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July 7th, 2009 3:45 PM
In response to Jacki - There is no record that he was seperated. And it is not odd for a married man especially one who can afford one, to have a rendez-vous spot to have affairs. His friend who lives there probably uses it for the same thing. I work in real estate and have sold condos to men just for that very reason. Most times the wives know nothing about it. This is clearly a case of a young girl being naive and also not mentally stable. She wanted the life his wife had and probably was getting ancy because he wasn't leaving his wife because he never intended to. 1. Because his wife would probably take him for most of what he has and 2. Aside from being an adulterer it is said that he adored his sons. He probably started recognizing she was a nutcase and decided he was going to break it off which led to her breaking point - Just a theory. Steve McNair got caught up with some pretty young thing and paid the ultimate price...Hope it was worth it.
July 7th, 2009 5:46 PM
two people are dead because they were weak of flesh like us all and those kids are without a father. what a terrible shame so much trouble in the world and yes it was adultry he was still married that the law we live under in this country
July 7th, 2009 8:05 PM
I think it's sad that so many lives are affected by a few moments of pleasure! How long does it take for a man to ejaculate? That's all the time it takes to ruin the lives of those you love. This Sahel Kazemi was a slut and such brazen behavior in the Muslim, Islamic, Iranian, Israeli, Pakistani, or Arabic has become increasingly more pronounced. It's usually frowned on for these women to marry outside their race and religion, isn't it? So the only thing she could have been latching on to Steve McNair for was his money. And Steve, like so many other men, thought he could hit it and quit it and ran upon a lunatic. Why is it so hard for men to stay faithful? Aren't you supposed to be the stronger sex? Why couldn't he just go home and be with his wife? I mean, Kazemi had the same thing his wife had! It might have been firmer or whiter but it was the same thing and, had he chosen to do the right thing, he would still be alive today! Shame, shame, shame on American culture for glamoring sin and shame on us for allowing it. Steve was an adulterer and Kazemi was a slut and guess what? They are both dead now. The wages sin is DEATH but the gift of God is eternal life! To all you out there who think you can put one over on God you had best to think about Steve McNair. Maybe his death can bring about a change in someone's life. To his wife and children, my prayers go out to you and isn't it a blessing that he was the man he was! Remember the man he was before and not the man he became. Weeping may endure for the night but, glory to God, joy comes in the morning. Look up and keep the faith.
July 8th, 2009 7:18 AM
So she is slut to sleep with a man who is living seperate from his wife, she is a slut who received a Cadillac Escalade from her boyfriend, she is a slut who went on vacation with him, she is a slut who took him home to meet her family, GIVE ME A BREAK...the bottom line is, two lives were lost here, I will say it again, he wasn't cheating...what part of that doesn't anyone understand...Who is anyone to pass judgement, if you want to talk about sin, sis is sin, when you go over the speed limit, you are breaking the laws of the land and that is sin...get over your holier than though roles...and just because he had kids doesn't mean he couldn't leave his wife, this is 2009, it happens all the time...I bet if she was a black woman, she wouldn't be a slut...We have biracial president...who cares anymore...
July 8th, 2009 4:00 PM
Jacki - you are sad, and instead of spending time trying to convince us of your "non-cheating" self, maybe you should take a look at what you are doing. It is straight disgusting that you are prostituting yourself for insurance - and going over the speed limit is not a sin - you're crazy Jacki - but I can see right through your messages - you are cheating on your husband and have been doing so for four years at least, and now you want to convince the public that McNair was not cheating on his wife. Please - first, if we are going to talk about sin - it is biblical, and in all religions - even religions that allow for multiple wives - you cheat when you are not with the one you are married to - so that is why my Muslim bestfriend from Senegal told his first wife that he is interested in getting to know another to be his second wife - that is in his religion, and most religions have that - whether you get the paper from the government or not. So you, my dear, are cheating. Second, it is final - she knew he had a husband, he knew he had a wife - and regardless of where they slept, they had a committment and Sahel should have waited until everything was final (i.e. divorce) before making her move on another woman's man. But back to you Jackie - you're cheating on your husband - and the most sad part is it is for insurance (lol). You're a joke!
July 8th, 2009 4:06 PM
TO jacki mccall
1. It is adultry look it up (in the Bible). Until you are divorced you are cheating by having sex with another person other than your spouse.
2. You married to someone just for them to provide you with something is what some might call a whore.
Don't justify this situation just to make yourself feel better. That's a pretty sad life.
July 8th, 2009 4:46 PM
Muslim people are often screwed up in their head. I would not be surprised if it was family pressure on her to marry this rich man, and get hold of some of his wealth.
July 8th, 2009 5:09 PM
REG you're an idiot (Baddy Baddy for your parents for having you.)
