ABC has gone too far with making this show a fake one. Everything was staged. I will never watch bachelorette again. What a waste of time. I hated that ABC picked jason again to be on the show as if this is a soap opera.
tina
March 3rd, 2009 1:17 AM
A& W-
I don't care if it was 3 secs-3mins-3 hours-3 days later....you don't dump someone on national TV-plain and simple--could he have talked with her prior-absolutely-Did she seem a little ticked when she was introduced-yes-but I do not believe she was told the "whole" story--He never answers anyone's questions. EVER... He dances around them. I have heard that he was dating molly behind her back and I absolutely believe that...But like I said regardless of editing it was the WRONG decision to humilate someone like that and shame on ABC for doing it..
Kris
March 3rd, 2009 1:16 AM
This will be the last bachelor I watch, and for any of my friends too for that matter! After the best ending of the bachelor ever, tonights finale, all nights before were totally ruined by the show that followed after the bachelor tonight. What the hell was that, or if that was the case, why the need to show it and make the minutes before seem so fake. The show caould have waited a few weeks! I would have spit in Jason's face. Melissa was the only one who was truly into him, he'll see. It's only a matter of time before Molly dumps him, then him and DeAnna can live happily ever after!
Jason seemed so emotional, yet had no problem dumping Melissa. What, didn't he get enough in the tent?
What we thought was a good finale, and Bachelor season...... will never be watched again. Melissa will find a man that doesn't run when the goin gets tough, if you love someone you don't do that. I guess all these bachelor men are all phony's. At least make it like they aren't so people don't hate t
Kris
March 3rd, 2009 1:15 AM
This will be the last bachelor I watch, and for any of my friends too for that matter! After the best ending of the bachelor ever, tonights finale, all nights before were totally ruined by the show that followed after the bachelor tonight. What the hell was that, or if that was the case, why the need to show it and make the minutes before seem so fake. The show caould have waited a few weeks! I would have spit in Jason's face. Melissa was the only one who was truly into him, he'll see. It's only a matter of time before Molly dumps him, then him and DeAnna can live happily ever after!
Jason seemed so emotional, yet had no problem dumping Melissa. What, didn't he get enough in the tent?
What we thought was a good finale, and Bachelor season...... will never be watched again. Melissa will find a man that doesn't run when the goin gets tough, if you love someone you don't do that. I guess all these bachelor men are all phony's. At least make it like they aren't so people don't hate t
Rob
March 3rd, 2009 1:14 AM
What a Tool. Jason get a suit that fits too. You are not that big you little weasel. Melissa is hot. The only way you are good in my book is if you have been hitting them both for the past 6 weeks. LOL
I honestly think in all of this-Jason is just a scum bag....he handled himself horribly here and I hope that he soon discovers that he can't treat people like he did. I feel bad for Ty...
still in shock in TX
March 3rd, 2009 1:12 AM
Now viewers may have a better understanding as to why Jason is divorced. So sad that he used that beautiful child to make himself look like the father of the year. Be wise Melissa, does he go behind the back of all the women that have been or are in his life????? During the election, a lot of people quit watching ABC's, Good Morning America, now it looks like many more will find something else to watch on Monday nights. At least John and Kate Plus 8 are a true reality show. Give it up ABC, time to find a new show!!!!
Yron
March 3rd, 2009 1:12 AM
We want the real truth!!!
Helen
March 3rd, 2009 1:11 AM
I hae this show now. I can't believe ABC did this nonsense. What a horrible model for young man. Jason is a jerk, I can't stand him. He is a whiny little baby who probably thinks he will have some career in acting, but he will end up being a flash for about 4 days and long forgotten except being an @#^@^&**(&#. I feel most sorry for his 3 year old son, who has to have such a loser as a father.
tina
March 3rd, 2009 1:08 AM
It's not about knowing what's "really going on" or finding true love...NO ONE CARES WHO HE PICKED OR DUMPED.. It's the way he went about it that ticks us all off..If it's not Melissa--it's not Melissa but don't dump someone on national tv (not to mention tell her that after she leaves he is going to ask the other woman to take him back) and then actually ask the other girl to be with you 5 mins later..especially someone you say is the sweetest girl you have ever met--it makes him an a**hole.I mean melissa is still in the limo crying while you are making out with Molly on national TV--that is why everyone is pissed off not that he changed his mind..and if that is so hard for anyone on here to grasp--you have serious issues...
