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March 3rd, 2008 7:01 PM
OMG... Victoria, you really seem to be stuck on yourself. I started to pass on by this, but I am glad that I stopped to take a look. I can not believe that you think this is all just 1 person. Lady, that is awful. But, I guess if that is what gets you thru the day then go ahead. But it is really sad if you ask me.
March 4th, 2008 12:59 AM
Wow.. Let's see here... First it was Liz, Sandra and Mike was the one in the same, then it was Mike, Sandra, Liz, Jenny and Matt was one in the same. Then it was Mike and Leslie as one in the same. Next thing you know it will be all these people and added will also be Destini, Jenny and myself. Lady, you really need to get a life and just get it thru your head that these all seem to be different people, you just don't want to admit it because then you would have to face reality that you have alot of people on here that is not on your Fattie Crusade. I myself wear a size 7 sometimes 8 or 9, just depends on how it is made, I guess that makes me a 'fattie' also? Well honey, if this is the way that you want to go thru life thinking and feeling this way then go right on ahead. But just remember, at the end of this journey, it is people like you that finds themselves alone and having to answer to the higher power. I would 'love' to see your face when the good lord ask you about this, what is your response going to be? Are you going to tell him that he is a 'fattie' also?
March 4th, 2008 10:00 AM
It's actually quite easy to determine that these comments are being written by the same person. At this point, I'm simply winding you in hopes that the anger you're directing against me will be turned towards that overhanging tube of blubber that you know is so completely revolting. You've seen the way other people look at you with a mixture of pity and disgust. You feel the same way when you look in the mirror.
You want very much to change. I know you do. But it feels hopeless at this point. It's easier to do nothing and so you seize on any bit of validation that someone, somewhere isn't repulsed by you. The suggestion that fat might be attractive fills you with glee.
When someone like me challenges that, you can't stand it. You know the majority of people out there disdain morbid obesity as deadly don't yet consider it a "lifestyle choice," although people are getting fatter. So you try and support your argument by making up identities that spout stuff you want to believe. The saddest attempt was pretending to be "Mike". Through him you attempted to create what is missing in your life: a man who love you just the way you are.
Since you posted that it's been clear I've been talking to the same person. It's quite easy to determine if you know what to look for, or know anything at all about computers.
It doesn't matter how many names you use, or how you try to defend your fat body or recreate yourself on this forum with made up names like "Destini" and "Kailey." Your anger at me won't fix anything. Every day that goes by is going to find you heavier and more alone. Every nightfall will represent an opportunity lost if you don't start losing the weight today.
You know that you don't have to live like this, don't you? You know that no one is forcing you to eat, that your past hurts are no excuse to hide behind and/or comfort yourself with food.
You can't feel the hole of despair with more food. It will only serve to seal you into an early grave.
It doesn't have to be that way, dear. You can change. Start today. See a nutritionist. Take a walk. Do something positive to better your health.
Oh, and print out this page. If you stick with the diet and exercise a year from now you won't be able to recognize the desperately sad fat woman who disguised herself as others out of anger and self-disgust.
Again, best of luck.....
March 4th, 2008 12:04 PM
Lady, (if I can really call you that with a straight face) please, just do yourself a favor and grow up already. You talk about being 42, I think it is time that you start acting it. But hey, if you feel better being this sad person who has to come on here to get her rocks of then so be it. I am not going to play this game with you anymore. I am bowing out just like Z, Liz, Sandra, Mike and so many others. This is childish and I refuse to play your game. But, if you want to keep sitting on here day in and day out, calling people names and liers then have fun doing it, it is what you do best in this life. But, I am going to say that I really do feel sorry for your kids and hope and pray to god they they don't someday go off on a killing spree or something due to their mothers stupidity. As for your comment about being lonely, sorry to inform you, you are way off on that one also. Today is mine and hubbys 20th wedding anniv. So have a nice and wonderful life and really, I hope that someday you will pay for your remarks that you have made on here to so many people. Who knows, you may meet up with everyone of us on the street someday. Wouldn't that be something?!?!
March 4th, 2008 2:59 PM
I was speaking about the person who called herself "Mike" being lonely. Nice to see that you have openly stumbled into the admission that you and it are the same. Not that the admission was even necessary given the similar syntax, sentence structure and misspelling characteristic of all your incarnations.
I'm happy to hear that you have finally decided to do the graceful thing and lumber away with your other personalities - and imaginary husband - in tow.
Too funny...
