The Bachelor "After the Final Rose" Stunner: Jason Mesnick Dumps Melissa Rycroft For Molly Malaney! Comments (Page 25)
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Jojo91104
March 3rd, 2009 2:23 AM
Can't say that I can't believe what just happen. While watching the show I knew jason had made a mistake. Molly Is the right person for Jason. I just believe that when it came down to pick he went with the safe bet. Yes!!! Molly was great but he most of figured that all they really had was the adventure side. He was to blind to see that Molly truly loved him and that her adventure side was what would keep them together. I just feel bad for Melissa who just got her heart broken on national t.v. When she tough she had found love. I can't say Jason I'd a jerk but he is a man, just like any typical man who didn't know what he had until it was gone. Because anyone who was watching the show should have know Molly should of been his first choice. I just hope tomorrows show is filled with good news!!! If not, Jason is to blame for not choosing Molly in the first place. Let this be a lesson for all!!! Always follow your heart not your mind. You heart will only lead to good!!
gwyneth
March 3rd, 2009 2:23 AM
Holly, u are so stupid. you should be angry, instead, you take that asshole jason back ?? you have no class !
Melisa, you deserve to be with someone better and fight for you. Jason doesnt deserve you. He is a coward.
Susan
March 3rd, 2009 2:23 AM
Still in shock. I was so happy to think that on my birthday Jason was going to propose to Melissa, the girl I had been rooting for from the get go. I never missed an episode and every episode I grew more and more in love with Jason and of course he turns out to be a complete pig. Melissa is so perfect, I think she summed it up perfectly Jason is a bastard. He should have done it privately, not on national tv, that made me lose all respect I had for him.
venesa
March 3rd, 2009 2:23 AM
if i were melissa i would be happy he is a not a genuine guy like we all thought he is messed up. He and molly deserve each other melissa will find her prince. I give molly and jason a month together i really think he is messed up! He lost a good thing.
Jenna
March 3rd, 2009 2:22 AM
For any of you who are true Bachelor fans you would know that more times then not the relationships are never successful. As mean as it was to dump Melissa on national TV I applaud Jason for following his heart and fighting for a chance with the women he is still in love with.
pamm
March 3rd, 2009 2:21 AM
While watching this last episode, I noticed during one of the teasers for upcoming scenes that the engagement ring Jason held was not the ring he chose and gave Melissa. I was suspicious after that, especially after hearing the buzz that he may dump one of them for the other after the last rose ceremony. Then I started noticing how he was crying so much and saying that he was in love with two women and he didn't know what to do. Other bachelors have said similar things but not as cry-babyish as him--like he was trying too hard to get sympathy for his "horrible" life-changing dilemma. I wouldn't want a man who cried that much. I was getting really tired of hearing that kind of crap over and over again--like when he kept saying "when she looks at me with THOSE eyes"--I wondered what other eyes she should have looked at him with or if she had another pair hidden somewhere. THEN when he finally told Molly he was in love with someone else (duh, like who?), I wondered how he could have
Frances
March 3rd, 2009 2:21 AM
Poor little boy, he must be confused. I'm concerned about him
Sam J
March 3rd, 2009 2:20 AM
asswhole.
Lisa Liz
March 3rd, 2009 2:18 AM
What a jerk. Jason, you need some professional help, my friend. You have some serious issues and you are not fit for anybody at this time. And Molly, have some pride my dear. You are so much better than this asswhole. And to think that I was hoping Jason Mesnick would be the next bachelor when Deanna dumped him.
That was so fake and yes we all know they were talking before the show tonight. Playing both sides... But lets think about this... he has been playing this game for some time now so what did everyone think "it would stop" He had his cake and was eating it too. Every mans dream... all the women he could dream of, fighting over him and sleeping with him. First would you really want a man who has kissed every person in the room? They really should be thinking about what he could have given them.... Fever blister anyone???
ladylove
March 3rd, 2009 2:17 AM
Jason doesn't know what real love is. I think he is a selfish bastard. How could you tell one girl you love her, that she's the ONE you've been waiting for all your life, and then change your mind after a few weeks? What a jerk!!! I would understand a little better if Melissa turned out to be a bitch or something, but the girl didn't do anything to deserve being hurt and humiliated like that.
