The Bachelor "After the Final Rose" Stunner: Jason Mesnick Dumps Melissa Rycroft For Molly Malaney! Comments (Page 5)
840 Comments
June
March 4th, 2009 6:22 PM
Hey---Melissa should have KEPT the ring. When it's the guy's fault for the break-up, the girl gets to KEEP the ring. If it's her fault for the break-up, THEN she gives it back. That's the tradition for giving the engagement ring, people. (kind of like earnest money on a house, sort of) ps i will never watch this idiotic show again. sucks!!!
Kelly
March 4th, 2009 5:38 PM
Melissa you are beautiful inside and out! But, you need to stop letting these men walk all over you. When it comes to love you gotta be tough and strong. Jason gave you a clear message when he said "Molly is a challenge". Men like to be with women that do challenge them and keep them guessing. They don't like to be with women that are clingy and needy. You have a huge heart, you need to protect it by setting boundaries for yourself. So here's to you becoming stronger and to a life of happiness and love ~ you deserve it!
that guy
March 4th, 2009 5:17 PM
why don't you all stop living vicariously thru the boob tube .wake up and actualize some hearts to break of your own.
i think the man followed the pace of his heart which is obviously slower than most here would have had it.
Erika
March 4th, 2009 5:10 PM
Does anyone here really know this Melissa personally. I really thought she was a little immature at times. Perhaps her family is psycho, too. They were the only family in Bachelor history that didn't want to appear on the show. I guess Jason noticed "true colors" a little too late. However, you really don't get to know anyone on a national TV show with cameras rolling 24/7. C'mon guys...Everyone deserves to see if they really like someone after the lights go down. However, I do fault him for doing this on national tv and not in private. He does have his rights to choose another woman though, and if Molly doesn't care that she was the second choice, then that should be her business. I hope for the child's sake, things do work out for them.
vivi
March 4th, 2009 5:03 PM
He has a right to do what he felt like doing but not on national TV. That was just wrong.
Dexter
March 4th, 2009 4:20 PM
Jason is a play boy and thats all to it!! ABC wants big ratings and they tried pulling a stunt that is'nt going down well with viewers.Jason is confussing love with sexual feelings. After tasting Meli he just must know what molly is like. This guy is building his house with chemistry rather than personality, he will never have a good house. Molly I feel sorry for you, you poor child!! Now is'nt all of this "AMAZING"!!!
Patsy Craig
March 4th, 2009 4:11 PM
I can certainly tell the young women have not thought this through, all this intrigue because a man had the courage to face up to a mistake he made. Who wants a woman or a man for that matter, whose parents won't get with the program. Jason did fight for the woman he loved, by putting himself in the front line of all the snide remarks from women to young to wipe behind their ears.
linda m
March 4th, 2009 2:59 PM
I really wish they had turned Naomi lose last night and let her kick that Jason's ass. How irresponsible of him to propose when he wasn't sure who he loved..and then say he HAD to break up with her on t.v. because of his contract. I'm sure that Mel had the same contract - yet didn't seem compelled to make another appearance after her humiliation. I hope she realizes that, even if studmuffin Jason couldn't fall in love with her in a few weeks, much of the US and Canada did. Her parents were right to try to steer clear of this degrading show. I hope they keep her safe now. I would like People magazine to have an extensive interview with her. I'm tired of hearing from the happy couple. And what is it with that Molly ???? Talk about a need for psychiatric counselling. A guy says to you, I just broke up with a woman I professed is the love of my life and now I'd like to be with you. You lay a liplock on him and say, let's talk and go for coffee ???? Coffee, my eye. It was becoming increasin
Noreen
March 4th, 2009 1:57 PM
People, People, come on already, Melissa knew they were breaking up, she came out on to the stage without the ring on her finger, Molly was taken by surprise and I am happy for her, Melissa was not mature enough for marriage and motherhood, she was all about having fun, I personally think that her parents freaked him out, she should have been gone from the show when she could not produce her parents, I dont care what the reason was, Private my but, they were probably creepers. How could you not all see he loved Molly after he let her go, he cried like a lil baby. It was clear to me he made the wrong choice and I am glad he got a chance to make it right, UNLIKE DeAnne.