March 4th, 2008 4:52 PM
Wow Leslie, that is great! 20 years!! That is wonderful. Keep up the good work. As for Victoria, your just jealous that no one would want to be with nasty ass for that long. You are nothing but an old lady who is wishing that she could have her younger years back and wishing that you could have someone that would want to be with you that long. As for your comment to Leslie about you speaking to the person who called herself Mike, hell, you have called everyone who disagrees with your dumbass as all being 1 person. Get a life chick. It is clear to see that you don't have a life since you are on here everyday, serveral times a day. Your such a loser. hahaha
March 5th, 2008 12:22 AM
Leslie, let me start out by saying CONGRATS! There is not many people that make it to 20 years of marriage these days. As for the rest, I think Destini summed it up. I agree with you 100%. I think Victoria is a lonely bitter person. I am sure that she goes to bed everynight by herself and wakes up by herself. She is wanting to having someone there with her, but as we all can see why no one wants to be there with her. I bet her so called kids don't even have anything to do with her. Can't say that I blame them one bit. I am willing to bet that the only way that she had kids was because she was a bar fly. She just needs to grow up and get a life. She has clearly shown that she doesn't have one. Your right, she is a loser!
March 5th, 2008 9:22 AM
Oh, this just gets better and better. Now Mike's talking to herself!!
March 5th, 2008 4:49 PM
This is actually getting scary.
Victoria I do agree you have some good points about "fatties" I would consider myself fat and I know those women who hate thin women just because they are jealous, they look to me as a confidante. They are quick to accuse those who are thin as being anorexic. I find that just as offensive to them as to a fat person who is assumed to gorge themselves all day. It would be nice if we could just be a bit kinder to eachother. To realize we all have free will in life. There are those like Victoria who have chosen to take care of herself and stay fit, and there are those who have chosen morbid obesity. Each person chooses the path in their life.
I agree most fat people are miserable, its easy to pretend you are not to save face, however deep down its the worst thing in life.
I have been all the way up to a size 26/28 and that was absolute rock bottom for me. I didnt even feel feminine I felt like a blob and whats more is I actaully looked like one and I was KILLING myself with food. I was headed for diabetes.
Since then I have changed radically that was a wake up call. Things have changed slowly for me to a more positive life. Recently I have began to study buddhism and became a vegan. I have never felt better inside or outside.
Everyone needs to make peace with themselves instead or worrying about what everyone is doing or what their problems are.
March 5th, 2008 6:04 PM
Beautifully said, Michelle. And so true. I have had several friends who were very heavy and very angry. They shed their self-hatred and hatred of everyone else along with their weight. It was like watching a beautiful butterfly emerge, the way they changed not just outside but inside as well.
I hope your story will inspire others here to do what you did. I know Leslie/Mike probably thinks she can't do what you did, but I know she can.
The kind of wake-up call you had comes too late for some people, especially when - as you point out - they focus on anything but their own health.
March 6th, 2008 12:21 AM
Wowsers...I randomly stumbled upon this website and just wasted time out of my life reading everyone's blogs. I concur that Keely looks unhealthy, but it's her life and I could care less. Props to you Victoria. I think you are absolutely hilarious and have stated many valid truths.
I myself have always been skinny 5'2 and 100-104 lbs, depending on the day :-) I think it's mostly genetics and youth (I'm 23) because I hardly workout due to laziness. But yeah, I think all the crazies writing in response to you are simply unhappy and jealous, not the other way around. I have had numerous bad encounters with overweight people. All growing up I have had people making comments to me about life being not fair because I eat whatever and don't exercise, but I'll be the first to admit...i may look skinny and fit on the outside, but I guarantee I can't run a mile in 8 mins (not only because of being out of shape, but i have terrible joints b/c I am also an ex-gymnast).
Anyway, I just wanted to say that America is out of control. I'm also a teacher and it's ridiculous when i have kids complaining about running a mile at their age. We are a huge, horrible consuming country that needs a big wake-call. My bf gained 30 lbs within a year after we started dating and I never stopped loving him, but i did become concerned about his overall health. I think Victoria has the right mindset about the issue and everyone else needs to realize that big/skinny is not beautiful, but instead healthy is beautiful and should be the ultimate goal. Name calling is ridiculous and for all those people, such as Mike, Leslie, Destini, and so forth....are you honestly happy?! I don't think so because a silly little blog with people stating their opinions should not twist all your panties in a bunch. But anyway, keep it up, it was all extremely entertaining and comical! Have fun, be safe and good luck to all!!!
March 6th, 2008 10:45 AM
WOW!!! Victoria has done nothing but sat back and called nearly everyone on here a liar and accused them of have serveral personalitys. Looks to me like Victoria is the one with problems with weight and multi-personalitys.
