Well, Katicans, the Bible also says judge not, lest ye be judged. So, I'm not so concerned about 'twisting verses to aquit Clay' since you are not qualified to convict him. You are not in the middle of that faithful man's relationship with God.
You're also not involved in the fans' relationship with Clay, so you can relieve yourself of worry for them about how Clay 'should' do them better.
Have a nice day, full of life. Clay probably is!
Robin
July 6th, 2008 4:53 AM
Clay will comment when he is ready. For many, reasons it is possible that he has been advised not to comment yet. Not commenting, is not arrogance. Clay is the least arrogant person there is. He is just accustomed to dealing with bullies. And, this is exactly what all this gossip is right now. Tabloids being bullies. What I feel even sorrier for, is the fans that walked away, without ever waiting to hear the truth. And, jumping immediatley to the conclusion that TMZ is so honest and forthright. A man who has just spent 5 days in Somalia.. I don't think that is a man who is arrogant.
There could be many reasons why Clay has not commented on this. The one of many, the story was told before Jaymes was ready to tell it. And, if Clay is not the father, then it's not Clay's story to tell. That is just one of many reasons, along with what I opened with.. there could be many reasons, that Clay has been advised to say nothing yet. There is always timing, and a reason for everything Clay do
Dana
July 6th, 2008 4:35 AM
Katicans, you're an idiot. Noone has the right to expect anything. Its his life, his blog and you are a vicious busybody. Go back to your hater sites Kathy. You've succeeded in proving what a fool you are.
Katicans
July 6th, 2008 1:15 AM
Oh my word, vtime. If you think an illegitimate child is a part of God's plan for Clay, you need to get re-read the scripture and grasp God's truth instead of twisting the meaning of the verses to acquit Clay. My Bible says God makes a home for the lonely (by providing him with a WIFE and children).
And why do you think Clay is so lonely? He has a family who loves him.
I really feel for all of Clay's remaining fans. He isn't in chains and incommunicado yet he hasn't even blogged so much as a hello. The arrogance he is exhibiting is really mean and thoughtless. The fans who have stuck with him through thick and thin deserve better.
vtime
July 5th, 2008 10:08 PM
Katican, I don't know what God you know, but my God sets the lonely in families, according to the Bible, and Clay has been set in a new little family with Jaymes and the baby. I love God's plans!
Robin
July 5th, 2008 7:32 PM
I am a Clay Aiken fan. And, however this story turns out, I will still be a fan. At the moment, I really do not believe Clay is the father. I just don't think this is something Clay would do, unless he was in love with the person. And, well, yea, maybe he and Jaymes are secretly married. But, really, I don't think so. If by chance it is true. .it is veyr possible, Clay could have done it for Jaymes.. as in helping her out as a friend. Clay is very giving and generous. In that respect I could see him doing this for Jaymes. Not for himself. But. then in that same resepct.. unless, Clay were to walk away, and let Jaymes raise this baby 100% herself. It's the only way I could se Clay doing this. He would want to be apart of his child's life. Not just part time. Not just once in a while. All the time. Which this is why I think Clay did not do this. When asked not too long ago, if Clay would ever adopt a child from any of the countries, he's visited with UNICEF. He said, no, cause it wasn't
Katicans
July 5th, 2008 5:54 PM
I can spell. I just can't type very well. What's your excuse for misspelling music?
"They could be a married couple for all we know."
Quit kidding yourself. If they were married we would most certainly know about it. Of course, they could still get married. I would throw up but at least it would give this precious, innocent, unborn child the legitimacy he deserves.
I will say it again. Perhaps your 'god' might but the God I know and love would not lead anyone down the path Clay has taken! It would be like saying God would lead someone to steal. That's just crazy. God does not lead people into sin and shame on anyone who says He does!
MusikLover
July 5th, 2008 5:36 PM
[quote]God would NEVER lead anyone down the path of having an illigitimate child. The devel's handy work yes, but God's plan? Absolutely NOT.
[/quote]
And Katicans - I wonder how one can be so versed in what the devil's handiwork is and not even be able to spell it.
You have no idea what God might have led Clay to do. You don't even know the relationship between Clay and Jaymes, only what the tabloids, whose sole agenda seems to make every move Clay makes into something gross and icky, had to say about it. They could be a married couple for all we know.
