The Bachelorette Finale: DeAnna Pappas and Jesse Csincsak Engaged; Jason Mesnick Heartbroken Comments (Page 2)
59 Comments
Donna
July 13th, 2008 3:32 PM
Jeremy, if you're still looking, I'd be honored to pursue a relationship with you. You are gorgeous, intelligent, human, and have suffered far too much in your life. I'm not too far from you either .. I'm in Houston. In any case, I wish you the very best that life has to offer and I hope you aren't down on love because of this Bachelorette experience. The right girl is out there .. and waiting. Take care.
Donna
July 13th, 2008 3:28 PM
I am extremely disappointed in DeAnna's selection of Jesse and the show overall. This show has such huge pomp, but lacks circumstance. Jeremy and Jason were the far better choices for DeAnna as far as truly being "in love" with her and putting her first. They are also better able to provide for her financially. What is Jesse going to do when the Pappas family insists that DeAnna be in Georgia when his heart wants to be in Breck. Good luck to you both. I will sit back here on the sidelines waiting for it all to fall apart. I'll bet 2 years max!!!
M
July 11th, 2008 10:40 PM
If Jason is so great - why did his wife and mother of his child leave him?
bUT WHATEVERRR THEY ARE HAPPY AND IN LOVE!
AND LOVE IS NOT PREDICTABLE
AM HAPPY FOR THEM! :)
Patti
July 11th, 2008 5:48 PM
Enough of "Meanna" But all things considered Jesse is a great choice. He comes from a grounded family and is ready.
Carol
July 10th, 2008 11:49 PM
Deanna followed her heart and choose the man she felt suited her best. We are not sharing her heart. Only Deanna truly knows. I would have not guessed Jesse from the beginning but definitely saw their relationship blossom throughout the weeks. Jason seems to be a fantastic guy and will make some lady very happy. Deanna seems to be very happy with Jesse and he will probably make her very happy in the long run. Jesse seems like a genuine nice guy! I wish the happy couple all the very best.
Yvette
July 10th, 2008 7:02 PM
Wow, there are some pretty harsh comments on here. We as the public cannot judge these people's relationship based on what the television station chose to show us. We don't know everything that happened between DeAnna and each of the men. But if you watch the episodes again. You can see in DeAnna's face that she really cares for Jesse. Even Jason mentioned the way she looked at Jesse was different than the way she looked at him. My personal opinion, even though it doesn't matter, is that their friendship will pull them through this relationship. When everything else has diminished and the "new" love is gone, they will still be happy with eachother simply because they can make eachother laugh.
Alyson
July 10th, 2008 6:28 PM
I think you all give DeAnna way too much credit. In my mind, the guy she picked is the one we should be feeling sorry for, not the guys she sent home. To me, she seems to be a confused, insecure girl with a lack of wit and little intelligence who finds love every time a decent guy looks her way. I was amazed that ABC chose such a dimwit as Brad to be a bachelor, and I thought DeAnna was a great match for him because she is a dimwit, too. While Jesse may not seem ready for marriage and may be somewhat immature, I like him a whole lot more than I like DeAnna! And I think both he and Jason stand a good chance of finding a good woman and living happily ever after--just not with this bachelorette!
Marie
July 10th, 2008 6:17 PM
I have it all figured out!! Jeremy the lawyer has a dark side and seems too perfect. Jason has been divorced and no one really knows the details of that situation so one would be leary. And Jesse, if you remember his apartment was soooooooo organized with everything labeled and snowboards all over the wall, is also a bad choice. I think she missed someone along the way in the 25 bachelors. DeAnna seems to be the controling kind and motherly so it would have to be someone wimpie and needs to be directed. Maybe Graham might be the one - she had the hots for him. And she was diffently looking for someone that she had the hots for. I just don't think she really had the hots for Jesse. She just liked the excitement he has for life but that wears thin. Good luck!
Lol
July 10th, 2008 2:46 PM
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I wanna marry Jason.
