Oh my goodness!!! I am in complete shock. I think what I just watched is absolutely disgusting. I hope everything works out with Molly because Jason is going to have to go out of the country to ever date again. I watched Melissa on the "Choosing of the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders" show. She was a darling on that show too. I recognized her the minute she stepped out of the limo. She deserves a great guy. Shame on the Bachelor show. I've watched every season, but I'm done. This was painful and unnecessary. I'm sitting at home just plain pissed-off. Jason...you were/are disappointing.
Raina Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:27 PM
I'm really dissapointed in Jason, I was rooting for Jeremy to be the next bachelor, but when I found out it was Jason, I thought, that's cool, he's a decent guy. HAH!!! Turns out he's a crybaby coward. If he wanted to break up with Melissa(whom I totally admire for her composure)he should have done it in private. She deserved alot more than that. But I have faith that she will move on, and if they ask her to be the next bachelorette, I hope she tells ABC to go stick it where the sun don't shine. They help set her up. I'm also just dissapointed in Molly, she just made women look sad and desprate. Poor Tye.
Angel K Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:27 PM
Melissa said it best "Bastard"... Wow... For someone that got his heart broken before he sure has a short memory about how painful it was... How he could do that to another human being let alone someone he claimed to have feelings for is astounding... ABC's exploitation of the situation is disgusting!!
I hope Jason gets it back in spades!! I hope he has his heart trampled by a thousand elephants!! To use another person like that is disgusting!! Shame on you Jason... You & Molly are fooling NO one!! GREAT example you are setting for your son Jason... And Molly... There are words for women like you!!
Brad Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:28 PM
Wow thanks for showing up!
The After the Rose was clearly set up...theres no way that a guy can break off an engagement then 10 minutes later ask a girl to give him another shot. And did you see how bad Molly's acting was...1) she had her hand on his lap 30 seconds after he asked her back and 2) she kisses kim another minute after that...im sorry, but theres no way that would happen. I just hope ABC didnt come up with this from the beginning of the show, cause thats gutty. I can see them jumping on the opportunity if Jason came to them saying he picked the wrong girl. And if he was with Molly since the show, that is jsut stupid...why put Melissa through all of this, shes way too sweet to have to go through all this. Thats all i gotta say...i will never watch the Bachelor again because of this, way to ruin a good show ABC!
ps. Gillian (CANADIAN!! AW YEAH!!) dodged a bullet...no Canadian would ever put up with that idiot Jason...way to go
pss. Jason and Deanne deserve eachother...the worst Bachelor and Bachelorette in this history of the show!
First time Bachelor Viewer Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:28 PM
Jason went from being one of the most loved men in America to the most hated. Melissa did not deserve that on national television. It was low class what Jason did to her and THEN to turn around and ask Molly for another chance right after he ripped Melissa's heart out! Many other less hurtful ways to let someone down than blindside them on TV. It's not that he broke up with her and decided it wouldn't work, it was the way he handled it, very insensitive. There is a reason Jason is single and I think all of America just saw why. PROCEED WITH CAUTION MOLLY OR YOU WILL END UP LOOKING LIKE A FOOL ALSO! As for Jason, after things with Molly don't work out he'll be a bachelor forever, good luck to him ever finding a woman stupid enough to date him!
mackie Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:29 PM
Melissa should have boxed him and kept the ring. Molly should have dumped him too
crys Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:30 PM
Poor Melissa! That is quite humiliating! I guess when you sign up for this type show, you have to expect that may happen. I really liked Melissa and Jason. Jason is still a good guy and Dad. Love is crazy, ya know! Put yourself in Molly's shoes for a minute though. After being so heartbroken and in love with this guy. I can believe she would dream of him wanting her back! I know I would. OH WELL! I hope the best for everyone, especially Ty.
Louise Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:30 PM
I think as an audience we don't know how any of them feel and we should not judge them for their true feelings. I admire Jason for being able to admit his love for Molly and not carry it into a relationship with Melissa, a relationship that would not be based on true love. When not under the lights of the camera I think true personalities do come out! Jason said he tried to get Molly out of his mind, but I think the attraction was just obviously too strong. Why would Melissa want to be with Jason if he did have such strong feelings for Molly?
Gottofollowyourheart Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:30 PM
Okay, so there's a twist to the ending. Goodnees everyone, give Jason a break, he is trying to correct a mistake, before it gets out of control. Melissa couldn't really care, she didn't even ask about Ty when she came on stage, that would have been my first question! Jason is a sincere guy and if you had watched this season you would see that in what he did tonight, he wasn't about to let things go further and make something be there that just wasn't. Give Jason and Molly a chance to see if they belong together!
