Kat Von D Says Jesse James is "Toxic," Cheated on Her 19 Times

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Kat Von D does not hold back in a scathing Facebook post about Jesse James.

She says Sandra Bullock's ex cheated on her as well ... 19 times to be exact.

Moreover, the tattoo artiste says she ran into the 19th girl James that nailed during their relationship, which ended in September: "Today I encountered the 19th girl on the list of people Jesse cheated on me with during this last year," Kat's post began.

Kat Von D, Jesse James Picture

“I kept going back and forth in my mind as to what the best way would be for me to let go of and release residual feelings remaining from that toxic relationship." 

Adds Von D, who ended her engagement to James this fall, "All of this may sound petty or immature, but I assure you this is coming from a place of honesty and love.”

Kat says she tried to prove people wrong after Jesse was outed for cheating with Michelle McGee and many others, ruining his marriage to Sandra Bullock.

“There was a time when I was confident and excited at proving the world wrong, because I believed so deeply in people's ability to change,” she wrote.

“Although this was not the primary purpose of the relationship, I did feel like it would be positive for those who judged Jesse solely based on what they read in tabloids, to see that change is always possible - even in people who seem hopeless.”

It wasn't to be, apparently. Kat's now calling Jesse out herself:

“I think it just makes me sad to imagine him in that dark place - where seeking validation through the attention of women takes precedence over being a good father, a sincere friend, a better coworker, and a happy individual,” she wrote.


“I tried my best to go through all of this without venting, or complaining, or fueling more tabloid mumbo jumbo - but this isn't about any of that. This is about me making peace with myself, forgiving myself for making some bad mistakes.”

Kat even thanks Jesse for the lesson he forced her to learn.

“Time is something you can never get back, and what we do with this very present moment is the most real thing we have. So if that's the lesson Jesse forced me to face and learn by all of this, than all I can say is Thank You,” she wrote.

The 29-year-old ends her missive by saying: “It would be nice to move on now, and kindly thank you all in advance for your support, love, and positivity.”

Now if she could just get that Jesse James tattoo removed ...


If he keeps trying to prove to himself and everyone that he a "MAN", then he has failed miserably. This is a "Thing" and not anywhere even close to being a man. He needs a good shrink.


Jessie Hits first and that's all folks!


Can't Blame Jessie for getting a little NIP once in a while. Can we?


Kat equals the skankiest of the skanks.What a horrid looking thing she is.Absolutely revolting.Thanks TLC

Maryanne gaeta

Here's the bottom line, once a scumbag always a scumbag....I don't feel the least bit sorry for this Kat whatever her name is....she's a dumb bitch who deserves what she got, just like that other idiot Sandra Bullock....Neither one of these woman are anything to look at, but even more so, he is disgusting looking...what the hell did they expect?????? He was a dirt bag from the beginning, and woman like these two are the dumbest broads on earth....He knew he could take full advantage of them, and they let him get away with it...that's not to say he's right, because this moron is just that, a complete narcasistic jerk who only thinks of himself......Him and the Kardashians should just plummet off the face of the earth...To me none of these morons are human. ENOUGH ALREADY>>>>>>>>


There is a word for people like him but i don't have a dictionary and i don't think i can spell it narsasist he only thinks about himself but he's good at fooling other people into thinking that he even gives a crap about them.he's such a loser but there will always be other losers who match right up with them so lets see who his next victim will be.


If he could cheat on such a beautiful woman as Sandra and then Kat he will never not cheat.It would take a lot of therapy to fix him or maybe a castration.Every woman should know before laying down with him that he can't be happy with one.Leave him alone to satisfy himself...


Wow are there ever some bitter, nasty folks I'm glad i don't know commenting! Every woman wants to believe that they are the One. Kat was an optimistic girl who wanted to believe. I feel her opening up about her mistake is genuine, and that sometimes, we all make mistakes and need someone to talk to, celebrity or not. She seems like a nice kid. Too bad that jerks happen.


She is a complete moron! Did you think YOu could change him? We already know he is a scumbag, and now you better go get yourself tested for EVERY STD imaginable.....I am sure he has a few!


You should have known if he cheated on other women it was just a matter of time before he did it to you Kat. Try to put it behind you and move on. But try to have some class about it and don't talk about it anymore. We all knew what a pig Jesse was before you did. It was a sad lesson learned for you.

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Kat Von D Biography

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Kat Von D (short for Katherine Von Drachenberg) is a cool tattoo artist featured on TLC's Miami Ink and then on her own spin-off series,... More »
Monterrey, Nuevo Leon, Mexico
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Katherine Von Drachenberg