ABC and Jason have done the cruelist thing I have ever seen on TV. Publicly humiliating and hurting Melissa should never have happened. You made a huge mistake and have lost a loyal viewer. I will never watch this show again.
Sunday Says:
March 3rd, 2009 7:30 AM
I truly believe that Jason wanted to do a "switch" way before the final show where he dumps Melissa, but wasn't allowed because of his "contract" with ABC. Jason probably faced a major lawsuit if he went behind their backs and contacted Molly. Jason is a major victim of Reality TV contracting gone bad. Jason definitely has emotional issues going on from his first marriage and the Bachlorette show with Deanna. He obviously has a problem with his inability to make decisions. Jason has gotten so caught up with the TV cameras he doesn't know his right from his left. He needs to go home to his son and start over again. NO Molly, NO Melissa. ABC's The Bachelor has long outlived it's run. PLEASE take it off the air. The viewers are now thoroughly discusted.
Mark Says:
March 3rd, 2009 7:58 AM
Melissa and Molly are both to good for that Drama King! OMG bro do you enjoy hurting women trying to find love. Is that what you do for fun is rip out women's heart? Hey! Stay single Jason.
Anne Says:
March 3rd, 2009 8:01 AM
If ABC wants to keep high ratings, they should use more class. People are romantics and want to see a heartwarming romantic ending. There's no need to humiliate a perfectly nice young woman on national TV. If Jason was not sure who he was truly inlove with, he should have given them equal time after the final rose and returned to make his final decision after he has dated each of them in the "real world". If in fact, he made the wrong decision at the final rose and wanted to go back to the other, it should not have been televised. Producers need to regroup.
Mark Says:
March 3rd, 2009 8:03 AM
Melissa and Molly are both to good for that Drama King! OMG bro do you enjoy hurting women trying to find love. Is that what you do for fun is rip out women's heart? Hey! I hope Molly is smart enough th see he has no idea what he wants!
I
I hope Molly I hope looser!aI
Mary Says:
March 3rd, 2009 8:24 AM
I am completely disgusted with what they allowed Jason to do on national tv. The bachelor/ette hasn't allowed someone to change their mind before and go for second or third choice. Why now? First, the fiasco with Deanna getting left, we all fell in love with her then she screws Jason over. Jason become bachelor does the same thing, then breaks up with Melissa and asks Molly out in the same breath. Regardless of what Molly said about thinking every day of Jason and him knocking on her door and asking for her back, the first thing she should have said when he asked, was "who are you????" How do you go from being divorced, on the bachelorette, getting dumped, getting on the bachelor, doing the same thing by not picking Molly, then screwing over Melissa on national tv? I wouldn't believe a word that man says and trust him to commit. ABC made a big mistake here allowing this to happen. There should be no more participants on this show related to Deanna and Jason's seasons and completely cut this legacy off. I really feel bad for Melissa (how many people heard her call him a bastard under her breath :)) and am shocked at Molly falling helplessly into his arms when he "asked her for coffee". Both especially Jason gave ABC and the show a bad name. Things better change drastically next season or a lot of viewers will be lost.
Phil Laster Says:
March 3rd, 2009 8:47 AM
One word or you Molly ... RUN.
This man is like windshield wipers ... this woman er ah no this woman er ah no this woman ... run while you still have your sanity.
lance Says:
March 3rd, 2009 9:21 AM
What a joke!! I mean, how many people can you "Fall in Love with"!! "I fell in love with Deanna", "I fell in love with Molly", "I fell in love with Melissa" and "I fell in love with CHRIS"!(Opps that was the Host) Well, anyway Melissa was the right pick. I think Jason is a "Switch Hitter any way. You know (PLAYS for the other Team!!) Melissa, Hang in there! Mr Right will come along!! Good Luck! P.S. (Jason is a Losser!!)
Sunday Says:
March 3rd, 2009 10:31 AM
Ok, I wasn't going to post anything else after the first one, but I just HAD to respond to "Yankee".......ROFLMAO. I totally agree with you! Melissa's hairdo was a total disaster indicative of what was to follow after the final rose ceremony. Good lawd, what was she thinking? Other than her hair that night, she looked beautiful. Poor girl - bad hair day, bad, bad, boyfriend. Run, Mel, run! Just keep going and don't look back, sweetie. *sigh*
Yankee Says:
March 3rd, 2009 10:49 AM
The most outright "clue" - strictly a female thing - was the total and complete disaster of Melissa's hair. What was that about? Beautiful gown - ugly, unkempt hair surrounding a face that gave away the entire plot.
for the love of god people......lighten up on the guy.....so he made a mistake!!! it's better that he realize now rather than marry melissa and then divorce her!!!! and YES i'm glad he did it on TV!!!! they ALL agreed to take part in a TELEVISION SHOW!!!!!! if they wanted it to be private than they should have stayed home!!!!!!!