Megan Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:33 PM
this show is completely ridiculous. I picked Melissa from the moment that she stepped out of the limo and Molly is just a complete fake and wanted to do this for the cameras. Ty didnt even warm up to her at first like he did with Melissa. I feel so bad for that child because of the indecisive father that he has. It disgusts me that ABC would air this kind of crap and that Jason didnt have the balls to break up with Melissa away from the cameras. I bet ABC paid him to do this and that is just plain pitiful. I hope Melissa isn't the next bachelorette because we all know this show ends in a break up, except one couple who actually got married and then another who broke up and got back together. Im interested to see what the After The Final Rose 2 is about tomorrow night, that should be quite interesting!
Deb Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:35 PM
I'm done with watching the bachelor, shocked to say the least. Melissa called him a bastard, I agree with her. How awful for them to put her on national tv and break her heart. For Molly to jump right back to him she will soon find out what a fool she is....stupid show!
Peter Pan Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:36 PM
Jason is a whinny creepy player( and lousey actor ...he couldn't get the tears to flow tonight ) that repeated the same lines with all the girls on every date with every kiss and it surprises me that anyone is shocked by what happened.
What"s worse is that ABC chose to humiliate one of the contestants on national TV and I think as a result the show will tank next season,
Jeremy Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:36 PM
I am so pissed off right now, I seriously can't believe that just happened. I honestly thought Jason was a smart guy, and the dude is a freaking moron. He just ended things with Melissa the only girl on that entire show who was truly amazing. She had the whole package, she was sweet, beautiful, extremely selfless! The girl is amazing, Then we have Molly, lol what a retard, the girl is so fake, i could read her like a book the second she appeared on the show, I cannot believe that he or his family couldnt see that, to her the entire show was a game, i think its a bunch of bs that she says she is in love with him. I highly doubt she even knows what it is.. Jason on the other hand is a complete and utter A Hole for dumping Melissa on national TV. And the whole thing was staged, it was very obvious, and i still cant stop fuming about how angry I am.. But now that the dust has settled, honestly Melissa you are far far far better off without him, everyone thought how great of a guy he was, and then his true colors shined through, a selfish bastard. Melissa you are amazing, and i am still in awe of how in the world any man would let you go let alone 4 :( im sorry hun! wish you the best!!!!! :)
taragibb Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:37 PM
From the fake crying to the over-eloquent monologues, this has got to be one of the worst shows ever. Jason plays himself as such a gentleman, but to break up with anyone like he did shows what a shallow soul he is. The hole thing is a sham, and if I was related to Jason, I would be really ashamed of him today.
HatedTheShow Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:39 PM
Shame on ABC that whole thing felt way too staged, it was disgusting. I will never watch this show again I'm embarrassed that I watched tonight.
Sandi Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:39 PM
Well, whats next ?? How many times is this guy gona "fall in love"!! I dont think Jason knows what love is. Lets get real here folks, its a TV show and most of the guys and gals know exactly whats gona happen in the end. I can think of only one couple that has lasted Tristen & Ryan, so what does that tell ya?? Its pretty much ALL fake..
i am so annoyed right now thats all i have to say.
Courtney Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:40 PM
I can't believe the man that America has fallen in love with, Jason Mesnick, could in thirty minutes become the most hated man on earth. For someone who has been through "heartbreak" himself, I simply cannot understand how he could screw someone over ten thousand times worse than he was. How can you be so cruel as to ask someone to spend the rest of their life with you, promise them the world, then no more than a couple months later break off the engagement on a national television for everyone to see. Jason should have had atleast enough respect for Melissa to break things off in private, he owed her that much.
Melissa is absolutely right, he proposed to her and he should have been willing to fight to make it last forever. She only wanted to be proposed to one time, as any woman would, and Jason "scum bag" Mesnick took that away from her. Melissa deserves so much better than him and someday she will find her absolute perfect soul mate and I cannot wait for that to happen for her.
If ABC was apart of this so called "conspiracy theory" thinking this is what America wanted to see and hoping to gain more viewers, they are terribly wrong. Nobody wants to see someone go through so much pain and hurt, I am truely disgusted that they would even put this on national television and I will honestly NEVER watch The bachelor/ bachlorette or any other ABC related show ever again if this conspiracy theory is true.