Good Luck Jason, Ty and Molly, I wish you well
Noreen, Pgh PA
Jude
March 4th, 2009 1:51 PM
I hope Jason enjoys spending time on the opposite end of the couch from Molly while wearing some idioticly ridiculous hat that shows just what a fool he is. I hope while he's sitting there that he looks back and wonders why on earth he dumped Melissa. Nothing against fun and silliness, but when meeting the boyfriend????? Kinda weird. Jason fed the same lines to each girl and played them all. I liked Molly until the last show when she made that comment about never being dumped before. Ya, right. And then instead of questioning Jason about why he didn't choose her first, she's all over him in seconds. Those two fools deserve each other. They are both too full of themselves. How many times did Jason have his shirt off when it wasn't necessary? It was almost comical how often he tried to show his bod. And Molly is just so great that no man has ever dumped her. Puh-leeeease. Melissa deserves better than that low-life. She deserves someone who is considerate of her feelings.
Kimmy Kay
March 4th, 2009 1:50 PM
It's TV and it is a reality show...I don't agree with how the break has handled but Jason did what he thought was best. I never cared for Molly, she seemed so FAKE. Who knows maybe they are perfect for each other.
Donna
March 4th, 2009 1:47 PM
Jason is a loser and a user, and Molly should have never accepted him back so easily. But I do wish that she gets all she wants. I think Molly is a smart woman and she will see him for who he really is... Time will only tell
Kimberly
March 4th, 2009 1:45 PM
I was diappointed that Jason dumped Melissa for Molly. However in the end maybe it was the right thing for Jason. I do not it should have been done on TV, not very classy at all. If I were Melissa I would not settle for second best but it appears she is okay with being second best. The whole thing reminds me of High School games!
kara
March 4th, 2009 12:31 PM
he had some balls to do something like this. well anyway how don't we know they he was paid to do it. he was paid to do the show why not get paid extra to dumpe her. people it reality tv.
kim
March 4th, 2009 12:29 PM
Jason, you turned out to be one of the biggest asses on tv!!!! Your an idiot!!
Linda
March 4th, 2009 12:07 PM
I hope Molly and Jason make it work...I think they make a great couple. When you sign up for these shows, you give up rights to privacy and you know that in the getco. Melissa walked on stage and her demeanor showed she knew what was coming. Jason had a hard choice....granted he should have refused to choose either one at that time, but Deanna told him to play it safe because she didn't. Obviously he listened to her advice. Could of-should of - would have- life will go on and I can't wait until the next show.....I love this show regardless...it's so interesting to see how people behave.
Agneta
March 4th, 2009 12:05 PM
Jason, you are a poor exuase for a man. Your sincerity and aweetness is/was all a fake from the beginning. You are a selfish bastard! Why in the world did you POROPOSE to Melissa as you definately had some doubts when you let Molly go?! And, I am SURE, that you have been in contact with Molly before the show aired when you told her you loved her> If I had been Molly, I would have NOT touched or kissed him as I would have want to know "WHY" is this happening. She KNEW it all along. You both deserve each other (until he dumps you again for "another love of his life"!)And, Jason's family will support him again and again< because "he has been hurt sooo much"! What a dysfunctional family!
GAYLA RAWLS
March 4th, 2009 11:55 AM
JASON IS THE CLASSIC COMMITMENT PHOBIC....HE IS SELF ABSORBED, AND ADORES HIMSELF...THAT PROBABLY ENDED HIS MARRIAGE....WHEN THE CHASE IS OVER, AND REAL LIFE BEGINS HE WILL LOSE INTEREST IN MOLLY....DID ALL YOU LADIES SEE HOW QUICKLY HE WENT FROM HURTING MELISSA TO LOVING ON MOLLY...MADE ME SICK....SO, MELISSA YOU DODGED A HORRIBLE SITUATION....YOU ARE A SWEETHEART, ONE JASON DOESN'T DESERVE...MOLLY,,,BETTER THINK TWICE ABOUT THIS LOSER.....
roy
March 4th, 2009 11:07 AM
They chose to be on TV, of course i'll watch it, it's fun and entertaining, and i'm not the one who's going to be dumped!! Best drama so far, scripted or not!!! look how many people commented. Great job!! I hope Jillian is as entertaining....we will see!!!
c'mon people...it's a show, what do you expect, a fairytale ending?!?! it is for Molly!! says so in her 'book' that she created for jason!! hehehe!!
Michael
March 4th, 2009 10:22 AM
In case you all didn't notice! Jason, had split up with Melissa prior to the show! He and Melissa, had no choice to go through it again, due to a contract. SO THERE YOU HAVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!LEAVE THE POOR GUY ALONE.............
edy
March 4th, 2009 10:05 AM
why are people crying more than the bereaved?
if a lady signs up to date a man publicly with other 24 women, kissing and doing other stuff on national Tv, did they show us what happened on the overnight dates? then she could be dumped on national Tv for all I care.