MusikLover
July 5th, 2008 5:32 PM
I don't understand the title of this blog. So, any fan that is happy for Clay and Jaymes is labeled "insane?" We're only sane if we're NOT happy that a precious, very wanted child is about to enter the world? Strange reasoning, that.
rs
July 5th, 2008 3:59 PM
The comment on Clay not being able to take care of himself should have been directed to "she'snotasoldasyouthink,butstill", Sorry that wasn't made clear.
Although I believe it is Clay's private business I will say that I personally don't agree with all his choices either, but it is his life to live. Going one step further, Jaymes took full advantage of Clay to tie herself to him as the ultimate Claymate.
And I also agree about butterflyshine. It's time for her to retire as an OFC mod. She plays favorites and promotes her own agenda--anything but impartial.
And for Katicans--people change. Clay was 24 then, he's almost 30 now. People change a lot over a period of six years and especially with the crap that has been thrown at him. He hasn't projected that personna for a long time, the fans have put that on him. Don't be so judgmental.
Katicans
July 5th, 2008 2:04 PM
Although some negative comments were posted about this on Clay Aiken's OH-ficial fan board, they were later deleted by the inimitable and over the top moderator/claymate, Butterflyshine.
And it is NOT Clay Aiken's private business. A baby is PUBLIC business when it is conveived in as weird and bizarre circumstances as this. Many fans DO NOT believe what he has allegedly done fits in at all with the personna he projects. God would NEVER lead anyone down the path of having an illigitimate child. The devel's handy work yes, but God's plan? Absolutely NOT.
I no longer trust Clay Aiken to be the personna he projects.
Using My Voice
July 5th, 2008 11:15 AM
In response to rs at 9:19 am
I never said that Clay can't take care of himself!!!
I don't think that you know what the word contradictory means. It is not contradictory to say that no one is allowed to discuss this subject on his fan message boards and then to relate what fans are thinking and saying outside these message boards. It is two totally different subjects but not contradictory. There are definitely other conversation mediums other than fan message boards. Have you ever heard of private blog sites, private fan clubs, private fan meetings, private emails, telephone, etc. where people are allowed to express their feelings? I doubt it because you are probably one of those who only hangs out and gets all your information at fan message boards where they don't really know anything.
You just sound like a fan who believes whatever you think that Clay would want to hear. As if you would know. Errrr that means that you have no opinion on the subject, you
rs
July 5th, 2008 9:19 AM
As I read your whole post "Using My Voice" I found it a bit contradictory. First, you say no one is allowed to discuss it on the mb's then you start talking about what "some" fans believe. Why don't you just say it is what YOU believe and is YOUR opinion?
Clay is in no way obligated to talk about his personal life to anyone but his closest friends and family. On LKL he said he was taking back his life and since then has not shared personal things like he once did.
That said, it is only natural that many would like to know the facts in this "story". I suspect we will know those facts if and when Clay and/or Jaymes decide to share. For now everything is speculation no matter what side you are on.
As for Clay not being able to take care of himself--haha!! what a joke...I suppose you know him personally and see him regularly? How would anyone know such a thing? It appears to me that he is a man who makes his own decisions without regard to what either fans or haters think.
Using My Voice
July 5th, 2008 8:55 AM
I quoted the above from the story simply because there really isn't a way to know the true reaction of his fans because the fan boards, including Clay's Official Fan Club message board won't allow his fans to discuss this story. It is off limits. Period!!! It is true that neither Clay nor Jaymes have made a comment one way or the other so no one knows if this story is even true.
This media story from a trash/gossip tabloid was, however, posted at the Official Fan Club by an over zealous, got to be the first to post, post-whore who is a moderator and goes by the name butterflyshine. If you don't believe me go over and see how many threads are started by her. She needs to be fired!!!!! Some members there feel that if it were true then Clay should be the one to announce it not the media and certainly not a moderator who doesn't know if the story is true or not and who broke the rules of the board by posting a story that is "speculation" "gossip" and/or "personal". S
she'snotasoldasyouthink,butstill
July 4th, 2008 7:00 PM
Clay can barely take care of himself, much less a child. This seems like it was a very selfish choice. I hope and pray the baby will be healthy and these parents will have plenty of good, daily, support.
