Former NFL Star Steve McNair, Lover Sahel Kazemi Killed Comments (Page 3)
59 Comments
Ms. M
July 6th, 2009 12:53 PM
We should all be praying for Mechelle and the kids. Only God can judge. It is a tragedy and Mechelle needs all the prayers she can get. It's no longer about Steve, but about Mechelle and the kids. God Bless You Mechelle, your family and as well as Steve's family.
Concerned
July 6th, 2009 12:35 PM
I see a few issues that are disturbing
1. His friends had access to the condo. Why? what was this condo purchased for?
2. When the DUI occurred, she was arrested and he was sent away in a taxi. Did he go home or did he go to the condo?
3. If he went to the condo after the DUI, how did the truck get back to the Condo?
4. The wife indicated not having any conversation with him for 2 days. Why? Could she not reach him? Did she even know that he was 10 miles away?
5. Back to the "friends"... this guy felt comfortable enough to see them in the condo and walk by most likely believing they are asleep but then finally noticing they were injured /dead? Why was he so comfortable?
Why did he have to "check on" Steve?
6. Why did the friend call the other friend rather than simply calling 9-1-1?
I think that the friends were well aware of Mcnair being in town, the wife had no clue, and the girlfriend finally was released.
Clearly something went wrong. He's a big
Frankie J
July 6th, 2009 12:15 PM
I am truly sad because another prominant black athlete is violently brought down over some BS. I am sad for Steve and Sahel's family. What ever the circumstances were, neither one deserved to lose their life and anyone who believes that they did is probably not a Christian.
MD
July 6th, 2009 11:50 AM
It is sad for all; but there's a lot here that meets the eye. As I read behind the lines on what occured; the wife, the ex-BF, possible gambling debts, religion, family,and all. Yeah, he was an adulterer; but the question is who would gain upon his death? I would search for a motive. By making it look like a "murder/suicide" leads me to believe, there are more this than meets the eye.
Even though he was cheating on his wife, no one deserves to be killed Pookie. He was a human being just like you are and even though I don't know you, you don't even deserve that. There is just way too much killing going on in the world over little stupid stuff. There was this 14 year old girl here in my town that stabbed a 12 year old all because he threw a rock at her house. The sad thing is that just before that 12 year old died he told the girl that he was sorry for throwing the rock and then he died in his dads arms. Now, you tell me Pookie, did that 12 year old deserve to die? The McNair Family have my prayers and God will see you all through this.
MGD
July 6th, 2009 11:23 AM
a person that lives by the sworn, dies by the sworn. I don't wish even a cheating man his life be taken. His girlfriend was also wrong in this. She knew he was married so she shouldn't have gotten involved with him. I'm sure if she was married that she wouldn't have liked another women messing with her husband. He couldn't have gotten involved with her unless she was willing. Regardles rather he told her he was devoicing his wife are not, the thing is he wasn't devoiced so she shouldn't have gotten involved with this married man until he was devoiced. Men always tell you what they think you want to hear. The bottom line McNair nor his girlfriend was being honest with their mates. She was lying to her boyfriend and McNair was lying to her. They were both lier. The life you live by the live you die by. My heart goes out to the entire McNair family. We all should let this be a lesson learned to ALL cheaters out there. This is a real hard lesson that certainly will get ALL cheater
BS
July 6th, 2009 11:11 AM
If he was going to leave his wife what reason did she have to kill him? I think that she was just his play toy and when he decided to break it off she killed him. Men open your eyes and ask yourself would these women really want me if I had nothing and there you will find your answer. My prayers goes out to the families. It is obvious this woman was violent, she was in a violent relationship with her boyfriend before Steve.
E Cunningham
July 6th, 2009 11:06 AM
It is a sad story, but so real to the arrogance of people with money and fame! He should have divorced his wife if he was wanted an affair with this girl! He also had a concealed weapons permit for Tennessee. He was know to carry. Don't get me wrong, I'm not demonizing Steve. Just pointing out previous behavior by Steve! All this girl saw was money and "I date a Pro Football Player!" Hell, he bought her a $50,000 plus dollar Cadillac SUV! As a Law Enforcement officer, my theory is that he decided that he was not going to see her any further and she killed him and shot herself, or someone that wanted to date her, laid in waiting, then killed him and shot her in the temple. But it is great probability a murder-suicide! I feel really bad for Steve, the NFL family, but ever worse for his lovely wife and children!
dwalker
July 6th, 2009 10:57 AM
I agree totally with Pookie. Let this be a WARNING to all the cheating husbands out there....including mine!
