Loleini Tonga, Domestic Dispute at Center of Chris Henry Homicide Investigation Comments (Page 2)
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Shelli Rank: New User
December 26th, 2009 11:53 PM
There is obviously a whole lot more to this story...and, I'm not sure if we will ever know the whole truth. Has anyone heard about insurance $ or if she already had control or access to his finances? I'm surprised his family or agent haven't said anything about this. I just think its been a little too quiet. Yes, it was an accident, but I agree with everyone else, why didn't she just stop the truck! She could have taken off walking or running. She knew he had a temper. Is she that much of a brat???? If what TMZ is reporting is true, I don't blame him for questioning the $ being spent on a wedding. Especially since he was likely footing the entire bill.
Traci
December 25th, 2009 7:13 AM
If Chris was not black she would be sitting in jail or atleast given a ticket.
JES
December 23rd, 2009 8:38 PM
she is a $$ grubbing POS
SHANAE CASON
December 23rd, 2009 12:32 PM
I THINK SHE IS VERY MUCH RESPONSIBLE FOR CHRIS' DEATH. HAD SHE JUST PULLED OVER AND SAID GET OUT OF THE TRUCK THEN THIS MAN WOULD STILL BE ALIVE. I LIVE IN CHARLOTTE AND WORD ON THE STREET IS SHE STOPPED THE TRUCK, THEN SPED UP TO GET HIM OUT OF THE TRUCK. OBVIOUSLY SHE IS NOT TOO BRIGHT BECAUSE SHE KNOWS THIS MAN MAKES A LIVING PLAYING FOOTBALL AND ANY INJURY HE WOULD HAVE SUFFERED WOULD AFFECT HIS CAREER. I SAW ON HER MYSPACE PAGE SHE HAD 14 BRIDESMAIDS AND 4 MAIDS OF HONOR. WHO DID SHE THINK CHRIS HENRY WAS, PEYTON MANNING OR DONOVAN MCNABB? HE DIDN'T HAVE A BIG TIME CONTRACT. IT'S SO SAD HE DIED OVER SOME BULL----.
TerryD
December 22nd, 2009 2:03 PM
TO KEVIN THOMPSON YOU SEEM TO BE TAKING THIS PERSONAL.... ITS OBVIOUS YOU R HAVING GRL TROUBLE OR MAYBE BOY TROUBLE .. STOP BLAMING Tonga .....Y is she selfish becuase she wants a nice wedding . Whats wrong with that.. The issue needs to be " Pray for her and the kids JERK!
Kevin Thompson
December 22nd, 2009 2:38 AM
After read the story, I think Tonga is a bitch, selfish, want to take control of her own man, and need to learn how to forget and forgive. I think a bitch like her few years later, she doesn't even cares about what she did here because I realized she doesn't think before her action. Maybe will feel a little sorry for now and later on will turn back to be a bitch and forget about his dead. I feel sorry for his kids. God Blessed you Henry.
Chelle
December 22nd, 2009 12:40 AM
I think it is really irresponsible for all of us to appoint blame here. It is a very sad thing when we lose people to domestic disputes. It is very easy for all of us to say how we should react to our partners in the heat of battle. This is so very heartbreaking and I know for a fact all of us here have been in a heated dispute with our soul mates and wish we did not say what we said or reacted the way reacted. our loved ones may not be dead as a result but who are any of us to point the finger here? I am so sad for this young lady and all family members involved. She especially is going to live with this guilt for her entire life and she is only 50% liable for the out come. This poor woman is more than likely suicidal at this point and there are 3 children who are about to experince the worst Christmas and they still have life to look forward to. Please people this is the holidays can we at least show some love and compassion to this family and better yet to eachother.... Merry Christ
TerryD
December 21st, 2009 6:36 PM
R U Guys serious? Do any of you know what really happened? Was there an argument abt wedding? Nobody knows but Chris and Tonga ... Pray for the kids and their mother and GET A LIFE! And for ava.. Are you married to your kids father? Probably not ? R U even Married Material? Probably not
ava
December 21st, 2009 11:46 AM
Henry did a really stupid thing by jumping on the back of the truck and Tonga was stupid to not stop.
