goofy_intx, I'm going to enlighten you a little bit. There is nothing that makes it okay to step out of a marriage. If a wife/husband isn't doing something to satisfy you, you need to COMMUNICATE that with them. Marriage is not a high school relationship. You can't just say "oh well she's not giving me bj's so I'm perfectly within my rights..." That's the attitude of a little boy who has no reason being married in the 1st place. If all else fails and you're willing to throw a relationship away over something like that, then be a man about it and divorce her first. And that dummy Sandra was married to didn't even use condoms according to the other woman. Imagine the things he could have exposed his wife to. And this bs happens everyday. Your idiocy proves that.

A man who lies and doesn't know how to keep it in his pants. What a shocker that is. Let's move on now.

first of all no body really ever going to know the whole truth there 3 side to every story. 1 her side 2 his side then 3 the trruth. Were never really going to know why or what happed. Don't get me wrong i love them both. But more then likey there was some thing that the other woman would do that Sandra wouldn't that the mean reason guys step out there something that he loves and is going to find the one woman that going to do it and yes i am talking about some kind of sex. U take ur pick. me i think BJs but who know. So before poeple take side just rember u weren't in there shoes and all your going to know is what poeple put in or on there pagers.

first of all, sureshot1973 you need therapy. none of us know Sandra Bullock or know if she - deserves happiness, is right, but i know one thing for sure she ain't no Meryl Streep and is not a great actress. Sandra cheated with Jesse when he was married, she is only getting what she gave. Grow up.

In the book of Proverbs ch.6:27 28 it reads...can a man or woman take fire in their bosom and not be burned? Can one go upon hot coals and their feet not be burned? There is also an old addage that say if you lay down with the dogs you get up with the flees.This is not only a lesson for Sandra but a lesson for us all. The handwrighting was on the wall for Sandra she could read it but not heed it. I wish Sandra the very best.