I think Jason is a guy who chooses sex appeal over sincerity. The sad thing is, he undoubtedly chose his wife Hillary this same way and look where that got him....divorced. Some guys never learn and I think he may be one of them. Even when he speaks to these women, he smiles at serious things they say as if to say, "aw, that's so cute..." I think this guy lacks strong inner qualities and obviously, he has turned down some very classy women and if you think about it, if he is as superficial as I think he is, no wonder he looks past them and is attracted to the ones who are cutesy and look at him with goo-goo eyes. He's only looking for fluff. Poor little Ty...one day he's probably going to say, "Thanks Dad for choosing a bimbo to be my step-mom."
lisa Says:
February 24th, 2009 12:58 PM
if the spoilers are true my watching days are over. i have really liked the show. but to do this to melissa and the fans is preposterous. goodbye bachelor!
Nannyx4 Says:
February 24th, 2009 1:18 PM
I really liked Jason when he was on the Bachlorette. I really felt sorry for him. But after watching him on this season, he seems to be all about looks and insecurity. I believe Stephanie and Jillian were too much women for him. He needs to control and feel like he is the father to them, he did this with DeAnna just like he does with Ty. Ty is almost 4 years old and he treats him like he is still a infant. I think Melissa would be a good mother to Ty but she has alot of baggage. Molly I think is a self serving person. She will struggle being a stepparent. The biggest turn off and deal breaker for me is that Jason is not a religious person and is not raising his child that way. How do you know where to turn in life without God in your life. Maybe this is why you need to go on shows like this to be able to go with your flesh instead of your faith in God to bring someone your way
Mat Says:
February 24th, 2009 2:25 PM
If Jason does this to Melissa he will be the worse man alive, but they said what goes around comes around. If he chooses Molly over Melissa he is only replacing his ex wife they look a like. And I will never watch this show again I think the Stefanie was the better choice.
I think that Maybe he picks Melissa but changes hes mind and picks DeAnna because he still in love with her.
I think Molly is not in love with him and will live him.
Jason you are a JERK
Samantha Says:
February 24th, 2009 2:35 PM
Look at what hollywood is doing to us? We are obsessed with the rumors and its doing the very thing that ABC wants to get..... ratings. It has EVERYONE not only certain to watch next monday, but NEEDING to watch it to fulfill this obsession. This is what I think: ABC has set up Reality Steve to do this "theory" because it is stirring everyone up so much that everyone (even those that don't watch the bachelor) will be watching it next week just to see if his theory is right! That gets ABC the ratings for monday night. Also, I think that Melissa is the one he picks and thats why they want to do the after the rose special because then we will be guaranteed to watch the second night to again see if his theory is right. Thats two guaranteed nights of millions watching ABC's Bachelor.
In the end, Melissa wins and they are happy and in love. Regardless of what really happens ABC isn't concerned with screwing anyone....they are concerned about getting the ratings.
Linda Says:
February 24th, 2009 3:14 PM
My goodness. . . Some of you are calling individuals names without knowing a doggone thing! You don't know the facts. You're going by what someone is blogging! Hurrying to judgment without knowing facts. WOW!!!
Marc Says:
February 24th, 2009 4:27 PM
If the buzz is true and Jason does that to Melissa, he is a scumbag. He plays the "I'm a nice guy" roll good, I didn't like him last year and was happy he didn't get picked. If he proposes to Melissa and then continues to see Molly on the side, the whole world will see what I saw in him last year, a phony! He always claims it's about Ty, NOT! Last year he waited for how long to tell DeAnna he had a son? If that was me, it would have been the first thing I said to see if it was going to work. I hope what is being said isn't true, Melissa is a sweetheart and it would be a HUGE loss for Jason and a big gain for someone else.
Jen Says:
February 24th, 2009 4:39 PM
I thought the purpose of Jason becoming The Bachelor was for him to find true love in a wife, as his best friend, lover, and a StepMom for Ty. Unfortunately, the reality of this show is women who fall in love with him will get their hearts broken. I think that part really hurts Jason and is truly the last thing he wants to do. Perhaps everyone should stop being so judgmental (without even knowing what happens) and hope he finds the lasting love he deserves and his reason for doing this in the first place.
