I have to totally agree with Sarah. He did the right thing if he really didn't love either one of them. Good for him.
Bea Says:
November 21st, 2007 2:20 PM
I havew watched this season fro the very beginning. Wwo want s to be with a guy who picked her under pressure? I think he was right to be sincere if indeed he was bein sincere. My heart goes out to this poor guy that no one seems to think about..Maybe he really was confused..has anyone thought that for a moment he was being true? Any body know the meaning of sincere anymore? I fhe was being true to his heart I support him all the way.
Kayla Says:
November 21st, 2007 3:17 PM
If he was sincere at the Final Rose Ceremony, then he wasn't sincere the rest of the way along. It can't be both ways. Don't you understand that's why people are outraged?
Becka Says:
November 21st, 2007 7:57 PM
Before you go judging either the ladies or Brad, think of how difficlult it had to have been to be on national TV, have to fall in love, and have only a short amount of time. It would have been hard on anyone and not everyone would have been able to do what these amazing people did. If Brad didn't love either of them enough to make a lifetime commitment, then, I'm glad he didn't choose. Marriage is forever and it would have been a whole lot worse later if he would have chosen and they would've gotten married, then decided that it wouldn't work. All of them are hurting now, but they would all hurt worse later if it didn't happen the way it did. Ease up on them all. The last thing their aching hearts need is their love life plastered everywhere.
CECE Says:
November 21st, 2007 8:32 PM
What a self absorbed jerk! There is something essential missing in a creep like Brad.....both women are lucky, they dodged a bullet!
wundawoman Says:
November 22nd, 2007 1:47 AM
Leave the guy alone. He never ever told any of the girls he was in love with them. He could not make himself fall in love, and I can't see where he led them on. He was polite and courteous to them, and quiet often would tell DeAnna she had all of the qualities he was looking for, but that still doesn't mean he was in love with her. Lots of guys have all of the qualities I am looking for, but I'm not in love with him. I think he is to be commeneded, because he was man enough to walk away and tell the truth. Better to do it when he did, instead of going thru with it and hurting the girls worse in the long run. Rejection is not good at any time, but it's a part of life. He didn't owe these girls anything. He gave it some serious thought at the end and decided it wasn't what he wanted and he backed out. So what if he is 34 and single? It takes some longer than others and if everyone was as cautious as he was, there would probably be a lot less divorces. I knew neither of these women were right for him, because they were boring, and put ons. Brad owns bars and meets all kinds of women and he said he wanted a low maintenance, down to earth woman. DeAnna thought she had him wrapped and she didn't. She even thought that she was going to get him back on the final show, but he didn't give in. I am guilty of breaking up with guys that loved me and I didn't love them back, but I was not going to ruin my life and be miserable to satisfy someone else, sorry, I don't see it that way! Love hurts, and these girls weren't guaranteed anything when they went into this. Get over it! We all have been heartbroken. Thats how love works. If you can't be with the one you love...love the one you with....NOT!!! I would rather be single the rest of my life than be married to someone I don't love. When Brad meets the right one, he will know. DeAnna was too serious for Brad and Jenni was too fake.As far as his type, I think Hillary was the closest of all of the women. She knew what she wanted and didn't sit there and hesitate to say how she felt, like Jenni and DeAnna did. If you love someone, let them know, if they don't love back, that's not your fault. DeAnna should have started from the very beginning to tell Brad how she felt instead of taking one night, trying to cram it all in, like a rehearsal or something. There is a lid for every pot! You just have to stop looking and it will eventually come to you when you least expect it! As for Jenni, she needs to do away with the oversized towels she used for dresses. Her clothes look like they came from the Salvation Army and when she smiled, she sorta looked like a Mule eating briars, bad taste! And DeAnna had the attitude that "I am going to make you love me because I am too beautiful."
Hope that works, dont know if this site allows HTML?????
Hmm.. a couple might fit for Brad too :-)
BTW, I dont forgive him *Brad* but, totally understand it all alot better now ..GL2UA!!!!
Rose Says:
November 23rd, 2007 4:30 AM
Brad, stick to dating women your age and older (like myself). They are far more life experienced, know themselves better, and therefore are more interesting & intriging, and will get those butterflys fluttering. (They are also not stuck in that fairytale book expectation of love)
jackie Says:
November 23rd, 2007 10:58 AM
I THINK BRAD WAS TOO FULL OF HIMSELF. HOW CAN YOU TELL EACH THAT YOU CARE SOOO MUCH FOR THEM. THAT EACH HAS EXACTLY WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR. THEN SAY YOU CAN SEE YOURSELF SPENDING THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH ONE OR THE OTHER, THEN DUMP THEM BOTH. YOU DIDN'T GIVE EITHER A CHANCE BUT LED BOTH ON JUST TO GET HURT. REMEMBER WHAT GOES ROUND COMES ROUND.
El Delfino Says:
November 26th, 2007 12:17 AM
First off, Jenni's hooked back up with her boyfriend from out here, so not like her life came to an end.
Secondly, let's face the music. 99 percent of these women were on the show for the 15 minutes of fame anyhow. They all got what they wanted in the end anyhow.
