I wish molly had enough self esteem to tell Jason she could not take another chance on such a wishy-wasy, shallow idiot.I actually liked Jason until I realized he was not in it for anything but exposure. He makes Deanna look like a saint!!!!
d Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:56 PM
i think he said of molly at one point...she's like oxygen to me..i can't get enough..maybe that deep of a love or those super crazy in love feelings that hopefully we have all had at one point...well that crazy love is scary sometimes...seems too good to be true.....he said it was more passionate...he was scared of her career goals and melissa i think was the safer choice in his mind with her adoring him so and she would be more the stay at home mom type...and i think deanna scared him...i think he was favoring molly until then and she was the "wild card" ... and deanna picked the wild card as she said and made jason rethink things...cracked me up that she wanted him back..i'm all for true love so if they last good for them and melissa you are young & beautiful & sweet & will find the love of your life..he was not it...the universe has other plans for you darlin'
andrea Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:56 PM
I am totally disgusted with Jason.I am equally disgusted with Molly.Jason should of had the morals to at least wait until Millissa was out of the building before he started locking lips with Molly.Good luck Molly I doubt Jason knows what he wants.Shame on him for dragging Ty into this sham of a love life he has.Wonder what his exwife thinks about the show. I would be willing to bet he cries after sex.
cassy Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:56 PM
I cannot believe Molly didn't so much as hesitate to take him back and instead sat there holding his hand, smiling and kissing him! That is disgusting, go buy yourself a back bone!! It is soo digrating that you would take back a guy that choose another girl over you! I'm sure it's only a matter of time until he pulls the whole "no chemistry" lie on her just like he has with every other girl! He is such a loser!! It also disgusts me that the host Chris sat there praising up Jason! I will NEVER watch this show again nor are any of my friends!!
leah Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:56 PM
this show was disusting tonight. i too have always watched every bachelor/bachelorette and have never been so disgusted as this. this staged event tonight will not bring ratings up and i don't plan to ever watch this show or any other again. ABC you have went overboard just to get ratings. We have loved and watched these shows due to people meeting and falling in love, but after this one, i now believe that they all are staged and find no interest in watching again. as for Melissa, how much did you get paid to act tonight. and Molly and Jason , guess they think they took home the prize but i hope all America thinks like me and are embarassed and ashamed of a tv show that would mess with the minds and emotions of truly dedicated viewers like this. You have stooped to a new low. The show should be cancelled.
Natasha Bryan Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:56 PM
From the start everyone knew he was falling in love with Molly, but in this situation you have to follow your heart. Which he didnt aviousally, but I think it is awesom that Molly is giving him a chance. I hope it works out for theem so they can be one big happy family...love you guys...Bachlor is awesom...
gloria Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:57 PM
Melissa is too tooo amazing for cry baby Jason. Melissa needs a real man. And for Molly well.....fake fake fake. My friends and I think Molly had to be calling him. Or something like that. They belong together...lol Melissa she should be happy his gone. By the way what was Molly saying to Jason (she goint to hurt you ) Molly a jerk too.!!!
Diane Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:57 PM
Jason made the right choice. I do not like the way he broke Melissa's heart on National TV, but I do not blame him, I blame the producer of the show and ABC for airing it. It was obvious that Melissa knew things were not right and she had the ring ready to return. If things were "different" in the six weeks they were together, and he wasn't feeling it, he did the right thing and broke it off. Why not give Molly a chance? This show is all about finding your soulmate and falling in love and I wish Jason and Molly the best. Deanna made the wrong choice and I'm glad Jason is "following his heart".
disappointedinindy Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:57 PM
This is my first Bachelor show. Needless to say that it was my last too. I do not support the network at all for airing that inhumane act displayed by Jason. A real person with real feelings got deeply hurt. I understand they need drama appeal but come on that was just way too much. Never again will I fall for their symantics. I hope their ratings drop so much that they have to cx the show completely!
mimes Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:58 PM
Here is the thing. If I was that in love with two men at the end of the show, why not just do th respectable thing and end it that way. I am sure his family is embarassed at the outcome. He looks like a total fake! Melissa should have kept the ring, Molly should have told him he was crazy and he should have been left bawling his eyes out..again. The most ironic thing about it all is he said he kept asking himself, what would he tell Ty to do if it were him. Ty, you do not want to take advice from this self centered ego maniac who has no sence of decency. Run TY Run! Maybe Jason would have been better off asking TY what he should do! Yea, lets get new bracelets WWTD!!!
