I totally respect you Jason for following your heart...a contract is a contract..so the way it was done could not be helped...I wish you the best in the future both you and Ty....I really wish you and DeAnna could have put things back together....You are a smart person and a great dad....always be true to yourself....Good Luck!
Iman
March 3rd, 2009 2:18 PM
Jason is so...grrh....sick! I don't think Stephanie was right for him. She's clearly more mature than she is. He's just proved to be the biggest JERK in bachelor history. Gosh....Poor Mel! On the bright side she just dogged a bullet. As for Molly....no comment. See you in another 6 weeks?
Such a stupid, immature man. How can a relationship work when your eyes, mind are devoted to thoughts of another woman. At this point I'm happy for the other 24 contestants that went home without the jerk.
Dawn
March 3rd, 2009 2:16 PM
You know, Jason kept talking about how he didn't want to get hurt again, how painful that had been. His family made such strides to instill that point into both girls, that he couldn't bear to get hurt again and then he turned around and did the same thing to Melissa. This guy is a dog and I don't think there is anything genuine about him. He's a jerk, period!!!
Melissa, you will be greateful that this happened one day. When you pick up a paper and read how he cheated on Molly and their getting divorced, you'll be thankful. This guy is a true piece of work.
Jason makes Brad Wommack look like a hero! Personally, I think Brad did the right thing. If he didn't see a future with either, why propose and break up 6 weeks later. I understand the contract, but why couldn't Jason have done the honorable thing and faked it for "after the final rose" and then break off the engagement a few weeks later like all of the past bachelor/bachelorettes? Was he SO driven to be with Molly that he had to be that cruel to Melissa.
However, for someone who didn't know what was coming her way, Melissa handled that better than I would have. ABC would have had a lot of BLEEPING to do if it were me there!!!
Mandy
March 3rd, 2009 2:15 PM
I'm not only bugged by Jason, but by the show and the way it is set up. RIDICULOUS!
summerkore
March 3rd, 2009 2:13 PM
First of all I think that all of you that have negative comments about Jason or Molly should keep it to yourself. I think he is a great guy still even though what he did wasn't cool. He was there to find true love and he thought he had with Melissa but after letting Molly go she did say you made a big mistake. Maybe she knew something about Melissa that Jason didn't know until he really started a relationship together. Maybe Melissa is some spoiled brat high- maintenance girl who on the show showed her fun loving beautiful side but in real life is totally different.
Jason went on the show to find true love maybe he has with Molly. Put yourself in his shoes if you are not happy and you are always thinking about someone else why stay with the other person?
I think Jason is a caring, sweet, handsome, and honest guy and I wish him and Molly the best! Because he DESERVES IT!!
They both deserve eachother!! I really hope there is a wedding in the future!
Mandy
March 3rd, 2009 2:12 PM
My take on this is...
The Bachelor is not really a reality show. Who continues to date multiple women after you fall in love with one. He said he fell in love with melissa "early on", but then he had to continue dating and feelings developed for them. He has these incredibly romantic dates and overnight dates where feelings grow for both women. People don't do that in the real world. You don't continue on. My point is, the show is set up to make is very hard for the bachelor and the girls. I feel so bad for Melissa and she seemed like a better match to me, but I don't think it is realistic to expect Jason to stop thinking about Molly immediately. He just spend the night with her before he proposed to Melissa. What??
That is wrong! I am totally bugged by the whole show now.
rose
March 3rd, 2009 2:10 PM
Like you guys have never broken anyones heart. I actually wanted Melissa to win to but that is tv. HELLOOOOOOO!
Sara
March 3rd, 2009 2:04 PM
So disapointed Melissa is so much better and karma is a bitch Jasson! The fact that you never got over deanna what do you have like mommy issues. The show is overrated now its not funny to F*** with emotions Jasson good luck you need help!
linda fevana
March 3rd, 2009 2:00 PM
I think Jason did the wrong thing. For the people that said Molly was more grounded you really don't know what you're talking about that girl doesn't have a clue. I bet she is still the party girl and Jason will find that out soon enough. I think Stephanie should be the next bachelorette.
She was a sweet lady and he should have chose her not one of these immature ones.
monica
March 3rd, 2009 2:00 PM
WHAT A BIG BIG BIG JERK JASON IS.. I loved jason, and was so happy for Jason, Melissa and Ty .HE just lost out on a great girl. I think that the only way I would EVER watch the show again is if melissa would became the next bachlorette.. there is a ton of guys I know would LOVE To date melissa..
monica
March 3rd, 2009 1:59 PM
WHAT A BIG BIG BIG JERK JASON IS.. I loved jason, and was so happy for Jason, Melissa and Ty .HE just lost out on a great girl. I think that the only way I would EVER watch the show again is if melissa would became the next bachlorette.. there is a ton of guys I know would LOVE To date melissa..
