Tila Tequila Explains Bobby Banhart Selection
Tila Tequila has made over one million friends on MySpace.
And she talked to them all today when she blogged about her decision to give Bobby Banhart (pictured) a shot at her heart, as opposed to fan favorite Dani:
"I must tell you all that between Dani and Bobby, it was a very hard decision. In the beginning it was all fun and games, but as my feelings started to get involved, things got harder and harder and then in my mind I wish I had never signed up to do the show.
Who would have thought I would fall in love with both people?"
Well, the producers probably had a pretty good idea. Otherwise, it would have made for a lame season finale.
Tila continued, answering the critics who wanted to see her end up with Dani:
"Yes, I know a lot of you wanted me to pick Dani, and so did I.....but at the end of the day, I felt as though Dani and I became SOOOO close that I didn't want to ruin such a great friendship that we had built together.
You know usually on these type of dating reality shows, things never tend to work out in the end because it gets all weird and awkward between 2 lovers....and so that is why I did not choose Dani as my lover, but as my closest friend. This way we would never have to âEND' things between us."
December 20th, 2007 9:03 AM
Tila i really hoped you would pick Dani bcause she is a nice girl but now she could meet me and get some real lovin.I am a 24 year old girl from New York and i am a lezbian my email looking for love so any girl interested my email address is IslandLoverfromRemy@hotmail.com . THIS IS MY REAL EMAIL ADDRESS SO SEND AN EMAIL AND WE COULD GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER
December 20th, 2007 10:02 AM
can tila tequila choose me? im beckham look a like....
December 20th, 2007 11:40 AM
TELA!!! IM S0 UPSET WITH 0U I L0VE Y0U T0 DEATH BUT I WISH Y0U W0ULD HAVE PICKED DANI I THINK B0BBY IS SUCH A SQUARE B0X 4EDGES AND EMPTY IN THE INSIDE I DONT THINK YOU T WO WILL LAST ON THE OTHER HAND DANI IS SO AMAZING SHE IS THE RIGHT ONE FR YOU I REALLY WISHED YOU WOULD HAVE PICKEED HER
December 20th, 2007 8:55 PM
hey tila i am so happy that u picked bobby, bobby is soo cute u made the right choice chosen him hopefully it will turn out all right he really does like you alot do not regret your decision.
December 23rd, 2007 11:54 PM
YALL NEED TO STOP DISIN MY DOG BOBBY AND GOOD LUCK TO YALL
December 23rd, 2007 11:58 PM
*YALL NEED TO STOP HATEING ON MY DOG BOBBY AND GOOD LUCK TO YALL2*
December 25th, 2007 12:21 PM
well,, i think that tila + Bobby are perfect for eachother! I also think things will work out for them both, and i am still wondering why she said she never wants to end things with her and dani but never said she would never want to end things with bobby.
December 25th, 2007 12:25 PM
Bobby is not a square box + empty on the inside + neither is dani but still tila picked the RIGHT choice!! Bobby deserved to win and i think things will work out,, if not Bobby,, call me! lol
December 25th, 2007 11:46 PM
the priceless look on bobbys face said it all tila made a huge mistake when she chose him he has nothing going for him other than a wannabe actor/model!
December 26th, 2007 10:08 AM
Dani truly loved you, with her soul and being. Best friend and lover potential. Bobbi too immature but a good kid. He seemed so overwhelmed, not sure what he was suppose to do next. Don't know about this one...hmmm
December 27th, 2007 7:49 AM
I LOVE U Tila!!!!
omg! u so made da right choice by picking Bobby! he betta treat u ryte!
by da way im bi..n ur show helpd me open myself 2 ppl...
ur my rolemodel..i'll leave my boifriend 4 u =]
December 29th, 2007 11:56 AM
tila!what the hell!u should have chose dani! bobby has a needle dick!lmao always go with pie not suasage duhhhh even no tila is one fine muther fucker i`d hit that hard!
December 29th, 2007 9:41 PM
looks like it didn't work out after all, since they are doing casting calls for "A shot at love 2"
December 30th, 2007 4:45 AM
i love that tila basically said the relationship with bobby would end. even tila knows dating shows don't work. i also love how wishy washy tila is though, "i love bobby on the show, but if people don't approve, i'll say things can never work out with bobby and that's why i picked him!" MAKES PERFECT SENSE! tila is a genius. he really knows how to make his way into the hearts of americans.
