Arie Luyendyk, Jr. Trashed By Cassie Harshman; Ex-Girlfriend Warns Emily Maynard to Run!

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Arie Luyendyk Jr.’s ex-girlfriend Cassie Harshman claims that he's been leading on The Bachelorette star Emily Maynard, and urges her to make a run for it.

If she even chooses him, that is. Arie and Jef Holm are the last two men standing. For insight on who she (likely) picks, read The Bachelorette spoilers.

In any case, “Arie’s in it for the fame,” at least according to Cassie, who claims “Arie has dated hundreds of women and travels all over the world."

“Clearly, he doesn’t need help finding a date or someone to fall in love with. The whole idea of Arie Luyendyk being on The Bachelorette is a joke."

Emily Maynard and Arie Luyendyk Jr.

"He hasn’t really raced much since 2008, and I know with certainty that his only motive for going on the show was for the fame and attention.”

Cassie Harshman - not to be confused with Cassie Lambert, The Bachelorette producer he also dated - began dating the 30-year-old in late 2009.

He ended up moving in with her and her two young children from a previous relationship. Arie and Cassie broke up for good in December 2011.

“He wasn’t the best father figure to my children,” says Cassie, something Emily may want to take note of, she says, given her seven-year-old girl.

“Let’s just say that Arie has some growing up to do himself.”

A previous report claims he was filmed on The Bachelorette telling Emily that Cassie miscarried his child; if so, this was edited out of the broadcast.
Emily Maynard, Arie Luyendyk

“If that happened, I’m mortified that Arie would share such painfully intimate details of our relationship while the cameras were rolling,” Cassie says.

“What happened is one of the hardest things a woman can go through. I’ve moved on, but Arie using that to elicit sympathy from Emily is horrible.”

Cassie Harshman's interview with Star/Radar should be taken with a grain of salt, of course. Motives for talking to them are highly questionable.

Still, let us know what you think in the comments below, and tell us who you think Emily should pick on the July 22 season finale in the poll:


I know the show is over but I don't think this women realizes that he lost the child too.


I feel arie never got the same chance...she supposedly was in love with two people, u dont just dump one as she did. She should of never brought arie to meet her parents so BS...Hate to tell this will make me never wacth the show again...


Even if this woman is bitter, it doesn't mean she's not telling the truth. Star magazine paid her to talk so she probably figured 'heck why not'. Why are all the ladies disputing the truth of her comments, it's not like she said anything outlandish. She called him immature and not the best role model. From what I've seen of Arie he seems like an intelligent, cultured guy but still I can see the immaturity and the player skills on display. Are you kidding ladies this guy has got douche written all over him. If you watch the show you will notice that besides the physical chemistry, jef it a much better match intellectually for emily. Arie is a make-out king and that's it.


well i think it should of been Arie and Sean...i like Jef but i don't think there are at the same place in life , personnally if only it been him and Emily maybe but with a seven years old , i don`t think it will last ....


well i think it should of been Arie and Sean...i like Jef but i don't think there are at the same place in life personnally if only it been him and Emily maybe a seven years old i don`t think it will last ....


Sean seemed insincere all along to me. Just going along with the program!


Wow how did Star Magazine pay this woman to get all that pent up emotions out? Talk about bitter!


what is she after all?
She is married now, too bad her relationship with him
didnt work, does it mean it will not work for him?
So is it all Arie's fault? ask yourself LADY, how
come it didnt work out with both of you. Why blame him?


I believe Sean would have have been the better choice for Emily than Jef or Arie


I think this Cassie Harshman girl need to get a life.... WTF???? She & Arie have not been an item since December 2011 and she's just now decided to speak up against him???? I saw some pics of her with her two kids & some dude in which I'm assuming is her new guy, so again, WTF????

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