But…
The fact that this “baby mama” let some guy knock her up 3 times, back to back, without marrying her in the first place, says a whole lot about her character. She’s bragging on MySpace, she’s trying to have the big expensive wedding …. This SCREAMS spoiled little gold-digger, if he didn’t fall down off of the truck….she would have brought him down some other way.
Ms. Thang
December 21st, 2009 10:36 AM
I never met "Chris Henry"
I only heard about him from this senseless incident.
1. I would've let her run out the door, jump in the trunk and let hall ASS and calm the hell down.
2. I hate that those cute kids that have a daddy that seem to care so much for them, is now gone.
3. I wonder if the bitch had someone on the side or something.
Who knows what they were arguing about? Only she knows.
4. Yeah, I did check the MYSPACE out and I'm quite sure the po po's have.
They will put 2and2 together, especially, if she gets rid of her MySpace page now.
5. I know he had kids from her but if shit isn’t work-N out leave and just take care of your kids. Hell he wasn't married to her yet. She would've gotten any $$$
BUT HE WAS BLINDED..4 WHAT
(I‘M REALLY TRYING TO FIND OUT)????
CHRIS COULD'VE HAD ANYONE HE WANTED (DAMN, IT'S TOO LATE).
Please SOMEONE FROM Chris' FAMILY GET COUSTODY OF THE KIDS, BECAUSE THIS BITCH IS GOING TO BE TIED UP FOR A HOT MINUTE.
RIP #15 VERY
JULIE
December 21st, 2009 10:27 AM
AS A DRIVER OR A VEHICLE YOU ULTIMATLY ASSUME ALL RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE LIVES OF THE PEOPLE IN OR ON THAT VEHICLE - CARELESSLY OPERATING A VEHICLE, KNOWING THAT A PASSENGER IS IN DANGER, THEN CAUSING THAT PERSONS DEATH, EITHER DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY, IS TO BE RESPONSIBLE - CHILDREN OR NO CHILDREN, SHE SHOULD SERVE TIME FOR MURDER-
nace
December 20th, 2009 7:35 PM
its just sad all together thats y u should just be careful in life i kno tonga regrets the whole thing but at the end of the day it what god wanted.my heart goes out to the children.
Melissa
December 20th, 2009 6:26 PM
It was her fault. She could have pulled over or called 911 herself. Instead she chose to keep on driving. Now because of her own actions Chris is dead. If I did what she did they would be questioning me from jail. Where is the justice for Chris Henry????
Lee
December 20th, 2009 8:17 AM
After reading this story, it seems that after she stopped the vehicle Chris thought she did so to talk and was no longer holding on. Once the vehicle was back in motion he lost his balance. It seems she should be charged with something, if only vehicular manslaughter. If she had not taken off again, especially after Chris stated what he would do if she started the truck, Chris would still be alive.
Blu
December 19th, 2009 5:53 PM
I don't believe the neighbor's story about hearing him say he was going to kill himself. The story was made up to cover up the fact that she was driving reckless which caused him to fall off of the truck.
This man had encountered several harsh times in life that caused him to be released from the NFL. If he did not kill himself after being dropped by his team, which would have been an all time low for him; he would not kill himself over wedding expenses.
The neighbor's story is bullshit created to place doubt in law enforcement mind. If the story is true, which I seriously doubt; Why did she not stop once she realized he had fell off the truck. She is silly, selfish bitch and based on her actions she will never have the wedding she had planned! I say HA HA Bitch thats what you get. She may never be convicted for his murder but she will have to live with the fact that she killed him for the rest of her life. She will have to explain to her children why she killed their father.
ashley
December 19th, 2009 7:52 AM
i dont know a lot about this story but i do know that his girlfreind didn't stop and he fell out of the truck and died. Why didn't loleini stop the truck? I am a 9 year old kid and i feel sorry for the kids. This is a tragic story.
