Kat Von D Says Jesse James is "Toxic," Cheated on Her 19 Times

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Kat Von D does not hold back in a scathing Facebook post about Jesse James.

She says Sandra Bullock's ex cheated on her as well ... 19 times to be exact.

Moreover, the tattoo artiste says she ran into the 19th girl James that nailed during their relationship, which ended in September: "Today I encountered the 19th girl on the list of people Jesse cheated on me with during this last year," Kat's post began.

Kat Von D, Jesse James Picture

“I kept going back and forth in my mind as to what the best way would be for me to let go of and release residual feelings remaining from that toxic relationship." 

Adds Von D, who ended her engagement to James this fall, "All of this may sound petty or immature, but I assure you this is coming from a place of honesty and love.”

Kat says she tried to prove people wrong after Jesse was outed for cheating with Michelle McGee and many others, ruining his marriage to Sandra Bullock.

“There was a time when I was confident and excited at proving the world wrong, because I believed so deeply in people's ability to change,” she wrote.

“Although this was not the primary purpose of the relationship, I did feel like it would be positive for those who judged Jesse solely based on what they read in tabloids, to see that change is always possible - even in people who seem hopeless.”

It wasn't to be, apparently. Kat's now calling Jesse out herself:

“I think it just makes me sad to imagine him in that dark place - where seeking validation through the attention of women takes precedence over being a good father, a sincere friend, a better coworker, and a happy individual,” she wrote.


“I tried my best to go through all of this without venting, or complaining, or fueling more tabloid mumbo jumbo - but this isn't about any of that. This is about me making peace with myself, forgiving myself for making some bad mistakes.”

Kat even thanks Jesse for the lesson he forced her to learn.

“Time is something you can never get back, and what we do with this very present moment is the most real thing we have. So if that's the lesson Jesse forced me to face and learn by all of this, than all I can say is Thank You,” she wrote.

The 29-year-old ends her missive by saying: “It would be nice to move on now, and kindly thank you all in advance for your support, love, and positivity.”

Now if she could just get that Jesse James tattoo removed ...


Oh No Kat say it ain't so. When you lay with dogs you get fleas. I'm sure you're not looking for sympathy, I'm sure you're just letting the world know your most intimate screw up. Did you really think that you were that much better than the girl before you. That you were " the one". Women have to stick together, no one should have dated that dog for yrs. no one. The ad"dick"tion would have died maybe if left unattended,. But what goes around comes around as they say., If not in this life then the next : ) Right Kat?


well, they seem to be quite in love in the video, if even she is unable to keep him, when they did all the stuff to hurt and torture his ex wife, then I really don't know what he needs. Maybe a body tatoo all over his face etc, cuz she is cute and funny and somehow they fit like a glove together, Jesse shame on YOU!


It's men like him who give others a bad name. Not all men behave in such a preditory manner. As long as men like this are hitting the headlines the more some women will think that "all men are b......s." This woman knew she was sleeping with another woman's husband and it is there she made the mistake. None of the other women matter. Her behaviour was as bad as his (if not worse considering there was a new child involved) and she shouldn't be surprised by the outcome. The way they were parading in public was odious. My advice to her - take a leaf out of Sandra Bullock's book and keep a dignified silence. Whatever she says now will never make what she did then acceptable.


It's not called "Once a cheater, always a cheater" for nothing!


well, well well, here we go again hollywood. common Kat who told you you could keep that m****fck honest?you're not even that pretty and if you believed your a**or your p***y is better than any other woman think again b***ch. you cheated with him while he was still married to Sandra why did you think he'll be truthfully to you?cheating is good only when you're cheating but never when your being cheated. hello, is there a brain in that big head of yours?


Kat is Kool,she's a nice person, she just got fooled by the biggest dog fool. The jerk is that vaginy-Jesse, he is so ugly he has to sneak up on a toilet to use it. That guy probably has all the STDs in the world, plus every other nasty disease. he is so ugly, I don't know what women find in him. Plus he is old and wrinkled...leave the young girls alone. He is 'crumb'.


but Kat said he was her soulmate. ....how is she suprised?


I would like to buy some vowels please hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah! I would like to solve please SKANK! ")


Boo Hoo That Karma's a Bitch!!! I say good she ruined Sandra's Marriage all she had w/him wuz a Relationship not a Marriage she's young get over it find someone else!!!! Sandra's over 40 it's harder to find the right person @ that age younger women need to leave older women's spouses alone!!!! They destroy families over what??? Brief flings.


Don't think he cheated on her with 19, she was just one of 20 gf's at the time. The others were probably the gf too in their mind.

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Kat Von D (short for Katherine Von Drachenberg) is a cool tattoo artist featured on TLC's Miami Ink and then on her own spin-off series,... More »
Monterrey, Nuevo Leon, Mexico
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Katherine Von Drachenberg