Jason Mesnick-Melissa Rycroft Emails Revealed! Comments (Page 2)
86 Comments
Anna Dolabchian
March 27th, 2009 7:56 PM
First of all, to do this in front of millions of people watching live, it is very inappropriate and cruel to do that to someone that you were engaged to. There is a proper way of handling things. He could have broke off the engagement behind the scenes and then come on the air and announce the news that they broke off the engagement and that he is having a change of heart. I am disgusted about this whole thing because I can see that people that go on these shows they are nothing but crooks. I don't think they are functioning and they are not able to make decisions on their own, just fooling people and taking advantage of them. I think Molly did was a huge step. Very few women will take that kind of a man back after getting dumped. After what he did to Melissa it shows that he is not a stable man and is not capable of making his own decisions. Seeing that, it also tells the person that he can do the same thing to another woman. He doesn't seem a sincere person at all. What h
Ash
March 25th, 2009 11:02 PM
I too have lost all respect for Jason. There are no excuses, the way he did what he did was just completely wrong. I wish all the best to Melissa, Jason doesn't deserve a gem like her.
Lu'isa
March 21st, 2009 9:06 PM
I am sorry BUT Molly has to be the MOST stupid person on earth!!!!
Chris
March 19th, 2009 12:16 AM
I have no respect for Molly. She's a shame to all women. Get a hold of yourself woman - can you really be with a man that treats your fellow girls like rubbish? also for Jason, how do you tell your 4 years old son in the future that this is the story of how you met his step-mother. if i were Ty, i will lose all respect for you as a father. How could you do this to your son???? Not asking for you to not follow your heart, but do it appropriately. BE A MAN and show your son YOU ARE A MAN. If your son grows up looking up to you as role model, you wouldnt be too happy with what kind of guy he becomes, and I WOULD NEVER EVER want my daughter to date a MESNICK.
Lexy
March 18th, 2009 10:05 PM
Come on people...just let Jason and Molly be happy and leave them alone!!! They are "for real" and they will last as a couple. As far as Melissa...what Jason did was wrong, but people make mistakes. I think it's MUCH better that he did it so quickly rather than wait a long time and allow Molly's feelings to change and Melissa to think that they could countinue on. I do think that he should have spoken to her privately and NOT ON NATHIONAL TELIVISION!!!!!(god that made me soooo pissed!) But still, he did'nt want to lead Melissa on...and he was right to break up with her. And with Molly...I knew all along that Jason was attracted to her and I think that he should have taken a longer time to think before he said goodbye to Molly and purpose to Melissa, Molly was heart-broken when she left and then Jason just swiched feelings on everyone and broke Melissa's heart and wanted Molly!!! The bottom line is that Jason should have taken time before making his desition on the finale, if not that h
DefenderOfJasonMesnick
March 17th, 2009 12:30 AM
I definitely am siding with Jason and Molly against Melissa Rycroft and her fans. Jason is a free man and has every God given right to choose whoever seems right for him in his own eyes. Maybe his manner of choosing wasn't the best, but it's HIS choice, HIS alone. Also, the fact Melissa used to be a cheerleader makes a very black mark next to my scorecard on her. Cheerleader=Snot=Melissa Rycroft and her defenders here and elsewhere.
I hereby issue an injunction against Ms. Rycroft and against her defenders who read this. They are now permanently enjoined and restrained from making anymore derogatory remarks about Mr. Mesnick or his new fiancee Molly here or anywhere else, public or private. They shall only say favorable things about Mr. Mesnick or Ms. Mallaly or be silent.
Sara
March 14th, 2009 12:41 AM
OH MY FREAKIN GOODNESS! Give it a break people. You and I both know that people change and the heart changes and there ain't nuttin' we can do about that. It kinda sucks how it all played out, but it is what it is.
Megan
March 12th, 2009 10:27 PM
Melissa- dont be mad because jason is a total jerk and everyone has a bad time like that! well not really on t.v.! but im sure that you will fing a better man that wikk love you for who you are! you are awesome melissa! take good care! and by the way i am like your # 1 fan and on my computer you are my new screen saver!
J IDDINS
March 10th, 2009 6:01 AM
I was hoping that Melissa would win from the start; however, as the season rolled on, I prayed that he would NOT pick her. Why, you say? Because he seemed like a real slime ball at every one of his dates. He couldn't wait to open his mouth and go in for the 'big kiss' with everyone! If he really had deep feelings for 2 of them, how could he act like that with ALL of them?
