Brad Womack Faces America, Two Ladies He Rejected Comments (Page 2)
52 Comments
Carla W.
November 25th, 2007 10:28 PM
Brad is a phoney liar. Period. His behavior doesn't add up. He led them on making all kinds of stupid statements about his "deep" feelings, and attraction... what bull-kaa-kaa. This guys is a major loser to be behaving that way at 34 yrs. old.
Tammy Kadlec
November 24th, 2007 3:14 PM
WAY TO GO BRAD! So glad to see you kept it real to how you actually felt! So many people couldn't see that and too bad for them! I was glad to see you stay true to you. You would have been fake not too. It works for some and not others, but I think you seem like an amazing guy and I really enjoyed the show more because of you! Thanks and best of luck to an outstanding person!
Dana
November 23rd, 2007 1:52 AM
Wow! I have to say that everyone has been very hard on a really nice guy. Brad Womac is not in love and he did the right thing to say so to both girls. It is much crueler to lead someone to believe they are the one and waste their precious life' s time. I am truly in love with my husband and I have a very happy marriage because he also truly loves me. I can honestly say if he did not completely love me I would not want him to be with me. True love is amazing and everyone deserves the honesty and purity of true love. I feel sorry for Brad's pain because he is a good guy who feels very badly for hurting those girls...someday when the find "the one" they will thank him.
Dana
Megg
November 23rd, 2007 12:42 AM
Did Brad sleep with the two final women? Did he just have to check that out during the few weeks they met? If so, he is a real snake in the grass for that.
Shannon
November 22nd, 2007 8:17 PM
I really don't see what the big deal is about Brad rejecting both women. If he wasn't feeling it, he wasn't feeling it. To me, if he pulled a "Bachelor Bob" and picked someone he had no connection with, only to run off with an actress that was covering "The Bachelor" for an entertainment show instead and marry her, it would be far worse. This is TV...these people are thrown together in front of cameras for what 6 to 8 weeks and expected to be all natural about meeting and falling in love with someone all while the camera is turning? These shows are really nothing more than UN REALITY..folks it ain't gonna happen this way. The rare exception was Trista and Ryan.
jessica
November 22nd, 2007 2:40 PM
How many of you watching this show realize that everything that is supposedly "real" is done for increased ratings? Do you all think that these reality shows are just thrown together willy nilly and that the female contenders are simply "all" neively just hoping the bachelor will choose them. True, some of the women are selected by the executive team simply because they are nieve and believe all this is real. Others are trained actresses. All of these people are paid for their appearances and sign contracts. Do you really think a producer would risk his or her prime time slot, on letting the bachelor make the final decision on which women stays or goes? The producers have millions of dollars invested, ratings to protect, they need to "insure" that women viewers continue to watch the show, or they lose their prime time slot, and worse yet the show is cancelled and does not return for the next season. They also do not want a bunch of disgruntled women sueing them, so they have them sig
Nikki Stone
November 22nd, 2007 2:21 PM
THE BACHELOR SPOILERS!
Find out the real reason why Brad rejected all the women..
..
http://www.realitytvspoiler.com/
JE
November 22nd, 2007 11:34 AM
At first I thought this guy just got cold feet. After seeing him on the "After the Last Rose," My thogughts were MUCH different. He had zero rationale for what he did. NONE! Just very canned aswers, which made no sense. (no wonder poor Dana is still confused!) He's a classic palyer. I'm sure in his heart of hearts he never had ANY intention of finding a wife. He was just here for the party..lol! HIS heart broken?? Only because he was seen for the "player" he really is on national TV. OK Mom's make your daughters watch this for a good leason in dating!!...LOL!
CJ
November 22nd, 2007 6:46 AM
Brad is the worst kind of loser, he acts like he so's down to earth. Being sneaky and setting up both of the girls like that, was the worst kind of rejection of all. He should have been more upfront and honest, and a little more real. He's the type of man all girls should be worried about meeting! Watch out!!
Margi
November 22nd, 2007 4:16 AM
I totally agree with several of you girls. I truly believe Brad was real and very honest. Didn't you others notice that he was in a dilemma feeling the same way for two ladies. He stated that when he was with one he was thinking about the other and vice versa. There alone he was letting you all know that in this case he couldn't possibly be "IN love" because in real love there is an exceptional feeling for ONLY one. I was disappointed also, but only because I always love fairy tale endings too. Sorry for DeAnna & Jenni, but bravo for Brad for being true to himself.
jo
November 21st, 2007 11:14 PM
So who got the money?
Judy
November 21st, 2007 10:59 PM
The Bachelor is a television show, for heaven's sake! Most of the other bachelors are not with their " choice" - it's not a realistic way to find a wife -- it's ENTERTAINMENT! And it entertained you, didn't it?
