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July 7th, 2008 1:29 AM
That's fine. Clay doesn't need fair weathered fans anyway. He's a good person. And moral person. Someone who is out there helping people. He is making a difference in people's lives. More then most people. I hope one of your good friends, doesn't ever do anything you find unforgivable. Despite. .the 1000's of wonderful things they have done. It wiould be very difficult to keep up to your standards. If you are so for Clay having to follow your rules, in how he conducts his life.. I certainly hope you walk the walk. Cause I know Clay does.
July 7th, 2008 3:14 PM
I believe NOTHING until he speaks.
July 7th, 2008 11:00 PM
I am quickly becoming an ex-fan after being a hard core Claymate for over 5 years. Clay has stopped blogging on his fanclub website, even though that's a big reason people pay to join. He no longer seems really thankful for or intersted in his fans. He should address rumors when they surface, even if he doesn't really want to. He is a celebrity and he gets lots of perks, so he should buck up and accept the downside. He should be who he is, do want he wants, and say so and let the chips fall where they may. His true fans won't care.
July 8th, 2008 11:42 AM
I wonder if he's aware or care of some the possible turmoil effects not just to him, but to Jaymes. There could be more falling out.
July 8th, 2008 11:50 AM
Oh, hell! I say give the poor man a break! I don't blame him for not blogging right now. I mean it's damned if he does and damned if he doesn't. Clay deserves his R&R and he probably needs a break from his fans.
I love Clay unconditionally and it's sad that a lot of fans who have claimed that, don't really know what unconditionally is. If they know what it means I guess they weren't serious when they said they loved him unconditionally or they wouldn't have dumped him no matter if the story is true or not. I'm disappointed in the fans who have dumped Clay over this. Imagine how Clay must feel.
July 8th, 2008 12:46 PM
They reap what they sow.
July 8th, 2008 2:35 PM
Fortunately, I never said I loved Clay Aiken unconditionally.
As for how Clay feels, too bad. Since this behavior does not match the persona he projected, he owes many in his fan base especially the ones waiting to hear from him, an explanation.
If Clay had kept his mouth shut about the role model crap, if he had not been so quick to condemn the behavior of other celebrities with his 'rotting insides' comments it wouldn't seem as hypocritical to me nor would I have expected more from him.
I believe the story is true but for the many fans who are waiting to hear it from him, he needs to own up to it and as someone said 'let the chips fall where they may'. I interpret his silence as arrogant and cowardly.
July 8th, 2008 3:56 PM
Unfortunately when the truth comes out Clay will by then have lost not only the fans who disapprove (if the daddy story is true), but also the ones who would otherwise be happy for him, but are pissed that he's ignored them. And he's never "damned if he does". The fans ALWAYS love to hear from him, even if it's just a few words. And love unconditionally? No such thing.
July 8th, 2008 7:53 PM
This silence is a risk and costly.
Clay must be secure enough to think he can afford a loss in fandom, since this silence is almost a statement in itself to tell everyone to shut up and shove off.
I am frankly dumbfounded, heartbroken and heartsick over unconfirmed rumor.
July 8th, 2008 9:57 PM
Maybe Clay's silence is a way of giving himself and those close to him, some privacy and space that he/they may need at the moment. He doesn't owe anyone anything in regards to his personal business.
Does this guy ever get cut any slack? sheesh
July 9th, 2008 1:45 AM
I'm sorry. It takes 5 minutes to type a few words. I don't care if he is "taking a break" or "needs privacy". And yeah he doesn't owe his fans anything, even though they busted their butts and their wallets to get him where he is. Yeah, even though they are upset and begging him to blog. Those "unconditional" fans who are making excuses for him sound like abused women with no self esteem.
July 9th, 2008 8:12 AM
Clay Aiken can't even live by himself because he is so afraid of everything. How can he protect his child?
It is his life but fans have the right to not like it and say so. Clay is losing many fans over this.
Ethel is an over the top fan who Clay encourages because she is black and he has to prove something by being tolerant of behavior from her that he has publicly lash other fans for doing. His friend Kristy had a baby too. Now I am wonderig is it Clay's baby?
Clay Aiken seems easily taken in by women.
Jaymes was obviously another Claymate since the beginning.
She fooled him just like some others who he allowed into his personal life did. Now another human being is involved. If it is true.
Aiken needs some serious counseling before making any more huge decisions. He has killed his career before this latest castastrophe. This is just the one that will cause many fans to leave at once. Clay Aiken is not who he has said he is.