LT
December 19th, 2009 7:40 AM
This is a sad story. What is also sad is the negative speculations people report. Do anyone really know that she was afraid for her life. No. People will say anything to make themselves the victim in a situation like this. There are so many young black men who find themselves in bad situations for so many reasons This too is sad. I am not making excuses for them. If it is true that he was upset over the cost of the wedding....he had a right to voice his concern, after all he was probably paying for it. She should hae stopped when he allegedly asked her to stop. Only she knows the truth and will have to live it. I really feel bad for the kids.
Laura Marie
December 19th, 2009 2:34 AM
Who knows what happened. We can't really say. I saw her myspace and I have read various stories. It seems that he was with a woman who he thought was worth more than what she really is. He was trying to do what was right and really loved her. It is sad that the didn't and still might not realize what she had.
Rest In Peace to a man who died much to young, whose life ended just as he had started turning onto the right track. It is heartbreaking to see young people with so much potential die so early with so much unfinished business.
karla
December 18th, 2009 10:53 PM
very sad loss rip chris we love you here in the natti
optout
December 18th, 2009 9:28 PM
I wonder if there is an insurance policy and she is the beneficiary of it? Things to think about.
1) how fast was the truck going?
2) why did she not stop?
3) If she loved him then why drive in such a way that he could fall out of the truck?
4) She is culpable either in manslaughter or murder reguardless if he jumped on his own or not. she was the one driving the vehicle irrationally that ended in his death.
5) If the roll was reversed he would be in jail and most likely get a huge prison sentence.
*** Personally i hope she gets life in prison.***
Maurice
December 18th, 2009 9:06 PM
The sad part is that the kids will ask questions now and later.
Chris and Tonga were both wrong in their actions and made poor choices which led to his death.
She was the mother of his kids and his fiance.
She would have returned in an hour or two.
Jumping on a moving truck is plane stupid but in the heat of an emotional battle young people sometimes make mistakes.
God Bless both of the famlies invlove because there are no winners in this situation.
Tonga dispite any legal issues will have to live with her decisions for the rest of her lives.
Her kids will ask her one day why did you keep driving?
ckme
December 18th, 2009 6:15 PM
Truly sad. It really doesn't matter what Chris may or may not have said. People say all kinds of things when they argue. I really doubt that he really meant to kill himself. He only wanted her to not leave, and stop the truck.
Would a reasonaable person continue to drive a open bed pickup truck knowing that a man...the man you love and are about to marry in a few months is back there begging you to stop? Come on, she needs to be charged with murder. At minimum Chris' family needs to sue her for wrongful death.
TGN
December 18th, 2009 5:55 PM
I wonder if this guy (Lee Hard? Really?) in the moving tree that apparently kept pace with a speeding truck, also heard Chis say, "...and it'll be easy for me to jump off this speeding truck now that I have another shot at NFL stardom, because I have one broken arm that I can't use to hold on with." Sounds like Loleini's bad temper got Chris killed, before the wedding.
And, she was just bragging about the rings & bridal shopping sprees on the web just the day before. I wonder if she was mad about problems with the wedding she was fixated on? Seems that's where her real happiness was. It's right there for all to see on her Myspace.
gidge
December 18th, 2009 4:57 PM
She should have stopped the truck...he should not have jumped off or gone after her for that matter. How fast was she going? Who really knows what went on? Clearly she was not thinking, NEITHER WAS HE. Sad story.
Just two young people who were just not thinking...no one is to blame. If we could only turn back the hand of time. I pray for the both families and the children.
Jean
December 18th, 2009 3:09 PM
RIP Chris. Another sportsman brought down by his own poor choices. Dude was gigantic, and angry with a history of fighting and drugs... She may have panicked thinking he was going to beat her up.
If the eyewitness was correct and Chris did say he was gonna jump off the truck and kill himself, well he did!