Puki
July 6th, 2009 10:53 AM
That's what u get for fooling around with a middle eastern girls. Their culture is so anti-black! So sad McNair's life ended with a link to the world's oldest profession. It all comes back to "MO' MONEY MO' PROBLEMS".
Mary Ann
July 6th, 2009 10:46 AM
In response to Val's comment, yes it would be strange that no one heard the shots that were fired, but I think people heard it but maybe they assumed it was firecrackers. I heard fireworks all weekend even on Friday night and into the early morning hours of Saturday. It this had happened in November, then I am sure someone would have called the police.
Mary Ann
July 6th, 2009 10:37 AM
It seems that the NFL really needs to give the players some serious training. It is giving the NFL a bad name. I remember when Ray Lewis was in trouble and it could have cost him his career. Luckily, he got himself out of that hole and learned from his mistakes. I want to say to all of the players out there, do what is right and don't get youself caught up with people who are looking to take advantage of your money. It is not worth it and please use this tragedy as a reminder whenever you feel you are tempted for something exciting. It is not worth it. I liked Steve and I am a big Ravens fan so my hearts goes out to the real victim, his wife and children. Players need to stay with people who are educated and with class.
Shanny
July 6th, 2009 10:30 AM
I feel bad that both of them are dead but Steve shouldn't have been playing around on his wife. He should've let his wife go, paid all the marital/child support, and then he could've laid up w/all the ho's he wanted. Athletes like Steve McNair think they're invincible with all the loot they pull in and they think they can do whatever they want, only hurting their families in the long run. His punishment (death) was too harsh but those Middle Eastern folks don't play games either! He was probably promising his lil mistress that he was going to marry her and he had no real intentions of doing so.
Shayla
July 6th, 2009 10:21 AM
Sad story. If what appears to be the case really is the case, what a way to learn a lesson. I am not judging McNair or Kazemi -- that's not my job. But I can say that God loves us all, but he does not love everything we do. Having been in a similar situation, I THANK GOD FOR HIS MERCY. I COULD HAVE BEEN DEAD, AND LIKE SO MANY OF YOU THINK, I WOULD HAVE DESERVED IT. Thank God for his grace and mercy. If you don't know Him, get to know Him in the pardon of your sin. He is BETTER TO ME THAN I AM TO MYSELF --- AND HE WILL BE BETTER TO YOU THAN YOU WOULD BE TO YOURSELF.
Pookie
July 6th, 2009 10:14 AM
I think his cheating ass got exactly what he deserves,If he would of been at home with his wife and kids-it wouldn't of happened.My sympathy goes out to his wife and children-Certainly not his ass.
sleary
July 6th, 2009 9:59 AM
My prayers go out to both families because they both have suffered the lost of a loved one. In life we all have the right to choose to do the right thing. Unfortunately Steve mad some bad judgement decisions that in the end cost him his life. That's a heck of a price to pay.
Val
July 6th, 2009 9:50 AM
That many gun shots and NO ONE heard anything? No calls to police? Weird.
Ex-athlete with money..check. Married with kids...check. Honeys on the side.... check. Wrong place at wrong time... check. Dead man. Too sad that all the stero types come true in the end.
Toya
July 6th, 2009 9:42 AM
I don't wish death upon no one, but God don't like adultery.
Michelle
July 6th, 2009 9:35 AM
I wish Pauly could spell and check his grammar.
BILLIE
July 6th, 2009 9:29 AM
I agree this is nothing new and im almost sure Michelle knew about this one too. Its a very sad thing for the kids. You cant tell me a wife didnt know that he had an apartment and went on a vactation and if she really didnt know she needed to pay more attention to her marriage
Pauly
July 6th, 2009 9:23 AM
He shouldn't be messign around on his wife. This is what make me so made about pro stars. they keep some dollars and believe they will never get caught doing wrong. Now his boys are going to grow up witout there dad just because he wanted some on the side. I feel sorry for his fmaily, but what a stupid, stupid man.
s
July 6th, 2009 8:37 AM
Steve was known to have girlfriends while married to Mechelle. This is nothing new. It just wasn't in the public eye.