Mr Dana Nolan Says:
March 3rd, 2009 11:37 AM
Hey Mel, email me ASAP!!!
rach Says:
March 3rd, 2009 11:46 AM
I'm glad I'm not the only who one who feels hatred towards the show! Whether it was TV execs or reality... I know FOR SURE that I will no longer tune in to any more seasons of the Bachelor/ette.
I'm sure it was 90% the producers adding this unexpected twist. I hope it will only hurt their ratings in future seasons because it has given such a horrible misrepresentation for love and an engagement. It's almost like they're poking fun of the ordeal, and making it seem like a game. The reason I think it's all TV and little reality, is because how in God's name do you fall in love with three different people in a matter of a year enough to not know which one you want to truly marry?! He should've just said he wanted more time at the final rose ceremony or something!
Poor Molly for seeming to be second best, poor Melissa for all of the embarrassment, and SCREW Jason for allowing any of it to happen! Poor Ty... how confused could he be... woman after woman! Hopefully he grows up and realizes how sacred and special asking someone to marry you is supposed to be.
Jadakiss Says:
March 3rd, 2009 12:35 PM
OMG I am so disgusted with this show. I loved Melissa from the begining... He made a big mistake... What a CREEP!!! Eww and after he broke up with melissa and then was kissin on Molly 5 min later... BARF! This show and Jason SUCK!
Dana Says:
March 3rd, 2009 12:43 PM
There's absolutely no doubt about TV/producers etc playing a role in the drama and it would be a mistake if we the viewing public didn't have some sense of this from square one, that being said surely each and every contestant is made aware of the ramifications it plays in their personal daily lives before they ever see the light of a set or camera.
In summation Melissa i chose you to be the 'one' numerous episodes ago and not only because of the obvious chemistry between Jason and yourself but speaking on my own behalf I would as well.
Kid Drama Says:
March 3rd, 2009 12:44 PM
I don't think Jason is really looking for love, he seems to really only love himself and his wrapped up in his own self important world. When he doesn't feel he is getting enough attention or feels he has to amp up the drama he will cry for good measure. Most women prefer to be with a man, not a cry baby in his 30's.
Jeanette Lopez Says:
March 3rd, 2009 12:49 PM
What a piece of crap Jason is. Everyone is entitled to change their mind but to do it in the manner that he chose to, he is a real piece of work! I hope Melissa does well atleast she is able to see that things happen for a reason and it is best that she does not end up with this creep. And desperate Molly she thinks this is her little fairy tale ending Hah! Team Melissa!
i can't believe I watched that crap Says:
March 3rd, 2009 12:54 PM
That dude is the biggest tool in America. Did anyone else notice his kid seems retarded. If Mellisa was my sister I would snap that dip shit in two.
Houstonian grandma Says:
March 3rd, 2009 1:03 PM
This was my first (and last) time watching the Bachelor. Melissa is a jewel that Jason is, obviously, too dense to appreciate. He appears to be a wimpy, narcissistic loser who would never be good enough for this lovely woman who allowed herself to be open to love and got rewarded with pain.
Melissa, Jason's change of mind frees you to be available for someone good enough for you.
He's a jerk! Immoral in every sense of the word. What America should be asking him is "What happened between you and your ex-wife Jason?"
And my final comment is Molly is a FOOL, any man who pulls a stunt like that on another woman, I would not even look at him! He is going to do the smae thing to her.
Reverse Says:
March 3rd, 2009 1:57 PM
Well ... If the sex aint good go to plan B. That's what I figured out from the show and I wont watch these shows anymore on the account of pleasure and pain.
Tool Academy Says:
March 3rd, 2009 2:05 PM
Jason is a wimpy hook-nosed punk! he belongs on tool academy. I fear he spends so much time on what he wants he isn't paying enough attention to his son's development. The kid seemed very closed and anti social to me. Would the father even notice that? he's too busy trying to fall in love again.
john Says:
March 3rd, 2009 2:21 PM
i was disappointed jason let her go.she is a lovely young lady, great personality,bubbly,she will have no problem finding someone.it will come when you least expect it. her being a cowboy cheerleader kind of sets her up for being hurt. jerks just want to date her for what she was instead of who she is. good luck to her!
ahale Says:
March 3rd, 2009 2:22 PM
TEAM MELISSA! Jason is a jerk and a dumb a--. I hope that Melissa finds what she is looking for. I was really rooting for her. I cant believe Molly said yes to Jason what a dumpy.I lost a lot of respect for Jason last night. How can he do that. He deserves to be alone.