JACQI
July 10th, 2008 1:50 PM
I don't know why people are so quick to judge her decision. Only DeAnna & Jesse know how they really feel. And sometimes the obvious choice is not the right choice. Sometimes the person who seems not right is exactly right. I found that out myself and have been happily married for 10 years! They definitely look like they are in love and truly are a great match! Good luck to them and I hope everyone else is kinder in their comments.
Heart
July 10th, 2008 11:14 AM
I think the D in her name stands for dumb.Well now that is out of the way. I really wanted her to pick Jeremy. After he came to her hotel to see her I could not belive that. Another thing I think I picked up on was I did not think she was over Brad yet. I did not watch her on last season then I saw the tape of when she was confronting Brad. Oh man I freaked! I think she knew Brad would be watching it. How do you go on one show fall in love and then go on another show and pick another man and be so in love with well lets face it she said she was falling in love with like 4 different men,all within a year. Plus I think she was talking about Brad through out the whole show. I think it was so rude of her to keep Jason away from his son till the end she knew he did not like being away from his son. I think she is one confused gal,and very very self-centered.
sofiya
July 10th, 2008 10:19 AM
i know maybe hes probably not the right guy but at least she likes him and thats what matters.even if she picked jason then she would not like him and thats not good.You cannot tell ur heart what to do.She loves him and thats what matters.Good choice.i understand u deaane
JAH
July 10th, 2008 12:59 AM
I really don't understand the slams against Deanna or Jesse. Jason seemed like a nice man, but if her heart wasn't in it, it was best to turn him down.
So many of the bachelors were cookie cutter types... Jesse stood out as a unique personality. His style to go after friendship first and see what developed instead of going after the sexual attraction first was very mature and an indication of his moral values.
From what I understand, this 26 year old has already realized that life is not how much money you make or your social status, but that being happy and doing what you're passionate about is what really counts. Still, he apparently has his own property, his own business, and he's really good at his chosen profession. I was most impressed at his non-profit work teaching children to snowboard who couldn't otherwise afford it.
I really didn't think Deanna had it in her, I thought she'd make a predictable choice. That she opened up to an authentic, genuine relationship says
J.J.
July 9th, 2008 10:40 PM
The thing that most don't realize is that this is a TV show and the editors are only showing us what they want to see. I read somewhere else that Graham predicted DeAnna would choose Jesse and that the editors cut out a lot from the show so that if we had seen those parts we would have known how DeAnna felt about Jesse.
Also, he's a snowboard instructor now, that doesn't mean that his business won't take off, he's only 26 for gosh sakes.
I think that DeAnna picked who she clicked with and who she fell in love with. Sure, Jason is a great guy, but if she didn't have the hots for him then what kind of a relationship would that be? There has to be some kind of chemistry and DeAnna has that with Jesse. And we'll probably see Jason as the next Bachelor, I wouldn't be surprised because he's so well liked by the audience. ;)
vanessa
July 9th, 2008 9:22 PM
Jason should be the next bachelor. ABC you would be doing yourself a favor by picking Jason to be the next bachelor because A LOT of girls (like me) have crushes on him so a lot of people would watch and the tv rating will go up which means more money for ABC!!! I lovee jason and hopes he finds love cause he such a nice caring father. If i were about 15 years older i would date him. He's just the perfect good lookin guy u need on ABC as the next Bachelor:).
Woody Gollay
July 9th, 2008 5:01 PM
Watched it all, which as a man not normally my kind of television. I saw Deanna face on the final show and man she's definetely in love. Jessie learned something about himself and really grew up. It's a great match and should overcome all adversity. Listen to your heart and you can't fail. Deanna'a sister-in-law knew the real Jessie more than he knew himself. Deanna's dad showed he is a wise man! Jason should be the next bachelor! He's a real winner and will meet his dream girl. How do I know all this? I won the lottery of love (read about it by googling-Won the lottery of love
monique
July 9th, 2008 2:18 PM
the bottom line is she is in love with jesse, not jason, so that's all that matters and for that- she made the right choice!
cj
July 9th, 2008 2:07 PM
This and just about every other site I've visited are buzzing more about Jason (and what a great guy he is) than they are about the engagement of Deanna and Jesse. A lot of viewers fell for the "fairy-tale ending" which in most viewer's topinion was with Jason. But hey, this is all about Deanna's choice and she chose Jesse. Guess maybe she just read different fairy tale books than most of the viewers.