Heather
November 21st, 2007 9:20 PM
I am perplexed by this whole experience. I have read the comments about and appreciate all of the points of view shared thus far. I guess for me I was caught up in the fiary tale that was portrayed each week. I wanted so badly for Brad to pick DeAnna and when he sent Jenny home, it set the stage for just that. I was so caught up! When he walked off the podium, I too thought it was because he was overewhelmed with emotions, but, I NEVER EXPECTED what would happen next! I was truly stunned to say the least. Listen, I understand that this is t.v. and that it is rare to meet and marry your life partner after 6 weeks, but, I watched intently each week, and he seemed to be genuinely into these two girls. Why couldn't he have chosen to date DeAnna in the real day to day world. I don't believe he really gave the girl, or himself a REAL CHANCE. He says he invested 100% into the experience, but, he must have divided it into 50% for each girl, because I don't see how any decent person, having had
Heather
November 21st, 2007 9:08 PM
I am perplexed by this whole situation! I
Mimi
November 21st, 2007 6:46 PM
I think Brad had no intentions from the start to pick anyone. He got a very nice "vacation", and it didn't cost him a penny.
He played right along with the show and then rejected them both. He had his 15+ of fame and now he probably thinks he is big stud.
He's big alright, a big A...Hole
Pat
November 21st, 2007 6:45 PM
I think Brad made a terrible mistake..he should have given either Jennie or DeAnna the rose. He should have taken time off camera to be with one of the girls...and then perhaps "I'm sorry...I don't love you" would have been a little less hurtful. This jerk wasted everyone's time...ABC..the viewing audience, and most of all those two wonderful girls. Where on Earth did ABC find this one? The girls are better off without him...they will realize this in time.
Marianne
November 21st, 2007 6:31 PM
Brad is an uneducated, extremely phoney man with NO CLASS. The only way he got away with his dispicable behavior is that the two woman finalists are much younger than him and probably naive and gullable. He definitely lead them on, and they were swayed by the beautiful scenery, expensive dates, etc. No way would any mature, classy woman have anything to do with this overblown DORK.
Sophia
November 21st, 2007 4:58 PM
While Brad may have been pretty to look at, the buck stops there. I've never seen a man who has less spirit. There is nothing lighthearted or fun about him. He is eternally serious, does not laugh freely and has no warmth. The women who he left will one day realize that he did them a favor by letting them go. They will now hopefully find loving, warm, caring and sensitive men who can truly appreciate how wonderful they are. Do not fret, ladies! You are gems.
Heather
November 21st, 2007 4:41 PM
He did the right thing. People need to quit being pissed because there wasn't a fairy tale ending. It's a television show, after all. He couldn't pick between them, so he did the honorable thing and let them both go. He didn't do what the other Bachelors did- make any decision for tv.
Get over it. He's an honorable man who did the right thing. His word is his word.
Bachwatcher
November 21st, 2007 4:09 PM
Most people do not have a problem with the fact that Brad chose neither of the final 2 girls. That fact, we can accept. What I have a problem with is HOW he did it...cold, cruel and without empathy. He indeed has some deep seeded issues regarding relationships that need some professional work done on them pronto.
Rachel
November 21st, 2007 3:40 PM
What a waste...i mean i give him credit for not choosing one of them for tv purposes BUT how can you tell someone that they posess all the qualities you are looking for and then tell them you're not in love with them...ive been there and it is soo hard to love someone who just doesnt love you back..in my opinion (which we are all entitled to), he was a looser, the girls are better off without them, no other woman will look at him with trust or respect ever again....giving him any more publicity is insulting to the girls he dissed on prime time tv with an audience of millions....I WILL NOT EVER WATCH ANOTHER SEASON OF THE BACHELOR AGAIN and not just because of what happened this season, because its horrible to put soo many women through that to get crushed...for anyone who has ever had their hopes and heart crushed, we all know how that feels and should show compassion for the girls and not ounce for Him!!! Reality TV sucks, theres nothing worth watching on tv anymore!!!!
christian Anderson
November 21st, 2007 1:39 PM
Brad is emotionally stunted and stiff. What 34 year-old man asks his momma who he should pick? He is a shallow party boy masquerading as a senstive lunk. I hated the dad who told him basically that he was stupid. But now I think he was right!!!
Sallies Michaels
November 21st, 2007 1:38 PM
I never watch these types of shows but my husband and i tuned in this season because the two finalists were nice looking women (according to my husband) Brad knew what he was getting into and he did the show and all of the women a dis-service by agreeing to go on. What a joke. I wish these women understood that he did them a favor. Another, emotionally unstable and dis-functional man. Probably has erectile disfunction and likes men. He is blue collar, not that attractive and there is a whole group of women in my San Francisco office who would touch him with a ten foot pole. I hate to call a spade a spade, but this guy is a LOSER
McKenna
November 21st, 2007 1:22 PM
He absolutely did the right thing. Love IS a reality. If he did not feel right about moving forward with a real life commitment, then he should not. All the other bachelors are *sses. They strung people along, unlike Brad. The others ended up hurting their selected girl and made a news story for all the magazines. Nice honesty Brad. Way to follow your heart.
