New Jersey Waitress Denied Tip Due to "Gay Lifestyle"

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Sadly, it has happened again.

A couple weeks after patrons at a Kansas restaurant stiffed a waiter on a tip because his "homosexual lifestyle is an affront to God," according the message they left on their check, a server in New Jersey has been faced with the same unfortunate fate.

Dayna Morales, a former Marine, shared her experience with the LGBT-friendly blog "Have a Gay Day," recounting how the mother of two children was shocked by Dayna's short hair.

When Morales then went to collect payment on a $93.55 tab, she found the following note in lieu of a tip:

"I'm sorry but I cannot tip because I don't agree with your lifestyle & how you live your life."

Morales posted the note (above) on Facebook and included with it the following rant:

"I am THOROUGHLY offended mad pissed off and hurt that THIS is what her kids will grow up learning and that I served in the Marines to keep ignorant people like them free.

Gay Lifestyle Receipt

"Sorry lady but I don't agree with YOUR lifestyle and the way you're raising your kids but you didn't see me throwing that in your face and giving you shitty service. Keep your damn mouth shut and pray we never cross paths again."

Insulting notes left on restaurant receipts are tragically all the rage these days:

  • In October, a Red Lobster waitress was stunned to find a note from a customer that referred to her as the N-Word.
  • Meanwhile, a pastor somehow refused to tip a waitress back in January because he said he already gives God 10% and she, therefore, did not deserve 18.
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MEAN & CHEAP...GET USED TO IT...IT'S A "LIFE-STYLE CHOICE" BY MANY HATERS IN THIS COUNTRY!

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The Bible states let he who is without sin cast the first stone.Everyone should have to work in the food service industry , because waiters and waitresses are the best tippers

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Ok..so she didn't' agree with the waitress's lifestyle why didn't she just keep her mouth shut and not tip. Why even bring it up? Or like someone else said ask for a different server. I don't care what you sexual preference is as long as you are a good waiter/waitress. What you do behind closed doors is yours, your partners and the god's business NOT MINE!

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I really want to know how the people who leave these comments figure they know anything about the server! I mean because she has really short hair? That was the only thing said that would give an indication of anything at all. I know plenty of straight women with very short hair and plenty of straight men with really long hair! How does someone decide what someone's sexual preference is based on something so trivial? Makes me sick all the way around though. At $93.00 check and no tip based on "lifestyle"? Bullshit! Could have a drug problem and all the money would go to drugs but u bet the tip would have been left in that case! Disgusting!

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Why didn't she ask for a new server if she was so bothered by her lifestyle. She sounds like a self obsessed discriminating cheapskate to me. I don't agree with the way she is living and teaching her kids to hate others she makes me sick.

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Twat farts like this will get their Karma. Her kids will grow up to hate her. She will die a lonely old cunt with hair even shorter from the chemo.

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@ duh

I thought it was funny...

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@ duh

How does making comments like this makes you any better than the people who leave these kind of notes for their servers? If you want to disagree with someone's opinion or their choices, do so with some class and respect otherwise you are bringing yourself down to the same level.

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@ Shanelle

The customer was so wrong, but so are you. As a parent of a gay son I think we can lead through education and understanding instead of calling her the c word post a comment about passivity and equality.
Just sayin..

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@ mgd

I think your comment was meant
for duh.This person did not use that word.Her comment was articulate in addressing the idiot
named 'duh.'

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This "straight" lady needs to never go out in public . I hope she is misrable for her entire life . If you treat people like crap it comes back around . I always tip 26% for any services because of worthless "non-tipping " cunts like this . Why bother going out if you are going to "not" tip. It's a "thank you " for service well done . Makes me sad !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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This "straight" lady needs to never go out in public . I hope she is misrable for her entire life . If you treat people like crap it comes back around . I always tip 26% for any services because of worthless "non-tipping " cunts like this . Why bother going out if you are going to "not" tip. It's a "thank you " for service well done . Makes me sad !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Short hair means you are gay.

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So what is the problem? If someone has a car dealership and is not liked then people don't do business with him. Is it mandatory to tip? If I thought you voted for Obama and coming from JERSEY then your ass probably did vote for him and you for sure wouldn't get a tip from me. Either change your lifestyle or quit or cry like a bitch.

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@ Sims

You should change your
attitude.You do alot of guessing.
This bitch should have gone
to a restaurant for bigots and
anti-gays.

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@ sheniqua zeinab

How about you don't go out to eat???? You know what a server in Mass is paid? 2.63 an hour, in NH 2.32 an hour. The point is people are SUPPOSE to tip, it's part of going out to eat. What this woman did was waste the ladies time, and take up a table she could have had occupied by tipping customers. I hope somebody with hep B spits in her food, yours too!

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@ sheniqua zeinab

How about you don't go out to eat???? You know what a server in Mass is paid? 2.63 an hour, in NH 2.32 an hour. The point is people are SUPPOSE to tip, it's part of going out to eat. What this woman did was waste the ladies time, and take up a table she could have had occupied by tipping customers. I hope somebody with hep B spits in her food, yours too!

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@ SeeNsay

Sorry that was meant for the above idiots.

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