WELL PUT TINA!!! Jason (and some of the people on here!!) think that all of us wanted this fairy tale ending!! Well we didnt-I wanted him to pick Melissa, but I would have been happy to see him with Molly to if he was happy. TO me thats entertainment. But-from the second that all this drama with breaking up with Melissa on tv came into play it made me sick. He already purposed, put that ring on her finger, gave her the impression that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with her. To take back that commitment, thats one thing-and of course it will be very hurtful for the other person involved. But to do that on tv is just cruel and unhumane. It definitely did not need to be on tv. It made me sick. I dont even want to see the 2nd thing or anything, i feel so bad for Melissa. Why is he on Jimmy Kimmel any way??? Apparently he just wants MORE publicity
Sara
March 3rd, 2009 1:07 AM
Ridiculous!
Jason did turn himself into the most disliked man on TV tonight, in 1 second flat. If he was the great, straight arrow, open person we enjoyed watching this season, he would have either 1) broke it off with Melissa after the holidays in private or 2) tried a little longer than 6 weeks to work things out.
I think he at least broke up with Melissa just before the show, because she was not wearing his ring when she stomped on the set. She was mad when she got there....seriously....ABC really BLEW it here. BLEW IT!
You missed my post about editing didn't you. I can pretty much guarantee you that the 40 minutes of TV we saw took way longer to film, I don't know if you ntoiced but after I cry my eyes look red for quite a while and it takes time to clear up, so what I'm saying is that he didn't see Molly 5 inutes later that was done to fit in the time slot. My Wife an I pretty much picked right as soon as both Jason and Melissa walked into the set that they were upset and done.
noe
March 3rd, 2009 1:03 AM
And one more comment.........Everyone who loves Melissa
Don't worry about her!
I am positive that ABC will
offer her tons of money to be the
NEXT Bachelorette!
Thanks A & W
Good night everyone. Sweet Dreams!
Joke!
March 3rd, 2009 1:03 AM
That was a low-blow....what a joke! ABC literally made this into a joke. And Jason will not be welcomed back to Seattle! I am from Seattle and if I ever see him, I will definitely let him know that he is indeed a big joke in the eyes of everyone in Seattle and everyone that watches the show just like all the others whose relationships failed! He should have done that off the air....he has absolutely no class! No class! What a joke! Shame on ABC and Jason for setting this up! It was obviously planned and one big d*ck move!
kegzel
March 3rd, 2009 1:01 AM
omg... this is crap,poor melissa she can do better then that. jason asssss
Tina
March 3rd, 2009 12:59 AM
Jason just said on the Kimmel show that ABC made him do it that way and that Melissa and him weren't together and they had talked on the phone prior to the show...which I don't believe she knew it was going to happen for one second..She looked pretty ticked and upset.and from what I heard has declined to be on the show tomorrow night because of the embarressment.I really wish he would stop acting like all of us are upset because he changed his mind.I could care less that he changed his mind..He just said what does america want me to do marry her and not follow my heart?..UMMM no we wanted you to not bring Melissa on national tv,dump her and then 5 mins later have a new girlfriend while your girlfriend of 3 months is crying in a limo on the way to the airport. Have some class and don't tell us that ABC made you dump her on national TV...I don't buy that either..I'm done with the show. They wanted ratings at Melissa's expense--well I hope it was worth it because that is the last time a h
Brandi
March 3rd, 2009 12:59 AM
I could not agree more. They knew they were not saying goodbye and thats why they had to make themselves cry and act upset which the stink at. I will not watch this show again either. I am very upset that it all was staged. How terrible to do that to Melissa after all she has been through. It was a terrible season.
genius007
March 3rd, 2009 12:58 AM
Before Jason came out, Molly said a couple times, "that was tough to swallow".