Mom Says:
February 24th, 2009 6:40 PM
Get a grip everyone. This program is like the play "Shear Madness". The play was a who-done-it with guessing who was the murderer at the end of the play.Like the game "Clue". It played all over the states with different casts and in the same city the actors who played the caricature changed.People went to see the play over and over because who did it changed every time you saw the play.In this program there is always the same caricatures. the nice girl, the bitch, the princess, the goof ball..... even the contestants say the same thing over and over, just like Chris states "this is the most dramatic rose ceremony ever". We still watch because we get sucked into thinking this is real because they show us one couple who actually ended up having a life together( and an adorable little boy).
donna Says:
February 24th, 2009 8:08 PM
If this is all true, I will be sooooooooo disapointed. I thought Jason was above all this bull crap. Jillian is better off without him. He seems like all he wants is a hot piece of ass. This will be my last time ever watching The Bachelor!
LaVonne Says:
February 24th, 2009 10:43 PM
Has anyone seen Molly without makeup she is beautiful and has more freckles than melissa I wish her and Jason a lifetime of happiness.
tncsmom99 Says:
February 24th, 2009 11:14 PM
What difference does it really make who he picks everyone has the fave and if theyre not the one someones gonna get hurt. My pick id Melissa but if shes not picked or if she is and sent away, everything in your life happens for a reason
lily mcbride Says:
February 25th, 2009 12:57 AM
I think he ultimately ends up with Molly. He's ultimately thinking with the wrong part of his body. His had it for her all along. Look at his ex-wife--she's another Molly--kind of "standoffish" and oh, "fish/cold". For being such a nice guy, he doesn't seem to want a warm person next to him. This is not to say that Molly is not nice, it's just that Melissa seems more "real". But Jason seem to need a "trophy" wife.
Today10 Says:
February 25th, 2009 11:15 AM
I think it has something to do with DeAnna showing up ...
Phyllis Says:
February 25th, 2009 12:23 PM
I am so upset if this is true, Jason would really look like a sleaze. I like Melissa and you can see her sincerity. Molly & her family would not be good for Ty they are too cold & even Molly said they are not affectionate. What good was bringing DeAnna back for the last episode unless there is more to it. I could see him going with DeAnna first then dumping her for Melissa. Don't humiliate Melissa like that. I love the show but this would be to much,& I won't watch the show anymore. Too cold
I am shocked Says:
February 25th, 2009 3:12 PM
Here is my theory..... Jason is going to pick Melissa... there will be 2 After the Final Rose shows. The first one, they will show Jason and Melissa and the second one is when she introduce him to her family and since they are so private, this is why they didn't have any audiences during the taping.
not a Molly fan Says:
February 25th, 2009 3:27 PM
eeeewwww Make Up or NO make up--- MOLLY Is UGLY!!!! Her big mouth and frog eyes, YUCK she is not beautiful.
tami Says:
February 25th, 2009 5:38 PM
If these rumors are true I will never watch this show again! The show has become too scripted and too sensationalized. I like the reality love story but it's gotten to be too much! Congrats to Trista and Ryan - I'm so glad they've remained together and have such a beautiful family. It's nice to see a happy ending.
Marie Says:
February 26th, 2009 1:10 AM
I think that this is just another publicity stunt for ABC to boost the ratings. I honestly don't think that Jason would intesionally hurt anyone and that the reason for the 2nd ceremony is because Deanna ruins the 1st one. I believe that Molly and Jason remained friends and that he indeed stays with Melissa. I know that by him not meeting her parents made it difficult to make the decision to keep her there but he is indeed in love with her and I don't believe that he would make a decision that would have a great impact on someone's life like that and then come back and change it because he isn't one to mess with the life of his son Ty. So, if all this is true, well then it's true. It was taped in November and there isn't much anyone can do to change the past now anyway. And well, Melissa is beautiful and strong and I'm sure she will find happiness somewhere else.
YouareFoolsifyoubelieveallthisCrap Says:
February 26th, 2009 2:34 AM
Let's get things right here, first, Everyone claims to know Jason to be a wonderful Dad, wonderful personality...etc... You don't know Jack Shi...t about this guy. First of all, he is not that care taker of his child. He has a sitter. Secondly, his ex gives more care than he does. Do you honestly think a bachelor, that works as an account exec has time to raise a child? BS. The guy can hardly shower and keep clean. Reality TV is just one big Crock of Shi...t..It makes me want to puke when I hear this 25 year olds confess their love of wanting to spend their lift with one another, when American has overa 51% divorce rate. See any couples make it her on bachelor or bachelorett? Not really, all have failed. I think out of the many couples there was one, Trysta and Ryan, but given em several more years and watch out. Unless you've gone the distance and put in at least 10 - 15 year, you have no clue. Jason is basically just banging his remaining contestants, and depositing his seed and pretending to be sincere, when in reality, its just another conquest. Wake up people, you have no idea what kind of a DAD he is, Well, Yes, I think you do, He is the kind of DAD that would Divorce when his Chile is still small, would walk away from a family unit, thinking there are better greener pastures out there, well Jason, you're wrong, get your act together, and don't play the roll, and don't fool the people. As for the son of his TY, he looks like a midget elf that came off of one ow Walt Disney's movies...People don't waste your time with this CRAP, go read a book, get out and walk, or do something worthwile, but certainly don't watch this CRAP
christine Says:
February 26th, 2009 9:16 AM
i never liked jason i fine him a two face he is there just for sex not love.he still loves his wife.too bad for the women in this show. but stepanie was the best one. please choose her for the next bachorlette.