GAAAWD
July 3rd, 2008 2:30 PM
Jaymes is OLD!
Joan
June 8th, 2008 3:04 PM
I wish them a beautiful baby and have no doubt it will be. And talented too. He'll be a wonderful father.
Amy
June 4th, 2008 5:25 PM
Well, all my best wishes to the baby. I hope he has a wonderful, blessed and healthy life ahead of him surrounded by people who love him and only want the very best for him.
ORRN
June 2nd, 2008 5:01 PM
First off,
Jaymes is pregnant. As far as we know Clay is not the father. So people need to back off of him. He will say what he needs to say when HE himself wants to say it.
Fay
June 2nd, 2008 1:32 PM
I'm very happy for Clay and very shocked. I will be having my first baby in December so it will be really neat to have a child the same age as Clay's. I love Clay Aiken and wish him all the best in the world!
Katy Jurado
June 1st, 2008 4:55 PM
What you DON'T know is there are literaly hundreds of Clay Aiken fan boards that are inaccessable to the public. I know because I am a member of one of them. The more outrageous and over the top 'Claymates' post publicly so you are only getting a small sampling of opinion.
Many, many of Clay's fans ARE NOT HAPPY ABOUT ANY PART OF THIS STORY if in fact, it is true. We believe and have for a long time that Jaymes Foster is a schemer who has been lusting after Clay Aiken for over two years (must video and pictoral evidence to support this). The woman can't keep her hands off him. Many of us think she suckered him in with a sob story just to get her hooks on him for life.
By the way, I am NOT a 'Claymate' and DETEST that term.
Tyiesha
June 1st, 2008 1:52 PM
I guess they don't REALLY mean his sister...right?
Emily
June 1st, 2008 9:23 AM
How Wonderful for both Mr.Aiken and Ms.Foster. This child will be a Blessing in both of their lives. I am Happy for all iinvolved in the future of this new little one. CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
Merlene
June 1st, 2008 8:23 AM
A child is a gift from God, and who deserves a child more than Clay, I know in my heart he will be a wonderful father...CONGRATULATIONS CLAY!!
July 6th, 2008 6:04 AM
Well, Katicans, the Bible also says judge not, lest ye be judged. So, I'm not so concerned about 'twisting verses to aquit Clay' since you are not qualified to convict him. You are not in the middle of that faithful man's relationship with God.
You're also not involved in the fans' relationship with Clay, so you can relieve yourself of worry for them about how Clay 'should' do them better.
Have a nice day, full of life. Clay probably is!
July 6th, 2008 4:53 AM
Clay will comment when he is ready. For many, reasons it is possible that he has been advised not to comment yet. Not commenting, is not arrogance. Clay is the least arrogant person there is. He is just accustomed to dealing with bullies. And, this is exactly what all this gossip is right now. Tabloids being bullies. What I feel even sorrier for, is the fans that walked away, without ever waiting to hear the truth. And, jumping immediatley to the conclusion that TMZ is so honest and forthright. A man who has just spent 5 days in Somalia.. I don't think that is a man who is arrogant.
There could be many reasons why Clay has not commented on this. The one of many, the story was told before Jaymes was ready to tell it. And, if Clay is not the father, then it's not Clay's story to tell. That is just one of many reasons, along with what I opened with.. there could be many reasons, that Clay has been advised to say nothing yet. There is always timing, and a reason for everything Clay do
July 6th, 2008 4:35 AM
Katicans, you're an idiot. Noone has the right to expect anything. Its his life, his blog and you are a vicious busybody. Go back to your hater sites Kathy. You've succeeded in proving what a fool you are.
July 6th, 2008 1:15 AM
Oh my word, vtime. If you think an illegitimate child is a part of God's plan for Clay, you need to get re-read the scripture and grasp God's truth instead of twisting the meaning of the verses to acquit Clay. My Bible says God makes a home for the lonely (by providing him with a WIFE and children).
And why do you think Clay is so lonely? He has a family who loves him.