As a grown mature woman I have heard stories of domestic abuse. Betcha he was gonna give her a beat-down and she fled in a panic and thinking if she stopped, he'd beat her.
Tragic. Thinning of the herd. Men in their 20's think that they're superman...
Rank: New User
December 26th, 2009 11:53 PM
There is obviously a whole lot more to this story...and, I'm not sure if we will ever know the whole truth. Has anyone heard about insurance $ or if she already had control or access to his finances? I'm surprised his family or agent haven't said anything about this. I just think its been a little too quiet. Yes, it was an accident, but I agree with everyone else, why didn't she just stop the truck! She could have taken off walking or running. She knew he had a temper. Is she that much of a brat???? If what TMZ is reporting is true, I don't blame him for questioning the $ being spent on a wedding. Especially since he was likely footing the entire bill.
December 25th, 2009 7:13 AM
If Chris was not black she would be sitting in jail or atleast given a ticket.
December 23rd, 2009 8:38 PM
she is a $$ grubbing POS
December 23rd, 2009 12:32 PM
I THINK SHE IS VERY MUCH RESPONSIBLE FOR CHRIS' DEATH. HAD SHE JUST PULLED OVER AND SAID GET OUT OF THE TRUCK THEN THIS MAN WOULD STILL BE ALIVE. I LIVE IN CHARLOTTE AND WORD ON THE STREET IS SHE STOPPED THE TRUCK, THEN SPED UP TO GET HIM OUT OF THE TRUCK. OBVIOUSLY SHE IS NOT TOO BRIGHT BECAUSE SHE KNOWS THIS MAN MAKES A LIVING PLAYING FOOTBALL AND ANY INJURY HE WOULD HAVE SUFFERED WOULD AFFECT HIS CAREER. I SAW ON HER MYSPACE PAGE SHE HAD 14 BRIDESMAIDS AND 4 MAIDS OF HONOR. WHO DID SHE THINK CHRIS HENRY WAS, PEYTON MANNING OR DONOVAN MCNABB? HE DIDN'T HAVE A BIG TIME CONTRACT. IT'S SO SAD HE DIED OVER SOME BULL----.
December 22nd, 2009 2:03 PM
TO KEVIN THOMPSON YOU SEEM TO BE TAKING THIS PERSONAL.... ITS OBVIOUS YOU R HAVING GRL TROUBLE OR MAYBE BOY TROUBLE .. STOP BLAMING Tonga .....Y is she selfish becuase she wants a nice wedding . Whats wrong with that.. The issue needs to be " Pray for her and the kids JERK!
December 22nd, 2009 2:38 AM
After read the story, I think Tonga is a bitch, selfish, want to take control of her own man, and need to learn how to forget and forgive. I think a bitch like her few years later, she doesn't even cares about what she did here because I realized she doesn't think before her action. Maybe will feel a little sorry for now and later on will turn back to be a bitch and forget about his dead. I feel sorry for his kids. God Blessed you Henry.
December 22nd, 2009 12:40 AM
I think it is really irresponsible for all of us to appoint blame here. It is a very sad thing when we lose people to domestic disputes. It is very easy for all of us to say how we should react to our partners in the heat of battle. This is so very heartbreaking and I know for a fact all of us here have been in a heated dispute with our soul mates and wish we did not say what we said or reacted the way reacted. our loved ones may not be dead as a result but who are any of us to point the finger here? I am so sad for this young lady and all family members involved. She especially is going to live with this guilt for her entire life and she is only 50% liable for the out come. This poor woman is more than likely suicidal at this point and there are 3 children who are about to experince the worst Christmas and they still have life to look forward to. Please people this is the holidays can we at least show some love and compassion to this family and better yet to eachother.... Merry Christ
December 21st, 2009 6:36 PM
R U Guys serious? Do any of you know what really happened? Was there an argument abt wedding? Nobody knows but Chris and Tonga ... Pray for the kids and their mother and GET A LIFE! And for ava.. Are you married to your kids father? Probably not ? R U even Married Material? Probably not
December 21st, 2009 11:46 AM
Henry did a really stupid thing by jumping on the back of the truck and Tonga was stupid to not stop.