T
July 6th, 2009 8:07 AM
Whose hands are those in the wedding picture with them? Such a sad story and way to find out about a "lover". My prayers go out to the McNair family and their boys....
July 6th, 2009 12:53 PM
We should all be praying for Mechelle and the kids. Only God can judge. It is a tragedy and Mechelle needs all the prayers she can get. It's no longer about Steve, but about Mechelle and the kids. God Bless You Mechelle, your family and as well as Steve's family.
July 6th, 2009 12:35 PM
I see a few issues that are disturbing
1. His friends had access to the condo. Why? what was this condo purchased for?
2. When the DUI occurred, she was arrested and he was sent away in a taxi. Did he go home or did he go to the condo?
3. If he went to the condo after the DUI, how did the truck get back to the Condo?
4. The wife indicated not having any conversation with him for 2 days. Why? Could she not reach him? Did she even know that he was 10 miles away?
5. Back to the "friends"... this guy felt comfortable enough to see them in the condo and walk by most likely believing they are asleep but then finally noticing they were injured /dead? Why was he so comfortable?
Why did he have to "check on" Steve?
6. Why did the friend call the other friend rather than simply calling 9-1-1?
I think that the friends were well aware of Mcnair being in town, the wife had no clue, and the girlfriend finally was released.
Clearly something went wrong. He's a big
July 6th, 2009 12:15 PM
I am truly sad because another prominant black athlete is violently brought down over some BS. I am sad for Steve and Sahel's family. What ever the circumstances were, neither one deserved to lose their life and anyone who believes that they did is probably not a Christian.
July 6th, 2009 11:50 AM
It is sad for all; but there's a lot here that meets the eye. As I read behind the lines on what occured; the wife, the ex-BF, possible gambling debts, religion, family,and all. Yeah, he was an adulterer; but the question is who would gain upon his death? I would search for a motive. By making it look like a "murder/suicide" leads me to believe, there are more this than meets the eye.
Rank: New User
July 6th, 2009 11:46 AM
Even though he was cheating on his wife, no one deserves to be killed Pookie. He was a human being just like you are and even though I don't know you, you don't even deserve that. There is just way too much killing going on in the world over little stupid stuff. There was this 14 year old girl here in my town that stabbed a 12 year old all because he threw a rock at her house. The sad thing is that just before that 12 year old died he told the girl that he was sorry for throwing the rock and then he died in his dads arms. Now, you tell me Pookie, did that 12 year old deserve to die? The McNair Family have my prayers and God will see you all through this.
July 6th, 2009 11:23 AM
a person that lives by the sworn, dies by the sworn. I don't wish even a cheating man his life be taken. His girlfriend was also wrong in this. She knew he was married so she shouldn't have gotten involved with him. I'm sure if she was married that she wouldn't have liked another women messing with her husband. He couldn't have gotten involved with her unless she was willing. Regardles rather he told her he was devoicing his wife are not, the thing is he wasn't devoiced so she shouldn't have gotten involved with this married man until he was devoiced. Men always tell you what they think you want to hear. The bottom line McNair nor his girlfriend was being honest with their mates. She was lying to her boyfriend and McNair was lying to her. They were both lier. The life you live by the live you die by. My heart goes out to the entire McNair family. We all should let this be a lesson learned to ALL cheaters out there. This is a real hard lesson that certainly will get ALL cheater
July 6th, 2009 11:11 AM
If he was going to leave his wife what reason did she have to kill him? I think that she was just his play toy and when he decided to break it off she killed him. Men open your eyes and ask yourself would these women really want me if I had nothing and there you will find your answer. My prayers goes out to the families. It is obvious this woman was violent, she was in a violent relationship with her boyfriend before Steve.
July 6th, 2009 11:06 AM
It is a sad story, but so real to the arrogance of people with money and fame! He should have divorced his wife if he was wanted an affair with this girl! He also had a concealed weapons permit for Tennessee. He was know to carry. Don't get me wrong, I'm not demonizing Steve. Just pointing out previous behavior by Steve! All this girl saw was money and "I date a Pro Football Player!" Hell, he bought her a $50,000 plus dollar Cadillac SUV! As a Law Enforcement officer, my theory is that he decided that he was not going to see her any further and she killed him and shot herself, or someone that wanted to date her, laid in waiting, then killed him and shot her in the temple. But it is great probability a murder-suicide! I feel really bad for Steve, the NFL family, but ever worse for his lovely wife and children!