Hmmm...maybe that is what Melissa refused to do.
PandaManda Rank: New User
March 3rd, 2009 12:57 AM
You can have your own opinion entertained :0) thats find with me!!! and I have a real like thanks! I truly believe that Melissa and Molly and even Jason are trying to find true love, in their REAL life. I dont think they are just on there for the ratings. If you do, that's fine, that's your own opinion. :0)
I agree with Brandy, I felt the same way watching the show. Jason is a bastard, I'd like to punch him in the balls for what he did to Melissa. And shes right, Melissa is such a kind hearted person she never said anything bad about Molly, but Molly bad mouthed a lot of people through-out the show. How stupid, and Molly is a skank. She is sloppy seconds to Melissa now, and thats how it should be. Jason is being just as dumb as Deanna was, and you watch he'll get bored with Molly and wish he still had Melissa. What an idiot! And how stupid of ABC to air something like this! Their relationship should have been broken up privately, not on air. I am so disappointed with all of it. What a waste watching this season. Great example you are setting for ty, teaching him to be a dick. I wish Melissa all the best of luck in love and in life, she deserves better than all this garbage.
thanks for your comments, I too hope he'll be happy.
Too many people on here think they "know" what is going on, they don't these are all real people trying to make really tough decision in front of a camera and crew no less, I know that would be incredibly hard, as I said earlier ABC has just edited in the Drama and did quite a good job too!
Jason Mesnick
March 3rd, 2009 12:55 AM
Reason why I changed my mind was, I tapped both women and was able to choose the best on in the sack...
Rank: New User
March 3rd, 2009 1:20 AM
Ditto, Tina. :0)
It was trash and I'm disappointed in it.
March 3rd, 2009 1:19 AM
ABC has gone too far with making this show a fake one. Everything was staged. I will never watch bachelorette again. What a waste of time. I hated that ABC picked jason again to be on the show as if this is a soap opera.
March 3rd, 2009 1:17 AM
A& W-
I don't care if it was 3 secs-3mins-3 hours-3 days later....you don't dump someone on national TV-plain and simple--could he have talked with her prior-absolutely-Did she seem a little ticked when she was introduced-yes-but I do not believe she was told the "whole" story--He never answers anyone's questions. EVER... He dances around them. I have heard that he was dating molly behind her back and I absolutely believe that...But like I said regardless of editing it was the WRONG decision to humilate someone like that and shame on ABC for doing it..
March 3rd, 2009 1:16 AM
This will be the last bachelor I watch, and for any of my friends too for that matter! After the best ending of the bachelor ever, tonights finale, all nights before were totally ruined by the show that followed after the bachelor tonight. What the hell was that, or if that was the case, why the need to show it and make the minutes before seem so fake. The show caould have waited a few weeks! I would have spit in Jason's face. Melissa was the only one who was truly into him, he'll see. It's only a matter of time before Molly dumps him, then him and DeAnna can live happily ever after!
Jason seemed so emotional, yet had no problem dumping Melissa. What, didn't he get enough in the tent?
What we thought was a good finale, and Bachelor season...... will never be watched again. Melissa will find a man that doesn't run when the goin gets tough, if you love someone you don't do that. I guess all these bachelor men are all phony's. At least make it like they aren't so people don't hate t
March 3rd, 2009 1:15 AM
This will be the last bachelor I watch, and for any of my friends too for that matter! After the best ending of the bachelor ever, tonights finale, all nights before were totally ruined by the show that followed after the bachelor tonight. What the hell was that, or if that was the case, why the need to show it and make the minutes before seem so fake. The show caould have waited a few weeks! I would have spit in Jason's face. Melissa was the only one who was truly into him, he'll see. It's only a matter of time before Molly dumps him, then him and DeAnna can live happily ever after!