The only thing that still leaves me a bit disturbed, however, is the way Deanna led so many guys on -- despite how many times she told us that was not her intent or that she was just trying to be with each of them individually in the moment. The things she said to the guys and in her personal interviews just didn't line up in the end with how the show concluded. Obviously this has much to do with ABC's story line editing. Either way, it was a disappointment. I'm sure Brad Womack is happy to know that Deanna has now replaced him on the list of ex-bachelors/bachelorettes that left the s
Courtney
July 9th, 2008 1:29 PM
I think DeAnna made a mistake. Jesse has no real job and still lives at home.
I wonder ha Ty took the bad news!!
Kay
July 9th, 2008 12:50 PM
I loved watching this and I thought for sure she would pick Jason or Jeremy, but opposites do attract. I hope they have discussed and are on the same page as child rearing, finances, etc, as this "reality show" was not really reality. Reality will come sooner or later and issues such as these will eventually come to surface if they stay together. Time will tell. It's all fun now and new. Giving a ring and setting a date - way too soon to really know one another. That's reality!
Lisa
July 9th, 2008 12:22 PM
I'm glad she chose Jesse, I believe he was actually in love with her and not the idea of her. I liked Jason very much, but like her sister-in-law said, ' That would be fast-forwarding her life 5 years. Jesse is down to earth and he took it slow... good for him! It was more realistic. I didn't care for Jeremy at all, I felt like he was putting on a show at all times. As for Graham... I liked him very much, and believe she truly had feelings for him and it hurt when she couldn't get the same in return.
Chris
July 9th, 2008 11:53 AM
I was for Jason all the way. He has looks, intelligence, and class. I think Deanna did him wrong by actually doing to him what Brad did to her. We know someone will be "hurt" in the end because there can only be one "winner". However I don't think one does not know until the "day" of the FRC which one will be chosen. I think one would know, like she knew her feelings for Graham, so she did not have to lead Jason on by giving him the intimate hugs, kisses and even letting him get down on one knee. She could have been a "friend" type not leading any one except the one she really wanted. I hope Jason will be the next Bachelor, and I do not feel it will lessen him any as a parent or person. Also, is there a reason he could not have his son there a lot of the time (not for the dates, etc. but there with him)? One more thing, on the comment about why Jason's wife left him if he was so great, why did she leave her own child? That should be the question, maybe Jason somehow had a hand in h
donna donatelli
July 9th, 2008 11:40 AM
i think she made a mistake..and she lied...she told jason she decided that morning...but when she was at the final episode with jessie she said she waited a long time to tell him she loved him....then why did she not just choose jeremy and jessie instead of keeping jason from his son
Mary
July 9th, 2008 10:48 AM
If Jesse was a professional baseball player, would people think the same? Snowboarding at his elite level (olympic)requires (1) committent and perseverance (2) incredible athleticism (3) creativity and (4) open-mindedness NOT to judge closed minded people who just can't understand anything that's not safe and traditional. All of those qualities will make Jesse successful in whatever he chooses. I have no doubt that marriage to Jesse will be MUCH more exciting, they're young, they should have fun and figure out their lives together. I am so glad that someone like Jesse actually went onto the bachelor - he was by far the most interesting and fun of all the guys. Who meets a girl and expects to marry her right away? Jesse had the right approach to the relationship and to life in general. Good for them!!!