July 6th, 2009 10:57 AM
I agree totally with Pookie. Let this be a WARNING to all the cheating husbands out there....including mine!
July 6th, 2009 10:53 AM
That's what u get for fooling around with a middle eastern girls. Their culture is so anti-black! So sad McNair's life ended with a link to the world's oldest profession. It all comes back to "MO' MONEY MO' PROBLEMS".
July 6th, 2009 10:46 AM
In response to Val's comment, yes it would be strange that no one heard the shots that were fired, but I think people heard it but maybe they assumed it was firecrackers. I heard fireworks all weekend even on Friday night and into the early morning hours of Saturday. It this had happened in November, then I am sure someone would have called the police.
July 6th, 2009 10:37 AM
It seems that the NFL really needs to give the players some serious training. It is giving the NFL a bad name. I remember when Ray Lewis was in trouble and it could have cost him his career. Luckily, he got himself out of that hole and learned from his mistakes. I want to say to all of the players out there, do what is right and don't get youself caught up with people who are looking to take advantage of your money. It is not worth it and please use this tragedy as a reminder whenever you feel you are tempted for something exciting. It is not worth it. I liked Steve and I am a big Ravens fan so my hearts goes out to the real victim, his wife and children. Players need to stay with people who are educated and with class.
July 6th, 2009 10:30 AM
I feel bad that both of them are dead but Steve shouldn't have been playing around on his wife. He should've let his wife go, paid all the marital/child support, and then he could've laid up w/all the ho's he wanted. Athletes like Steve McNair think they're invincible with all the loot they pull in and they think they can do whatever they want, only hurting their families in the long run. His punishment (death) was too harsh but those Middle Eastern folks don't play games either! He was probably promising his lil mistress that he was going to marry her and he had no real intentions of doing so.
July 6th, 2009 10:21 AM
Sad story. If what appears to be the case really is the case, what a way to learn a lesson. I am not judging McNair or Kazemi -- that's not my job. But I can say that God loves us all, but he does not love everything we do. Having been in a similar situation, I THANK GOD FOR HIS MERCY. I COULD HAVE BEEN DEAD, AND LIKE SO MANY OF YOU THINK, I WOULD HAVE DESERVED IT. Thank God for his grace and mercy. If you don't know Him, get to know Him in the pardon of your sin. He is BETTER TO ME THAN I AM TO MYSELF --- AND HE WILL BE BETTER TO YOU THAN YOU WOULD BE TO YOURSELF.
July 6th, 2009 10:14 AM
I think his cheating ass got exactly what he deserves,If he would of been at home with his wife and kids-it wouldn't of happened.My sympathy goes out to his wife and children-Certainly not his ass.
July 6th, 2009 9:59 AM
My prayers go out to both families because they both have suffered the lost of a loved one. In life we all have the right to choose to do the right thing. Unfortunately Steve mad some bad judgement decisions that in the end cost him his life. That's a heck of a price to pay.
July 6th, 2009 9:50 AM
That many gun shots and NO ONE heard anything? No calls to police? Weird.
Ex-athlete with money..check. Married with kids...check. Honeys on the side.... check. Wrong place at wrong time... check. Dead man. Too sad that all the stero types come true in the end.
July 6th, 2009 9:42 AM
I don't wish death upon no one, but God don't like adultery.
July 6th, 2009 9:35 AM
I wish Pauly could spell and check his grammar.
July 6th, 2009 9:29 AM
I agree this is nothing new and im almost sure Michelle knew about this one too. Its a very sad thing for the kids. You cant tell me a wife didnt know that he had an apartment and went on a vactation and if she really didnt know she needed to pay more attention to her marriage
July 6th, 2009 9:23 AM
He shouldn't be messign around on his wife. This is what make me so made about pro stars. they keep some dollars and believe they will never get caught doing wrong. Now his boys are going to grow up witout there dad just because he wanted some on the side. I feel sorry for his fmaily, but what a stupid, stupid man.
July 6th, 2009 8:37 AM
Steve was known to have girlfriends while married to Mechelle. This is nothing new. It just wasn't in the public eye.
July 6th, 2009 8:07 AM
Whose hands are those in the wedding picture with them? Such a sad story and way to find out about a "lover". My prayers go out to the McNair family and their boys....
July 6th, 2009 8:06 AM
Wow?