To Jason Mesnick, honestly, when Ty is older and understands this, what do you think he will say? I think you are a huge dissapointment. I understand how sometimes you may have a change of heart, but you are so disrespectful as to break up off your ENGAGEMENT with Melissa (THE most amazing girl ever)and then make out with Molly no more than an hour later. You honestly disgust me and deserve to be alone. I'm not a person who would normally feel this way and say these things, I had so much respect for you and cared so much about you finding happiness for not only you but for Ty too. I have lost all of that respect. I truely feel sorry for you.
Liz Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:40 PM
I have watched every Bachelor/Bachelorette episode since the beginning, but will never watch another. Does ABC think that we are idiots? This was all planned and what they did to Melissa is horrible. If I wanted to watch some creepy Fox reality show, I would've done so. Jason, you and your crocodile tears make me sick. What a surprise that Deanna showed up to say "follow your heart."
sue Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:40 PM
i'm glad everyone on these boards feels like i do! I loved Jason until tonight! I can't believe what he did...
Dana Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:41 PM
C'mon people, we see less than an hour of filming each week from HUNDREDS of hours of filiming! We have no idea who those ladies really are from what they air on the show.
However it was pretty shady of him not to tell Melissa before this show! He said they had been talking on the phone so why not tell her??? Was he coached into not telling her for better ratings?>???
Connie D. Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:41 PM
Jason is a jerk! He was mad that Deanna let him get down on one knee to propose and then shot him down. How could he forget how that felt and dump Melissa so callously? I am done with the show! ABC should have treated her better!
Suzyn Says:
March 2nd, 2009 11:41 PM
Ok first off Jason is a Big As*hole for what he did to Mel and I do believe that Jason was talking to Molly the whole time after he purposed to Mel. I think that Molly is just a stupid as Jason if he did that to Mel who is to say he doesn't change his mind tomorrow and want to get back with Mel hell maybe even Jillian!! I'm from Dallas, Tx and there are a bunch of D*ckhead guys like Jason out here and lets just say we don't need anymore like him! Mel just keep your head up and move on you deserve and you will find the man of your dreams* As for Jason and Molly you both deserve eachother for what he did to Mel and for you not to even care how the one he dumped felt about this whole screwed up situation. I'm done with the Bachelor this was the last straw for me way to go ABC:0(
March 2nd, 2009 11:24 PM
If I ever see Jason, I'm gonna sack punch him.
March 2nd, 2009 11:25 PM
Will Deanna be his next choice???
March 2nd, 2009 11:26 PM
Oh my goodness!!! I am in complete shock. I think what I just watched is absolutely disgusting. I hope everything works out with Molly because Jason is going to have to go out of the country to ever date again. I watched Melissa on the "Choosing of the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders" show. She was a darling on that show too. I recognized her the minute she stepped out of the limo. She deserves a great guy. Shame on the Bachelor show. I've watched every season, but I'm done. This was painful and unnecessary. I'm sitting at home just plain pissed-off. Jason...you were/are disappointing.
March 2nd, 2009 11:27 PM
I'm really dissapointed in Jason, I was rooting for Jeremy to be the next bachelor, but when I found out it was Jason, I thought, that's cool, he's a decent guy. HAH!!! Turns out he's a crybaby coward. If he wanted to break up with Melissa(whom I totally admire for her composure)he should have done it in private. She deserved alot more than that. But I have faith that she will move on, and if they ask her to be the next bachelorette, I hope she tells ABC to go stick it where the sun don't shine. They help set her up. I'm also just dissapointed in Molly, she just made women look sad and desprate. Poor Tye.
March 2nd, 2009 11:27 PM
Melissa said it best "Bastard"... Wow... For someone that got his heart broken before he sure has a short memory about how painful it was... How he could do that to another human being let alone someone he claimed to have feelings for is astounding... ABC's exploitation of the situation is disgusting!!
I hope Jason gets it back in spades!! I hope he has his heart trampled by a thousand elephants!! To use another person like that is disgusting!! Shame on you Jason... You & Molly are fooling NO one!! GREAT example you are setting for your son Jason... And Molly... There are words for women like you!!
March 2nd, 2009 11:28 PM
Wow thanks for showing up!
The After the Rose was clearly set up...theres no way that a guy can break off an engagement then 10 minutes later ask a girl to give him another shot. And did you see how bad Molly's acting was...1) she had her hand on his lap 30 seconds after he asked her back and 2) she kisses kim another minute after that...im sorry, but theres no way that would happen. I just hope ABC didnt come up with this from the beginning of the show, cause thats gutty. I can see them jumping on the opportunity if Jason came to them saying he picked the wrong girl. And if he was with Molly since the show, that is jsut stupid...why put Melissa through all of this, shes way too sweet to have to go through all this. Thats all i gotta say...i will never watch the Bachelor again because of this, way to ruin a good show ABC!
ps. Gillian (CANADIAN!! AW YEAH!!) dodged a bullet...no Canadian would ever put up with that idiot Jason...way to go
pss. Jason and Deanne deserve eachother...the worst Bachelor and Bachelorette in this history of the show!