Melissa, I'm sure you already realize how lucky you were. And Molly: how could you say yes to this guy who obviously can't figure out his own mind!
Meghann Scully
March 9th, 2009 11:53 PM
I read about what Jason was supposed to do to Melissa in a magazine...you know one of those Celeb rag mags but silly me I thought it was fake. so when I was watching the show I knew it might happen but it did not prepare me for how I felt, and I will admit I cried, almost like I was crying for Melissa too. I have been there, no not an engagment breaking off but always being the Dumpee..i feel as if Melissa and I are kindred spirts and although I will never meet her I wil wish the bast for her always
Dawn Reznicek
March 9th, 2009 7:50 PM
I think Jason did the right thing. He followed his heart, but I think breaking it off on national TV could have been avoided. We should not judge his decesion until we have been in his shoes. You could tell he was hurt as well and does not seem to be a man that would hurt someone on purpose. Give him a break. He has a child involved and has to make 100% sure that the women he chooses also affects his son. Jason you go on with your life and who cares what other people think. Thanks Dawn in South Dakota
fishing for info??
March 9th, 2009 1:50 PM
Does anyone stop and think that all of these people are just in it for thier 15 minutes of fame? Why else would a "broken hearted" Melissa so quickly jump (or should I say dance) into another reality show. If she didn't like the spotlight (not wanting to appear on ATR 2 or any other talk show other than Ellen) why would she be going on Dancing With The Stars?
As for Jason & Molly, she might have suspected he wanted her back, but Jason didn't know for sure if she wanted him back. Why else would Chris Harrison keep asking her what she would do if Jason said he wanter her back? He was fishing for information for Jason's benefit. Jason didn't want to take the chance of her rejecting him and looking like a bigger jerk.
Anyway, that's my two cents!!
guest
March 9th, 2009 12:37 PM
I absolutely LOVED jason. I said LOVED. Not anymore!!! I LOVE Melissa. I couldn't believe him and he's a complete and utter JERK. Can't believe he did that to Ty! Molly looked liked she didn't even know what a frisbee was and Ty looked like he didn't want to have anything to do with Molly. Melissa is absolutely gorgeous and has the best personality, not fake and not stiff looking.
Mimi
March 8th, 2009 9:53 PM
I also recall about what Dido said - Melissa not being treated well by the guys she dated in the past. It's something to ponder upon. We may say she is a nice person - she seems like it. We blame Jason for his fickle mindedness. There could be something that we don't know about Melissa.
Dido
March 8th, 2009 9:50 PM
If I remember correctly during the show - home town visit when Melissa's family did not meet Jason. I remember the show narrator or whoever said that Melissa was never treated nicely by her ex-boyfriends. Jason did not treat her well either. We may blame Jason for changing his mind or whatever. But what about Melissa - why did the guys (including Jason) she dated did not treat her well?
Paula
March 8th, 2009 8:21 PM
People should not tell others how to live their lives.
Making a committment should only reflect your feelings.
The final decision should come from your heart and that
is what Jason did when he selected Mollie.
SaraLee
March 8th, 2009 3:56 PM
Jason says he was being pressured...watev...
rebecca(bex)
March 8th, 2009 3:53 PM
I hate Jason Mesnick for what he did...and that bitch he replaced Mel with cannot call herself Ty's stepmother...she will ruin both of their lives...DeAnna wouldn't want him back...and speaking of DeAnna...Jason did so much worse than her...he was whining that DeAnna led him on...he is a jerk...I hope Mel finds a husband that will comfort her and be their for her...go to hell JASON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Pat Bosscher
March 8th, 2009 12:02 PM
I don't think any of us can know how hard it was for Jason to handle a difficult situation on a public stage. He has apologized for how he handled things and I sincerely wish he and Molly the best. Who knows, with all the controversy, they may be the first "Batchelor" couple to actually make it. How easy it is for everyone to judge - the three of them signed up for a reality TV show - they knew things might get difficult. It seems like Melissa didn't have any trouble moving on to a new relationship so why not give Jason and Molly a chance as well.
