Usher needs to grow up and be a man to his wife ,and his children. He was told not to marry that woman, but he does not want her. You can not treat people like that. You need to ry and work it out. All the children in hollwood see their parent leaving each other on a record number that is why they are havein so many problem adjustint that kind of life which is not normal. The hollywood mom and dad's needs to put their children well being first and work things out like the rest of us. Children first remember, or do not have them to cause them heartache.