March 2nd, 2009 11:28 PM
Jason went from being one of the most loved men in America to the most hated. Melissa did not deserve that on national television. It was low class what Jason did to her and THEN to turn around and ask Molly for another chance right after he ripped Melissa's heart out! Many other less hurtful ways to let someone down than blindside them on TV. It's not that he broke up with her and decided it wouldn't work, it was the way he handled it, very insensitive. There is a reason Jason is single and I think all of America just saw why. PROCEED WITH CAUTION MOLLY OR YOU WILL END UP LOOKING LIKE A FOOL ALSO! As for Jason, after things with Molly don't work out he'll be a bachelor forever, good luck to him ever finding a woman stupid enough to date him!
March 2nd, 2009 11:29 PM
Melissa should have boxed him and kept the ring. Molly should have dumped him too
March 2nd, 2009 11:30 PM
Poor Melissa! That is quite humiliating! I guess when you sign up for this type show, you have to expect that may happen. I really liked Melissa and Jason. Jason is still a good guy and Dad. Love is crazy, ya know! Put yourself in Molly's shoes for a minute though. After being so heartbroken and in love with this guy. I can believe she would dream of him wanting her back! I know I would. OH WELL! I hope the best for everyone, especially Ty.
March 2nd, 2009 11:30 PM
I think as an audience we don't know how any of them feel and we should not judge them for their true feelings. I admire Jason for being able to admit his love for Molly and not carry it into a relationship with Melissa, a relationship that would not be based on true love. When not under the lights of the camera I think true personalities do come out! Jason said he tried to get Molly out of his mind, but I think the attraction was just obviously too strong. Why would Melissa want to be with Jason if he did have such strong feelings for Molly?
March 2nd, 2009 11:30 PM
Okay, so there's a twist to the ending. Goodnees everyone, give Jason a break, he is trying to correct a mistake, before it gets out of control. Melissa couldn't really care, she didn't even ask about Ty when she came on stage, that would have been my first question! Jason is a sincere guy and if you had watched this season you would see that in what he did tonight, he wasn't about to let things go further and make something be there that just wasn't. Give Jason and Molly a chance to see if they belong together!
March 2nd, 2009 11:33 PM
this show is completely ridiculous. I picked Melissa from the moment that she stepped out of the limo and Molly is just a complete fake and wanted to do this for the cameras. Ty didnt even warm up to her at first like he did with Melissa. I feel so bad for that child because of the indecisive father that he has. It disgusts me that ABC would air this kind of crap and that Jason didnt have the balls to break up with Melissa away from the cameras. I bet ABC paid him to do this and that is just plain pitiful. I hope Melissa isn't the next bachelorette because we all know this show ends in a break up, except one couple who actually got married and then another who broke up and got back together. Im interested to see what the After The Final Rose 2 is about tomorrow night, that should be quite interesting!
March 2nd, 2009 11:35 PM
I'm done with watching the bachelor, shocked to say the least. Melissa called him a bastard, I agree with her. How awful for them to put her on national tv and break her heart. For Molly to jump right back to him she will soon find out what a fool she is....stupid show!
March 2nd, 2009 11:36 PM
Jason is a whinny creepy player( and lousey actor ...he couldn't get the tears to flow tonight ) that repeated the same lines with all the girls on every date with every kiss and it surprises me that anyone is shocked by what happened.
What"s worse is that ABC chose to humiliate one of the contestants on national TV and I think as a result the show will tank next season,
March 2nd, 2009 11:36 PM
I am so pissed off right now, I seriously can't believe that just happened. I honestly thought Jason was a smart guy, and the dude is a freaking moron. He just ended things with Melissa the only girl on that entire show who was truly amazing. She had the whole package, she was sweet, beautiful, extremely selfless! The girl is amazing, Then we have Molly, lol what a retard, the girl is so fake, i could read her like a book the second she appeared on the show, I cannot believe that he or his family couldnt see that, to her the entire show was a game, i think its a bunch of bs that she says she is in love with him. I highly doubt she even knows what it is.. Jason on the other hand is a complete and utter A Hole for dumping Melissa on national TV. And the whole thing was staged, it was very obvious, and i still cant stop fuming about how angry I am.. But now that the dust has settled, honestly Melissa you are far far far better off without him, everyone thought how great of a guy he was, and then his true colors shined through, a selfish bastard. Melissa you are amazing, and i am still in awe of how in the world any man would let you go let alone 4 :( im sorry hun! wish you the best!!!!! :)
March 2nd, 2009 11:37 PM
From the fake crying to the over-eloquent monologues, this has got to be one of the worst shows ever. Jason plays himself as such a gentleman, but to break up with anyone like he did shows what a shallow soul he is. The hole thing is a sham, and if I was related to Jason, I would be really ashamed of him today.
