Wes Hayden Throws The Bachelorette Under the Bus Comments (Page 2)
27 Comments
lynda doyle
July 13th, 2009 1:11 AM
the big problem is that Jillian is such a bore. and probably not very bright. Did she ever have an English teacher, one who taught grammar?? i cringe for her. Bad choice of Bachelorette.
Kat
July 11th, 2009 10:57 PM
To C: Good comment. Point taken. I actually stumbled upon this site when I typed in "Wes Hayden" on my browser...just trying to find some information on him. I read so many negative comments about him that I let it get to me. My bad. I'll bow out now and let you ladies have fun with the rest of the season.
C
July 11th, 2009 2:52 PM
People watch tv in order to judge people. Kat - your comments are super judgmental. I'm not saying they shouldn't be, but it's kind of hypocritical to do the very thing that you're condemning. Judging people is part of the fun of reality tv - it's stupid and shouldn't be taken too seriously, but who really watches it without deciding which bachelor he/she likes best or which one they think is a slimebag (and who writes on discussion boards unless they're judgmental?). As for Wes - sure they made him out to be much worse than he is. That doesn't mean he's innocent of all deception despite his comments saying so.
Kat
July 11th, 2009 11:38 AM
I think it's sad that there are so many bitter women in the world. It's just a reality show which cast "characters" to make the ratings go up. Wes just happened to be the guy they chose to edit,twist his words around,and basically screw over. Some women realized this fact and didn't feel the need to judge him as a human being....and others seemed to be so miserable in their own personal lives that they jumped on the "I hate Wes" train just to have a reason to rant. I watch the show simply for entertainment...but it's not entertainment to watch someone's "real life" be shredded through editing. I wish Wes nothing but success in the future. If people can't watch TV without judging....Then they need to put the remote control down and step away from the TV,then walk outside for some fresh air and click their heels together three times and say "I need to get a life!!!"
Bonnie
July 11th, 2009 3:13 AM
So when Wes tells the other 3 guys at his final rose ceremony that "he'll be home having lots of sex" after he gets kicked off that night... was that edited too? Hmmmm... if it smells like a rat... it's probably a rat.
JO
July 10th, 2009 4:52 PM
I work in television, particularly post-production sound editing. I can assure you that many of these statements from Wes on the show were clipped, spliced, what have you. After listening to the podcast, I am positive that his character was heavily edited to be slanted. I frequently rearrange phrases and words, often even syllables to make characters say certain words or phrases. However, I am working in fiction and not defaming anyone. Reality TV is about the most unreal thing you can imagine. Editor's are gods.
JJ
July 10th, 2009 12:08 PM
Early on in the show I despised Wes. I thought he was a complete douchebag. But as the show went on, I started to think, "There is something off about this...no way would he come on TV and say some of the things they showed him saying." It kind of surprises me that some people just believe what ABC is showing them. This whole season has been so staged...Ed's return, Jake returning to call out Wes...don't get me wrong, I enjoy watching the Bachelorette, too, I just think it's funny how indignant people get and go as far as to call somebody they don't even know names based off of 8 episodes.
Laurel
July 9th, 2009 10:54 PM
It would take a lot, and I mean a lot of editing to change Wes around. He's a jerk and has a lame excuse to save his rep, but it won't work. One song, not even that great, won't make him a star.
Laurel
July 9th, 2009 10:54 PM
It would take a lot, and I mean a lot of editing to change Wes around. He's a jerk and has a lame excuse to save his rep, but it won't work. One song, not even that great, won't make him a star.
ann
July 9th, 2009 8:11 PM
I THINK HE REALIZED THAT EVERYONE FIGURED OUT WHAT A JERK HE TRULY IS AND NOW THINKS HE CAN FOOL EVERYONE, LIKE HE DID WITH JILL, INTO BELIEVING HIS LINE OF BS. WELL I DONT THINK EVERYONE WHO WATCHED THE SHOW WILL BELIEVE A WORD HE SAYS. I KNOW I FOR ONE DONT BELIEVE HIS CRAP.
