubt she cares what yall think. Everyone should do something cardio or something everyday and get off the computer.
You can be skinny and out of shape as well people.
Stacia Says:
April 3rd, 2008 5:58 PM
I stumbled on this thread and have found it very entertaining indeed. I've noticed the most vocal of Victoria's detractors have found it easier to descend to name-calling and throwing around insults than to offer valid counter-arguments to the very valid points that she has brought up. Sad!
Taylor Says:
April 7th, 2008 3:30 PM
I think its hilarious that every time someone disagrees with Victoria she makes some fat joke, or insults them in some way. It really tells me something about her. Whatever it is that is making you so hostile, Victoria, you really need to go get that checked out.
Katie Says:
April 8th, 2008 8:37 AM
Stacia, what do you mean there hasn't been valid points brought up? Let's see, there is the fact that there are people that are overweight due to health problems that are beyond their control. I have a friend that has a 15 yr. old daughter that is overweight due to the way her body breaks down sugar. She doesn't eat that many sweets but as we all know, there is sugar in alot of foods besides cakes, candies, brownies ect... There is also meds that people are on that can cause a person to gain weight. If it came down to your life would you stop taking the meds just so that you can be skinny? I don't think so! And there is also the fact that your weight depends on your gene's. Can't do anything about that. And, last but not least, Victoria wasn't really bringing up valid points. Unless you call name calling a valid point. This is a grown woman sitting back calling people 'fattie' and other names, people that she has no idea about. Doesn't know these people from Joe Blow. Has no idea about these people weight. And besides, what is that teaching the children in this world? Oh if someone is overweight just sit back and call them names and put them down. Abit childish if you ask me. I think that kids and adults have enough problems with being bullied in this world without someone sitting back and doing it on here. And for all we know, Victoria could be the one that is overweight and unhappy with herself and this is the only thing that makes her feel better. She is the one that has kept on with how skinny she is and what a wonderful body she has. Well, how do we know this, we have never seen her before. We wouldn't know this woman if we met up with her on the street. But anyways, my point here is that she has been in the wrong and she should be very ashamed of herself. And if there are some people on here that has a problem with their weight, I really don't think that it is hers or anyone else's buisness. She just needs to grown up and get a clue. And if she is skinny, I am sure that she has flaws about her that other people could sit back and pick apart. So, my last words are... Before we start with the name calling, look in the mirror cause I am sure that we will find things that is wrong with us!!
Sherry Says:
April 9th, 2008 8:23 AM
Very few have legitimate health issues that lead to obesity. For the majority of people it simply comes down to mathematics. Too much intake of calories plus too little exercise equals fat.
Fat people, or heavy people if the word fat offends you, get very shrill when someone suggests extra weight is not something to be proud of. I have read the posts and while Victoria may have been frank in her language she wasn't the only one calling names and I don't think it was her jabs that made people so mad but her message.
Fat is ugly. The old phrase "lipstick on a pig" comes to mind. You can only dress it up so much but ultimately extra weight carried on your legs, bottom and middle is unsightly and dangerous.
What does it matter what size Victoria or anyone else is? Good grief!! We are responsible for our own bodies. So look at your own in the mirror. If the body you see is not the body you want do something about it.
And about what this debate is teaching the children, hopefully it will teach them that being fat is socially unacceptable and unhealthy. But don't come on a forum and try to excuse it away or make it seem desirable because deep down heavy people know their body is neither.
Katie Says:
April 10th, 2008 5:04 PM
Sherry, what the hell are you talking about? You say that you sat and read all this, but you must not have been paying attention to it at all while you were reading it. You comment about few legitimate health issues that cause you to be overweight, my mother has been a nurse for over 40 years, I have an uncle that has been a doctor for the last 35 and a cousin that has been a doctor going on for 7 years now. I asked them each about this and they stated that there are medical/health problem that can cause a persons weight to get out of control, so before you go spouting off, you need to make sure you have you facts straight! As for your comment that fat is ugly and unsightly, that is how you think and that is your right, but as you want everyone to respect your opion, you have to do the same in return. To each his own. And about the comments about fat people being unhappy, how do you know that all fat people are unhappy?? Can you read their minds? Can you get intouch with their feelings? I don't think so. I have friends that are big, and when they tell me that they are happy, I believe them. If 1 or all came to me and said that they are unhappy, then I would be a good friend and help them out with diet and exercise. But my point is, no one knows how people are feeling inside so it is just stupid to sit back and say that you know how everyone feels. AS for the comment about it is no ones buisness what size Victoria is, you are correct about that, but it is also no one buisness what size anyone is. I do believe that she is the one that was calling everyone a liar about their size. I personally could careless, but it looks to me like it was making alot of people upset about being called a liar. And that, I can not blame them for! Your comment about teaching children that being fat is unacceptable, I see that you must be one of these moms that is raising the school bullys. But just remember, karma will come back on you when you least expect it! Oh, and your comment about their bodies being undesirable, I think you need to check around with more men, cause I am here to tell you, I have seen lots of bigger women having no problem getting a man and bigger men having no problem getting a woman. I have heard to many men make the statement that they don't like skin and bones, they want someone that when they touch them they feel soft and warm, not cold and boney. Kinda sounds to me like you maybe alot like Victoria, maybe you are unhappy with your body. It's ok, just get the help that you need so that you can be a happy person.