Court Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:58 PM
Oh, and did you hear Molly say, "What about Melissa?" Like she REALLY cared. I believe that this was all a set up and Molly knew what was going on the whole time. Poor Mel, everyone is on your side and loves you girl!
Paula Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:58 PM
Now you all know why his ex wife left him. Jason is unstable and a confused man. Lets just say and hope this was not set up by ABC.. how can anyone do this to another human on TV. He could of broken up with Melissa in private and if he so had a change of heart which can happen, he should of given some time out of respect for Melissa and give Molly a call! But the way it was done i am sure ABC is just laughing to the bank! Well i have watched every esposide since the first bachelor, i will never again watch a bachelor. I am disgusted! and i hope Melissa does not agree to come back on the show. And by the way what was the point of being back Deanna, i saw no point in that but to draw more audience to the show so Deanna you not looking very good here to even agree to come back on the show!! Anyhow, i guess its just TV right!!
To the people that are calling the folks on the show names and threatening them with violence, ask yourself this questions If you met them on the street would you say the same thing to their faces or stab them anonymously in the back from the security of your keyboard!
listen to yourselves folks or you proud to make these statements?
keish Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:58 PM
I don't agree with Jason calling it off on national television with Melissa, but I still think he did the right thing by calling it off... I don't see how anyone can pass judgement to say that he is a completely horrible person for the way the show has ended. Being in the spotlight, people don't completely act themselves, and I beleive that Jason and Melissa are two different people off the show. Jason and Molly had a connection from the beginning and it was probably even stronger than what was shown to the public. This show was about finding someone that Jason would love all of his life, not about pleasing everyone else. Sorry to all of those who do not agree with his decision, but he ultimately had to do what was best for him and his son, and if he believes that it is being with Molly, then I support him and her fully. The only thing I disagree with is that he broke Melissa's heart after her had already proposed to her on national television. That part I think should have been private. Otherwise I believe that love conquers all and he did what it took to be with the one he loved and Molly loves him in return and wanted nothing more than to hear him say that he wanted her back. Congrats to them and I hope they stay together and I hope Melissa finds a man as good as her!
fantabulo Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:59 PM
Everyone of you will watch tomorrow. Think how ridiculous some of you sound when you say you might not watch ABC anymore. Really? Not watching the show, well, that's ridiculous; but to not eatch the network? Really? Because of a TV show? For those of you who think it was staged, do you REALLY feel bad for Melissa? She must have known it was staged as well, and is nothing more than a hired actress! I thought the ending was awesome, and he ended up with the girl he should have anyway (staged or not). Then Melissa calls him a bastard on TV? Hahaha! Speaking of trainwrecks; she let the evil out tonight showing America she's quite capable of being a b!tch, then goes BACK on camera tucking tail on camera in the limo saying she can't be mad at Jason for not being in love with her.
Come on folks... great show, great season. We were ALL entertained all season, as was the show's intention, and now it's over. You'll all watch next year, too.
jacky Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:59 PM
What is Jason teaching his son, that its okay to play with women's feeling. What man does that to dump Melissa on national television was wrong. And stupid Molly - he just broke up with Melissa and 5 minutes later she's kissing him like nothing happened. How desperate can she be. It was so obvious that Molly knew Jason was going to make her his sloppy seconds. And when he gets bored he'll dump her too.
Melissa will be okay - he did her a favor.
Carrie Bray Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:59 PM
You all couldn't have put it any better. He is the biggest idiot ever, and he clearly went along with humiliating Melissa, which was COMPLETELY uncalled for! JASON YOU ARE A COMPLETE ASSHOLE, and so is Molly for taking that dirt bag back!!! you two are perfect for each other! MELISSA WE LOVE YOU!!!
meredith barb Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:59 PM
Give Jason a break! Everyone is just mad because they liked Melissa. If he had done this to Molly everyone would be happy. It is messed up that he broke it off with Mel on tv, but do you think she didn't see it coming, he even said that he had talked to her about his feelings. Anyway they didn't even show us half of Molly and Jason's conversation after he dumped her on the show, which we got to see more on of After the Final Rose. I can't wait until tomorrow to see how Molly and Jason are doing!!!!
jan Says:
March 3rd, 2009 12:00 AM
Way to go ABC. You have managed to show the most disgusting show in your history tonight. No one wants to see a staged fake break up and then another girl lap up the remnants like Molly did. Who is their real mind would do that!!! Well I believe that ABC has just put a nail in the coffin for any future Bachelor/Bachelorette shows. I won't waste my time looking at many staged crap that you offer. Shame on Melissa, Jason and Molly for being part of this sham.