It's insane! I was so angry at Jason, and Molly is so fake, and spineless, brainless. Jason doesn't deserve Melissa. I hope she finds somebody who will truly love her, who would fight for her, and somebody who wouldn't dump her ever. She should've have kept the ring!
laurie
March 3rd, 2009 2:16 AM
I am so upset by this result. When he proposed I thought, "finally, another bachelor couple that is going to make it". Then I seriously thought Melissa must have died when I saw the after the final rose set and tone. I was terrified. I am glad that wasnt the case!
I think that because Jason had been in Molly's shoes, he identified strongly with her the moment he broke it off. It was the identification with those feelings of rejection that pulled him towards Molly and away from Melissa. It couldnt have helped that he was haunted by Deanna's mistep.
I think Melissa is right. He is a bastard for not fighting for their relationship, and she deserved more than to be broken up with on TV. I am sorry Melissa. Unfortunatelly, this time your parent's cautiousness was right.
OMG.....I am so very frustrated, disgusted, upset, there is a stream of emotions that are ai distasteful that has taken over my spirit right now and my name isn't even Melissa....Seriously Jason....how dare you....and Molly, come on....seriously...if he did it to Melissa he'll do it to you as well...wake up!!!! Needless to say, I am thoroughly disappointed with the network, the show, Jason and Molly....As for Melissa, my heart goes out to you baby girl...karma is a bi%ch and Jason will get his!!!!!
Berni
March 3rd, 2009 2:14 AM
I used to think Jason was a great guy. But now I think he's just a self-absorbed idiot! I think he only cares about how he appears to the public. I think he's so afraid of being hurt again that he blew the only sure thing he's ever had and dumped her. Now he's going for all the drama in picking Molly and that won't last more than 6 more weeks tops! She'll dominate him and surely dump him. He's so stupid to think he made a mistake, it's called responsibility. He didn't even give Melissa a fair chance. What a commitment phob. I'm so discussed with Jason I had to voice my opinion, if I ever see Jason and Molly I'm going to throw something at them. He's such an idiot. What a loser!
Jenny
March 3rd, 2009 2:13 AM
How could he not want to be with Molly?
atruebrit
March 3rd, 2009 2:12 AM
Ha, I said right from the beginning that this guy was a loser - guess I was right. What a bloody bastard. I wish to goodness Molly would have told him to go take a hike and he would have been left flopping in the wind with his stupid, fake, pansy tears. What a wanker.
Melissa you are a beautiful person - do not blame yourself. You did nothing wrong and you're better off without such an insecure freak job.
cat
March 3rd, 2009 2:12 AM
Gosh I am so mad this just happened!!!!!!!!I read in the US weekly magazine last week that this was going to happen. It mentioned that ABC was trying to gain more viewers for their show by planning this the whole time! Well from what I can see, they have done just the opposite. First off, Jason your an ASS and Molly your desperate. This thing was so staged in was unbelievable. Poor Melissa. I will never watch this show again. To think I wasted the past 2 months watching this show because I actually felt bad for Jason, is ever dumber. Jason, Melissa is right, your a bastard. I feel bad for your son. No girl will want anything to do with him.
Give me a break you all sound really judgmental, because a man changes his mind?? I am a female and im sorry but Honesty is key, at least he didn't lead her on like most of the guys past on this show, I believe he was truly confused ABC are the ones that made him go on live tv to break up with her. And you dont think some of this is set up, come on get real its a friggin TV show, you all love drama otherwise you wouldn't be into the show..........
Sheldon
March 3rd, 2009 2:11 AM
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Tammy
March 3rd, 2009 2:11 AM
Ok, we dont know what has happened in the last weeks. Based on what Mellisa said tonight. Would any guy want to be with her. She has been a snot from the very first show. She changed and Jason does not want to be with her, no big surprize.