Amy
July 9th, 2008 10:18 AM
I was pulling for Jason, since week one. Jason seems so grounded and has a great family. DeAnna would have fit perfectly into his life. However, DeAnna wants to have fun and enjoy new experiences. Jesse can give her that. Jason would have to get a baby sittler and she would have to be an instant Mom. Too much for a new relationship. Cheers to DeAnna & Jesse. Hope it all works out!!!!!
July 13th, 2008 3:32 PM
Jeremy, if you're still looking, I'd be honored to pursue a relationship with you. You are gorgeous, intelligent, human, and have suffered far too much in your life. I'm not too far from you either .. I'm in Houston. In any case, I wish you the very best that life has to offer and I hope you aren't down on love because of this Bachelorette experience. The right girl is out there .. and waiting. Take care.
July 13th, 2008 3:28 PM
I am extremely disappointed in DeAnna's selection of Jesse and the show overall. This show has such huge pomp, but lacks circumstance. Jeremy and Jason were the far better choices for DeAnna as far as truly being "in love" with her and putting her first. They are also better able to provide for her financially. What is Jesse going to do when the Pappas family insists that DeAnna be in Georgia when his heart wants to be in Breck. Good luck to you both. I will sit back here on the sidelines waiting for it all to fall apart. I'll bet 2 years max!!!
July 11th, 2008 10:40 PM
If Jason is so great - why did his wife and mother of his child leave him?
bUT WHATEVERRR THEY ARE HAPPY AND IN LOVE!
AND LOVE IS NOT PREDICTABLE
AM HAPPY FOR THEM! :)
July 11th, 2008 5:48 PM
Enough of "Meanna" But all things considered Jesse is a great choice. He comes from a grounded family and is ready.
July 10th, 2008 11:49 PM
Deanna followed her heart and choose the man she felt suited her best. We are not sharing her heart. Only Deanna truly knows. I would have not guessed Jesse from the beginning but definitely saw their relationship blossom throughout the weeks. Jason seems to be a fantastic guy and will make some lady very happy. Deanna seems to be very happy with Jesse and he will probably make her very happy in the long run. Jesse seems like a genuine nice guy! I wish the happy couple all the very best.
July 10th, 2008 7:02 PM
Wow, there are some pretty harsh comments on here. We as the public cannot judge these people's relationship based on what the television station chose to show us. We don't know everything that happened between DeAnna and each of the men. But if you watch the episodes again. You can see in DeAnna's face that she really cares for Jesse. Even Jason mentioned the way she looked at Jesse was different than the way she looked at him. My personal opinion, even though it doesn't matter, is that their friendship will pull them through this relationship. When everything else has diminished and the "new" love is gone, they will still be happy with eachother simply because they can make eachother laugh.
July 10th, 2008 6:28 PM
I think you all give DeAnna way too much credit. In my mind, the guy she picked is the one we should be feeling sorry for, not the guys she sent home. To me, she seems to be a confused, insecure girl with a lack of wit and little intelligence who finds love every time a decent guy looks her way. I was amazed that ABC chose such a dimwit as Brad to be a bachelor, and I thought DeAnna was a great match for him because she is a dimwit, too. While Jesse may not seem ready for marriage and may be somewhat immature, I like him a whole lot more than I like DeAnna! And I think both he and Jason stand a good chance of finding a good woman and living happily ever after--just not with this bachelorette!
July 10th, 2008 6:17 PM
I have it all figured out!! Jeremy the lawyer has a dark side and seems too perfect. Jason has been divorced and no one really knows the details of that situation so one would be leary. And Jesse, if you remember his apartment was soooooooo organized with everything labeled and snowboards all over the wall, is also a bad choice. I think she missed someone along the way in the 25 bachelors. DeAnna seems to be the controling kind and motherly so it would have to be someone wimpie and needs to be directed. Maybe Graham might be the one - she had the hots for him. And she was diffently looking for someone that she had the hots for. I just don't think she really had the hots for Jesse. She just liked the excitement he has for life but that wears thin. Good luck!
July 10th, 2008 2:46 PM
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I wanna marry Jason.