Sonia Says:
February 26th, 2009 10:32 AM
No body has thought that maybe the "to sensitive to be in front of an audience" part is that he picks Melissa and they are going to show him meeting her parents for the first time. Asking for her hand in marriage and they do not like all the publicity of it. If this is not it then my guess would be he chose Deanna after Melissa. Since there are so many similarities in the two maybe he just came to the conclusion that he really wanted Deanna and now she was available. I really cannot see him with Molly. I cannot believe she is final two other than it would make it much easier for him to pick Melissa. It should have been Melissa and Jillian. That would have been much more believable. Just my opinion.
jacey Says:
February 26th, 2009 7:56 PM
The theory would explain why Melissa's parents did not want to be on the show! This is ridiculous i hope people realize this show for what it is if this happen a TV show reality yea right!
Deborah Derry Says:
February 27th, 2009 3:46 PM
I think Jason is a handsome man and I feel that Melissa should be his pick because she is more outgoing than Molly who is stiff, and if Jason gives Melissa the rose and continues seeing Molly he is DIRT in my book and that's not a good way to bring your son up on how to respect women. He
needs to be left alone in this world if he treats women like
that.
What was I thinking Says:
February 28th, 2009 7:11 AM
I have watched this show on and off for years. My daughter had heard through someone where she worked that a guy at the company that went on the show said that it was scripted. They know who they are gonna pick before they give out the first roses. This guy acted the way he did because he wasn't getting picked and he knew it going in. They all meet before they ever do coming out of the limo. Even knowing this I watched the show - if all this drama is true, I won't watch another one, I am one of those gullible people who believe what I see, what was I thinking. I guess I was thinking I would watch something to take my mind off of reality - the state of the economy and the worries of everyday life. It worked for a couple of hours each Monday. Maybe this will be the kick in the butt I need to stop watching, it is the only reality show I watch, but apparently it isn't reality. In the grand scheme of things, honestly, who cares what Jason does or doesn't do - we don't know these people, they don't even know each other. What was I thinking????????
February 24th, 2009 11:47 AM
I think Jason is a guy who chooses sex appeal over sincerity. The sad thing is, he undoubtedly chose his wife Hillary this same way and look where that got him....divorced. Some guys never learn and I think he may be one of them. Even when he speaks to these women, he smiles at serious things they say as if to say, "aw, that's so cute..." I think this guy lacks strong inner qualities and obviously, he has turned down some very classy women and if you think about it, if he is as superficial as I think he is, no wonder he looks past them and is attracted to the ones who are cutesy and look at him with goo-goo eyes. He's only looking for fluff. Poor little Ty...one day he's probably going to say, "Thanks Dad for choosing a bimbo to be my step-mom."
February 24th, 2009 12:58 PM
if the spoilers are true my watching days are over. i have really liked the show. but to do this to melissa and the fans is preposterous. goodbye bachelor!
February 24th, 2009 1:18 PM
I really liked Jason when he was on the Bachlorette. I really felt sorry for him. But after watching him on this season, he seems to be all about looks and insecurity. I believe Stephanie and Jillian were too much women for him. He needs to control and feel like he is the father to them, he did this with DeAnna just like he does with Ty. Ty is almost 4 years old and he treats him like he is still a infant. I think Melissa would be a good mother to Ty but she has alot of baggage. Molly I think is a self serving person. She will struggle being a stepparent. The biggest turn off and deal breaker for me is that Jason is not a religious person and is not raising his child that way. How do you know where to turn in life without God in your life. Maybe this is why you need to go on shows like this to be able to go with your flesh instead of your faith in God to bring someone your way
February 24th, 2009 2:25 PM
If Jason does this to Melissa he will be the worse man alive, but they said what goes around comes around. If he chooses Molly over Melissa he is only replacing his ex wife they look a like. And I will never watch this show again I think the Stefanie was the better choice.
I think that Maybe he picks Melissa but changes hes mind and picks DeAnna because he still in love with her.
I think Molly is not in love with him and will live him.