Ana
March 3rd, 2009 2:11 AM
Oh my God! I just can't believe Jason. My heart just goes out to Melissa. I don't know if it was staged, but I do think that if he truly couldn't stop thinking about Molly, then he needed to let Melissa go. I don't agree with the way he did it and I think he owes her a true and sincere explanation. It did kind of seem like Molly knew what was going on from the start and I think that she had been in touch with Jason prior to the show. I really like Melissa and it just broke my heart when she asked "What did I do?". The way Jason looked at her and hesitated to say "nothing", was just so messed up! Although I think Jason acted like a punk, I hope he and Molly are happy together. I also hope and KNOW that Melissa will find a wonderful man to give her everything Jason couldn't. Keep you head up sweetie!
Danielle
March 3rd, 2009 2:10 AM
I have been a religious fan of the bachelor every season and I absolutley LOVED jason.. until tonight. I will boycott the bachelor.. I cannot believe that Jason had the audacity to do that to melissa.. NO human being should EVER go through what he put her through. He doesn't use his brain! Yes, you can't control love.. but you sure as hell can control your stupidity! This was absolutely stupid on his part. He could have at least done it right and not on camera and NOT ran to Molly 5 min later. Dumbass!
Sheldon
March 3rd, 2009 2:10 AM
katie
you are exactly right!!!
jazzy
March 3rd, 2009 2:09 AM
Its redundant but I also agree Jason is a let down. This is the first TV show I have watched in a long time and it was because of Jason but his true self eviserates in the final episode. He appears to have serious psychological and/or emotional issues. I feel for his son. Everyone is forgetting about the 3, almost 4 year old(as Jason always says), boy who has been subjected to this whole circus. In due time the truth (or most) will surface. I am curious and don't doubt Jason was seeing Molly for the past 6 weeks. I would like to see something with jasons ex and get more of his story. How about you??
Sierra Rysdam
March 3rd, 2009 2:07 AM
I am soo mad at Jason right now, he doesn't deserve Melissa at all! I lost all respect for Jason and I hope that someday he realizes what he lost, Melissa should be the next bachelorette, she deserves someone way better than Jason. He made a dick move, and needs to figure out what he wants, because obviously he doesn't know what he wants!
March 3rd, 2009 2:23 AM
Can't say that I can't believe what just happen. While watching the show I knew jason had made a mistake. Molly Is the right person for Jason. I just believe that when it came down to pick he went with the safe bet. Yes!!! Molly was great but he most of figured that all they really had was the adventure side. He was to blind to see that Molly truly loved him and that her adventure side was what would keep them together. I just feel bad for Melissa who just got her heart broken on national t.v. When she tough she had found love. I can't say Jason I'd a jerk but he is a man, just like any typical man who didn't know what he had until it was gone. Because anyone who was watching the show should have know Molly should of been his first choice. I just hope tomorrows show is filled with good news!!! If not, Jason is to blame for not choosing Molly in the first place. Let this be a lesson for all!!! Always follow your heart not your mind. You heart will only lead to good!!
March 3rd, 2009 2:23 AM
Holly, u are so stupid. you should be angry, instead, you take that asshole jason back ?? you have no class !
Melisa, you deserve to be with someone better and fight for you. Jason doesnt deserve you. He is a coward.
March 3rd, 2009 2:23 AM
Still in shock. I was so happy to think that on my birthday Jason was going to propose to Melissa, the girl I had been rooting for from the get go. I never missed an episode and every episode I grew more and more in love with Jason and of course he turns out to be a complete pig. Melissa is so perfect, I think she summed it up perfectly Jason is a bastard. He should have done it privately, not on national tv, that made me lose all respect I had for him.
March 3rd, 2009 2:23 AM
if i were melissa i would be happy he is a not a genuine guy like we all thought he is messed up. He and molly deserve each other melissa will find her prince. I give molly and jason a month together i really think he is messed up! He lost a good thing.
March 3rd, 2009 2:22 AM
For any of you who are true Bachelor fans you would know that more times then not the relationships are never successful. As mean as it was to dump Melissa on national TV I applaud Jason for following his heart and fighting for a chance with the women he is still in love with.