March 6th, 2008 1:19 PM
Ange_babee, my main gripe in this whole issue is the fact that our Fat-Ass Nation is now churning out a whole generation of fat, lazy kids. I see it all the time - fat, lazy parents pushing a shopping cart full of sugary crap while their fat kids trail along behind them. Walking around the grocery store is probably the only exercise they get, and I'd wager that on the way home the whole overweight family hits the McDonald's drive-thru again.
Video games and TV/computer addiction among kids doesn't help. We've always limited that with our kids and set as good an example as possible. I don't like to exercise and am no gym rat, but we have a stable and caring for and mucking up after the ponies is an exercise program within itself. When the weather is nice the whole family bikes, hikes or canoes. So many kids today never even get to realize how much fun it is to be out of doors because their parents are either too lazy or too permissive to take them out or insist they go.
I know the schools have taken up the cause of physical education to fight childhood obesity, but its kind of sad it's come to that. The schools shouldn't have to be doing what parents can or should be doing themselves, which is looking after the health of their kids.
For Mike/Leslie/Savannah, I've been thinking about your dilemma and how hard this has all been for you. I know you think we're poking fun at you and I have to admit I have been doing that a bit, but only because you're making it so easy by coming back with the same deranged comments under different names.
I'm sure you want to lose weight but aren't sure where to begin. So I thought I'd offer you a few tips to help.
1. When you go to the store, park at the far end of the parking lot. This will force you to walk. I have noticed that a fat person will circle the lot forever to find a spot closer to the door. Rather than wasting time and gas, just park further away and walk! You'll save gas and burn calories. Bonus!
2. Cut out the refined sugar and carbs. All that sugar and starch is why you feel so grumpy and fatigued. Keep eating that junk and you'll end up with diabetes. Think being fat is a drag? Try being a fat amputee. That's what happens to diabetics who don't control their blood sugar. Educate yourself about what food does to your body, about what carbs are good and what carbs are bad. I strongly recommend you read Dr. Atkins book. I have a good friend who is a doctor and he swears that is the most sensible book on the market today.
3. Get a hobby. Join a group. Make a friend. It's a clear sign of loneliness when you start talking to yourself in a forum like this. Lonely people often fill the void in their lives with food, but Ben and Jerry aren't *really* your friends.
4. Start small and work up. Do something positive every day, whether it be a short walk, a healthier food choice, etc. Motivate yourself by putting up a picture of the once-thinner you or a dress you no longer fit into but wish you could. If you *really* are married (doubtful) imagine how much more your husband will appreciate the sexual company of a well-toned wife than a circus-sideshow fat lady.
I know you think I'm a bitch, but seriously you CAN do this Mike/Leslie/Kailey/Jenny/Destini/Savannah. If you're going to recreate yourself, do it through DIET, not through some forum. The clock is ticking. Do you really want to spend another day feeling like you do? I think the answer is "no."
March 7th, 2008 10:01 AM
Mike/Leslie/Kailey/Jenny/Destini/Savannah -- Referring to your identities as "we" is a bit scary. I can only assume that you've assigned a personality to each of your chins, so when you crop up with another name I'll simply have to assume that you've grown a new one.
You are highly amusing, despite the fact that you clearly don't intend to go on a diet. Perhaps checking your fat folds for leftover cheese doodles is your idea of a night's entertainment. But wouldn't you rather be out enjoying life.
You can do it. I know you can. Just go back over the good advice here and instead of focusing on everyone else, focus on yourself. We didn't make you fat. You made yourself that way. Only you can fix it.
Good luck. :-)
March 7th, 2008 8:27 PM
Hey everyone, EXEPT Bitchtoria, we should start a talking to each other, and TOTALLY ignore this dumb ding dong. Just pretend she she doesn't exist and stop feeding this troll. Haha, that will piss her off enough to shut her up.
I'll start: I'm Jenny, a stay at home mom to a son who's getting ready for pre-k. I'm in a stamping club, host play-group every other week and at the end of my day enjoy gardening with my hubby.
What about you???
March 11th, 2008 10:57 AM
Well put Lyssa!!
March 12th, 2008 3:21 PM
I just looked back at this after almost a month. What a idiot victoria is. She thinks only one person disagrees with her. What a twisted mind. Still full of crap. Still hating the world. Still a sad little person full of hate. What a pitty. Maybe if she spent more time really working out and getting a job she wouldn't have so much time to spread her hate sitting online eating twinkies.
March 13th, 2008 4:57 PM
Mike/Leslie/Savannah/etc.
Since you're still here talking to yourself, here's another tip for you. Try brushing your teeth after every meal, or when you feel like you just want to put something in your mouth. Odd as this sounds, it can curb your appetite. Also, when you feel hungry - which is probably almost all the time - ask yourself if you're really hungry or are you just sad. You're probably just sad, which is why you have to invent your own friends.