I really feel for all of Clay's remaining fans. He isn't in chains and incommunicado yet he hasn't even blogged so much as a hello. The arrogance he is exhibiting is really mean and thoughtless. The fans who have stuck with him through thick and thin deserve better.
July 5th, 2008 10:08 PM
Katican, I don't know what God you know, but my God sets the lonely in families, according to the Bible, and Clay has been set in a new little family with Jaymes and the baby. I love God's plans!
July 5th, 2008 7:32 PM
I am a Clay Aiken fan. And, however this story turns out, I will still be a fan. At the moment, I really do not believe Clay is the father. I just don't think this is something Clay would do, unless he was in love with the person. And, well, yea, maybe he and Jaymes are secretly married. But, really, I don't think so. If by chance it is true. .it is veyr possible, Clay could have done it for Jaymes.. as in helping her out as a friend. Clay is very giving and generous. In that respect I could see him doing this for Jaymes. Not for himself. But. then in that same resepct.. unless, Clay were to walk away, and let Jaymes raise this baby 100% herself. It's the only way I could se Clay doing this. He would want to be apart of his child's life. Not just part time. Not just once in a while. All the time. Which this is why I think Clay did not do this. When asked not too long ago, if Clay would ever adopt a child from any of the countries, he's visited with UNICEF. He said, no, cause it wasn't
July 5th, 2008 5:54 PM
I can spell. I just can't type very well. What's your excuse for misspelling music?
"They could be a married couple for all we know."
Quit kidding yourself. If they were married we would most certainly know about it. Of course, they could still get married. I would throw up but at least it would give this precious, innocent, unborn child the legitimacy he deserves.
I will say it again. Perhaps your 'god' might but the God I know and love would not lead anyone down the path Clay has taken! It would be like saying God would lead someone to steal. That's just crazy. God does not lead people into sin and shame on anyone who says He does!
July 5th, 2008 5:36 PM
[quote]God would NEVER lead anyone down the path of having an illigitimate child. The devel's handy work yes, but God's plan? Absolutely NOT.
[/quote]
And Katicans - I wonder how one can be so versed in what the devil's handiwork is and not even be able to spell it.
You have no idea what God might have led Clay to do. You don't even know the relationship between Clay and Jaymes, only what the tabloids, whose sole agenda seems to make every move Clay makes into something gross and icky, had to say about it. They could be a married couple for all we know.
July 5th, 2008 5:32 PM
I don't understand the title of this blog. So, any fan that is happy for Clay and Jaymes is labeled "insane?" We're only sane if we're NOT happy that a precious, very wanted child is about to enter the world? Strange reasoning, that.
July 5th, 2008 3:59 PM
The comment on Clay not being able to take care of himself should have been directed to "she'snotasoldasyouthink,butstill", Sorry that wasn't made clear.
Although I believe it is Clay's private business I will say that I personally don't agree with all his choices either, but it is his life to live. Going one step further, Jaymes took full advantage of Clay to tie herself to him as the ultimate Claymate.
And I also agree about butterflyshine. It's time for her to retire as an OFC mod. She plays favorites and promotes her own agenda--anything but impartial.
And for Katicans--people change. Clay was 24 then, he's almost 30 now. People change a lot over a period of six years and especially with the crap that has been thrown at him. He hasn't projected that personna for a long time, the fans have put that on him. Don't be so judgmental.
July 5th, 2008 2:04 PM
Although some negative comments were posted about this on Clay Aiken's OH-ficial fan board, they were later deleted by the inimitable and over the top moderator/claymate, Butterflyshine.
And it is NOT Clay Aiken's private business. A baby is PUBLIC business when it is conveived in as weird and bizarre circumstances as this. Many fans DO NOT believe what he has allegedly done fits in at all with the personna he projects. God would NEVER lead anyone down the path of having an illigitimate child. The devel's handy work yes, but God's plan? Absolutely NOT.
I no longer trust Clay Aiken to be the personna he projects.
July 5th, 2008 11:15 AM
In response to rs at 9:19 am
I never said that Clay can't take care of himself!!!