July 10th, 2008 1:50 PM
I don't know why people are so quick to judge her decision. Only DeAnna & Jesse know how they really feel. And sometimes the obvious choice is not the right choice. Sometimes the person who seems not right is exactly right. I found that out myself and have been happily married for 10 years! They definitely look like they are in love and truly are a great match! Good luck to them and I hope everyone else is kinder in their comments.
July 10th, 2008 11:14 AM
I think the D in her name stands for dumb.Well now that is out of the way. I really wanted her to pick Jeremy. After he came to her hotel to see her I could not belive that. Another thing I think I picked up on was I did not think she was over Brad yet. I did not watch her on last season then I saw the tape of when she was confronting Brad. Oh man I freaked! I think she knew Brad would be watching it. How do you go on one show fall in love and then go on another show and pick another man and be so in love with well lets face it she said she was falling in love with like 4 different men,all within a year. Plus I think she was talking about Brad through out the whole show. I think it was so rude of her to keep Jason away from his son till the end she knew he did not like being away from his son. I think she is one confused gal,and very very self-centered.
July 10th, 2008 10:19 AM
i know maybe hes probably not the right guy but at least she likes him and thats what matters.even if she picked jason then she would not like him and thats not good.You cannot tell ur heart what to do.She loves him and thats what matters.Good choice.i understand u deaane
July 10th, 2008 12:59 AM
I really don't understand the slams against Deanna or Jesse. Jason seemed like a nice man, but if her heart wasn't in it, it was best to turn him down.
So many of the bachelors were cookie cutter types... Jesse stood out as a unique personality. His style to go after friendship first and see what developed instead of going after the sexual attraction first was very mature and an indication of his moral values.
From what I understand, this 26 year old has already realized that life is not how much money you make or your social status, but that being happy and doing what you're passionate about is what really counts. Still, he apparently has his own property, his own business, and he's really good at his chosen profession. I was most impressed at his non-profit work teaching children to snowboard who couldn't otherwise afford it.
I really didn't think Deanna had it in her, I thought she'd make a predictable choice. That she opened up to an authentic, genuine relationship says
July 9th, 2008 10:40 PM
The thing that most don't realize is that this is a TV show and the editors are only showing us what they want to see. I read somewhere else that Graham predicted DeAnna would choose Jesse and that the editors cut out a lot from the show so that if we had seen those parts we would have known how DeAnna felt about Jesse.
Also, he's a snowboard instructor now, that doesn't mean that his business won't take off, he's only 26 for gosh sakes.
I think that DeAnna picked who she clicked with and who she fell in love with. Sure, Jason is a great guy, but if she didn't have the hots for him then what kind of a relationship would that be? There has to be some kind of chemistry and DeAnna has that with Jesse. And we'll probably see Jason as the next Bachelor, I wouldn't be surprised because he's so well liked by the audience. ;)
July 9th, 2008 9:22 PM
Jason should be the next bachelor. ABC you would be doing yourself a favor by picking Jason to be the next bachelor because A LOT of girls (like me) have crushes on him so a lot of people would watch and the tv rating will go up which means more money for ABC!!! I lovee jason and hopes he finds love cause he such a nice caring father. If i were about 15 years older i would date him. He's just the perfect good lookin guy u need on ABC as the next Bachelor:).
July 9th, 2008 5:01 PM
Watched it all, which as a man not normally my kind of television. I saw Deanna face on the final show and man she's definetely in love. Jessie learned something about himself and really grew up. It's a great match and should overcome all adversity. Listen to your heart and you can't fail. Deanna'a sister-in-law knew the real Jessie more than he knew himself. Deanna's dad showed he is a wise man! Jason should be the next bachelor! He's a real winner and will meet his dream girl. How do I know all this? I won the lottery of love (read about it by googling-Won the lottery of love
July 9th, 2008 2:18 PM
the bottom line is she is in love with jesse, not jason, so that's all that matters and for that- she made the right choice!