When you feel that way, go for a walk!! Even if your thighs are so big right now you could cut one open and count the rings, it doesn't have to be that way! Progress may seem slow at first, but if you turn your attention to fixing yourself and work daily towards that goal you will see improvements!
Good luck! As always, I'm pulling for you!!
Your friend,
Victoria ;-)
March 14th, 2008 10:21 PM
Well, I see that this dumbass is still on here day after day spreading her filth! But I guess when you have nothing better to do in life, what can you expect from a loser like her. Jenny, you are right, we should start visiting with each other and just ignore the troll. I have been happily married for 20 years, we have 3 great kids. My husband owns his own buisness and is very sucessful. I work for the police department here in the city that we live in, I am a Crime Scene Investegator and I love it! It has been nice chatting with you. Have a great weekend!
March 16th, 2008 12:54 PM
Leslie/Mike/Savannah, etc....since when are diet tips filth? Wouldn't you rather be working on your body instead of inventing fantasy lives you don't have based on your unfulfilled wishes and the reruns of CSI you watch over half pints of ice cream?
Here's another tip for you: Drink lots of water. Keeping hydrated will not only control your appetite but help flush some of the toxins from all the crap you're eating out of your system.
Again, good luck. If you work on yourself you may *actually* end up with a husband and a job. The life you've painted for yourself is glaringly fictional, and makes me feel very sorry for you indeed. It must hurt to write the stuff you write knowing it's a lie. It's one thing to try to fool others, but after you've written these things you must feel even emptier knowing how far out of reach they are for you, given that no one wants you.
March 16th, 2008 7:21 PM
Sounds to me like someone is very unhappy with herself and her life. That is why she is on here day after day. It seems to me like she has nothing going for herself so this is all that she has, is to sit on here everyday calling everyone liars. I think someone needs to get some help and a life. Now that I have gotten that out, here is about my life. I have a 5 year daughter and my husband and I have been married for 7 years now. I am a school teacher here in our commuinty. I teach 1st grade and like it for the most part, but there are somedays that I am pulling my hair out. lol Try having 30 1st graders all in the same room. But I must say that they do keep me laughing for the most part.
March 17th, 2008 12:25 AM
I am not even going to make a comment to the old bat, it's not worth it. As for me, I am not married ( i'm only 22 and not ready for that) but I have been with my boyfriend for the last 3 years. I don't have any kids yet. (for sure not ready for that) I work at an insurance agency and in the spring & summers I coach little leage basketball and softball teams.
March 17th, 2008 9:46 AM
Mike/Savannah/Destini/Lyssa/Leslie etc. If you're going to keep posing as different people to prop up your story, you need to make it less obvious that it's one person. Since you seem unable to follow diet tips, perhaps you can follow these tips for making this whole ridiculous attempt at playing the imposter more believable.
If you're going to write as the different people, you need to vary the style and sentence structure. The same phrases are popping up again and again. That's how everyone is able to know it's you. You're sloppy in your method, but I suspect that's simply a carry-over from the rest of your life.
Since you seem unwilling to put down the snacks and get some exercise, perhaps you can work on varying your sentence structure and syntax to make these attempts at pretending to be others more believable. It won't burn any calories, but I guess mental exercise is all we can hope for you at this point.
In the meantime, if you must continue to snack, make it low-carb fare or you're just going to get even fatter and angrier.
March 17th, 2008 11:22 AM
hmmmm..... Looks like someone just doesn't want to face the fact that serveral different people have all formed the same thoughts about her so she is still trying to tell herself that it is all just 1 person. Talk about someone needing some help. You know, they do have doctors out there that can help treat you for your problem. Just pick up the phone book and look in the yellow pages under mental health!!
March 17th, 2008 1:17 PM
Am I the only one who finds this whole discussion disturbing? Yes, Victoria it is apparent that it is one person responding to you under different names. Yes she appears to be very unhappy and disturbed. At first what you were saying to her was funny but now it seems cruel to continue to pick on this Mike-Leslie person. She is obviously hurting so just leave her alone. She seems very lonely and angry and having the last word here is probably the only satisfaction she will ever get out of life. You don't know who you are dealing with here. How do you know you won't drive her to suicide? Picking on her will not help her lose weight. She is clearly past the point of thinking she can do anything about it. Just leave her alone. Please!!! You can't help her and it is clear that you are hurting her. These identities may not just be for show. She may have a real personality disorder. It is WRONG for you to continue to traumatize her. You have made your point, Victoria. Just leave her alone.