Julia
March 3rd, 2009 1:57 PM
What a JERK!
He does not have have integrity or respect for woman's feelings.
Such idiot and a weak man.
Feel really sorry for Molly...another 6 weeks and it will be over.
Jamie
March 3rd, 2009 1:45 PM
What a dick. I cant believe he would do this to Melissa. She is such a sweet girl and didnt deserve this at all. I cant believe that abc has stooped so low as to air that on national tv. I will not be watching the bachelor/ bachelorette again. Jason is such a dirtbag creep.
hillary
March 3rd, 2009 1:37 PM
honestly i think jason is an amazing guy and he does deserve the best
but how could you do that jason?
me was so pretty and you guys connected so well
i think you did the same thing to her as deanna did to you.
i dont think your a jerk but you should remember that it takes alot to work a relationship
and only trying for 6 weeks is not going to help at all.
and to molly i cant believe you could take him back after he dumped you for someone else that he was about to marry.
Kat
March 3rd, 2009 1:32 PM
I hope Jason teaches his son better life skills than he has! His family should be ashamed of him!
Karen Catania
March 3rd, 2009 1:29 PM
I have watched every episode of the The Bachelor...I think Jason is a spoiled brat and only wants what he cannot have. I get the chemistry thing, but he should have figured that out before devastating Melissa. Relationships take time and he gave it none, cause all he was thinking about was what he did not have. Now wonder his marriage did not work. I don't think I can take another season. It just isn't fair to put people's real emotions and have everything ripped from you. It cannot be good on ones ego. I cannot stand him.
Jess
March 3rd, 2009 1:27 PM
I think this show is OVER. It's not a reality show anymore - it all follows the plot that ABC lines out. Ridiculous. I know they just lost one faithful viewer. I'm over it.
Dunna
March 3rd, 2009 1:18 PM
Doesn't it seem like he was trying to blame Melissa in this interview w/Kimmel?
“After we got back into the real world, all of a sudden, we had less to talk about and I didn’t know why."
He knew why- because HE was focusing on other things rather than building their relationship.
STAR
March 3rd, 2009 1:17 PM
i agree with all sentiments! jason is a jerk who obviously didn't give it any time at all... he says the chemistry fizzled, but how could it have kept burning when they couldn't be near each other yet (until the finale were to air). don't they have to keep it under wraps until the finale airs.... so how did he even give it a chance when he was in seattle and she had to stay in texas. he is more than a jerk, especially since he made the choice to jump right back in with molly. i get the contract (don't like it, but get it) and how he had to tell melissa on air, but he did not HAVE TO pursue molly immediately after that. that, he could have done later, off camera. he talked about teaching his son to do the right thing which was absure because in no way did he do the right thing. i wish molly would have seen how shallow and selfish he was and not agreed to just pick up where they left off. i thought she was a bit more respectable.
omg! i could go on and on and on... but my point is this
Dunna
March 3rd, 2009 1:13 PM
Of course they had nothing to talk about. If all he's got on his mind is Molly then why in the world would Melissa want to talk about her? I'd be surprised if they lasted. Molly just seems like a dingbat. She didn't start showing any emotion until she saw that she was in the final running and wanted to win the "prize". Until then, I don't think she really cared.
What I find truly amazing is that she kept saying she was done partying (at 24??? let me guess, she quit right before the show) but that she could still go out and have a good time with the girls, AND she was totally focusing on her career. Now, where did a man and a child fit into that equation? Should be interesting to see how this turns out...
And for the record, I thought it was completely classless that they started making out 2 seconds after he had just dumped his fiance'. They deserve each other
MJ
March 3rd, 2009 1:13 PM
What a VILE individual Jason Mess-Kit is. Utterly loathsome & reprehensible. That Slut Molly is no better, picking up Melissa's sloppy seconds. What low self esteem she must have to revel in being second choice...
Tammy
March 3rd, 2009 1:02 PM
After last night I have decided not to watch the bachelor anymore. It was absolutely ridiculous. It's almost as if it was staged that way to add more drama. He's an idiot and doesn't deserve either girl. Melissa is better off and Molly better run away from that jerk.
Blah, blah blah, get over yourself dude!!! Can't wait to see if ABC can pull ratings for the next bachelor. Stop treating people like idiots, have more respect for your audience!