December 31st, 2007 1:50 AM
Hey Tila,
I must say I was confused by your statement as to WHY you picked Bobby. Damn you could have fooled me, I just knew you had a better connection with Dani. Even on the reunion show, you and Bobbi just didn't seem all that passionate. It seemed a bit rehearsed and well... fake. Seems to me maybe you weren't ready for a serious relationship and maybe Bobby is your way of playing it safe. Dani has her shit together and is probably ready to settle down and maybe raise a family. You on the otherhand seem like you still have a lot of growing to do. Not to say you're not grown just that you still want to perhaps PLAY a liitle longer. I noticed a gleam in your eye when you looked at Dani on the
FINALE and the REUNION. There was definitely something their. I think it's a DAMN shame that you chose Bobby to break up with Bobby and I think you were scared shitless because of how much you were feeling DANI. I'm a LESBIAN (not bi) and well honestly I think it's fucked up that you played so many women, let them believe you had feelings for them just to send them home. Well anyhow I think what you've done to establish yourself is great but I also think that Bobby is a little too niave and possessive to handle your career. But hey I guess you'll find that out soon enough. Good Luck on A Shot At Love Seaon 2. There will definitely be another show because my dear you FUCKED UP!!!
PS... I still think you are SEXY!!! Wish I could have had a shot.
December 31st, 2007 3:07 AM
TILA, YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE WITH BOBBY. IT CLEARLY SHOWED DURING THE REUNION HOW HAPPY THE 2 OF YOU ARE. DON'T LISTEN TO ANYONE ELSE TELLING WHO YOU SHOULD HAVE CHOSEN. YOU CLEARLY FOLLOWED YOUR HEART. I AM ROOTING FOR YOU AND BOBBY. TILA + BOBBY = FOREVER
January 1st, 2008 12:58 AM
you are so hotttttt tila... i could go with you all night.... mmmmmmmmmmmmm yeah so anyways... um well i think you are so hot and even tho u picked bobby u r still sexy! i dont roll with the guys but damn girl you got it... the nice tits and all... o i love it! nice an round.... i want u... and i love pussy...... o im so horny... with all those naked pics of u on the internet!! o damn! im so wet! ahhhhhhhhhh finger me!
January 1st, 2008 1:59 AM
bobby is HOT..but...they're overrrrr she broke up with him..and made it seem like he broke up with her...butttt shes gonna have a shot at love numero 2 supposedly castings were in october..and dominco of course as everyone should know by now is having his own shot at love called thats amore.
January 2nd, 2008 7:01 PM
I watched this show and as weeks went by, I grew to love both tila and bobby. I would have to say,, more so bobby. I personally think entertainers have such different lives than other people and should take that into consideration before doing a show like a "shot at love". Make sure you know that the person you choose at the end is so aware of your lifestyle. Since I was 12 years old "FALLING IN LOVE",, has been the most important thing in life to me. I hate it when people play with other peoples hearts like it means nothing. Bobbi, your HOT AS HELL !!!!! good luck with everything.
January 2nd, 2008 9:42 PM
I was so turned off by this stupid show that I was convinced that only morons could be taken in by this crap. Guess I was right by reading all of the garbage posted prior to my comment. You were all taken, just like on all other "reality" shows like this one. What was "real" about this? Absolutely NOTHING! Joke's on all of you. She made bank off of your sad need to "believe".
January 6th, 2008 11:59 AM
i think that dating shows are dumb all together you really can't find the right person in that short amount of time i can't believe you broke up with bobby right after the show
January 12th, 2008 11:43 PM
oh my gosh !
I STILL can't believe Bobby actually messaged me back ,
after asking .. " what REALLY happened between you two ? "
Basically , what Bobby said was that Tila NEVER called him
and that she NEVER even gave her to him ,
so he ended it by breaking it off/ up with her "
He wanted to have sex with her but she refused
that's why he ended it by breaking it up with her !
June 3rd, 2008 10:42 AM
tela is so fucking hot