March 2nd, 2009 11:39 PM
Shame on ABC that whole thing felt way too staged, it was disgusting. I will never watch this show again I'm embarrassed that I watched tonight.
March 2nd, 2009 11:39 PM
Well, whats next ?? How many times is this guy gona "fall in love"!! I dont think Jason knows what love is. Lets get real here folks, its a TV show and most of the guys and gals know exactly whats gona happen in the end. I can think of only one couple that has lasted Tristen & Ryan, so what does that tell ya?? Its pretty much ALL fake..
March 2nd, 2009 11:39 PM
i am so annoyed right now thats all i have to say.
March 2nd, 2009 11:40 PM
I can't believe the man that America has fallen in love with, Jason Mesnick, could in thirty minutes become the most hated man on earth. For someone who has been through "heartbreak" himself, I simply cannot understand how he could screw someone over ten thousand times worse than he was. How can you be so cruel as to ask someone to spend the rest of their life with you, promise them the world, then no more than a couple months later break off the engagement on a national television for everyone to see. Jason should have had atleast enough respect for Melissa to break things off in private, he owed her that much.
Melissa is absolutely right, he proposed to her and he should have been willing to fight to make it last forever. She only wanted to be proposed to one time, as any woman would, and Jason "scum bag" Mesnick took that away from her. Melissa deserves so much better than him and someday she will find her absolute perfect soul mate and I cannot wait for that to happen for her.
If ABC was apart of this so called "conspiracy theory" thinking this is what America wanted to see and hoping to gain more viewers, they are terribly wrong. Nobody wants to see someone go through so much pain and hurt, I am truely disgusted that they would even put this on national television and I will honestly NEVER watch The bachelor/ bachlorette or any other ABC related show ever again if this conspiracy theory is true.
To Jason Mesnick, honestly, when Ty is older and understands this, what do you think he will say? I think you are a huge dissapointment. I understand how sometimes you may have a change of heart, but you are so disrespectful as to break up off your ENGAGEMENT with Melissa (THE most amazing girl ever)and then make out with Molly no more than an hour later. You honestly disgust me and deserve to be alone. I'm not a person who would normally feel this way and say these things, I had so much respect for you and cared so much about you finding happiness for not only you but for Ty too. I have lost all of that respect. I truely feel sorry for you.
March 2nd, 2009 11:40 PM
I have watched every Bachelor/Bachelorette episode since the beginning, but will never watch another. Does ABC think that we are idiots? This was all planned and what they did to Melissa is horrible. If I wanted to watch some creepy Fox reality show, I would've done so. Jason, you and your crocodile tears make me sick. What a surprise that Deanna showed up to say "follow your heart."
March 2nd, 2009 11:40 PM
i'm glad everyone on these boards feels like i do! I loved Jason until tonight! I can't believe what he did...
March 2nd, 2009 11:41 PM
C'mon people, we see less than an hour of filming each week from HUNDREDS of hours of filiming! We have no idea who those ladies really are from what they air on the show.
However it was pretty shady of him not to tell Melissa before this show! He said they had been talking on the phone so why not tell her??? Was he coached into not telling her for better ratings?>???
March 2nd, 2009 11:41 PM
Jason is a jerk! He was mad that Deanna let him get down on one knee to propose and then shot him down. How could he forget how that felt and dump Melissa so callously? I am done with the show! ABC should have treated her better!
March 2nd, 2009 11:41 PM
Ok first off Jason is a Big As*hole for what he did to Mel and I do believe that Jason was talking to Molly the whole time after he purposed to Mel. I think that Molly is just a stupid as Jason if he did that to Mel who is to say he doesn't change his mind tomorrow and want to get back with Mel hell maybe even Jillian!! I'm from Dallas, Tx and there are a bunch of D*ckhead guys like Jason out here and lets just say we don't need anymore like him! Mel just keep your head up and move on you deserve and you will find the man of your dreams* As for Jason and Molly you both deserve eachother for what he did to Mel and for you not to even care how the one he dumped felt about this whole screwed up situation. I'm done with the Bachelor this was the last straw for me way to go ABC:0(