July 9th, 2008 2:07 PM
This and just about every other site I've visited are buzzing more about Jason (and what a great guy he is) than they are about the engagement of Deanna and Jesse. A lot of viewers fell for the "fairy-tale ending" which in most viewer's topinion was with Jason. But hey, this is all about Deanna's choice and she chose Jesse. Guess maybe she just read different fairy tale books than most of the viewers.
The only thing that still leaves me a bit disturbed, however, is the way Deanna led so many guys on -- despite how many times she told us that was not her intent or that she was just trying to be with each of them individually in the moment. The things she said to the guys and in her personal interviews just didn't line up in the end with how the show concluded. Obviously this has much to do with ABC's story line editing. Either way, it was a disappointment. I'm sure Brad Womack is happy to know that Deanna has now replaced him on the list of ex-bachelors/bachelorettes that left the s
July 9th, 2008 1:29 PM
I think DeAnna made a mistake. Jesse has no real job and still lives at home.
I wonder ha Ty took the bad news!!
July 9th, 2008 12:50 PM
I loved watching this and I thought for sure she would pick Jason or Jeremy, but opposites do attract. I hope they have discussed and are on the same page as child rearing, finances, etc, as this "reality show" was not really reality. Reality will come sooner or later and issues such as these will eventually come to surface if they stay together. Time will tell. It's all fun now and new. Giving a ring and setting a date - way too soon to really know one another. That's reality!
July 9th, 2008 12:22 PM
I'm glad she chose Jesse, I believe he was actually in love with her and not the idea of her. I liked Jason very much, but like her sister-in-law said, ' That would be fast-forwarding her life 5 years. Jesse is down to earth and he took it slow... good for him! It was more realistic. I didn't care for Jeremy at all, I felt like he was putting on a show at all times. As for Graham... I liked him very much, and believe she truly had feelings for him and it hurt when she couldn't get the same in return.
July 9th, 2008 11:53 AM
I was for Jason all the way. He has looks, intelligence, and class. I think Deanna did him wrong by actually doing to him what Brad did to her. We know someone will be "hurt" in the end because there can only be one "winner". However I don't think one does not know until the "day" of the FRC which one will be chosen. I think one would know, like she knew her feelings for Graham, so she did not have to lead Jason on by giving him the intimate hugs, kisses and even letting him get down on one knee. She could have been a "friend" type not leading any one except the one she really wanted. I hope Jason will be the next Bachelor, and I do not feel it will lessen him any as a parent or person. Also, is there a reason he could not have his son there a lot of the time (not for the dates, etc. but there with him)? One more thing, on the comment about why Jason's wife left him if he was so great, why did she leave her own child? That should be the question, maybe Jason somehow had a hand in h
July 9th, 2008 11:40 AM
i think she made a mistake..and she lied...she told jason she decided that morning...but when she was at the final episode with jessie she said she waited a long time to tell him she loved him....then why did she not just choose jeremy and jessie instead of keeping jason from his son
July 9th, 2008 10:48 AM
If Jesse was a professional baseball player, would people think the same? Snowboarding at his elite level (olympic)requires (1) committent and perseverance (2) incredible athleticism (3) creativity and (4) open-mindedness NOT to judge closed minded people who just can't understand anything that's not safe and traditional. All of those qualities will make Jesse successful in whatever he chooses. I have no doubt that marriage to Jesse will be MUCH more exciting, they're young, they should have fun and figure out their lives together. I am so glad that someone like Jesse actually went onto the bachelor - he was by far the most interesting and fun of all the guys. Who meets a girl and expects to marry her right away? Jesse had the right approach to the relationship and to life in general. Good for them!!!
July 9th, 2008 10:18 AM
I was pulling for Jason, since week one. Jason seems so grounded and has a great family. DeAnna would have fit perfectly into his life. However, DeAnna wants to have fun and enjoy new experiences. Jesse can give her that. Jason would have to get a baby sittler and she would have to be an instant Mom. Too much for a new relationship. Cheers to DeAnna & Jesse. Hope it all works out!!!!!