Jason seemed so emotional, yet had no problem dumping Melissa. What, didn't he get enough in the tent?
What we thought was a good finale, and Bachelor season...... will never be watched again. Melissa will find a man that doesn't run when the goin gets tough, if you love someone you don't do that. I guess all these bachelor men are all phony's. At least make it like they aren't so people don't hate t
March 3rd, 2009 1:14 AM
What a Tool. Jason get a suit that fits too. You are not that big you little weasel. Melissa is hot. The only way you are good in my book is if you have been hitting them both for the past 6 weeks. LOL
Rank: New User
March 3rd, 2009 1:14 AM
I honestly think in all of this-Jason is just a scum bag....he handled himself horribly here and I hope that he soon discovers that he can't treat people like he did. I feel bad for Ty...
March 3rd, 2009 1:12 AM
Now viewers may have a better understanding as to why Jason is divorced. So sad that he used that beautiful child to make himself look like the father of the year. Be wise Melissa, does he go behind the back of all the women that have been or are in his life????? During the election, a lot of people quit watching ABC's, Good Morning America, now it looks like many more will find something else to watch on Monday nights. At least John and Kate Plus 8 are a true reality show. Give it up ABC, time to find a new show!!!!
March 3rd, 2009 1:12 AM
We want the real truth!!!
March 3rd, 2009 1:11 AM
I hae this show now. I can't believe ABC did this nonsense. What a horrible model for young man. Jason is a jerk, I can't stand him. He is a whiny little baby who probably thinks he will have some career in acting, but he will end up being a flash for about 4 days and long forgotten except being an @#^@^&**(&#. I feel most sorry for his 3 year old son, who has to have such a loser as a father.
March 3rd, 2009 1:08 AM
It's not about knowing what's "really going on" or finding true love...NO ONE CARES WHO HE PICKED OR DUMPED.. It's the way he went about it that ticks us all off..If it's not Melissa--it's not Melissa but don't dump someone on national tv (not to mention tell her that after she leaves he is going to ask the other woman to take him back) and then actually ask the other girl to be with you 5 mins later..especially someone you say is the sweetest girl you have ever met--it makes him an a**hole.I mean melissa is still in the limo crying while you are making out with Molly on national TV--that is why everyone is pissed off not that he changed his mind..and if that is so hard for anyone on here to grasp--you have serious issues...
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March 3rd, 2009 1:08 AM
WELL PUT TINA!!! Jason (and some of the people on here!!) think that all of us wanted this fairy tale ending!! Well we didnt-I wanted him to pick Melissa, but I would have been happy to see him with Molly to if he was happy. TO me thats entertainment. But-from the second that all this drama with breaking up with Melissa on tv came into play it made me sick. He already purposed, put that ring on her finger, gave her the impression that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with her. To take back that commitment, thats one thing-and of course it will be very hurtful for the other person involved. But to do that on tv is just cruel and unhumane. It definitely did not need to be on tv. It made me sick. I dont even want to see the 2nd thing or anything, i feel so bad for Melissa. Why is he on Jimmy Kimmel any way??? Apparently he just wants MORE publicity
March 3rd, 2009 1:07 AM
Ridiculous!
Jason did turn himself into the most disliked man on TV tonight, in 1 second flat. If he was the great, straight arrow, open person we enjoyed watching this season, he would have either 1) broke it off with Melissa after the holidays in private or 2) tried a little longer than 6 weeks to work things out.
I think he at least broke up with Melissa just before the show, because she was not wearing his ring when she stomped on the set. She was mad when she got there....seriously....ABC really BLEW it here. BLEW IT!
Rank: Z-Lister
March 3rd, 2009 1:04 AM
Tina,
You missed my post about editing didn't you. I can pretty much guarantee you that the 40 minutes of TV we saw took way longer to film, I don't know if you ntoiced but after I cry my eyes look red for quite a while and it takes time to clear up, so what I'm saying is that he didn't see Molly 5 inutes later that was done to fit in the time slot. My Wife an I pretty much picked right as soon as both Jason and Melissa walked into the set that they were upset and done.