vivian
March 8th, 2009 3:01 AM
I seriously doubt that the twists and turns of the show were scripted by the producers. I see no evidence for that. I think the people insisting that it was scripted are simply threatened by the idea that romantic feelings can change so quickly and so decisively. No relationship is safe if that is true. Any of us can be hurt in love at any time. People always love to malign "the other woman", but I thought Molly was a classy lady. She did nothing wrong. She and Jason may have talked or emailed during the 6 weeks after the final rose, but I don't think they were seeing each other. Something was lacking for Jason in his relationship with Melissa and we don't know what it was. The situation with her parents was certainly strange. Nonetheless, I hope Jason and Molly stay together and that Melissa finds someone else to love.
vivian
March 8th, 2009 1:47 AM
I don't understand why some of you are in such a tizzy because Molly agreed to give Jason another chance. Why wouldn't she ? She cared deeply for him and admired and respected him. She could see from watching his reaction after she left on the FR day how much he cared about her. I think she was truly shocked that he didn't pick her but she had a very classy response: not "how could you do this to me" but instead she was worried about HIM, that he was making a mistake with Melissa. To say she shouldn't have kissed him because Melissa "sat on the same couch" is ridiculous!
vivian
March 8th, 2009 1:38 AM
I think those who are maligning Jason are way off base. Maybe I am just less cynical and jaded than most. I think Jason for the most part acted in accordance with his true feelings at the time. The show put tremendous pressure on Jason (& the others) to get to an engagement by the end of the show. They even send over this person to try to get him to pick a ring, which the show pays for. In not spelling out in any detail the reasons for his change of heart concerning Melissa, I think Jason may have been doing Melissa a favor. He refused to air the actual reasons for the relationship's failure and that showed considerable class and restraint.
kas
March 7th, 2009 9:09 PM
well jason you did want your heart told you want to do.jason i really thnk that melissa is a little to young to become a step mom you really made the right choice with molly. good luck
Disapointed
March 7th, 2009 9:07 PM
Guys, Jason has issues and can easily be manipulated. Melissa was "my girl" from the start and I am happy she did not let me down. The Punk, Jason, deserves a slap, but Melissa being a lady, maintained her dignity and integrity. Can't say the same for Molly...she played her cards to the end. She placed the "no back bone" Jason in a world-wind after being REJECTED when she told him he was making a mistake in not choosing her. But...let's hope that "what goes around, comes around" does not catch up with her.
ann
March 7th, 2009 8:03 PM
how long will it be before jason decides he made a mistake and wants melissa back
March 27th, 2009 7:56 PM
First of all, to do this in front of millions of people watching live, it is very inappropriate and cruel to do that to someone that you were engaged to. There is a proper way of handling things. He could have broke off the engagement behind the scenes and then come on the air and announce the news that they broke off the engagement and that he is having a change of heart. I am disgusted about this whole thing because I can see that people that go on these shows they are nothing but crooks. I don't think they are functioning and they are not able to make decisions on their own, just fooling people and taking advantage of them. I think Molly did was a huge step. Very few women will take that kind of a man back after getting dumped. After what he did to Melissa it shows that he is not a stable man and is not capable of making his own decisions. Seeing that, it also tells the person that he can do the same thing to another woman. He doesn't seem a sincere person at all. What h
March 25th, 2009 11:02 PM
I too have lost all respect for Jason. There are no excuses, the way he did what he did was just completely wrong. I wish all the best to Melissa, Jason doesn't deserve a gem like her.
March 21st, 2009 9:06 PM
I am sorry BUT Molly has to be the MOST stupid person on earth!!!!
March 19th, 2009 12:16 AM
I have no respect for Molly. She's a shame to all women. Get a hold of yourself woman - can you really be with a man that treats your fellow girls like rubbish? also for Jason, how do you tell your 4 years old son in the future that this is the story of how you met his step-mother. if i were Ty, i will lose all respect for you as a father. How could you do this to your son???? Not asking for you to not follow your heart, but do it appropriately. BE A MAN and show your son YOU ARE A MAN. If your son grows up looking up to you as role model, you wouldnt be too happy with what kind of guy he becomes, and I WOULD NEVER EVER want my daughter to date a MESNICK.