March 3rd, 2009 2:18 PM
I totally respect you Jason for following your heart...a contract is a contract..so the way it was done could not be helped...I wish you the best in the future both you and Ty....I really wish you and DeAnna could have put things back together....You are a smart person and a great dad....always be true to yourself....Good Luck!
March 3rd, 2009 2:18 PM
Jason is so...grrh....sick! I don't think Stephanie was right for him. She's clearly more mature than she is. He's just proved to be the biggest JERK in bachelor history. Gosh....Poor Mel! On the bright side she just dogged a bullet. As for Molly....no comment. See you in another 6 weeks?
Such a stupid, immature man. How can a relationship work when your eyes, mind are devoted to thoughts of another woman. At this point I'm happy for the other 24 contestants that went home without the jerk.
March 3rd, 2009 2:16 PM
You know, Jason kept talking about how he didn't want to get hurt again, how painful that had been. His family made such strides to instill that point into both girls, that he couldn't bear to get hurt again and then he turned around and did the same thing to Melissa. This guy is a dog and I don't think there is anything genuine about him. He's a jerk, period!!!
Melissa, you will be greateful that this happened one day. When you pick up a paper and read how he cheated on Molly and their getting divorced, you'll be thankful. This guy is a true piece of work.
Rank: New User
March 3rd, 2009 2:15 PM
Jason makes Brad Wommack look like a hero! Personally, I think Brad did the right thing. If he didn't see a future with either, why propose and break up 6 weeks later. I understand the contract, but why couldn't Jason have done the honorable thing and faked it for "after the final rose" and then break off the engagement a few weeks later like all of the past bachelor/bachelorettes? Was he SO driven to be with Molly that he had to be that cruel to Melissa.
However, for someone who didn't know what was coming her way, Melissa handled that better than I would have. ABC would have had a lot of BLEEPING to do if it were me there!!!
March 3rd, 2009 2:15 PM
I'm not only bugged by Jason, but by the show and the way it is set up. RIDICULOUS!
March 3rd, 2009 2:13 PM
First of all I think that all of you that have negative comments about Jason or Molly should keep it to yourself. I think he is a great guy still even though what he did wasn't cool. He was there to find true love and he thought he had with Melissa but after letting Molly go she did say you made a big mistake. Maybe she knew something about Melissa that Jason didn't know until he really started a relationship together. Maybe Melissa is some spoiled brat high- maintenance girl who on the show showed her fun loving beautiful side but in real life is totally different.
Jason went on the show to find true love maybe he has with Molly. Put yourself in his shoes if you are not happy and you are always thinking about someone else why stay with the other person?
I think Jason is a caring, sweet, handsome, and honest guy and I wish him and Molly the best! Because he DESERVES IT!!
They both deserve eachother!! I really hope there is a wedding in the future!
March 3rd, 2009 2:12 PM
My take on this is...
The Bachelor is not really a reality show. Who continues to date multiple women after you fall in love with one. He said he fell in love with melissa "early on", but then he had to continue dating and feelings developed for them. He has these incredibly romantic dates and overnight dates where feelings grow for both women. People don't do that in the real world. You don't continue on. My point is, the show is set up to make is very hard for the bachelor and the girls. I feel so bad for Melissa and she seemed like a better match to me, but I don't think it is realistic to expect Jason to stop thinking about Molly immediately. He just spend the night with her before he proposed to Melissa. What??
That is wrong! I am totally bugged by the whole show now.
March 3rd, 2009 2:10 PM
Like you guys have never broken anyones heart. I actually wanted Melissa to win to but that is tv. HELLOOOOOOO!
March 3rd, 2009 2:04 PM
So disapointed Melissa is so much better and karma is a bitch Jasson! The fact that you never got over deanna what do you have like mommy issues. The show is overrated now its not funny to F*** with emotions Jasson good luck you need help!
March 3rd, 2009 2:00 PM
I think Jason did the wrong thing. For the people that said Molly was more grounded you really don't know what you're talking about that girl doesn't have a clue. I bet she is still the party girl and Jason will find that out soon enough. I think Stephanie should be the next bachelorette.
She was a sweet lady and he should have chose her not one of these immature ones.
March 3rd, 2009 2:00 PM
WHAT A BIG BIG BIG JERK JASON IS.. I loved jason, and was so happy for Jason, Melissa and Ty .HE just lost out on a great girl. I think that the only way I would EVER watch the show again is if melissa would became the next bachlorette.. there is a ton of guys I know would LOVE To date melissa..