TB Says:
March 3rd, 2009 12:01 AM
Remember how horrible everyone thought Brad Womack was? How he was so wrong for not choosing either woman in the end? Doesn't looks so bad now, does it? At least he had the balls to admit he wasn't ready and neither person was right for him. Jason is just an emotionally stunted wuss who can't make a good decision to save his life. He better hope Molly keeps him, because no self-respecting woman would ever date him.
katie Says:
March 3rd, 2009 12:02 AM
Jason mesnick obviously has no soul.
moleka Says:
March 3rd, 2009 12:04 AM
I was very disappointed with the Bachelor tonight. I had always liked Jason, but if he had any doubts he should not have gotten engaged to either girl in New Zealand. I don't understand why he could not tell Melissa in private that he wanted to break up with her. She is a great girl and deserves someone much bette than Jason. Molly should be careful. Jason is not able to make a commitment.
gabrielle Says:
March 3rd, 2009 12:05 AM
so there we have it. Melissa is the new bachelorette! im done watching the bachelor or whatever else they come up with. this ending really blew mine
llhiana Says:
March 3rd, 2009 12:05 AM
I hate you Jason! you are indeed a bastard!
Alice Says:
March 3rd, 2009 12:06 AM
I watched every episode this season, but I am done with Chris Harrison and this show. Even if Jason experienced what he said he did, why would Jason agree to break up with Melissa on national tv? What kind of ABC manipulation and exploitation is this? How much does Jason get paid to have done that? If he had really felt sorry to Melissa and tried to hurt her as little as possible he would have broken up with her in a dignified and gentlemanly manner - in private. Instead, he chose to do it on national tv. What does that tell you about him and the show? The show does not deserve the high viewings it got this season. I feel duped and tricked. Youe loss ABC, because I won't be watching any more. Not even the second ATFR, not another season.
March 2nd, 2009 11:55 PM
I wish molly had enough self esteem to tell Jason she could not take another chance on such a wishy-wasy, shallow idiot.I actually liked Jason until I realized he was not in it for anything but exposure. He makes Deanna look like a saint!!!!
March 2nd, 2009 11:56 PM
i think he said of molly at one point...she's like oxygen to me..i can't get enough..maybe that deep of a love or those super crazy in love feelings that hopefully we have all had at one point...well that crazy love is scary sometimes...seems too good to be true.....he said it was more passionate...he was scared of her career goals and melissa i think was the safer choice in his mind with her adoring him so and she would be more the stay at home mom type...and i think deanna scared him...i think he was favoring molly until then and she was the "wild card" ... and deanna picked the wild card as she said and made jason rethink things...cracked me up that she wanted him back..i'm all for true love so if they last good for them and melissa you are young & beautiful & sweet & will find the love of your life..he was not it...the universe has other plans for you darlin'
March 2nd, 2009 11:56 PM
I am totally disgusted with Jason.I am equally disgusted with Molly.Jason should of had the morals to at least wait until Millissa was out of the building before he started locking lips with Molly.Good luck Molly I doubt Jason knows what he wants.Shame on him for dragging Ty into this sham of a love life he has.Wonder what his exwife thinks about the show. I would be willing to bet he cries after sex.
March 2nd, 2009 11:56 PM
I cannot believe Molly didn't so much as hesitate to take him back and instead sat there holding his hand, smiling and kissing him! That is disgusting, go buy yourself a back bone!! It is soo digrating that you would take back a guy that choose another girl over you! I'm sure it's only a matter of time until he pulls the whole "no chemistry" lie on her just like he has with every other girl! He is such a loser!! It also disgusts me that the host Chris sat there praising up Jason! I will NEVER watch this show again nor are any of my friends!!
March 2nd, 2009 11:56 PM
this show was disusting tonight. i too have always watched every bachelor/bachelorette and have never been so disgusted as this. this staged event tonight will not bring ratings up and i don't plan to ever watch this show or any other again. ABC you have went overboard just to get ratings. We have loved and watched these shows due to people meeting and falling in love, but after this one, i now believe that they all are staged and find no interest in watching again. as for Melissa, how much did you get paid to act tonight. and Molly and Jason , guess they think they took home the prize but i hope all America thinks like me and are embarassed and ashamed of a tv show that would mess with the minds and emotions of truly dedicated viewers like this. You have stooped to a new low. The show should be cancelled.
