MOTHERS ARE NEVER OUT OF LINE. WHAT KIND OF PERSON WOULD DISRESPECT THEIR MOM LIKE KANDI DID. PHAEDRA DID NOT OWE KANDI'S MOM RESPECT -- KANDI DID. GOD CREATED MOTHERS TO COUNSEL THEIR CHILDREN AND TELL THEM WHEN THEY ARE RIGHT OR WRONG -- KANDI WAS WRONG AND HER MOTHER SHOULD HAVE TOLD HER ABOUT IT -- JUST AS SHE DID -- RESPECTFULLY. ALL OF YOU PEOPLE WHO THINK MS JOYCE OVERREACTED HAVE NO RESPECT FOR YOUR MOTHER. TELL ME WHICH ONE HAS LET THIS TYPE OF THING GO ON IN FRONT OF THEIR MOTHER. I'LL BE NOT ONE.

The stripper was completely out of line for what he did. Any "ladies" that would like to see things like that are obviously not pleased enough or not right in the head. That guy should keep that in his own home. I was disgusted and felt like I was going to vomit! Then again this is all in my opinion. A stripper is fine for a lady of that age birthday party but the performance he did was not. Other then that the girls did look pretty and nene's dress was a little to revealing.

I don't think Phaedra was out of line with the stripper. It's a known fact that this was Not the 1st bday party Mama Joyce attended that had strippers. In a previous season, Kandi let it be known that she & her mom have the kind of relationship where they can talk openly about sex stuff. I just think her mom overreacted! And didn't like what Ridickulous did...sucking his own. (That is nasty, and I like strippers) That's why Kandi was surprised her mom left.

Don't like Peter. He is too old for Cynthia...he is financially abusive to her and he is entirely too old to wear sagging pants. Cynthia, your family is right...drop that zero.

Why invite your mom to your 35th bday party? is she your mom or one of your hang out friends? as an older adult, mom should have stayed home and told her daughter enjoy! there wasn't one person there her age. but since cameras are rolling she had to get another 15 minutes.