Lets see where molly will be in 3 months
Heather
March 4th, 2009 9:19 AM
I was disappointed Molly wasn't chosen from the beginning because I believed they were more suited. Melissa, while cute, was always bemoaning the fact she was always the dumpee in every relationship. She just seemed more childish. It was evident in her body language and what she said on the show she knew what was happening. She came out with a chip on her shoulder and it was as if she was told exactly what was going to happen. This was no surprise to anyone. While no favours were done to anyone here, life happens and this was bound to happen at some time. Everyone is so caught up in the moment that sometimes reality is put on the back burner. Good luck to Jason and Molly. I sincerely hope they have a happy fuure. But remember, it is hard to know after a few months if anything works. There isn't time to grow a relationship having only a few dates in a short time period.
lyn
March 4th, 2009 9:14 AM
ABC has really blown it this time. Molly I hope you smarten up and stay home. In light of the actions of Jason Mesnick, it is obvious that he can't commit. You are his only hope of appearing to be normal. If you move to Seattle I hope you don't loose a great job and I hope he helps you financially with your relocation. A guy like hin can change his mind at any time.
Juli
March 4th, 2009 8:52 AM
Kudos to Melissa for exposing Jason for what he is, especially when it comes to relationships.
If the network has any pride it will discontinue The Bachelor.
The only Bachelor I have any respect for was the man who did not choose either of the final bachelorettes. He was, in my humble opinion, the most honest.
susan
March 4th, 2009 8:42 AM
What a shocker!Jason used the oldest trick in the book using the child. Lets see he said all a long he did not want to involve the baby but he did. Thi was his trump card. As they say a guy having a child makes you look sensitive and loving!I don't think that relationship between Thi and Jason is as he potrayed it! That was really fake! Not to say he is not a good father, all the over acting was hard to accept. I have never seen a man act that way! And all the crying! I bet those tears can be turned on at anytime he wishes to get what he wants. Cry Baby! What an ass to dump Mellisa on tv. You got what you wanted now on to the next! I did not want him to be picked by Deanna my hunch was right! There is truely something wrong with this fellow! I am not sure I will be watching any more! I thought that one of the rules were they were not suppose to contact anyone from the show once a choice was made? THIS ONE SHOULD NOT HAVE BEEN AIRED!It was heart breaking. We love you Melissa! She should
March 4th, 2009 6:22 PM
Hey---Melissa should have KEPT the ring. When it's the guy's fault for the break-up, the girl gets to KEEP the ring. If it's her fault for the break-up, THEN she gives it back. That's the tradition for giving the engagement ring, people. (kind of like earnest money on a house, sort of) ps i will never watch this idiotic show again. sucks!!!
March 4th, 2009 5:38 PM
Melissa you are beautiful inside and out! But, you need to stop letting these men walk all over you. When it comes to love you gotta be tough and strong. Jason gave you a clear message when he said "Molly is a challenge". Men like to be with women that do challenge them and keep them guessing. They don't like to be with women that are clingy and needy. You have a huge heart, you need to protect it by setting boundaries for yourself. So here's to you becoming stronger and to a life of happiness and love ~ you deserve it!
March 4th, 2009 5:17 PM
why don't you all stop living vicariously thru the boob tube .wake up and actualize some hearts to break of your own.
i think the man followed the pace of his heart which is obviously slower than most here would have had it.
March 4th, 2009 5:10 PM
Does anyone here really know this Melissa personally. I really thought she was a little immature at times. Perhaps her family is psycho, too. They were the only family in Bachelor history that didn't want to appear on the show. I guess Jason noticed "true colors" a little too late. However, you really don't get to know anyone on a national TV show with cameras rolling 24/7. C'mon guys...Everyone deserves to see if they really like someone after the lights go down. However, I do fault him for doing this on national tv and not in private. He does have his rights to choose another woman though, and if Molly doesn't care that she was the second choice, then that should be her business. I hope for the child's sake, things do work out for them.
March 4th, 2009 5:03 PM
He has a right to do what he felt like doing but not on national TV. That was just wrong.
March 4th, 2009 4:20 PM
Jason is a play boy and thats all to it!! ABC wants big ratings and they tried pulling a stunt that is'nt going down well with viewers.Jason is confussing love with sexual feelings. After tasting Meli he just must know what molly is like. This guy is building his house with chemistry rather than personality, he will never have a good house. Molly I feel sorry for you, you poor child!! Now is'nt all of this "AMAZING"!!!