March 2nd, 2009 11:56 PM
From the start everyone knew he was falling in love with Molly, but in this situation you have to follow your heart. Which he didnt aviousally, but I think it is awesom that Molly is giving him a chance. I hope it works out for theem so they can be one big happy family...love you guys...Bachlor is awesom...
March 2nd, 2009 11:57 PM
Melissa is too tooo amazing for cry baby Jason. Melissa needs a real man. And for Molly well.....fake fake fake. My friends and I think Molly had to be calling him. Or something like that. They belong together...lol Melissa she should be happy his gone. By the way what was Molly saying to Jason (she goint to hurt you ) Molly a jerk too.!!!
March 2nd, 2009 11:57 PM
Jason made the right choice. I do not like the way he broke Melissa's heart on National TV, but I do not blame him, I blame the producer of the show and ABC for airing it. It was obvious that Melissa knew things were not right and she had the ring ready to return. If things were "different" in the six weeks they were together, and he wasn't feeling it, he did the right thing and broke it off. Why not give Molly a chance? This show is all about finding your soulmate and falling in love and I wish Jason and Molly the best. Deanna made the wrong choice and I'm glad Jason is "following his heart".
March 2nd, 2009 11:57 PM
This is my first Bachelor show. Needless to say that it was my last too. I do not support the network at all for airing that inhumane act displayed by Jason. A real person with real feelings got deeply hurt. I understand they need drama appeal but come on that was just way too much. Never again will I fall for their symantics. I hope their ratings drop so much that they have to cx the show completely!
March 2nd, 2009 11:58 PM
Here is the thing. If I was that in love with two men at the end of the show, why not just do th respectable thing and end it that way. I am sure his family is embarassed at the outcome. He looks like a total fake! Melissa should have kept the ring, Molly should have told him he was crazy and he should have been left bawling his eyes out..again. The most ironic thing about it all is he said he kept asking himself, what would he tell Ty to do if it were him. Ty, you do not want to take advice from this self centered ego maniac who has no sence of decency. Run TY Run! Maybe Jason would have been better off asking TY what he should do! Yea, lets get new bracelets WWTD!!!
March 2nd, 2009 11:58 PM
Oh, and did you hear Molly say, "What about Melissa?" Like she REALLY cared. I believe that this was all a set up and Molly knew what was going on the whole time. Poor Mel, everyone is on your side and loves you girl!
March 2nd, 2009 11:58 PM
Now you all know why his ex wife left him. Jason is unstable and a confused man. Lets just say and hope this was not set up by ABC.. how can anyone do this to another human on TV. He could of broken up with Melissa in private and if he so had a change of heart which can happen, he should of given some time out of respect for Melissa and give Molly a call! But the way it was done i am sure ABC is just laughing to the bank! Well i have watched every esposide since the first bachelor, i will never again watch a bachelor. I am disgusted! and i hope Melissa does not agree to come back on the show. And by the way what was the point of being back Deanna, i saw no point in that but to draw more audience to the show so Deanna you not looking very good here to even agree to come back on the show!! Anyhow, i guess its just TV right!!
March 2nd, 2009 11:58 PM
To the people that are calling the folks on the show names and threatening them with violence, ask yourself this questions If you met them on the street would you say the same thing to their faces or stab them anonymously in the back from the security of your keyboard!
listen to yourselves folks or you proud to make these statements?
March 2nd, 2009 11:58 PM
I don't agree with Jason calling it off on national television with Melissa, but I still think he did the right thing by calling it off... I don't see how anyone can pass judgement to say that he is a completely horrible person for the way the show has ended. Being in the spotlight, people don't completely act themselves, and I beleive that Jason and Melissa are two different people off the show. Jason and Molly had a connection from the beginning and it was probably even stronger than what was shown to the public. This show was about finding someone that Jason would love all of his life, not about pleasing everyone else. Sorry to all of those who do not agree with his decision, but he ultimately had to do what was best for him and his son, and if he believes that it is being with Molly, then I support him and her fully. The only thing I disagree with is that he broke Melissa's heart after her had already proposed to her on national television. That part I think should have been private. Otherwise I believe that love conquers all and he did what it took to be with the one he loved and Molly loves him in return and wanted nothing more than to hear him say that he wanted her back. Congrats to them and I hope they stay together and I hope Melissa finds a man as good as her!