Sherry Says:
April 12th, 2008 7:51 AM
That's a lot of space devoted to a lame defense, Katie. Look around you at ALL the fat people, even kids. Then try to tell me that all of them are fat because of medical conditions. You won't be able to because obesity is most often caused by poor choices and not medical conditions.
You also spend a lot of time trying to convince everyone that fat people are happy but I don't buy that either.
If being fat is so great name one thing that's so good about it. A fat person would probably say eating makes them happy. But that shows you right there how miserable they are inside if they're constantly comforting themselves with food.
Of course that might not be your answer. I'd like to hear what you do have to say? What is good about being fat?
lala Says:
April 13th, 2008 11:18 PM
omg..I'm way bigger than her and I'm shocked she still has Pierce at that weight! She has the money for a personal trainer for chissakes, poor fat folks like me can't afford those and just settle for fast cheap food and early death instead.
Brandy Says:
April 16th, 2008 8:53 PM
He probably stays with her for the kids, which is why people usually stay with someone after they let themselves go. He's put on a bit of weight himself so maybe he feels he doesn't deserve any better.
And "fat folks" who blame cheap food and the lack of a personal trainer for their weigh are being dishonest. You can eat sensibly and lose weight and no one is stopping you from walking or exercising.
Oh and would someone please answer Sherry's question? What IS good about being fat? Everyone who got so mad at the comments about the problems that come with extra weight are strangely silent.
Katie Says:
April 17th, 2008 4:33 PM
Now Sherry, that would be just STUPID to say that all the overweight people are overweight due to a medical/health issue. Yes, there are overweight people due to their poor eating and lifestyle habits. What I am saying is that you nor anyone else knows why a person is overweight so isn't that unfair of you and just poor judgement to sit back and call people names for being overweight when you really don't know WHY they are overweight?!?! And NEVER once did I see anyone on here state that 'Oh it is so great and wonderful to be overweight'. (there is your answer Brandy, buy the way people aren't strangly silent, we just have more to do in life than be on the internet 24/7). And the part about being/feeling good, that is called being happy in your own skin. Not everyone want to be a beanpole. But, I also relize that there are cruel mean people in this world and it seems like the ones that are so unhappy with themselves are people like you that feel the need to sit back and put people down and call them names because that is the ONLY enjoyment that you get out of life. Maybe you should take the time out and sit down and get to know someone that is overweight, you would find that they are really nice sweet people that are full of life and have a great personality. They have better things to do in life besides sitting back and putting people down. You never know, you might learn athing or two about being happy with the skin that you are in!
March 17th, 2008 1:52 PM
Lisa, you're right. I guess maybe I was hoping that by poking a bit of fun with Mike/Leslie/Savannah, Destini/Lyssa, etc. I could get her to face her loneliness and better herself. But I think you probably have a valid point. There's a problem with this woman that goes way deeper than the fat that's covering her body. I think she doesn't want to lose the fat because she's hiding under it. Losing it might mean having to face the world and it doesn't appear that she has the skills to do that.
So I'll stop now....
March 17th, 2008 2:03 PM
victoria/lisa etc....
The only thing the same in these comments by these different people is that we think you are a dumbass and full of crap and hate. The thing you need to work on is your soul. It is dark and full of hate and anger. Just remember when the day comes and people (if any) are standing around your grave what will they be thinking. "She was such a skinny person" or "what a bitch" or "you know she was a good person who cared for others" What good are you doing in this world by spreading hate and making up crap about people that you don't even know.
Here's a big tip for improving your life and to be happy. Care, pray for forgiviness and understand that your freedom of expression is fine but when it is to hurt and lie and belittle others it is a crime aginst humanity.
Also be careful about the seeds you sow. They will grow.