March 4th, 2009 4:11 PM
I can certainly tell the young women have not thought this through, all this intrigue because a man had the courage to face up to a mistake he made. Who wants a woman or a man for that matter, whose parents won't get with the program. Jason did fight for the woman he loved, by putting himself in the front line of all the snide remarks from women to young to wipe behind their ears.
March 4th, 2009 2:59 PM
I really wish they had turned Naomi lose last night and let her kick that Jason's ass. How irresponsible of him to propose when he wasn't sure who he loved..and then say he HAD to break up with her on t.v. because of his contract. I'm sure that Mel had the same contract - yet didn't seem compelled to make another appearance after her humiliation. I hope she realizes that, even if studmuffin Jason couldn't fall in love with her in a few weeks, much of the US and Canada did. Her parents were right to try to steer clear of this degrading show. I hope they keep her safe now. I would like People magazine to have an extensive interview with her. I'm tired of hearing from the happy couple. And what is it with that Molly ???? Talk about a need for psychiatric counselling. A guy says to you, I just broke up with a woman I professed is the love of my life and now I'd like to be with you. You lay a liplock on him and say, let's talk and go for coffee ???? Coffee, my eye. It was becoming increasin
March 4th, 2009 1:57 PM
People, People, come on already, Melissa knew they were breaking up, she came out on to the stage without the ring on her finger, Molly was taken by surprise and I am happy for her, Melissa was not mature enough for marriage and motherhood, she was all about having fun, I personally think that her parents freaked him out, she should have been gone from the show when she could not produce her parents, I dont care what the reason was, Private my but, they were probably creepers. How could you not all see he loved Molly after he let her go, he cried like a lil baby. It was clear to me he made the wrong choice and I am glad he got a chance to make it right, UNLIKE DeAnne.
Good Luck Jason, Ty and Molly, I wish you well
Noreen, Pgh PA
March 4th, 2009 1:51 PM
I hope Jason enjoys spending time on the opposite end of the couch from Molly while wearing some idioticly ridiculous hat that shows just what a fool he is. I hope while he's sitting there that he looks back and wonders why on earth he dumped Melissa. Nothing against fun and silliness, but when meeting the boyfriend????? Kinda weird. Jason fed the same lines to each girl and played them all. I liked Molly until the last show when she made that comment about never being dumped before. Ya, right. And then instead of questioning Jason about why he didn't choose her first, she's all over him in seconds. Those two fools deserve each other. They are both too full of themselves. How many times did Jason have his shirt off when it wasn't necessary? It was almost comical how often he tried to show his bod. And Molly is just so great that no man has ever dumped her. Puh-leeeease. Melissa deserves better than that low-life. She deserves someone who is considerate of her feelings.
March 4th, 2009 1:50 PM
It's TV and it is a reality show...I don't agree with how the break has handled but Jason did what he thought was best. I never cared for Molly, she seemed so FAKE. Who knows maybe they are perfect for each other.
March 4th, 2009 1:47 PM
Jason is a loser and a user, and Molly should have never accepted him back so easily. But I do wish that she gets all she wants. I think Molly is a smart woman and she will see him for who he really is... Time will only tell
March 4th, 2009 1:45 PM
I was diappointed that Jason dumped Melissa for Molly. However in the end maybe it was the right thing for Jason. I do not it should have been done on TV, not very classy at all. If I were Melissa I would not settle for second best but it appears she is okay with being second best. The whole thing reminds me of High School games!
March 4th, 2009 12:31 PM
he had some balls to do something like this. well anyway how don't we know they he was paid to do it. he was paid to do the show why not get paid extra to dumpe her. people it reality tv.
March 4th, 2009 12:29 PM
Jason, you turned out to be one of the biggest asses on tv!!!! Your an idiot!!
March 4th, 2009 12:07 PM
I hope Molly and Jason make it work...I think they make a great couple. When you sign up for these shows, you give up rights to privacy and you know that in the getco. Melissa walked on stage and her demeanor showed she knew what was coming. Jason had a hard choice....granted he should have refused to choose either one at that time, but Deanna told him to play it safe because she didn't. Obviously he listened to her advice. Could of-should of - would have- life will go on and I can't wait until the next show.....I love this show regardless...it's so interesting to see how people behave.