March 2nd, 2009 11:59 PM
Everyone of you will watch tomorrow. Think how ridiculous some of you sound when you say you might not watch ABC anymore. Really? Not watching the show, well, that's ridiculous; but to not eatch the network? Really? Because of a TV show? For those of you who think it was staged, do you REALLY feel bad for Melissa? She must have known it was staged as well, and is nothing more than a hired actress! I thought the ending was awesome, and he ended up with the girl he should have anyway (staged or not). Then Melissa calls him a bastard on TV? Hahaha! Speaking of trainwrecks; she let the evil out tonight showing America she's quite capable of being a b!tch, then goes BACK on camera tucking tail on camera in the limo saying she can't be mad at Jason for not being in love with her.
Come on folks... great show, great season. We were ALL entertained all season, as was the show's intention, and now it's over. You'll all watch next year, too.
March 2nd, 2009 11:59 PM
What is Jason teaching his son, that its okay to play with women's feeling. What man does that to dump Melissa on national television was wrong. And stupid Molly - he just broke up with Melissa and 5 minutes later she's kissing him like nothing happened. How desperate can she be. It was so obvious that Molly knew Jason was going to make her his sloppy seconds. And when he gets bored he'll dump her too.
Melissa will be okay - he did her a favor.
March 2nd, 2009 11:59 PM
You all couldn't have put it any better. He is the biggest idiot ever, and he clearly went along with humiliating Melissa, which was COMPLETELY uncalled for! JASON YOU ARE A COMPLETE ASSHOLE, and so is Molly for taking that dirt bag back!!! you two are perfect for each other! MELISSA WE LOVE YOU!!!
March 2nd, 2009 11:59 PM
Give Jason a break! Everyone is just mad because they liked Melissa. If he had done this to Molly everyone would be happy. It is messed up that he broke it off with Mel on tv, but do you think she didn't see it coming, he even said that he had talked to her about his feelings. Anyway they didn't even show us half of Molly and Jason's conversation after he dumped her on the show, which we got to see more on of After the Final Rose. I can't wait until tomorrow to see how Molly and Jason are doing!!!!
March 3rd, 2009 12:00 AM
Way to go ABC. You have managed to show the most disgusting show in your history tonight. No one wants to see a staged fake break up and then another girl lap up the remnants like Molly did. Who is their real mind would do that!!! Well I believe that ABC has just put a nail in the coffin for any future Bachelor/Bachelorette shows. I won't waste my time looking at many staged crap that you offer. Shame on Melissa, Jason and Molly for being part of this sham.
March 3rd, 2009 12:01 AM
Remember how horrible everyone thought Brad Womack was? How he was so wrong for not choosing either woman in the end? Doesn't looks so bad now, does it? At least he had the balls to admit he wasn't ready and neither person was right for him. Jason is just an emotionally stunted wuss who can't make a good decision to save his life. He better hope Molly keeps him, because no self-respecting woman would ever date him.
March 3rd, 2009 12:02 AM
Jason mesnick obviously has no soul.
March 3rd, 2009 12:04 AM
I was very disappointed with the Bachelor tonight. I had always liked Jason, but if he had any doubts he should not have gotten engaged to either girl in New Zealand. I don't understand why he could not tell Melissa in private that he wanted to break up with her. She is a great girl and deserves someone much bette than Jason. Molly should be careful. Jason is not able to make a commitment.
March 3rd, 2009 12:05 AM
so there we have it. Melissa is the new bachelorette! im done watching the bachelor or whatever else they come up with. this ending really blew mine
March 3rd, 2009 12:05 AM
I hate you Jason! you are indeed a bastard!
March 3rd, 2009 12:06 AM
I watched every episode this season, but I am done with Chris Harrison and this show. Even if Jason experienced what he said he did, why would Jason agree to break up with Melissa on national tv? What kind of ABC manipulation and exploitation is this? How much does Jason get paid to have done that? If he had really felt sorry to Melissa and tried to hurt her as little as possible he would have broken up with her in a dignified and gentlemanly manner - in private. Instead, he chose to do it on national tv. What does that tell you about him and the show? The show does not deserve the high viewings it got this season. I feel duped and tricked. Youe loss ABC, because I won't be watching any more. Not even the second ATFR, not another season.