March 3rd, 2009 2:21 AM
While watching this last episode, I noticed during one of the teasers for upcoming scenes that the engagement ring Jason held was not the ring he chose and gave Melissa. I was suspicious after that, especially after hearing the buzz that he may dump one of them for the other after the last rose ceremony. Then I started noticing how he was crying so much and saying that he was in love with two women and he didn't know what to do. Other bachelors have said similar things but not as cry-babyish as him--like he was trying too hard to get sympathy for his "horrible" life-changing dilemma. I wouldn't want a man who cried that much. I was getting really tired of hearing that kind of crap over and over again--like when he kept saying "when she looks at me with THOSE eyes"--I wondered what other eyes she should have looked at him with or if she had another pair hidden somewhere. THEN when he finally told Molly he was in love with someone else (duh, like who?), I wondered how he could have
March 3rd, 2009 2:21 AM
Poor little boy, he must be confused. I'm concerned about him
March 3rd, 2009 2:20 AM
asswhole.
March 3rd, 2009 2:18 AM
What a jerk. Jason, you need some professional help, my friend. You have some serious issues and you are not fit for anybody at this time. And Molly, have some pride my dear. You are so much better than this asswhole. And to think that I was hoping Jason Mesnick would be the next bachelor when Deanna dumped him.
Rank: New User
March 3rd, 2009 2:18 AM
Wow....
That was so fake and yes we all know they were talking before the show tonight. Playing both sides... But lets think about this... he has been playing this game for some time now so what did everyone think "it would stop" He had his cake and was eating it too. Every mans dream... all the women he could dream of, fighting over him and sleeping with him. First would you really want a man who has kissed every person in the room? They really should be thinking about what he could have given them.... Fever blister anyone???
March 3rd, 2009 2:17 AM
Jason doesn't know what real love is. I think he is a selfish bastard. How could you tell one girl you love her, that she's the ONE you've been waiting for all your life, and then change your mind after a few weeks? What a jerk!!! I would understand a little better if Melissa turned out to be a bitch or something, but the girl didn't do anything to deserve being hurt and humiliated like that.
It's insane! I was so angry at Jason, and Molly is so fake, and spineless, brainless. Jason doesn't deserve Melissa. I hope she finds somebody who will truly love her, who would fight for her, and somebody who wouldn't dump her ever. She should've have kept the ring!
March 3rd, 2009 2:16 AM
I am so upset by this result. When he proposed I thought, "finally, another bachelor couple that is going to make it". Then I seriously thought Melissa must have died when I saw the after the final rose set and tone. I was terrified. I am glad that wasnt the case!
I think that because Jason had been in Molly's shoes, he identified strongly with her the moment he broke it off. It was the identification with those feelings of rejection that pulled him towards Molly and away from Melissa. It couldnt have helped that he was haunted by Deanna's mistep.
I think Melissa is right. He is a bastard for not fighting for their relationship, and she deserved more than to be broken up with on TV. I am sorry Melissa. Unfortunatelly, this time your parent's cautiousness was right.
Best of luck to you Melissa,
Laurie
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March 3rd, 2009 2:16 AM
OMG.....I am so very frustrated, disgusted, upset, there is a stream of emotions that are ai distasteful that has taken over my spirit right now and my name isn't even Melissa....Seriously Jason....how dare you....and Molly, come on....seriously...if he did it to Melissa he'll do it to you as well...wake up!!!! Needless to say, I am thoroughly disappointed with the network, the show, Jason and Molly....As for Melissa, my heart goes out to you baby girl...karma is a bi%ch and Jason will get his!!!!!
March 3rd, 2009 2:14 AM
I used to think Jason was a great guy. But now I think he's just a self-absorbed idiot! I think he only cares about how he appears to the public. I think he's so afraid of being hurt again that he blew the only sure thing he's ever had and dumped her. Now he's going for all the drama in picking Molly and that won't last more than 6 more weeks tops! She'll dominate him and surely dump him. He's so stupid to think he made a mistake, it's called responsibility. He didn't even give Melissa a fair chance. What a commitment phob. I'm so discussed with Jason I had to voice my opinion, if I ever see Jason and Molly I'm going to throw something at them. He's such an idiot. What a loser!
