Dude, if someone stuck their finger in your wedding cake and was over the age of 5 wouldn't you be a bit pissy? Granted not a wedding, but was a special occasion celebrating not only Terry and Heathers anniversary but also the fact that Heather had finally changed her last name, as a surprise and a gift to her husband. If its a damn $5 boxed cake mixed w/frosting, that's one thing- this was a special event cake. There food provided, so even if Sarah had "sugar" problems, she had options OTHER than acting like a 5 y/o and nibbling on cake that hadn't even been served. It was rude and disrespectful. Do you go around sticking your hand in cake? Especially one thats not yours, at a party you were NOT invited to? Is behavior that is normal? I don't think Heather even over reacted, I think she was more appalled Sarah lacking manners and self control of a 5 year old rather than the cake eating itself. Not to mention Sarah's made a gigantic ass and nuisance of herself at EVERY event she's attended. Heather probably had had it up to her eyeballs w/the crazy girl and the ribbon eating was just the final straw. Them cakes are expensive! A normal bakery charges upwards of $140 for a cake like that (simple 3-4 teired) Heather paid $550 bucks with the flourishes and whatnot. I'd be pissed if someone screwed w/my 500 dollar cake too, maybe they planned to take pictures with or while they cut the cake in like their wedding pictures. Now it looked funky, cause one drunk witch. Besides, with Heather's carb infatuation, the bow was likely the ONE part she *might* allow herself to have a bite of!

Why is the standard attack for a person one dislikes to talk about how ugly she they are? That's an awesome message we're sending and frankly, stupid. Same thing happened w/the photo shoot before Gretchen's make up was done and its ridiculous. Women -and men -have enough body and self confidence issues w/out every moron taking about how ugly "X" is when ever someone dislikes them. Hope you never have a daughter or son that doesn't fit your mold of 'beauty' -which seems to require extremely high morals, never getting upset with someone, never raising their voice, and never ever talking about their anger/frustrations and always dealing with crazy drunks with the upmost kindness-even when they are behaving like a child. Good luck with that. I literally watched my best friends, who was a kind, giving, sweet girl became suicidal because people make moronic comments about looks that are out of her control; it's called genetics, that the face her parents gave her- and even if she had plastic surgery, you'd call her out on looking like Frakenstien's monster or some such nonsense. If you don't like her personality, fine, think she's a bitch, cool. Just don't spout hateful things about a persons look, it's hateful and frankly lazy that you can't find something else to critize other than her looks. That goes for all the girls, many of whom I can't stand, i dislike Vicki because i FEEL shes petty, spiteful, hateful to her children, disloyal and vindictive but I was furious with Slade's 'Ms Piggy' comparison.