Linda
July 9th, 2009 7:44 PM
Wesley Hayden is a narcissistic creep. His statements could not have possibly been edited. All you have to do is watch him as he spoke and you can tell that there was no editing. His statements were definitely HIS statements. Get real people! The creep is backing down on his statements because he wants to stay in the limelight to sell his music. He is a conniving jerk. I hope his career goes down the toilette!
For all you Wes haters, you should listen to this podcast:
http://realitysteve.com/podcasts/wesinterview.mp3
It may not convince you 100%, but it will shed some truth...
C
July 9th, 2009 4:00 PM
Even early on in the show Wes never really talked about Jillian or how she felt or how much he liked her - he talked about what it would take to be able to stay. Wes was on the show for his career, and it backfired because he lied and used half truths. Even if he didn't have a girlfriend, he clearly didn't want to be there for quite some time, and should have left and not dragged it out with Jillian when she could have been spending her time on other people. He was very clearly unaffectionate and uncomfortable with her for several episodes. It's bad that some of his comments were edited, but he's still not someone I could ever respect.
Wiseman
July 9th, 2009 3:06 PM
This is television. Editing. Do not take anything he says from the show as truth. It's very easy to take any comment and put it out of its actual context to fit the story.
If Wes is telling the truth, demand ABC air unedited clips (ie. the whole limo clip) and see if he actually is telling the truth. I bet you will see that if he is telling the truth, then ABC is actually the scum, for defaming a person's character in the interest of the show.
TV does not equal truth.
Emily
July 9th, 2009 11:28 AM
Ya, but he said some other crappy things on the show. In my book, Wes is a scumbag!
I'm glad Wes set the record straight! It just goes to show you that the real villains are the makers of these reality tv shows. These scumbags don't care who they hurt - they will trash a life with no further thought. Good job Chris Harrison - you are part of this crap. Sleep good at night.
Hope Wes has a good music career.
guest
July 9th, 2009 10:10 AM
I always thought wes really liked jillian. All the rumors played on her insecurities and blew it for them. plus all the other guys had fun dates, but at the end, their dates became her interogating him. he became frustrated and the romance dies. she ended p with safer choice to her, but maybe not the right one. to me, wes was the victim.
July 13th, 2009 1:11 AM
the big problem is that Jillian is such a bore. and probably not very bright. Did she ever have an English teacher, one who taught grammar?? i cringe for her. Bad choice of Bachelorette.
July 11th, 2009 10:57 PM
To C: Good comment. Point taken. I actually stumbled upon this site when I typed in "Wes Hayden" on my browser...just trying to find some information on him. I read so many negative comments about him that I let it get to me. My bad. I'll bow out now and let you ladies have fun with the rest of the season.
July 11th, 2009 2:52 PM
People watch tv in order to judge people. Kat - your comments are super judgmental. I'm not saying they shouldn't be, but it's kind of hypocritical to do the very thing that you're condemning. Judging people is part of the fun of reality tv - it's stupid and shouldn't be taken too seriously, but who really watches it without deciding which bachelor he/she likes best or which one they think is a slimebag (and who writes on discussion boards unless they're judgmental?). As for Wes - sure they made him out to be much worse than he is. That doesn't mean he's innocent of all deception despite his comments saying so.
July 11th, 2009 11:38 AM
I think it's sad that there are so many bitter women in the world. It's just a reality show which cast "characters" to make the ratings go up. Wes just happened to be the guy they chose to edit,twist his words around,and basically screw over. Some women realized this fact and didn't feel the need to judge him as a human being....and others seemed to be so miserable in their own personal lives that they jumped on the "I hate Wes" train just to have a reason to rant. I watch the show simply for entertainment...but it's not entertainment to watch someone's "real life" be shredded through editing. I wish Wes nothing but success in the future. If people can't watch TV without judging....Then they need to put the remote control down and step away from the TV,then walk outside for some fresh air and click their heels together three times and say "I need to get a life!!!"
July 11th, 2009 3:13 AM
So when Wes tells the other 3 guys at his final rose ceremony that "he'll be home having lots of sex" after he gets kicked off that night... was that edited too? Hmmmm... if it smells like a rat... it's probably a rat.