But…
The fact that this “baby mama” let some guy knock her up 3 times, back to back, without marrying her in the first place, says a whole lot about her character. She’s bragging on MySpace, she’s trying to have the big expensive wedding …. This SCREAMS spoiled little gold-digger, if he didn’t fall down off of the truck….she would have brought him down some other way.
December 21st, 2009 10:36 AM
I never met "Chris Henry"
I only heard about him from this senseless incident.
1. I would've let her run out the door, jump in the trunk and let hall ASS and calm the hell down.
2. I hate that those cute kids that have a daddy that seem to care so much for them, is now gone.
3. I wonder if the bitch had someone on the side or something.
Who knows what they were arguing about? Only she knows.
4. Yeah, I did check the MYSPACE out and I'm quite sure the po po's have.
They will put 2and2 together, especially, if she gets rid of her MySpace page now.
5. I know he had kids from her but if shit isn’t work-N out leave and just take care of your kids. Hell he wasn't married to her yet. She would've gotten any $$$
BUT HE WAS BLINDED..4 WHAT
(I‘M REALLY TRYING TO FIND OUT)????
CHRIS COULD'VE HAD ANYONE HE WANTED (DAMN, IT'S TOO LATE).
Please SOMEONE FROM Chris' FAMILY GET COUSTODY OF THE KIDS, BECAUSE THIS BITCH IS GOING TO BE TIED UP FOR A HOT MINUTE.
RIP #15 VERY
December 21st, 2009 10:27 AM
AS A DRIVER OR A VEHICLE YOU ULTIMATLY ASSUME ALL RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE LIVES OF THE PEOPLE IN OR ON THAT VEHICLE - CARELESSLY OPERATING A VEHICLE, KNOWING THAT A PASSENGER IS IN DANGER, THEN CAUSING THAT PERSONS DEATH, EITHER DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY, IS TO BE RESPONSIBLE - CHILDREN OR NO CHILDREN, SHE SHOULD SERVE TIME FOR MURDER-
December 20th, 2009 7:35 PM
its just sad all together thats y u should just be careful in life i kno tonga regrets the whole thing but at the end of the day it what god wanted.my heart goes out to the children.
December 20th, 2009 6:26 PM
It was her fault. She could have pulled over or called 911 herself. Instead she chose to keep on driving. Now because of her own actions Chris is dead. If I did what she did they would be questioning me from jail. Where is the justice for Chris Henry????
December 20th, 2009 8:17 AM
After reading this story, it seems that after she stopped the vehicle Chris thought she did so to talk and was no longer holding on. Once the vehicle was back in motion he lost his balance. It seems she should be charged with something, if only vehicular manslaughter. If she had not taken off again, especially after Chris stated what he would do if she started the truck, Chris would still be alive.
December 19th, 2009 5:53 PM
I don't believe the neighbor's story about hearing him say he was going to kill himself. The story was made up to cover up the fact that she was driving reckless which caused him to fall off of the truck.
This man had encountered several harsh times in life that caused him to be released from the NFL. If he did not kill himself after being dropped by his team, which would have been an all time low for him; he would not kill himself over wedding expenses.
The neighbor's story is bullshit created to place doubt in law enforcement mind. If the story is true, which I seriously doubt; Why did she not stop once she realized he had fell off the truck. She is silly, selfish bitch and based on her actions she will never have the wedding she had planned! I say HA HA Bitch thats what you get. She may never be convicted for his murder but she will have to live with the fact that she killed him for the rest of her life. She will have to explain to her children why she killed their father.
December 19th, 2009 7:52 AM
i dont know a lot about this story but i do know that his girlfreind didn't stop and he fell out of the truck and died. Why didn't loleini stop the truck? I am a 9 year old kid and i feel sorry for the kids. This is a tragic story.