November 21st, 2007 12:03 PM
Jenni Brad
Therefore
Brad = Bettina
November 21st, 2007 12:35 PM
I have to totally agree with Sarah. He did the right thing if he really didn't love either one of them. Good for him.
November 21st, 2007 2:20 PM
I havew watched this season fro the very beginning. Wwo want s to be with a guy who picked her under pressure? I think he was right to be sincere if indeed he was bein sincere. My heart goes out to this poor guy that no one seems to think about..Maybe he really was confused..has anyone thought that for a moment he was being true? Any body know the meaning of sincere anymore? I fhe was being true to his heart I support him all the way.
November 21st, 2007 3:17 PM
If he was sincere at the Final Rose Ceremony, then he wasn't sincere the rest of the way along. It can't be both ways. Don't you understand that's why people are outraged?
November 21st, 2007 7:57 PM
Before you go judging either the ladies or Brad, think of how difficlult it had to have been to be on national TV, have to fall in love, and have only a short amount of time. It would have been hard on anyone and not everyone would have been able to do what these amazing people did. If Brad didn't love either of them enough to make a lifetime commitment, then, I'm glad he didn't choose. Marriage is forever and it would have been a whole lot worse later if he would have chosen and they would've gotten married, then decided that it wouldn't work. All of them are hurting now, but they would all hurt worse later if it didn't happen the way it did. Ease up on them all. The last thing their aching hearts need is their love life plastered everywhere.
November 21st, 2007 8:32 PM
What a self absorbed jerk! There is something essential missing in a creep like Brad.....both women are lucky, they dodged a bullet!
November 22nd, 2007 1:47 AM
Leave the guy alone. He never ever told any of the girls he was in love with them. He could not make himself fall in love, and I can't see where he led them on. He was polite and courteous to them, and quiet often would tell DeAnna she had all of the qualities he was looking for, but that still doesn't mean he was in love with her. Lots of guys have all of the qualities I am looking for, but I'm not in love with him. I think he is to be commeneded, because he was man enough to walk away and tell the truth. Better to do it when he did, instead of going thru with it and hurting the girls worse in the long run. Rejection is not good at any time, but it's a part of life. He didn't owe these girls anything. He gave it some serious thought at the end and decided it wasn't what he wanted and he backed out. So what if he is 34 and single? It takes some longer than others and if everyone was as cautious as he was, there would probably be a lot less divorces. I knew neither of these women were right for him, because they were boring, and put ons. Brad owns bars and meets all kinds of women and he said he wanted a low maintenance, down to earth woman. DeAnna thought she had him wrapped and she didn't. She even thought that she was going to get him back on the final show, but he didn't give in. I am guilty of breaking up with guys that loved me and I didn't love them back, but I was not going to ruin my life and be miserable to satisfy someone else, sorry, I don't see it that way! Love hurts, and these girls weren't guaranteed anything when they went into this. Get over it! We all have been heartbroken. Thats how love works. If you can't be with the one you love...love the one you with....NOT!!! I would rather be single the rest of my life than be married to someone I don't love. When Brad meets the right one, he will know. DeAnna was too serious for Brad and Jenni was too fake.As far as his type, I think Hillary was the closest of all of the women. She knew what she wanted and didn't sit there and hesitate to say how she felt, like Jenni and DeAnna did. If you love someone, let them know, if they don't love back, that's not your fault. DeAnna should have started from the very beginning to tell Brad how she felt instead of taking one night, trying to cram it all in, like a rehearsal or something. There is a lid for every pot! You just have to stop looking and it will eventually come to you when you least expect it! As for Jenni, she needs to do away with the oversized towels she used for dresses. Her clothes look like they came from the Salvation Army and when she smiled, she sorta looked like a Mule eating briars, bad taste! And DeAnna had the attitude that "I am going to make you love me because I am too beautiful."
November 23rd, 2007 2:43 AM
4.. Jenni & D.D.
Hope that works, dont know if this site allows HTML?????
Hmm.. a couple might fit for Brad too :-)
BTW, I dont forgive him *Brad* but, totally understand it all alot better now ..GL2UA!!!!
November 23rd, 2007 4:30 AM
Brad, stick to dating women your age and older (like myself). They are far more life experienced, know themselves better, and therefore are more interesting & intriging, and will get those butterflys fluttering. (They are also not stuck in that fairytale book expectation of love)
November 23rd, 2007 10:58 AM
I THINK BRAD WAS TOO FULL OF HIMSELF. HOW CAN YOU TELL EACH THAT YOU CARE SOOO MUCH FOR THEM. THAT EACH HAS EXACTLY WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR. THEN SAY YOU CAN SEE YOURSELF SPENDING THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH ONE OR THE OTHER, THEN DUMP THEM BOTH. YOU DIDN'T GIVE EITHER A CHANCE BUT LED BOTH ON JUST TO GET HURT. REMEMBER WHAT GOES ROUND COMES ROUND.
November 26th, 2007 12:17 AM
First off, Jenni's hooked back up with her boyfriend from out here, so not like her life came to an end.
Secondly, let's face the music. 99 percent of these women were on the show for the 15 minutes of fame anyhow. They all got what they wanted in the end anyhow.