March 18th, 2009 10:05 PM
Come on people...just let Jason and Molly be happy and leave them alone!!! They are "for real" and they will last as a couple. As far as Melissa...what Jason did was wrong, but people make mistakes. I think it's MUCH better that he did it so quickly rather than wait a long time and allow Molly's feelings to change and Melissa to think that they could countinue on. I do think that he should have spoken to her privately and NOT ON NATHIONAL TELIVISION!!!!!(god that made me soooo pissed!) But still, he did'nt want to lead Melissa on...and he was right to break up with her. And with Molly...I knew all along that Jason was attracted to her and I think that he should have taken a longer time to think before he said goodbye to Molly and purpose to Melissa, Molly was heart-broken when she left and then Jason just swiched feelings on everyone and broke Melissa's heart and wanted Molly!!! The bottom line is that Jason should have taken time before making his desition on the finale, if not that h
March 17th, 2009 12:30 AM
I definitely am siding with Jason and Molly against Melissa Rycroft and her fans. Jason is a free man and has every God given right to choose whoever seems right for him in his own eyes. Maybe his manner of choosing wasn't the best, but it's HIS choice, HIS alone. Also, the fact Melissa used to be a cheerleader makes a very black mark next to my scorecard on her. Cheerleader=Snot=Melissa Rycroft and her defenders here and elsewhere.
I hereby issue an injunction against Ms. Rycroft and against her defenders who read this. They are now permanently enjoined and restrained from making anymore derogatory remarks about Mr. Mesnick or his new fiancee Molly here or anywhere else, public or private. They shall only say favorable things about Mr. Mesnick or Ms. Mallaly or be silent.
March 14th, 2009 12:41 AM
OH MY FREAKIN GOODNESS! Give it a break people. You and I both know that people change and the heart changes and there ain't nuttin' we can do about that. It kinda sucks how it all played out, but it is what it is.
March 12th, 2009 10:27 PM
Melissa- dont be mad because jason is a total jerk and everyone has a bad time like that! well not really on t.v.! but im sure that you will fing a better man that wikk love you for who you are! you are awesome melissa! take good care! and by the way i am like your # 1 fan and on my computer you are my new screen saver!
March 10th, 2009 6:01 AM
I was hoping that Melissa would win from the start; however, as the season rolled on, I prayed that he would NOT pick her. Why, you say? Because he seemed like a real slime ball at every one of his dates. He couldn't wait to open his mouth and go in for the 'big kiss' with everyone! If he really had deep feelings for 2 of them, how could he act like that with ALL of them?
Melissa, I'm sure you already realize how lucky you were. And Molly: how could you say yes to this guy who obviously can't figure out his own mind!
March 9th, 2009 11:53 PM
I read about what Jason was supposed to do to Melissa in a magazine...you know one of those Celeb rag mags but silly me I thought it was fake. so when I was watching the show I knew it might happen but it did not prepare me for how I felt, and I will admit I cried, almost like I was crying for Melissa too. I have been there, no not an engagment breaking off but always being the Dumpee..i feel as if Melissa and I are kindred spirts and although I will never meet her I wil wish the bast for her always
March 9th, 2009 7:50 PM
I think Jason did the right thing. He followed his heart, but I think breaking it off on national TV could have been avoided. We should not judge his decesion until we have been in his shoes. You could tell he was hurt as well and does not seem to be a man that would hurt someone on purpose. Give him a break. He has a child involved and has to make 100% sure that the women he chooses also affects his son. Jason you go on with your life and who cares what other people think. Thanks Dawn in South Dakota
March 9th, 2009 1:50 PM
Does anyone stop and think that all of these people are just in it for thier 15 minutes of fame? Why else would a "broken hearted" Melissa so quickly jump (or should I say dance) into another reality show. If she didn't like the spotlight (not wanting to appear on ATR 2 or any other talk show other than Ellen) why would she be going on Dancing With The Stars?
As for Jason & Molly, she might have suspected he wanted her back, but Jason didn't know for sure if she wanted him back. Why else would Chris Harrison keep asking her what she would do if Jason said he wanter her back? He was fishing for information for Jason's benefit. Jason didn't want to take the chance of her rejecting him and looking like a bigger jerk.
Anyway, that's my two cents!!
March 9th, 2009 12:37 PM
I absolutely LOVED jason. I said LOVED. Not anymore!!! I LOVE Melissa. I couldn't believe him and he's a complete and utter JERK. Can't believe he did that to Ty! Molly looked liked she didn't even know what a frisbee was and Ty looked like he didn't want to have anything to do with Molly. Melissa is absolutely gorgeous and has the best personality, not fake and not stiff looking.