March 3rd, 2009 1:03 AM
And one more comment.........Everyone who loves Melissa
Don't worry about her!
I am positive that ABC will
offer her tons of money to be the
NEXT Bachelorette!
Thanks A & W
Good night everyone. Sweet Dreams!
March 3rd, 2009 1:03 AM
That was a low-blow....what a joke! ABC literally made this into a joke. And Jason will not be welcomed back to Seattle! I am from Seattle and if I ever see him, I will definitely let him know that he is indeed a big joke in the eyes of everyone in Seattle and everyone that watches the show just like all the others whose relationships failed! He should have done that off the air....he has absolutely no class! No class! What a joke! Shame on ABC and Jason for setting this up! It was obviously planned and one big d*ck move!
March 3rd, 2009 1:01 AM
omg... this is crap,poor melissa she can do better then that. jason asssss
March 3rd, 2009 12:59 AM
Jason just said on the Kimmel show that ABC made him do it that way and that Melissa and him weren't together and they had talked on the phone prior to the show...which I don't believe she knew it was going to happen for one second..She looked pretty ticked and upset.and from what I heard has declined to be on the show tomorrow night because of the embarressment.I really wish he would stop acting like all of us are upset because he changed his mind.I could care less that he changed his mind..He just said what does america want me to do marry her and not follow my heart?..UMMM no we wanted you to not bring Melissa on national tv,dump her and then 5 mins later have a new girlfriend while your girlfriend of 3 months is crying in a limo on the way to the airport. Have some class and don't tell us that ABC made you dump her on national TV...I don't buy that either..I'm done with the show. They wanted ratings at Melissa's expense--well I hope it was worth it because that is the last time a h
March 3rd, 2009 12:59 AM
I could not agree more. They knew they were not saying goodbye and thats why they had to make themselves cry and act upset which the stink at. I will not watch this show again either. I am very upset that it all was staged. How terrible to do that to Melissa after all she has been through. It was a terrible season.
March 3rd, 2009 12:58 AM
Before Jason came out, Molly said a couple times, "that was tough to swallow".
Hmmm...maybe that is what Melissa refused to do.
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March 3rd, 2009 12:57 AM
You can have your own opinion entertained :0) thats find with me!!! and I have a real like thanks! I truly believe that Melissa and Molly and even Jason are trying to find true love, in their REAL life. I dont think they are just on there for the ratings. If you do, that's fine, that's your own opinion. :0)
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March 3rd, 2009 12:56 AM
Teri,
BRAVO for bringing some reason to this board!
March 3rd, 2009 12:55 AM
I agree with Brandy, I felt the same way watching the show. Jason is a bastard, I'd like to punch him in the balls for what he did to Melissa. And shes right, Melissa is such a kind hearted person she never said anything bad about Molly, but Molly bad mouthed a lot of people through-out the show. How stupid, and Molly is a skank. She is sloppy seconds to Melissa now, and thats how it should be. Jason is being just as dumb as Deanna was, and you watch he'll get bored with Molly and wish he still had Melissa. What an idiot! And how stupid of ABC to air something like this! Their relationship should have been broken up privately, not on air. I am so disappointed with all of it. What a waste watching this season. Great example you are setting for ty, teaching him to be a dick. I wish Melissa all the best of luck in love and in life, she deserves better than all this garbage.
Rank: Z-Lister
March 3rd, 2009 12:55 AM
Noe,
thanks for your comments, I too hope he'll be happy.
Too many people on here think they "know" what is going on, they don't these are all real people trying to make really tough decision in front of a camera and crew no less, I know that would be incredibly hard, as I said earlier ABC has just edited in the Drama and did quite a good job too!
March 3rd, 2009 12:55 AM
Reason why I changed my mind was, I tapped both women and was able to choose the best on in the sack...