For shame poor maria what a thing to have to face let alone publically my heart goes out to her.

"Get dawn!! Get to to the choppa!!" Those are the words Arnold used as Maria chased after him with a golf club.

You are a washed up scum bag. Cant believe some of the people on here kissing up to you. You are really disgusting to have the woman keep on working in your home under Maria's nose. Karma is coming your way for sure.

Whatever these two decide to do I think they need to do it out of the glare of the spotlight. Mostly because I cannot imagine the pain Maria must be in. That her husband had an affair is bad enough, but to know there is a child involved and it was kept secret for a decade, basically lying by omission for 10 years must be overwhelming. I don't know what I would do if it were my husband but I'm sure I would need some time alone to process it and decide if I could deal with it and stay married. His actions were awaful but both Maria and this child he fathered did nothing wrong and should be left alone to cope and hopefully heal in their own time and at their pace.

You still have my respect why? because you show a lot of respect for your wife and kids. And that I have to respect. You made a mistake and learned from it I just hope they see the same thing. It sadens me to see yous split because I know the heartake and pain that comes with seperation and divorce but i also know the anger. I do hope your wife takes time to really sort her feelins out and finds it in her heart to forgive you and start a new with you. I wish i could have done that with my ex husband but he remarried before I faced my true feelings.