You actually think that the "best women" are gold-digging skanks who whore themselves out to rich men???
LOL you empty, vapid piece of twat.
Poetic justice that you are left with only those gold-digging skanks who were used and abused and dumped by the "rich men" who will now settle for an "average joe" like you.
Poetic justice indeed.
July 8th, 2009 6:36 PM
See what happens when you cheat, you end up meeting a crazy girl that blows you away and now look who suffers your family. Why would this girl think she was going to marry someone who is already married? answered my own question because she was crazy, no one is worth killing yourself over. My heart goes out to his real wife and his children. The police thinks it was over money, I think he told her he wasnt leaving his family for some crazy young girl and she lost her mind.
July 8th, 2009 6:56 PM
Sin Leaves Scars.
July 8th, 2009 7:02 PM
Beauty is skin deep but ugly goes to the bone. Sahel was ugly inside and out and that is why she did this. McNair hid his ugliness but what you do in the dark will come to light.
July 8th, 2009 7:17 PM
OMG! I don't need to make myself feel better. I am not cheating on my husband, he lives with his girlfriend and I live with my boyfriend. Shit, it's cheaper to keep her, have you ever heard that? It's cheaper to keep me...lol...I am very confident in who I am...Now it was a murder suicide...and he had another girl...please, he was no longer with his wife and is was obvious it was cheaper to keep his wife...get a life and stop throwing religion in it.
July 8th, 2009 7:20 PM
you cheat you pay, her parents need to wake up.
there daughter is a cold blooded killer, with no values to
go with a married man. And he should not have cheating, look
where it got him, my heart goes out to the wife and kids.
July 8th, 2009 7:21 PM
And who wrote the bible? MAN...why in the fuck do I care about what MAN has to say...MAN doesn't pay my bills...If we would all start worrying about what makes us happy and not everyone else, the world will be a happier place...again, two lives are lost here...Religion has nothing to do with this...any by the way, according the MAN written bible, we are to abide by the rules of the land and if we don't, we are sinning...so speeding is sin...ask your PASTOR...stupid azz...
July 8th, 2009 7:45 PM
This is a very painful scenario. When people are decieved, they can create images and scenarios that are so far removed from reality. I feel so sorry for both families but especially for the souls of Steve McNair and Saleh. In many of these cultures, Middle Eastern and African, the taking of a person to your family has strong meaning. In fact, unlike some parts of the United States,(not the South), the meeting indicates a serious relationship leading always toward an expectation of marriage. The seduction and intrigue can lead to obsessive thoughts and fatal attractions. Love is never hidden, never impatient, not unkind...Love is patient, kind, and recognizes the Truth..
The fact is the man was married, and they both knew it. The responsibility rests with both but the sadness rests in the fact that emotions mixed with deception, self-deception, and creation of non-existent fantasies...
May God keep us safe from all of this...and if are in it give us the grace to see it, break lose from the chains, and go toward the light...
May Steve and Selahs families be healed, especially Steves children. May the Lord have mercy on his soul and hers..
May God keep all of us....from powerful deception..and lead us to True Love that is not hidden, that is truth, that is light.....
God and Jesus be merciful in His mothers love...
July 8th, 2009 7:57 PM
Wow, i just read the rest of the messages...and believe thank God we are not God..He alone knows peoples hearts, we do not...LOVE IS STRONGER THAN DEATH...AND MERCY, ESPECIALLY GODS MERCY IS EVERLASTING...HE ALONE KNOWS..
It hurts me alot when we are not healing the world as they sang yesterday, through thoughts of mercy and love...God is the Just One who will handle justice..
Emotions are a very powerful tool, who knows their folly...whether in physical or emotional death...Self-deception is a serious enemy, i have been there...and
it can only lead to slow death, loneliness, and emotional dryness because it is non-gratifying..and can never fulfill ones soul..
LOVE, if true, is an unselfish act...and sometimes, as in all of our lives LOVE can take a detour...as I believe happened to Steve..
and LOVE can be obsessive, as I believed happened to Sahel..
In Africa, as ws mentioned earlier all wives know of the other..His wife did not know about her...and would never have.
I have been praying for them and for many who are caught up in a very powerful..and challenging emotional situation..JUST SAY NO....aint gonna get it...but there is a POWER ABOVE ALL HUMAN POWER..GODS love..that can let us know as Michael sang so powerfully yesterday...YOU ARE NOT ALONE..
May they rest in the peace and love of a merciful Jesus...a merciful God
July 8th, 2009 10:18 PM
rest of the previous comment ...
THINK before you say something .....!!! and what the H .... does that has to do anything about Iran or country or religion !!! there is more crime in United state than any other countries !!! plzzzzzzzz come on think about it over and over !! it dont make sense to me !! if i were her family i would have get a lawer and reinvestigate the case .... why did the phone call was made 40 minute after he got there !!! making a key is the easiest thing in US ... like no one could make a copy of it and set it up !!!
