The show "Bachelorette" the show is to be a "reality" show. I wonder how many women would be wearing a $16.000 dress awaiting to be asked "Will you marry me" The answer is simple. NONE

addendum 2: After all jealousy isn't love anyway. It's fear.

addendum to prior message: In conscious love jealously just disappears and is no longer an issue as well as other insecurities.

Ashley and JP, perhaps a next step for you is the concept of "Conscious Love","having the impassioned desire that the loved person reach their full perfection independent of the consequences to the lover.", very powerful stuff. I have an old cassette I can convert to an MP3 file on these teaching that will allow you to take your relationship to an incredibly conscious level.

i think she made a mistake by choosing jp over ben