March 3rd, 2009 1:59 PM
WHAT A BIG BIG BIG JERK JASON IS.. I loved jason, and was so happy for Jason, Melissa and Ty .HE just lost out on a great girl. I think that the only way I would EVER watch the show again is if melissa would became the next bachlorette.. there is a ton of guys I know would LOVE To date melissa..
March 3rd, 2009 1:57 PM
What a JERK!
He does not have have integrity or respect for woman's feelings.
Such idiot and a weak man.
Feel really sorry for Molly...another 6 weeks and it will be over.
March 3rd, 2009 1:45 PM
What a dick. I cant believe he would do this to Melissa. She is such a sweet girl and didnt deserve this at all. I cant believe that abc has stooped so low as to air that on national tv. I will not be watching the bachelor/ bachelorette again. Jason is such a dirtbag creep.
March 3rd, 2009 1:37 PM
honestly i think jason is an amazing guy and he does deserve the best
but how could you do that jason?
me was so pretty and you guys connected so well
i think you did the same thing to her as deanna did to you.
i dont think your a jerk but you should remember that it takes alot to work a relationship
and only trying for 6 weeks is not going to help at all.
and to molly i cant believe you could take him back after he dumped you for someone else that he was about to marry.
March 3rd, 2009 1:32 PM
I hope Jason teaches his son better life skills than he has! His family should be ashamed of him!
March 3rd, 2009 1:29 PM
I have watched every episode of the The Bachelor...I think Jason is a spoiled brat and only wants what he cannot have. I get the chemistry thing, but he should have figured that out before devastating Melissa. Relationships take time and he gave it none, cause all he was thinking about was what he did not have. Now wonder his marriage did not work. I don't think I can take another season. It just isn't fair to put people's real emotions and have everything ripped from you. It cannot be good on ones ego. I cannot stand him.
March 3rd, 2009 1:27 PM
I think this show is OVER. It's not a reality show anymore - it all follows the plot that ABC lines out. Ridiculous. I know they just lost one faithful viewer. I'm over it.
March 3rd, 2009 1:18 PM
Doesn't it seem like he was trying to blame Melissa in this interview w/Kimmel?
“After we got back into the real world, all of a sudden, we had less to talk about and I didn’t know why."
He knew why- because HE was focusing on other things rather than building their relationship.
March 3rd, 2009 1:17 PM
i agree with all sentiments! jason is a jerk who obviously didn't give it any time at all... he says the chemistry fizzled, but how could it have kept burning when they couldn't be near each other yet (until the finale were to air). don't they have to keep it under wraps until the finale airs.... so how did he even give it a chance when he was in seattle and she had to stay in texas. he is more than a jerk, especially since he made the choice to jump right back in with molly. i get the contract (don't like it, but get it) and how he had to tell melissa on air, but he did not HAVE TO pursue molly immediately after that. that, he could have done later, off camera. he talked about teaching his son to do the right thing which was absure because in no way did he do the right thing. i wish molly would have seen how shallow and selfish he was and not agreed to just pick up where they left off. i thought she was a bit more respectable.
omg! i could go on and on and on... but my point is this
March 3rd, 2009 1:13 PM
Of course they had nothing to talk about. If all he's got on his mind is Molly then why in the world would Melissa want to talk about her? I'd be surprised if they lasted. Molly just seems like a dingbat. She didn't start showing any emotion until she saw that she was in the final running and wanted to win the "prize". Until then, I don't think she really cared.
What I find truly amazing is that she kept saying she was done partying (at 24??? let me guess, she quit right before the show) but that she could still go out and have a good time with the girls, AND she was totally focusing on her career. Now, where did a man and a child fit into that equation? Should be interesting to see how this turns out...
And for the record, I thought it was completely classless that they started making out 2 seconds after he had just dumped his fiance'. They deserve each other
March 3rd, 2009 1:13 PM
What a VILE individual Jason Mess-Kit is. Utterly loathsome & reprehensible. That Slut Molly is no better, picking up Melissa's sloppy seconds. What low self esteem she must have to revel in being second choice...
March 3rd, 2009 1:02 PM
After last night I have decided not to watch the bachelor anymore. It was absolutely ridiculous. It's almost as if it was staged that way to add more drama. He's an idiot and doesn't deserve either girl. Melissa is better off and Molly better run away from that jerk.
Rank: New User
March 3rd, 2009 12:49 PM
Blah, blah blah, get over yourself dude!!! Can't wait to see if ABC can pull ratings for the next bachelor. Stop treating people like idiots, have more respect for your audience!