July 8th, 2009 10:19 PM
Most of these coments are stupid ... you all cant judge someone if you dont know them !!! thats true that these two people shouldnt be together at first place becuase Steve was married and how can you gurante that a married man cheat on his wife first place wouldnt do it to u !!! 36 yrs and 20 yrs ! black and white !!! that's fine and they got together and they both are dead !!! fine but this does not make sence at all !!! Sahel was right hand side and the police has said that she shot her self with the left hand on the left temple !!! i have the same gun but i cant never kill myself with my gun on my right temple with my left hand !!!!!!!!!!!
July 8th, 2009 10:26 PM
SHE WAS NOT MUSLIM !!! she was Bahaei FYI !!!!!!!!!! WTH !!! WHF PEOPEL... MOST OF YOU ARE STUPID she didnt do it she was right hand side and she shot herself with the left hand !!! that doesnt make sense !!! there was a third person involve
July 9th, 2009 3:32 AM
McNair should have never messed around with a lil girl in the first place… He had enough kids to take care of as it was! She had no clue on what the ?_ She was good for, but one thing and one thing only! She knew that sh.t was getting old for him!!! So she did what she did bcuz she realized She was the dumb
Girl get N’ played at the end!
So guys just bcuz u have money and fk girls here & there! Just don't be care free u might just fk with the wrong girl!
July 9th, 2009 12:25 PM
First of all this has nothing to do with Middle Eastern and African. Steve was born here in the US so he is AMERICAN not AFRICAN and not AFRICAN/AMERICAN just plain BLACK AMERICAN, leave AFRICA out of this and stop trying to be a part of a culture you have no knowledge of except what you read about. When will people stop putting labels on ethnicity. Secondly he was with another woman and depending on what your belief is about marriage and being separated, he was either separated and trying to to have some fun in his life with a very young immature woman or he was still married and cheating with her. Third she knew he was married because she use to be a waitress at the restaurant that he visited with his family (aka his wife and sons), so why would she believe that she would be marring him, its call FATAL ATTRACTION. Then again maybe he was setup by his wife or roommate? The wife who said she knew nothing of the affair, of course she is going to say that otherwise she would be prime suspect number 1 or maybe the girls nephew helped, he said that she wanted to go to a weapons range to practice shooting. Bottom line two more lives ended in tragedy and two more families mourn of their deaths while everyone else points fingers. Stop bringing religion into this also, this has nothing to do with religion, it has to do with two people who made some stupid judgments with their lives. That’s my thoughts on it and I don’t give a rats a$$ what you think or say…………………..
July 9th, 2009 2:16 PM
Hey, REG--
Enough with the 'goody goody' already. You sound retarded.
July 9th, 2009 2:20 PM
AND Jackie--
you're the voice of reason, girl. Good job.
July 9th, 2009 3:05 PM
Voice of reason?
Please - Jackie is trying to say that it is not cheating if you are seperated with your husband/wife. It is cheating. Please.
It has nothing to do with religion or anything else. It has nothing to do with speeding (which is so stupid - I do read the bible and other religious texts - maybe you should consult it yourself).
Anyway, that is not the point. It is just sad that Jackie - a sad excuse for a female (not a woman because a woman wouldn't so proudly cheat, and say she is doing it for money - that is typically what Webster would identify as a whore). But I digress: McNair cheated on his wife - whether they were seperated or not - he cheated.
Now does this matter in the long run? No. I don't matter. He and that poor girl are dead. She obviously wasn't OK (very sad that her friends didn't think to intervene when she was talking about shooting and killing herself).
As for those of you who want to believe someone else is involved - I think the evidence is there. I don't remember reading anything about her shooting herself with her left hand in the right temple. Why would she do that, I have no idea. But it does appear to be a murder-suicide.
And for the comments about why would someone take 40 minutes to call police? Shock. I mean, if you are not in the position to really know what you'd do, then it is hard to imagine what you'd actually do if faced with two dead bodies on a couch. I mean, I know I would call the police immediately -- I would scream, cry, look around to see who else is there - and need some sort of support. After calling a friend, or someone, then I'd probably call the cops - but my first instinct is not to call 911 right away - I'm shocked!
But to the original point - Jackie - it is OK that you are cheating on your husband and your husband is cheating on you. It doesn't matter what we think. You know why you haven't gotten a divorce to finalize things and why you are still married to this person while you have a boyfriend. Just don't get it twisted, however. You are cheating on your husband, and he knows it, and is fine with it because you guys don't want to be with each other. That's OK.
July 9th, 2009 5:58 PM
THIS PROVES WATER AND OIL , DONT MIX !