Jason you are a JERK
February 24th, 2009 2:35 PM
Look at what hollywood is doing to us? We are obsessed with the rumors and its doing the very thing that ABC wants to get..... ratings. It has EVERYONE not only certain to watch next monday, but NEEDING to watch it to fulfill this obsession. This is what I think: ABC has set up Reality Steve to do this "theory" because it is stirring everyone up so much that everyone (even those that don't watch the bachelor) will be watching it next week just to see if his theory is right! That gets ABC the ratings for monday night. Also, I think that Melissa is the one he picks and thats why they want to do the after the rose special because then we will be guaranteed to watch the second night to again see if his theory is right. Thats two guaranteed nights of millions watching ABC's Bachelor.
In the end, Melissa wins and they are happy and in love. Regardless of what really happens ABC isn't concerned with screwing anyone....they are concerned about getting the ratings.
February 24th, 2009 3:14 PM
My goodness. . . Some of you are calling individuals names without knowing a doggone thing! You don't know the facts. You're going by what someone is blogging! Hurrying to judgment without knowing facts. WOW!!!
February 24th, 2009 4:27 PM
If the buzz is true and Jason does that to Melissa, he is a scumbag. He plays the "I'm a nice guy" roll good, I didn't like him last year and was happy he didn't get picked. If he proposes to Melissa and then continues to see Molly on the side, the whole world will see what I saw in him last year, a phony! He always claims it's about Ty, NOT! Last year he waited for how long to tell DeAnna he had a son? If that was me, it would have been the first thing I said to see if it was going to work. I hope what is being said isn't true, Melissa is a sweetheart and it would be a HUGE loss for Jason and a big gain for someone else.
February 24th, 2009 4:39 PM
I thought the purpose of Jason becoming The Bachelor was for him to find true love in a wife, as his best friend, lover, and a StepMom for Ty. Unfortunately, the reality of this show is women who fall in love with him will get their hearts broken. I think that part really hurts Jason and is truly the last thing he wants to do. Perhaps everyone should stop being so judgmental (without even knowing what happens) and hope he finds the lasting love he deserves and his reason for doing this in the first place.
February 24th, 2009 6:40 PM
Get a grip everyone. This program is like the play "Shear Madness". The play was a who-done-it with guessing who was the murderer at the end of the play.Like the game "Clue". It played all over the states with different casts and in the same city the actors who played the caricature changed.People went to see the play over and over because who did it changed every time you saw the play.In this program there is always the same caricatures. the nice girl, the bitch, the princess, the goof ball..... even the contestants say the same thing over and over, just like Chris states "this is the most dramatic rose ceremony ever". We still watch because we get sucked into thinking this is real because they show us one couple who actually ended up having a life together( and an adorable little boy).
February 24th, 2009 8:08 PM
If this is all true, I will be sooooooooo disapointed. I thought Jason was above all this bull crap. Jillian is better off without him. He seems like all he wants is a hot piece of ass. This will be my last time ever watching The Bachelor!
February 24th, 2009 10:43 PM
Has anyone seen Molly without makeup she is beautiful and has more freckles than melissa I wish her and Jason a lifetime of happiness.
February 24th, 2009 11:14 PM
What difference does it really make who he picks everyone has the fave and if theyre not the one someones gonna get hurt. My pick id Melissa but if shes not picked or if she is and sent away, everything in your life happens for a reason
February 25th, 2009 12:57 AM
I think he ultimately ends up with Molly. He's ultimately thinking with the wrong part of his body. His had it for her all along. Look at his ex-wife--she's another Molly--kind of "standoffish" and oh, "fish/cold". For being such a nice guy, he doesn't seem to want a warm person next to him. This is not to say that Molly is not nice, it's just that Melissa seems more "real". But Jason seem to need a "trophy" wife.
February 25th, 2009 11:15 AM
I think it has something to do with DeAnna showing up ...
February 25th, 2009 12:23 PM
I am so upset if this is true, Jason would really look like a sleaze. I like Melissa and you can see her sincerity. Molly & her family would not be good for Ty they are too cold & even Molly said they are not affectionate. What good was bringing DeAnna back for the last episode unless there is more to it. I could see him going with DeAnna first then dumping her for Melissa. Don't humiliate Melissa like that. I love the show but this would be to much,& I won't watch the show anymore. Too cold
February 25th, 2009 3:12 PM
Here is my theory..... Jason is going to pick Melissa... there will be 2 After the Final Rose shows. The first one, they will show Jason and Melissa and the second one is when she introduce him to her family and since they are so private, this is why they didn't have any audiences during the taping.
February 25th, 2009 3:27 PM
eeeewwww Make Up or NO make up--- MOLLY Is UGLY!!!! Her big mouth and frog eyes, YUCK she is not beautiful.
