Kandi Burruss "Devastated" by Death of A.J. Jewell
Reality TV is as scripted as any drama on TV.
But, sometimes, real life events truly effect those involved on these ridiculous shows, as Kandi Burruss tragically discovered last week: her former fiance, A.J. Jewell was killed in a strip club brawl.
Now, in a statement to E! News, the Real Housewife of Atlanta is speaking out and expressing her grief:
"I am devastated by the loss of A.J. His death comes on the heels of the death of my beloved Uncle Ralph and with both of them gone, my heart is heavy with grief.
"I had spoken to A.J. two hours before I got the call that he was in the hospital. Never in a thousand years did I think it was going to be the last time I heard his voice. He was taken way too soon. There are so many things that I should have said to him, wanted to say to him, but now it's too late..."
A Grammy-winning songwriter and former member of the group Xtreme, Burruss also thanked fans and friends for their support since Thursday night's tragedy.
"I want to extend my heartfelt thanks to all of my family and friends - and that means my Twitter and Facebook friends as well - for the beautiful words of encouragement, prayers, and the sweet condolences. I make it through these difficult days because of you."
It's not too late to share your thoughts and prayers. Write in and send Kandi a message today.
October 22nd, 2009 10:45 PM
Kandi, Since you've been on the RHWA you've become my favorite housewife. You are so pure, beautiful, loyal, loving, honest, and have a great energy about you! I've always hoped the best for you and your family. I was so glad to see your mother coming around to accepting A.J.. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. You, your family, and A.J.s family are in my prayers. I wish you the best of luck in all that you do. Remember that with the begining of each day there is a sun rise, and with that sun rise comes A.J. looking after all who he loves. May God guide you through your time of sorrow.
October 18th, 2009 9:22 PM
I am a big Housewives fan and I didnt even know what happened until I was watching the episode I had on my dvr. It keeps saying ex fiance I was unaware they had broke up. I just watched their engagement party show. I just want to send my condolences and prayers to all the family members and to Kandi RIP AJ
October 18th, 2009 9:43 AM
Kandi, sorry for your loss. May AJ's soul rest in peace. Memories are what keep us sane in the wake of such tragic events. I lost a close relative to a car accident several months ago and one really does not know until it hits close to home, the pain of those left behind. Keep strong! God bless!!!
October 17th, 2009 10:07 PM
I could only imagine what kandi must be going through. Death is something that many do not like to talk about. I am very sympathetic and my heart and prayers go out to kandi, AJs children and family. May those who meant the most to you live with you forever. Kandi you are in my deepest prayers you are a truly strong and wonderful woman AJ will be remembered through you and his children.
October 17th, 2009 12:01 AM
I am praying for you & your family 4 strength & guidance
I LOST MY ONLY SIBLING IN A MOTORCYCLE ACCIDENT TWO YEARS AGO. PRAY WHEN YOUR UNSURE ABOUT THE CRAZY WHAT IF's. I WANTED TO CREATE A WEBSITE OR SOMETHING THAT WOULD CONNECT STRANGERS TO SHARE THE EXPERIENCES OF LOSING A LOVED ONE IT WOULD BE KIND OF LIKE ADOPTING A NEW FAMILY MEMBER. I MISS TALKING TO MY BROTHER EVERYDAY SOME MAY THINK ITS A LITTLE WEIRD, HOWEVER TALKING ABOUT HIM GIVES ME CLOSURE.
October 16th, 2009 4:03 PM
THE GROUP SHE WAS WITH WAS CALLED XSCAPE.
October 15th, 2009 11:24 PM
Kandi I know you have heard some of everything; Good & Bad, but I want to stress my deepest apathy for you, your step children & rallie. You're all in my prayers. I want you to know that only God knows why & he makes no mistakes. In time things will get better emotionally & spiritually. Try not to be mad at God. Sometimes God loves us so much that that it hurts, but it's always to our benefit. When my oldest and only child died I was devastated & heart broken, and as a result I turned on God. I couldn't understand Why Me when there were so many bad moms in the world, as a result I turned on God. I promise you understanding comes later. As it turns out my oldest child actually saved the lives of the children I have now. I would not have known what I know now if it wasn't for my oldest child. I believe my oldest child wasn't suppose to be here long, he was an angel sent to do a job. God didn't want to hurt me, but the choice he made spared the lives of the chi
October 9th, 2009 11:56 PM
THIS IS SO TRAGIC AND MY HEART-FELT CONDOLENCES GO OUT TO KANDI, THE CHILDREN AND TO THE FAMILIES. GOD BLESS.
October 9th, 2009 6:23 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you in this time. Just know that GOD has an angel now.
October 9th, 2009 2:36 PM
my heart goes out to you and the kids, may god keep you all in his amazing grace a faithful fan