March 4th, 2009 12:05 PM
Jason, you are a poor exuase for a man. Your sincerity and aweetness is/was all a fake from the beginning. You are a selfish bastard! Why in the world did you POROPOSE to Melissa as you definately had some doubts when you let Molly go?! And, I am SURE, that you have been in contact with Molly before the show aired when you told her you loved her> If I had been Molly, I would have NOT touched or kissed him as I would have want to know "WHY" is this happening. She KNEW it all along. You both deserve each other (until he dumps you again for "another love of his life"!)And, Jason's family will support him again and again< because "he has been hurt sooo much"! What a dysfunctional family!
March 4th, 2009 11:55 AM
JASON IS THE CLASSIC COMMITMENT PHOBIC....HE IS SELF ABSORBED, AND ADORES HIMSELF...THAT PROBABLY ENDED HIS MARRIAGE....WHEN THE CHASE IS OVER, AND REAL LIFE BEGINS HE WILL LOSE INTEREST IN MOLLY....DID ALL YOU LADIES SEE HOW QUICKLY HE WENT FROM HURTING MELISSA TO LOVING ON MOLLY...MADE ME SICK....SO, MELISSA YOU DODGED A HORRIBLE SITUATION....YOU ARE A SWEETHEART, ONE JASON DOESN'T DESERVE...MOLLY,,,BETTER THINK TWICE ABOUT THIS LOSER.....
March 4th, 2009 11:07 AM
They chose to be on TV, of course i'll watch it, it's fun and entertaining, and i'm not the one who's going to be dumped!! Best drama so far, scripted or not!!! look how many people commented. Great job!! I hope Jillian is as entertaining....we will see!!!
c'mon people...it's a show, what do you expect, a fairytale ending?!?! it is for Molly!! says so in her 'book' that she created for jason!! hehehe!!
March 4th, 2009 10:22 AM
In case you all didn't notice! Jason, had split up with Melissa prior to the show! He and Melissa, had no choice to go through it again, due to a contract. SO THERE YOU HAVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!LEAVE THE POOR GUY ALONE.............
March 4th, 2009 10:05 AM
why are people crying more than the bereaved?
if a lady signs up to date a man publicly with other 24 women, kissing and doing other stuff on national Tv, did they show us what happened on the overnight dates? then she could be dumped on national Tv for all I care.
Lets see where molly will be in 3 months
March 4th, 2009 9:19 AM
I was disappointed Molly wasn't chosen from the beginning because I believed they were more suited. Melissa, while cute, was always bemoaning the fact she was always the dumpee in every relationship. She just seemed more childish. It was evident in her body language and what she said on the show she knew what was happening. She came out with a chip on her shoulder and it was as if she was told exactly what was going to happen. This was no surprise to anyone. While no favours were done to anyone here, life happens and this was bound to happen at some time. Everyone is so caught up in the moment that sometimes reality is put on the back burner. Good luck to Jason and Molly. I sincerely hope they have a happy fuure. But remember, it is hard to know after a few months if anything works. There isn't time to grow a relationship having only a few dates in a short time period.
March 4th, 2009 9:14 AM
ABC has really blown it this time. Molly I hope you smarten up and stay home. In light of the actions of Jason Mesnick, it is obvious that he can't commit. You are his only hope of appearing to be normal. If you move to Seattle I hope you don't loose a great job and I hope he helps you financially with your relocation. A guy like hin can change his mind at any time.
March 4th, 2009 8:52 AM
Kudos to Melissa for exposing Jason for what he is, especially when it comes to relationships.
If the network has any pride it will discontinue The Bachelor.
The only Bachelor I have any respect for was the man who did not choose either of the final bachelorettes. He was, in my humble opinion, the most honest.
March 4th, 2009 8:42 AM
What a shocker!Jason used the oldest trick in the book using the child. Lets see he said all a long he did not want to involve the baby but he did. Thi was his trump card. As they say a guy having a child makes you look sensitive and loving!I don't think that relationship between Thi and Jason is as he potrayed it! That was really fake! Not to say he is not a good father, all the over acting was hard to accept. I have never seen a man act that way! And all the crying! I bet those tears can be turned on at anytime he wishes to get what he wants. Cry Baby! What an ass to dump Mellisa on tv. You got what you wanted now on to the next! I did not want him to be picked by Deanna my hunch was right! There is truely something wrong with this fellow! I am not sure I will be watching any more! I thought that one of the rules were they were not suppose to contact anyone from the show once a choice was made? THIS ONE SHOULD NOT HAVE BEEN AIRED!It was heart breaking. We love you Melissa! She should