July 10th, 2009 4:52 PM
I work in television, particularly post-production sound editing. I can assure you that many of these statements from Wes on the show were clipped, spliced, what have you. After listening to the podcast, I am positive that his character was heavily edited to be slanted. I frequently rearrange phrases and words, often even syllables to make characters say certain words or phrases. However, I am working in fiction and not defaming anyone. Reality TV is about the most unreal thing you can imagine. Editor's are gods.
July 10th, 2009 12:08 PM
Early on in the show I despised Wes. I thought he was a complete douchebag. But as the show went on, I started to think, "There is something off about this...no way would he come on TV and say some of the things they showed him saying." It kind of surprises me that some people just believe what ABC is showing them. This whole season has been so staged...Ed's return, Jake returning to call out Wes...don't get me wrong, I enjoy watching the Bachelorette, too, I just think it's funny how indignant people get and go as far as to call somebody they don't even know names based off of 8 episodes.
July 9th, 2009 10:54 PM
It would take a lot, and I mean a lot of editing to change Wes around. He's a jerk and has a lame excuse to save his rep, but it won't work. One song, not even that great, won't make him a star.
July 9th, 2009 10:54 PM
It would take a lot, and I mean a lot of editing to change Wes around. He's a jerk and has a lame excuse to save his rep, but it won't work. One song, not even that great, won't make him a star.
July 9th, 2009 8:11 PM
I THINK HE REALIZED THAT EVERYONE FIGURED OUT WHAT A JERK HE TRULY IS AND NOW THINKS HE CAN FOOL EVERYONE, LIKE HE DID WITH JILL, INTO BELIEVING HIS LINE OF BS. WELL I DONT THINK EVERYONE WHO WATCHED THE SHOW WILL BELIEVE A WORD HE SAYS. I KNOW I FOR ONE DONT BELIEVE HIS CRAP.
July 9th, 2009 7:44 PM
Wesley Hayden is a narcissistic creep. His statements could not have possibly been edited. All you have to do is watch him as he spoke and you can tell that there was no editing. His statements were definitely HIS statements. Get real people! The creep is backing down on his statements because he wants to stay in the limelight to sell his music. He is a conniving jerk. I hope his career goes down the toilette!
Rank: New User
July 9th, 2009 5:31 PM
For all you Wes haters, you should listen to this podcast:
http://realitysteve.com/podcasts/wesinterview.mp3
It may not convince you 100%, but it will shed some truth...
July 9th, 2009 4:00 PM
Even early on in the show Wes never really talked about Jillian or how she felt or how much he liked her - he talked about what it would take to be able to stay. Wes was on the show for his career, and it backfired because he lied and used half truths. Even if he didn't have a girlfriend, he clearly didn't want to be there for quite some time, and should have left and not dragged it out with Jillian when she could have been spending her time on other people. He was very clearly unaffectionate and uncomfortable with her for several episodes. It's bad that some of his comments were edited, but he's still not someone I could ever respect.
July 9th, 2009 3:06 PM
This is television. Editing. Do not take anything he says from the show as truth. It's very easy to take any comment and put it out of its actual context to fit the story.
If Wes is telling the truth, demand ABC air unedited clips (ie. the whole limo clip) and see if he actually is telling the truth. I bet you will see that if he is telling the truth, then ABC is actually the scum, for defaming a person's character in the interest of the show.
TV does not equal truth.
July 9th, 2009 11:28 AM
Ya, but he said some other crappy things on the show. In my book, Wes is a scumbag!
Rank: New User
July 9th, 2009 10:55 AM
I'm glad Wes set the record straight! It just goes to show you that the real villains are the makers of these reality tv shows. These scumbags don't care who they hurt - they will trash a life with no further thought. Good job Chris Harrison - you are part of this crap. Sleep good at night.
Hope Wes has a good music career.
July 9th, 2009 10:10 AM
I always thought wes really liked jillian. All the rumors played on her insecurities and blew it for them. plus all the other guys had fun dates, but at the end, their dates became her interogating him. he became frustrated and the romance dies. she ended p with safer choice to her, but maybe not the right one. to me, wes was the victim.