March 17th, 2008 7:33 PM
Well I see that Victoria has yet taken on another personality. How do I know this? I know this because anytime someone disagrees with her it is 'Oh, this is 1 person saying all these things against me' but if you sway in her favor, then you are another person. Like it has been said before, there are more people that disagree with you than those that agree with you. So get over it already. You are so full of yourself it is unreal. And as far as being angry as you so state. I can't speak for the others but as for myself I have no reason to be angry. I have a wonderful life and wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. I have a wonderful husband and daughter that brings so much joy and happiness to my life. As for being a fattie as you like to say, sorry hun, the only thing fattie here is your ego. So, grow up already and get a life and please, please, please get the mental help that you need so badly!
March 26th, 2008 9:10 AM
Hi guys, I came across this page only today and spent the whole hour reading the comments - it is 1am now and I really should go to bed. Before I go, here's what I think:
1) Keely looks happy and has great boobs!
2) Victoria sounds obsessed and narrow-minded, but just like Paris Hilton (on a smaller scale of course), she managed to generate a lot of attention and should start a 'Anti-Twinkies Club' (I doubt it'll ever take off, but give it a go lady - you do need something to do)
3) Finally, f*ck I wish I had this much traffic on my website... maybe I should post Keely's photo on it? :-)
March 26th, 2008 2:35 PM
Ugh. Only other fat women think Keely looks good. What was she thinking getting that bloated. She used to be so pretty. Now her thighs are the size of a trick. Gross. At least she's good motivation to keep in shape. No one wants to end up looking like that.
March 27th, 2008 4:25 PM
Her thighs are the size of a trick?? What is a trick? Sounds like another person who is stuck on theirself.
March 29th, 2008 12:47 AM
Leslie--OMG, you are a real life CSI? How cool! How is having a job like that? Is it really how glamorous the tv shows make it or is it pretty dull in real life? Congrats on being married for 20 years, that's a great milestone!
Destini--Only 22? You're a spring chick! I remember those happy carefree days :). Good for you for coaching. I bet it feels great getting out there and working with the young.
Have a great weekend everyone!
March 30th, 2008 12:20 PM
I think Keely will eventually do the right thing and lose weight. A lot of stars who made excuses justifying fuller figures and all that rubbish eventually faced the reality and are now high-profile about getting fit. That is good because being fat isn't just unhealthy but depressing. Fat people are generally very unhappy and lonely. I lost 72 pounds and have to say it was the best thing I ever did. When I was fat I was really angry at the world. It is amazing how much better my life became after I got in shape. I actually have friends now. It's so cool!
March 30th, 2008 7:01 PM
I hate seeing photos like this because I'm the size of Keely even after losing twenty pounds. When people comment on how fat she is it makes me want to scream because it reminds me of how far I have to go. On the other hand it is good incentive. Being too heavy is unacceptable in this society. It might not be fair but it is just how our culture is. I don't think it is fair but at the same time the shame I feel over my weight motivates me to keep on exercising. I don't want to continue to embarrass my husband and kids. They don't come out and say that they are ashamed of me but I know they would prefer me to look and feel better about myself. I think I owe it not just to myself but to them to take control of my weight. I'm sure Keely probably struggles with this too and wish people wouldn't be so hard on her. Heavy people know they don't look or feel good. We don't need someone telling us what we already know.
March 31st, 2008 1:07 AM
How the hell did I get thrown into the multiple personality poole??? I just suggested everyone stop fighting and agree to disagree. I never took anyone's side. Please do not put me into the middle of the weird war some ya'll got going on. I know why I have a few extra pounds on me its called being 6 mos pregnant. I still eat well for mine and my childs sake but lets face it I'm gonna still gain weight right??? lol I just stay active so after the baby its not so hard to get into routine to shed that weight. I would prefer though not to see my name slashed with a bunch of others because like I said I never sided with anyone so don't lump me with anyone whether they be one or many. But I would appreciate being separated as the individual that I am thank you very much. If some of you choose to have a pissing contest on here go for it. But Victoria I would once again appreciate you not lumping me together with other people. I am very much my own person. If you read the other things I have written you would see that.
March 31st, 2008 7:44 AM
Sorry Lyssa, that is what you get for disagreeing with Victoria. That is the point that we have all tried to make to her, but she thinks that all that disagree with her, HAS to be 1 person. Sorry that you got put into it, non of us asked for it. She just doesn't like it when people don't side with her. 6 moths pregnant?? That great, CONGRATS!!
March 31st, 2008 7:46 AM
And yes Victoria, I see that I have a couple of misspelled words. Was not meant to happen, but I had my dog up in my lap and she was getting on the keyboard. So thanks, no remarks needed.