March 3rd, 2009 6:57 AM
ABC and Jason have done the cruelist thing I have ever seen on TV. Publicly humiliating and hurting Melissa should never have happened. You made a huge mistake and have lost a loyal viewer. I will never watch this show again.
March 3rd, 2009 7:30 AM
I truly believe that Jason wanted to do a "switch" way before the final show where he dumps Melissa, but wasn't allowed because of his "contract" with ABC. Jason probably faced a major lawsuit if he went behind their backs and contacted Molly. Jason is a major victim of Reality TV contracting gone bad. Jason definitely has emotional issues going on from his first marriage and the Bachlorette show with Deanna. He obviously has a problem with his inability to make decisions. Jason has gotten so caught up with the TV cameras he doesn't know his right from his left. He needs to go home to his son and start over again. NO Molly, NO Melissa. ABC's The Bachelor has long outlived it's run. PLEASE take it off the air. The viewers are now thoroughly discusted.
March 3rd, 2009 7:58 AM
Melissa and Molly are both to good for that Drama King! OMG bro do you enjoy hurting women trying to find love. Is that what you do for fun is rip out women's heart? Hey! Stay single Jason.
March 3rd, 2009 8:01 AM
If ABC wants to keep high ratings, they should use more class. People are romantics and want to see a heartwarming romantic ending. There's no need to humiliate a perfectly nice young woman on national TV. If Jason was not sure who he was truly inlove with, he should have given them equal time after the final rose and returned to make his final decision after he has dated each of them in the "real world". If in fact, he made the wrong decision at the final rose and wanted to go back to the other, it should not have been televised. Producers need to regroup.
March 3rd, 2009 8:03 AM
Melissa and Molly are both to good for that Drama King! OMG bro do you enjoy hurting women trying to find love. Is that what you do for fun is rip out women's heart? Hey! I hope Molly is smart enough th see he has no idea what he wants!
I
I hope Molly I hope looser!aI
March 3rd, 2009 8:24 AM
I am completely disgusted with what they allowed Jason to do on national tv. The bachelor/ette hasn't allowed someone to change their mind before and go for second or third choice. Why now? First, the fiasco with Deanna getting left, we all fell in love with her then she screws Jason over. Jason become bachelor does the same thing, then breaks up with Melissa and asks Molly out in the same breath. Regardless of what Molly said about thinking every day of Jason and him knocking on her door and asking for her back, the first thing she should have said when he asked, was "who are you????" How do you go from being divorced, on the bachelorette, getting dumped, getting on the bachelor, doing the same thing by not picking Molly, then screwing over Melissa on national tv? I wouldn't believe a word that man says and trust him to commit. ABC made a big mistake here allowing this to happen. There should be no more participants on this show related to Deanna and Jason's seasons and completely cut this legacy off. I really feel bad for Melissa (how many people heard her call him a bastard under her breath :)) and am shocked at Molly falling helplessly into his arms when he "asked her for coffee". Both especially Jason gave ABC and the show a bad name. Things better change drastically next season or a lot of viewers will be lost.
March 3rd, 2009 8:47 AM
One word or you Molly ... RUN.
This man is like windshield wipers ... this woman er ah no this woman er ah no this woman ... run while you still have your sanity.
March 3rd, 2009 9:21 AM
What a joke!! I mean, how many people can you "Fall in Love with"!! "I fell in love with Deanna", "I fell in love with Molly", "I fell in love with Melissa" and "I fell in love with CHRIS"!(Opps that was the Host) Well, anyway Melissa was the right pick. I think Jason is a "Switch Hitter any way. You know (PLAYS for the other Team!!) Melissa, Hang in there! Mr Right will come along!! Good Luck! P.S. (Jason is a Losser!!)
March 3rd, 2009 10:31 AM
Ok, I wasn't going to post anything else after the first one, but I just HAD to respond to "Yankee".......ROFLMAO. I totally agree with you! Melissa's hairdo was a total disaster indicative of what was to follow after the final rose ceremony. Good lawd, what was she thinking? Other than her hair that night, she looked beautiful. Poor girl - bad hair day, bad, bad, boyfriend. Run, Mel, run! Just keep going and don't look back, sweetie. *sigh*
March 3rd, 2009 10:49 AM
The most outright "clue" - strictly a female thing - was the total and complete disaster of Melissa's hair. What was that about? Beautiful gown - ugly, unkempt hair surrounding a face that gave away the entire plot.