He is a hypocrite.
July 9th, 2008 8:21 AM
That's really pathetic begging him to blog. After the way many fans at his own official fan club message board left nasty and sometimes threatening posts about Jaymes and himself I hope he never blogs again from there and I also think he's 'outa' here'.blog and thank them? Gimme a break.
He'll fullfil any obligations he has left then I doubt we'll see him professionally for a long time if ever.
As far as busting their wallets, from where I stand they only paid for what THEY wanted and enjoyed. No arm twisting here.
July 9th, 2008 8:25 AM
If he can take time to have his hair style and color changed every other day he can take time to blog. He can blog while having his hair done.
Some fans make excuses for him. I can see why the word "worship" has been used about Claymates.
I was a fan. I am no longer one.
Clay can't and shouldn't change what he has done if it is true but he could at least have shown the fans some appreciation and respect.
He comes across as cowardly.
July 9th, 2008 8:27 AM
Maybe someone should see that Aiken reads this blog. At least he will know why his career is over. He sure can't get any idea from his fan club site. That board is heavily moderated and censored.
July 9th, 2008 8:29 AM
Katican: Go crawl back under your rock. You a real mental case.
July 9th, 2008 8:29 AM
I am a long time, faithful fan of Clay.But, unfortunately, I, too, view his continued silence as arrogant and cowardly. I am seriously disappointed in this man. Note to Clay: if in fact you are to assume the new role of Dad,you need to grow up- your baby will NOT be impressed with your idol status nor how long you can hold those "glory notes". It's reality check time,Clayton,and,in my opinion, it's long over due.
July 9th, 2008 9:24 AM
There is still no hard evidence that this rumour is true.
TMZ ought to be shot for what they did.
July 9th, 2008 9:44 AM
If it is not true then Clay should just say so, rather than putting his fans through this. Unlike his sexual orientation, this is not something he can keep private indefinitely.
July 9th, 2008 11:51 AM
Mary, Clay is damned if he does, no matter what he blogs there are some fans who aren't happy and pick apart what he wrote or bitch about it someway. If you don't think so, track back to some of Clay's blogs and then check out the thread where it's being discussed.
As for unconditional love, Mary, I hope you have no children because it would be sad that they aren't loved unconditionally. I learned unconditional love from Jesus. I learned unconditional love from my parents and when I had my two children. There is nothing they (parents, children, and Clay) could ever do that would make me stop loving them. They could murder someone and although I would turn them in, if they didn't turn themselves in, I would never stop loving them.
I don't make excuses for Clay. Even I need a break from the fans at times and I know I'm not alone. I have an ex-husband who tried to abuse me but I have too much self esteem to put up with that crap. That's why he's my ex-husband.
July 9th, 2008 1:14 PM
You're right. You should love your children unconditionally. But there is a big huge leap between one's children and Clay!
July 9th, 2008 2:24 PM
How can Clay respect women who show passion for a cause just because HE draws attention to it? The way the Claymates have waited to donate to UNICEF until Clay's blog is up is truly twisted. He'll take your money, but it doesn't mean that he likes you.
July 9th, 2008 2:27 PM
Has there ever been any doubt that Clay's detractors would be here to point out his imaginary flaws? Since when did Clay and his career become all about the fans? Wait! Clay can't do anything without consulting his fans and detractors to get their ok first! As said before, both fans and especially his detractors are way too invested in his personal life. They want to run his career, tell him what he can say, determine who he can have relationships with, what he can do and when. He has thousands of people, all with different expectations and he has to live up to them all? Isn't there anyone left who thinks Clay should be allowed to life his own life without interferance from others?
Clay clearly said he would be on vacation and he deserves a break--from all this madness if nothing else. Get over yourselves.
July 9th, 2008 2:37 PM
His new cd is all but a long lost memory.
July 9th, 2008 4:19 PM
"Has there ever been any doubt that Clay's detractors would be here to point out his imaginary flaws?"
Clay Aiken fathering a child outside the bounds of marriage with a woman old enough to be his mother is an imaginary flaw???
Not only did the decision to do this expose a glaring and very real character flaw, if you ask me, it was the decision of someone who has lost or abandoned his moral compass.
This was not the act of a couple of teenagers in the throws of passion so as far as I am concerned another person who has some explaining to do is Jaymes Foster. Was she so blindly infatuated and obssessed with Clay that she didn't realize or worse, didn't care about the negative impact this would have both in the media and with his fans?