December 19th, 2009 7:40 AM
This is a sad story. What is also sad is the negative speculations people report. Do anyone really know that she was afraid for her life. No. People will say anything to make themselves the victim in a situation like this. There are so many young black men who find themselves in bad situations for so many reasons This too is sad. I am not making excuses for them. If it is true that he was upset over the cost of the wedding....he had a right to voice his concern, after all he was probably paying for it. She should hae stopped when he allegedly asked her to stop. Only she knows the truth and will have to live it. I really feel bad for the kids.
December 19th, 2009 2:34 AM
Who knows what happened. We can't really say. I saw her myspace and I have read various stories. It seems that he was with a woman who he thought was worth more than what she really is. He was trying to do what was right and really loved her. It is sad that the didn't and still might not realize what she had.
Rest In Peace to a man who died much to young, whose life ended just as he had started turning onto the right track. It is heartbreaking to see young people with so much potential die so early with so much unfinished business.
December 18th, 2009 10:53 PM
very sad loss rip chris we love you here in the natti
December 18th, 2009 9:28 PM
I wonder if there is an insurance policy and she is the beneficiary of it? Things to think about.
1) how fast was the truck going?
2) why did she not stop?
3) If she loved him then why drive in such a way that he could fall out of the truck?
4) She is culpable either in manslaughter or murder reguardless if he jumped on his own or not. she was the one driving the vehicle irrationally that ended in his death.
5) If the roll was reversed he would be in jail and most likely get a huge prison sentence.
*** Personally i hope she gets life in prison.***
December 18th, 2009 9:06 PM
The sad part is that the kids will ask questions now and later.
Chris and Tonga were both wrong in their actions and made poor choices which led to his death.
She was the mother of his kids and his fiance.
She would have returned in an hour or two.
Jumping on a moving truck is plane stupid but in the heat of an emotional battle young people sometimes make mistakes.
God Bless both of the famlies invlove because there are no winners in this situation.
Tonga dispite any legal issues will have to live with her decisions for the rest of her lives.
Her kids will ask her one day why did you keep driving?
December 18th, 2009 6:15 PM
Truly sad. It really doesn't matter what Chris may or may not have said. People say all kinds of things when they argue. I really doubt that he really meant to kill himself. He only wanted her to not leave, and stop the truck.
Would a reasonaable person continue to drive a open bed pickup truck knowing that a man...the man you love and are about to marry in a few months is back there begging you to stop? Come on, she needs to be charged with murder. At minimum Chris' family needs to sue her for wrongful death.
December 18th, 2009 5:55 PM
I wonder if this guy (Lee Hard? Really?) in the moving tree that apparently kept pace with a speeding truck, also heard Chis say, "...and it'll be easy for me to jump off this speeding truck now that I have another shot at NFL stardom, because I have one broken arm that I can't use to hold on with." Sounds like Loleini's bad temper got Chris killed, before the wedding.
And, she was just bragging about the rings & bridal shopping sprees on the web just the day before. I wonder if she was mad about problems with the wedding she was fixated on? Seems that's where her real happiness was. It's right there for all to see on her Myspace.
December 18th, 2009 4:57 PM
She should have stopped the truck...he should not have jumped off or gone after her for that matter. How fast was she going? Who really knows what went on? Clearly she was not thinking, NEITHER WAS HE. Sad story.
Just two young people who were just not thinking...no one is to blame. If we could only turn back the hand of time. I pray for the both families and the children.
December 18th, 2009 3:09 PM
RIP Chris. Another sportsman brought down by his own poor choices. Dude was gigantic, and angry with a history of fighting and drugs... She may have panicked thinking he was going to beat her up.
If the eyewitness was correct and Chris did say he was gonna jump off the truck and kill himself, well he did!
As a grown mature woman I have heard stories of domestic abuse. Betcha he was gonna give her a beat-down and she fled in a panic and thinking if she stopped, he'd beat her.
Tragic. Thinning of the herd. Men in their 20's think that they're superman...