March 8th, 2009 9:53 PM
I also recall about what Dido said - Melissa not being treated well by the guys she dated in the past. It's something to ponder upon. We may say she is a nice person - she seems like it. We blame Jason for his fickle mindedness. There could be something that we don't know about Melissa.
March 8th, 2009 9:50 PM
If I remember correctly during the show - home town visit when Melissa's family did not meet Jason. I remember the show narrator or whoever said that Melissa was never treated nicely by her ex-boyfriends. Jason did not treat her well either. We may blame Jason for changing his mind or whatever. But what about Melissa - why did the guys (including Jason) she dated did not treat her well?
March 8th, 2009 8:21 PM
People should not tell others how to live their lives.
Making a committment should only reflect your feelings.
The final decision should come from your heart and that
is what Jason did when he selected Mollie.
March 8th, 2009 3:56 PM
Jason says he was being pressured...watev...
March 8th, 2009 3:53 PM
I hate Jason Mesnick for what he did...and that bitch he replaced Mel with cannot call herself Ty's stepmother...she will ruin both of their lives...DeAnna wouldn't want him back...and speaking of DeAnna...Jason did so much worse than her...he was whining that DeAnna led him on...he is a jerk...I hope Mel finds a husband that will comfort her and be their for her...go to hell JASON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
March 8th, 2009 12:02 PM
I don't think any of us can know how hard it was for Jason to handle a difficult situation on a public stage. He has apologized for how he handled things and I sincerely wish he and Molly the best. Who knows, with all the controversy, they may be the first "Batchelor" couple to actually make it. How easy it is for everyone to judge - the three of them signed up for a reality TV show - they knew things might get difficult. It seems like Melissa didn't have any trouble moving on to a new relationship so why not give Jason and Molly a chance as well.
March 8th, 2009 3:01 AM
I seriously doubt that the twists and turns of the show were scripted by the producers. I see no evidence for that. I think the people insisting that it was scripted are simply threatened by the idea that romantic feelings can change so quickly and so decisively. No relationship is safe if that is true. Any of us can be hurt in love at any time. People always love to malign "the other woman", but I thought Molly was a classy lady. She did nothing wrong. She and Jason may have talked or emailed during the 6 weeks after the final rose, but I don't think they were seeing each other. Something was lacking for Jason in his relationship with Melissa and we don't know what it was. The situation with her parents was certainly strange. Nonetheless, I hope Jason and Molly stay together and that Melissa finds someone else to love.
March 8th, 2009 1:47 AM
I don't understand why some of you are in such a tizzy because Molly agreed to give Jason another chance. Why wouldn't she ? She cared deeply for him and admired and respected him. She could see from watching his reaction after she left on the FR day how much he cared about her. I think she was truly shocked that he didn't pick her but she had a very classy response: not "how could you do this to me" but instead she was worried about HIM, that he was making a mistake with Melissa. To say she shouldn't have kissed him because Melissa "sat on the same couch" is ridiculous!
March 8th, 2009 1:38 AM
I think those who are maligning Jason are way off base. Maybe I am just less cynical and jaded than most. I think Jason for the most part acted in accordance with his true feelings at the time. The show put tremendous pressure on Jason (& the others) to get to an engagement by the end of the show. They even send over this person to try to get him to pick a ring, which the show pays for. In not spelling out in any detail the reasons for his change of heart concerning Melissa, I think Jason may have been doing Melissa a favor. He refused to air the actual reasons for the relationship's failure and that showed considerable class and restraint.
March 7th, 2009 9:09 PM
well jason you did want your heart told you want to do.jason i really thnk that melissa is a little to young to become a step mom you really made the right choice with molly. good luck
March 7th, 2009 9:07 PM
Guys, Jason has issues and can easily be manipulated. Melissa was "my girl" from the start and I am happy she did not let me down. The Punk, Jason, deserves a slap, but Melissa being a lady, maintained her dignity and integrity. Can't say the same for Molly...she played her cards to the end. She placed the "no back bone" Jason in a world-wind after being REJECTED when she told him he was making a mistake in not choosing her. But...let's hope that "what goes around, comes around" does not catch up with her.
March 7th, 2009 8:03 PM
how long will it be before jason decides he made a mistake and wants melissa back