March 3rd, 2009 11:14 AM
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March 3rd, 2009 11:23 AM
for the love of god people......lighten up on the guy.....so he made a mistake!!! it's better that he realize now rather than marry melissa and then divorce her!!!! and YES i'm glad he did it on TV!!!! they ALL agreed to take part in a TELEVISION SHOW!!!!!! if they wanted it to be private than they should have stayed home!!!!!!!
March 3rd, 2009 11:37 AM
Hey Mel, email me ASAP!!!
March 3rd, 2009 11:46 AM
I'm glad I'm not the only who one who feels hatred towards the show! Whether it was TV execs or reality... I know FOR SURE that I will no longer tune in to any more seasons of the Bachelor/ette.
I'm sure it was 90% the producers adding this unexpected twist. I hope it will only hurt their ratings in future seasons because it has given such a horrible misrepresentation for love and an engagement. It's almost like they're poking fun of the ordeal, and making it seem like a game. The reason I think it's all TV and little reality, is because how in God's name do you fall in love with three different people in a matter of a year enough to not know which one you want to truly marry?! He should've just said he wanted more time at the final rose ceremony or something!
Poor Molly for seeming to be second best, poor Melissa for all of the embarrassment, and SCREW Jason for allowing any of it to happen! Poor Ty... how confused could he be... woman after woman! Hopefully he grows up and realizes how sacred and special asking someone to marry you is supposed to be.
March 3rd, 2009 12:35 PM
OMG I am so disgusted with this show. I loved Melissa from the begining... He made a big mistake... What a CREEP!!! Eww and after he broke up with melissa and then was kissin on Molly 5 min later... BARF! This show and Jason SUCK!
March 3rd, 2009 12:43 PM
There's absolutely no doubt about TV/producers etc playing a role in the drama and it would be a mistake if we the viewing public didn't have some sense of this from square one, that being said surely each and every contestant is made aware of the ramifications it plays in their personal daily lives before they ever see the light of a set or camera.
In summation Melissa i chose you to be the 'one' numerous episodes ago and not only because of the obvious chemistry between Jason and yourself but speaking on my own behalf I would as well.
March 3rd, 2009 12:44 PM
I don't think Jason is really looking for love, he seems to really only love himself and his wrapped up in his own self important world. When he doesn't feel he is getting enough attention or feels he has to amp up the drama he will cry for good measure. Most women prefer to be with a man, not a cry baby in his 30's.
March 3rd, 2009 12:49 PM
What a piece of crap Jason is. Everyone is entitled to change their mind but to do it in the manner that he chose to, he is a real piece of work! I hope Melissa does well atleast she is able to see that things happen for a reason and it is best that she does not end up with this creep. And desperate Molly she thinks this is her little fairy tale ending Hah! Team Melissa!
March 3rd, 2009 12:54 PM
That dude is the biggest tool in America. Did anyone else notice his kid seems retarded. If Mellisa was my sister I would snap that dip shit in two.
March 3rd, 2009 1:03 PM
This was my first (and last) time watching the Bachelor. Melissa is a jewel that Jason is, obviously, too dense to appreciate. He appears to be a wimpy, narcissistic loser who would never be good enough for this lovely woman who allowed herself to be open to love and got rewarded with pain.
Melissa, Jason's change of mind frees you to be available for someone good enough for you.
Best of luck to you, lovely one
March 3rd, 2009 1:08 PM
He's a jerk! Immoral in every sense of the word. What America should be asking him is "What happened between you and your ex-wife Jason?"
And my final comment is Molly is a FOOL, any man who pulls a stunt like that on another woman, I would not even look at him! He is going to do the smae thing to her.
March 3rd, 2009 1:57 PM
Well ... If the sex aint good go to plan B. That's what I figured out from the show and I wont watch these shows anymore on the account of pleasure and pain.
March 3rd, 2009 2:05 PM
Jason is a wimpy hook-nosed punk! he belongs on tool academy. I fear he spends so much time on what he wants he isn't paying enough attention to his son's development. The kid seemed very closed and anti social to me. Would the father even notice that? he's too busy trying to fall in love again.
March 3rd, 2009 2:21 PM
i was disappointed jason let her go.she is a lovely young lady, great personality,bubbly,she will have no problem finding someone.it will come when you least expect it. her being a cowboy cheerleader kind of sets her up for being hurt. jerks just want to date her for what she was instead of who she is. good luck to her!
March 3rd, 2009 2:22 PM
TEAM MELISSA! Jason is a jerk and a dumb a--. I hope that Melissa finds what she is looking for. I was really rooting for her. I cant believe Molly said yes to Jason what a dumpy.I lost a lot of respect for Jason last night. How can he do that. He deserves to be alone.