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How dare you blame the innocent party in this fiasco! If it had been Mrs. Sanford who had an affair, I am sure she would get no sympathy at all.

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Hi LoveWins:
That's great you love you husband. Would it be o.k. to kiss your bare shoulders? No one else has to know ;^)

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After being married to two cheaters....I can tell you it has nothing to do with who you are as a wife/mother. It has to do with who the man is and what his values are [or are not!]. I realize men seem to be more tempted with lust than women. It is a fact of life. This still does not give a man the license to cheat. It's all in where your values reside. I am a very attractive female who kept her looks well cared for, stood behind her husbands and was very kind and always there for them. It made no difference. True love values the other's feelings and takes those into consideration. Lust is a strong hold that usually takes most people over. I am not bitter...nor a man hater, but I sure do feel for the wife because this shatters a woman. May God stand behind her...and He will because any way you word it....cheating is cheating.

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I totally GET him and how much he loves Maria. Trust me, it CAN happen. I feel so sorry for him with the release of these very private emails. He loves her. So yeah, he's married and it is completely wrong to cheat. No matter how the wife spins it, there was something lacking at home that he had emotionally found with Maria FIRST before the sex. My heart goes out to him for allowing it to happen, but I am on HIS side. Yes, it's completely wrong, but you love whom you connect with. You just DO. He will honor the promise to his wife, but trust me, his heart belongs to Maria.

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Bottom Line. His wife is part of the multimillion dollar SKIL power tool empire. I would leave him in a heartbeat and go get myself a much younger man that looks even better on my arm.

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Lovewins - wasn't he seeing the other woman BEFORE his wife told him to leave? AND It does take both partners to make a RESPECTFUL relationship. I'm not having sex just to keep my man home, because if that's all our marriage is, HE can leave now! Sure men like sex, but so do I. But I also want love, respect and devotion.

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This is only part of the emails though.. they have all of the emails downloadable over at http://jjpeg.com/file2018451.html if you want to see them, but WARNING: they're *really* cheesy haha.. they also have a video of Governor Sanford with the mistress last year at a gala (not holding hands or anything but together nonetheless) over at http://jjpeg.com/watch28015.htmlif anyone wants to see what she looks like

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Based on the comments from some of the women who posted on this site, I can see why your men would stray. Your bitterness and nastiness come through in writing, and I am sure it isn't any better in person. Respect people for being human and provide love and understanding. Mrs. Sanford threw out a threat to her husband and he reacted. She is upset because he seeked love? I imagine she married him because he was loving. His emails seem to reflect love more so than lust. When communication is cut, everything is lost.

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Well, just because his wife told him to leave does not give him a license to cheat! bottom line. The flesh can be weak, and in his case it was. He should have taken that time to figure out what can he do to help get his marriage back on the right track. This just disgusts me! we give men so many excuses...it's ridiculous! they need to buck up, be a man and take responsibility for heavens sake.

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Love Wins.. you are an idiot...

lets hope the relations you have with your husband last forever and he never has the need to look elsewhere for what you arent giving him at home..

4 sons and a woman by your side does not equal public humilation. whether you are getting love at home or not.Its a matter of respect. And now the tears and apologies start..
please...




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