I don't think that you know what the word contradictory means. It is not contradictory to say that no one is allowed to discuss this subject on his fan message boards and then to relate what fans are thinking and saying outside these message boards. It is two totally different subjects but not contradictory. There are definitely other conversation mediums other than fan message boards. Have you ever heard of private blog sites, private fan clubs, private fan meetings, private emails, telephone, etc. where people are allowed to express their feelings? I doubt it because you are probably one of those who only hangs out and gets all your information at fan message boards where they don't really know anything.
You just sound like a fan who believes whatever you think that Clay would want to hear. As if you would know. Errrr that means that you have no opinion on the subject, you
July 5th, 2008 9:19 AM
As I read your whole post "Using My Voice" I found it a bit contradictory. First, you say no one is allowed to discuss it on the mb's then you start talking about what "some" fans believe. Why don't you just say it is what YOU believe and is YOUR opinion?
Clay is in no way obligated to talk about his personal life to anyone but his closest friends and family. On LKL he said he was taking back his life and since then has not shared personal things like he once did.
That said, it is only natural that many would like to know the facts in this "story". I suspect we will know those facts if and when Clay and/or Jaymes decide to share. For now everything is speculation no matter what side you are on.
As for Clay not being able to take care of himself--haha!! what a joke...I suppose you know him personally and see him regularly? How would anyone know such a thing? It appears to me that he is a man who makes his own decisions without regard to what either fans or haters think.
July 5th, 2008 8:55 AM
I quoted the above from the story simply because there really isn't a way to know the true reaction of his fans because the fan boards, including Clay's Official Fan Club message board won't allow his fans to discuss this story. It is off limits. Period!!! It is true that neither Clay nor Jaymes have made a comment one way or the other so no one knows if this story is even true.
This media story from a trash/gossip tabloid was, however, posted at the Official Fan Club by an over zealous, got to be the first to post, post-whore who is a moderator and goes by the name butterflyshine. If you don't believe me go over and see how many threads are started by her. She needs to be fired!!!!! Some members there feel that if it were true then Clay should be the one to announce it not the media and certainly not a moderator who doesn't know if the story is true or not and who broke the rules of the board by posting a story that is "speculation" "gossip" and/or "personal". S
July 4th, 2008 7:00 PM
Clay can barely take care of himself, much less a child. This seems like it was a very selfish choice. I hope and pray the baby will be healthy and these parents will have plenty of good, daily, support.
July 3rd, 2008 2:30 PM
Jaymes is OLD!
June 8th, 2008 3:04 PM
I wish them a beautiful baby and have no doubt it will be. And talented too. He'll be a wonderful father.
June 4th, 2008 5:25 PM
Well, all my best wishes to the baby. I hope he has a wonderful, blessed and healthy life ahead of him surrounded by people who love him and only want the very best for him.
June 2nd, 2008 5:01 PM
First off,
Jaymes is pregnant. As far as we know Clay is not the father. So people need to back off of him. He will say what he needs to say when HE himself wants to say it.
June 2nd, 2008 1:32 PM
I'm very happy for Clay and very shocked. I will be having my first baby in December so it will be really neat to have a child the same age as Clay's. I love Clay Aiken and wish him all the best in the world!
June 1st, 2008 4:55 PM
What you DON'T know is there are literaly hundreds of Clay Aiken fan boards that are inaccessable to the public. I know because I am a member of one of them. The more outrageous and over the top 'Claymates' post publicly so you are only getting a small sampling of opinion.
Many, many of Clay's fans ARE NOT HAPPY ABOUT ANY PART OF THIS STORY if in fact, it is true. We believe and have for a long time that Jaymes Foster is a schemer who has been lusting after Clay Aiken for over two years (must video and pictoral evidence to support this). The woman can't keep her hands off him. Many of us think she suckered him in with a sob story just to get her hooks on him for life.
By the way, I am NOT a 'Claymate' and DETEST that term.
June 1st, 2008 1:52 PM
I guess they don't REALLY mean his sister...right?
June 1st, 2008 9:23 AM
How Wonderful for both Mr.Aiken and Ms.Foster. This child will be a Blessing in both of their lives. I am Happy for all iinvolved in the future of this new little one. CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
June 1st, 2008 8:23 AM
A child is a gift from God, and who deserves a child more than Clay, I know in my heart he will be a wonderful father...CONGRATULATIONS CLAY!!