March 3rd, 2009 2:13 AM
How could he not want to be with Molly?
March 3rd, 2009 2:12 AM
Ha, I said right from the beginning that this guy was a loser - guess I was right. What a bloody bastard. I wish to goodness Molly would have told him to go take a hike and he would have been left flopping in the wind with his stupid, fake, pansy tears. What a wanker.
Melissa you are a beautiful person - do not blame yourself. You did nothing wrong and you're better off without such an insecure freak job.
March 3rd, 2009 2:12 AM
Gosh I am so mad this just happened!!!!!!!!I read in the US weekly magazine last week that this was going to happen. It mentioned that ABC was trying to gain more viewers for their show by planning this the whole time! Well from what I can see, they have done just the opposite. First off, Jason your an ASS and Molly your desperate. This thing was so staged in was unbelievable. Poor Melissa. I will never watch this show again. To think I wasted the past 2 months watching this show because I actually felt bad for Jason, is ever dumber. Jason, Melissa is right, your a bastard. I feel bad for your son. No girl will want anything to do with him.
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March 3rd, 2009 2:12 AM
Give me a break you all sound really judgmental, because a man changes his mind?? I am a female and im sorry but Honesty is key, at least he didn't lead her on like most of the guys past on this show, I believe he was truly confused ABC are the ones that made him go on live tv to break up with her. And you dont think some of this is set up, come on get real its a friggin TV show, you all love drama otherwise you wouldn't be into the show..........
March 3rd, 2009 2:11 AM
let know what you think of me and my comments
bccanboy@live.ca
March 3rd, 2009 2:11 AM
Ok, we dont know what has happened in the last weeks. Based on what Mellisa said tonight. Would any guy want to be with her. She has been a snot from the very first show. She changed and Jason does not want to be with her, no big surprize.
March 3rd, 2009 2:11 AM
Oh my God! I just can't believe Jason. My heart just goes out to Melissa. I don't know if it was staged, but I do think that if he truly couldn't stop thinking about Molly, then he needed to let Melissa go. I don't agree with the way he did it and I think he owes her a true and sincere explanation. It did kind of seem like Molly knew what was going on from the start and I think that she had been in touch with Jason prior to the show. I really like Melissa and it just broke my heart when she asked "What did I do?". The way Jason looked at her and hesitated to say "nothing", was just so messed up! Although I think Jason acted like a punk, I hope he and Molly are happy together. I also hope and KNOW that Melissa will find a wonderful man to give her everything Jason couldn't. Keep you head up sweetie!
March 3rd, 2009 2:10 AM
I have been a religious fan of the bachelor every season and I absolutley LOVED jason.. until tonight. I will boycott the bachelor.. I cannot believe that Jason had the audacity to do that to melissa.. NO human being should EVER go through what he put her through. He doesn't use his brain! Yes, you can't control love.. but you sure as hell can control your stupidity! This was absolutely stupid on his part. He could have at least done it right and not on camera and NOT ran to Molly 5 min later. Dumbass!
March 3rd, 2009 2:10 AM
katie
you are exactly right!!!
March 3rd, 2009 2:09 AM
Its redundant but I also agree Jason is a let down. This is the first TV show I have watched in a long time and it was because of Jason but his true self eviserates in the final episode. He appears to have serious psychological and/or emotional issues. I feel for his son. Everyone is forgetting about the 3, almost 4 year old(as Jason always says), boy who has been subjected to this whole circus. In due time the truth (or most) will surface. I am curious and don't doubt Jason was seeing Molly for the past 6 weeks. I would like to see something with jasons ex and get more of his story. How about you??
March 3rd, 2009 2:07 AM
I am soo mad at Jason right now, he doesn't deserve Melissa at all! I lost all respect for Jason and I hope that someday he realizes what he lost, Melissa should be the next bachelorette, she deserves someone way better than Jason. He made a dick move, and needs to figure out what he wants, because obviously he doesn't know what he wants!