April 2nd, 2008 11:39 AM
Blech! Fat people shouldn't run on the beach. That's how the earthquakes that cause tsunamis are created.
April 3rd, 2008 12:39 PM
APPARENTLY, KEELEY NOW HAS A MEDICAL PROBLEM, SOMEONE JUST INFORMED ME, THAT REQUIRES HER TO TAKE LIFE SAVING MEDICATION, WHICH CAUSES SEVERE WEIGHT GAIN...SHE DOES THIS FOR HER FAMILY SO THAT SHE DOESNT DIE...AS FOR ALL OF YOU RUDE PEOPLE WHO ARE SO QUICK TO CRITICIZE AND JUDGE OVERWEIGHT PEOPLE, SHAME ON ALL OF YOU. THIS COULD JUST AS EASILY HAPPEN TO ANY OF YOU TOO. YOU MAKE ME SICK.
April 3rd, 2008 1:39 PM
Wow It seems like everyone here needs some sort of validation. Im not "skinny" nor am I "fat" I run 3-5 miles a day and lift weights. By the way im 180 and a size 12/14. I eat right and everything too. I am not trying to be something im not.. only the best I can be for me.
April 3rd, 2008 1:42 PM
Yes Keely should probably start working out. You can tell she doesnt by the amount of loose skin and her legs. I doubt she cares what yall think. Everyone should do something cardio or something everyday and get off the computer.
You can be skinny and out of shape as well people.
April 3rd, 2008 5:58 PM
I stumbled on this thread and have found it very entertaining indeed. I've noticed the most vocal of Victoria's detractors have found it easier to descend to name-calling and throwing around insults than to offer valid counter-arguments to the very valid points that she has brought up. Sad!
April 7th, 2008 3:30 PM
I think its hilarious that every time someone disagrees with Victoria she makes some fat joke, or insults them in some way. It really tells me something about her. Whatever it is that is making you so hostile, Victoria, you really need to go get that checked out.
April 8th, 2008 8:37 AM
Stacia, what do you mean there hasn't been valid points brought up? Let's see, there is the fact that there are people that are overweight due to health problems that are beyond their control. I have a friend that has a 15 yr. old daughter that is overweight due to the way her body breaks down sugar. She doesn't eat that many sweets but as we all know, there is sugar in alot of foods besides cakes, candies, brownies ect... There is also meds that people are on that can cause a person to gain weight. If it came down to your life would you stop taking the meds just so that you can be skinny? I don't think so! And there is also the fact that your weight depends on your gene's. Can't do anything about that. And, last but not least, Victoria wasn't really bringing up valid points. Unless you call name calling a valid point. This is a grown woman sitting back calling people 'fattie' and other names, people that she has no idea about. Doesn't know these people from Joe Blow. Has no idea about these people weight. And besides, what is that teaching the children in this world? Oh if someone is overweight just sit back and call them names and put them down. Abit childish if you ask me. I think that kids and adults have enough problems with being bullied in this world without someone sitting back and doing it on here. And for all we know, Victoria could be the one that is overweight and unhappy with herself and this is the only thing that makes her feel better. She is the one that has kept on with how skinny she is and what a wonderful body she has. Well, how do we know this, we have never seen her before. We wouldn't know this woman if we met up with her on the street. But anyways, my point here is that she has been in the wrong and she should be very ashamed of herself. And if there are some people on here that has a problem with their weight, I really don't think that it is hers or anyone else's buisness. She just needs to grown up and get a clue. And if she is skinny, I am sure that she has flaws about her that other people could sit back and pick apart. So, my last words are... Before we start with the name calling, look in the mirror cause I am sure that we will find things that is wrong with us!!
April 9th, 2008 8:23 AM
Very few have legitimate health issues that lead to obesity. For the majority of people it simply comes down to mathematics. Too much intake of calories plus too little exercise equals fat.
Fat people, or heavy people if the word fat offends you, get very shrill when someone suggests extra weight is not something to be proud of. I have read the posts and while Victoria may have been frank in her language she wasn't the only one calling names and I don't think it was her jabs that made people so mad but her message.
Fat is ugly. The old phrase "lipstick on a pig" comes to mind. You can only dress it up so much but ultimately extra weight carried on your legs, bottom and middle is unsightly and dangerous.
What does it matter what size Victoria or anyone else is? Good grief!! We are responsible for our own bodies. So look at your own in the mirror. If the body you see is not the body you want do something about it.