February 25th, 2009 5:38 PM
If these rumors are true I will never watch this show again! The show has become too scripted and too sensationalized. I like the reality love story but it's gotten to be too much! Congrats to Trista and Ryan - I'm so glad they've remained together and have such a beautiful family. It's nice to see a happy ending.
February 26th, 2009 1:10 AM
I think that this is just another publicity stunt for ABC to boost the ratings. I honestly don't think that Jason would intesionally hurt anyone and that the reason for the 2nd ceremony is because Deanna ruins the 1st one. I believe that Molly and Jason remained friends and that he indeed stays with Melissa. I know that by him not meeting her parents made it difficult to make the decision to keep her there but he is indeed in love with her and I don't believe that he would make a decision that would have a great impact on someone's life like that and then come back and change it because he isn't one to mess with the life of his son Ty. So, if all this is true, well then it's true. It was taped in November and there isn't much anyone can do to change the past now anyway. And well, Melissa is beautiful and strong and I'm sure she will find happiness somewhere else.
February 26th, 2009 2:34 AM
Let's get things right here, first, Everyone claims to know Jason to be a wonderful Dad, wonderful personality...etc... You don't know Jack Shi...t about this guy. First of all, he is not that care taker of his child. He has a sitter. Secondly, his ex gives more care than he does. Do you honestly think a bachelor, that works as an account exec has time to raise a child? BS. The guy can hardly shower and keep clean. Reality TV is just one big Crock of Shi...t..It makes me want to puke when I hear this 25 year olds confess their love of wanting to spend their lift with one another, when American has overa 51% divorce rate. See any couples make it her on bachelor or bachelorett? Not really, all have failed. I think out of the many couples there was one, Trysta and Ryan, but given em several more years and watch out. Unless you've gone the distance and put in at least 10 - 15 year, you have no clue. Jason is basically just banging his remaining contestants, and depositing his seed and pretending to be sincere, when in reality, its just another conquest. Wake up people, you have no idea what kind of a DAD he is, Well, Yes, I think you do, He is the kind of DAD that would Divorce when his Chile is still small, would walk away from a family unit, thinking there are better greener pastures out there, well Jason, you're wrong, get your act together, and don't play the roll, and don't fool the people. As for the son of his TY, he looks like a midget elf that came off of one ow Walt Disney's movies...People don't waste your time with this CRAP, go read a book, get out and walk, or do something worthwile, but certainly don't watch this CRAP
February 26th, 2009 9:16 AM
i never liked jason i fine him a two face he is there just for sex not love.he still loves his wife.too bad for the women in this show. but stepanie was the best one. please choose her for the next bachorlette.
February 26th, 2009 10:32 AM
No body has thought that maybe the "to sensitive to be in front of an audience" part is that he picks Melissa and they are going to show him meeting her parents for the first time. Asking for her hand in marriage and they do not like all the publicity of it. If this is not it then my guess would be he chose Deanna after Melissa. Since there are so many similarities in the two maybe he just came to the conclusion that he really wanted Deanna and now she was available. I really cannot see him with Molly. I cannot believe she is final two other than it would make it much easier for him to pick Melissa. It should have been Melissa and Jillian. That would have been much more believable. Just my opinion.
February 26th, 2009 7:56 PM
The theory would explain why Melissa's parents did not want to be on the show! This is ridiculous i hope people realize this show for what it is if this happen a TV show reality yea right!
February 27th, 2009 3:46 PM
I think Jason is a handsome man and I feel that Melissa should be his pick because she is more outgoing than Molly who is stiff, and if Jason gives Melissa the rose and continues seeing Molly he is DIRT in my book and that's not a good way to bring your son up on how to respect women. He
needs to be left alone in this world if he treats women like
that.
February 28th, 2009 7:11 AM
I have watched this show on and off for years. My daughter had heard through someone where she worked that a guy at the company that went on the show said that it was scripted. They know who they are gonna pick before they give out the first roses. This guy acted the way he did because he wasn't getting picked and he knew it going in. They all meet before they ever do coming out of the limo. Even knowing this I watched the show - if all this drama is true, I won't watch another one, I am one of those gullible people who believe what I see, what was I thinking. I guess I was thinking I would watch something to take my mind off of reality - the state of the economy and the worries of everyday life. It worked for a couple of hours each Monday. Maybe this will be the kick in the butt I need to stop watching, it is the only reality show I watch, but apparently it isn't reality. In the grand scheme of things, honestly, who cares what Jason does or doesn't do - we don't know these people, they don't even know each other. What was I thinking????????