And about what this debate is teaching the children, hopefully it will teach them that being fat is socially unacceptable and unhealthy. But don't come on a forum and try to excuse it away or make it seem desirable because deep down heavy people know their body is neither.
April 10th, 2008 5:04 PM
Sherry, what the hell are you talking about? You say that you sat and read all this, but you must not have been paying attention to it at all while you were reading it. You comment about few legitimate health issues that cause you to be overweight, my mother has been a nurse for over 40 years, I have an uncle that has been a doctor for the last 35 and a cousin that has been a doctor going on for 7 years now. I asked them each about this and they stated that there are medical/health problem that can cause a persons weight to get out of control, so before you go spouting off, you need to make sure you have you facts straight! As for your comment that fat is ugly and unsightly, that is how you think and that is your right, but as you want everyone to respect your opion, you have to do the same in return. To each his own. And about the comments about fat people being unhappy, how do you know that all fat people are unhappy?? Can you read their minds? Can you get intouch with their feelings? I don't think so. I have friends that are big, and when they tell me that they are happy, I believe them. If 1 or all came to me and said that they are unhappy, then I would be a good friend and help them out with diet and exercise. But my point is, no one knows how people are feeling inside so it is just stupid to sit back and say that you know how everyone feels. AS for the comment about it is no ones buisness what size Victoria is, you are correct about that, but it is also no one buisness what size anyone is. I do believe that she is the one that was calling everyone a liar about their size. I personally could careless, but it looks to me like it was making alot of people upset about being called a liar. And that, I can not blame them for! Your comment about teaching children that being fat is unacceptable, I see that you must be one of these moms that is raising the school bullys. But just remember, karma will come back on you when you least expect it! Oh, and your comment about their bodies being undesirable, I think you need to check around with more men, cause I am here to tell you, I have seen lots of bigger women having no problem getting a man and bigger men having no problem getting a woman. I have heard to many men make the statement that they don't like skin and bones, they want someone that when they touch them they feel soft and warm, not cold and boney. Kinda sounds to me like you maybe alot like Victoria, maybe you are unhappy with your body. It's ok, just get the help that you need so that you can be a happy person.
April 12th, 2008 7:51 AM
That's a lot of space devoted to a lame defense, Katie. Look around you at ALL the fat people, even kids. Then try to tell me that all of them are fat because of medical conditions. You won't be able to because obesity is most often caused by poor choices and not medical conditions.
You also spend a lot of time trying to convince everyone that fat people are happy but I don't buy that either.
If being fat is so great name one thing that's so good about it. A fat person would probably say eating makes them happy. But that shows you right there how miserable they are inside if they're constantly comforting themselves with food.
Of course that might not be your answer. I'd like to hear what you do have to say? What is good about being fat?
April 13th, 2008 11:18 PM
omg..I'm way bigger than her and I'm shocked she still has Pierce at that weight! She has the money for a personal trainer for chissakes, poor fat folks like me can't afford those and just settle for fast cheap food and early death instead.
April 16th, 2008 8:53 PM
He probably stays with her for the kids, which is why people usually stay with someone after they let themselves go. He's put on a bit of weight himself so maybe he feels he doesn't deserve any better.
And "fat folks" who blame cheap food and the lack of a personal trainer for their weigh are being dishonest. You can eat sensibly and lose weight and no one is stopping you from walking or exercising.
Oh and would someone please answer Sherry's question? What IS good about being fat? Everyone who got so mad at the comments about the problems that come with extra weight are strangely silent.
April 17th, 2008 4:33 PM
Now Sherry, that would be just STUPID to say that all the overweight people are overweight due to a medical/health issue. Yes, there are overweight people due to their poor eating and lifestyle habits. What I am saying is that you nor anyone else knows why a person is overweight so isn't that unfair of you and just poor judgement to sit back and call people names for being overweight when you really don't know WHY they are overweight?!?! And NEVER once did I see anyone on here state that 'Oh it is so great and wonderful to be overweight'. (there is your answer Brandy, buy the way people aren't strangly silent, we just have more to do in life than be on the internet 24/7). And the part about being/feeling good, that is called being happy in your own skin. Not everyone want to be a beanpole. But, I also relize that there are cruel mean people in this world and it seems like the ones that are so unhappy with themselves are people like you that feel the need to sit back and put people down and call them names because that is the ONLY enjoyment that you get out of life. Maybe you should take the time out and sit down and get to know someone that is overweight, you would find that they are really nice sweet people that are full of life and have a great personality. They have better things to do in life besides sitting back and putting people down. You never know, you might learn athing or two about being happy with the skin that you are in!