Constance
November 21st, 2007 1:05 PM
Mixed feeling about this. If Brad didn't feel that he was ready to make a long term commitment after knowing them for just 8 weeks, then more power to him. However, why did he say the things he said to both of the girls? Even when DeAnna was leaving he AGAIN said he would be thinking about her. I think that this is VERY mis-leading to her if he really is not into her.
November 25th, 2007 10:28 PM
Brad is a phoney liar. Period. His behavior doesn't add up. He led them on making all kinds of stupid statements about his "deep" feelings, and attraction... what bull-kaa-kaa. This guys is a major loser to be behaving that way at 34 yrs. old.
November 24th, 2007 3:14 PM
WAY TO GO BRAD! So glad to see you kept it real to how you actually felt! So many people couldn't see that and too bad for them! I was glad to see you stay true to you. You would have been fake not too. It works for some and not others, but I think you seem like an amazing guy and I really enjoyed the show more because of you! Thanks and best of luck to an outstanding person!
November 23rd, 2007 1:52 AM
Wow! I have to say that everyone has been very hard on a really nice guy. Brad Womac is not in love and he did the right thing to say so to both girls. It is much crueler to lead someone to believe they are the one and waste their precious life' s time. I am truly in love with my husband and I have a very happy marriage because he also truly loves me. I can honestly say if he did not completely love me I would not want him to be with me. True love is amazing and everyone deserves the honesty and purity of true love. I feel sorry for Brad's pain because he is a good guy who feels very badly for hurting those girls...someday when the find "the one" they will thank him.
Dana
November 23rd, 2007 12:42 AM
Did Brad sleep with the two final women? Did he just have to check that out during the few weeks they met? If so, he is a real snake in the grass for that.
November 22nd, 2007 8:17 PM
I really don't see what the big deal is about Brad rejecting both women. If he wasn't feeling it, he wasn't feeling it. To me, if he pulled a "Bachelor Bob" and picked someone he had no connection with, only to run off with an actress that was covering "The Bachelor" for an entertainment show instead and marry her, it would be far worse. This is TV...these people are thrown together in front of cameras for what 6 to 8 weeks and expected to be all natural about meeting and falling in love with someone all while the camera is turning? These shows are really nothing more than UN REALITY..folks it ain't gonna happen this way. The rare exception was Trista and Ryan.
November 22nd, 2007 2:40 PM
How many of you watching this show realize that everything that is supposedly "real" is done for increased ratings? Do you all think that these reality shows are just thrown together willy nilly and that the female contenders are simply "all" neively just hoping the bachelor will choose them. True, some of the women are selected by the executive team simply because they are nieve and believe all this is real. Others are trained actresses. All of these people are paid for their appearances and sign contracts. Do you really think a producer would risk his or her prime time slot, on letting the bachelor make the final decision on which women stays or goes? The producers have millions of dollars invested, ratings to protect, they need to "insure" that women viewers continue to watch the show, or they lose their prime time slot, and worse yet the show is cancelled and does not return for the next season. They also do not want a bunch of disgruntled women sueing them, so they have them sig
November 22nd, 2007 2:21 PM
THE BACHELOR SPOILERS!
Find out the real reason why Brad rejected all the women..
..
http://www.realitytvspoiler.com/
November 22nd, 2007 11:34 AM
At first I thought this guy just got cold feet. After seeing him on the "After the Last Rose," My thogughts were MUCH different. He had zero rationale for what he did. NONE! Just very canned aswers, which made no sense. (no wonder poor Dana is still confused!) He's a classic palyer. I'm sure in his heart of hearts he never had ANY intention of finding a wife. He was just here for the party..lol! HIS heart broken?? Only because he was seen for the "player" he really is on national TV. OK Mom's make your daughters watch this for a good leason in dating!!...LOL!
November 22nd, 2007 6:46 AM
Brad is the worst kind of loser, he acts like he so's down to earth. Being sneaky and setting up both of the girls like that, was the worst kind of rejection of all. He should have been more upfront and honest, and a little more real. He's the type of man all girls should be worried about meeting! Watch out!!
November 22nd, 2007 4:16 AM
I totally agree with several of you girls. I truly believe Brad was real and very honest. Didn't you others notice that he was in a dilemma feeling the same way for two ladies. He stated that when he was with one he was thinking about the other and vice versa. There alone he was letting you all know that in this case he couldn't possibly be "IN love" because in real love there is an exceptional feeling for ONLY one. I was disappointed also, but only because I always love fairy tale endings too. Sorry for DeAnna & Jenni, but bravo for Brad for being true to himself.
November 21st, 2007 11:14 PM
So who got the money?
November 21st, 2007 10:59 PM
The Bachelor is a television show, for heaven's sake! Most of the other bachelors are not with their " choice" - it's not a realistic way to find a wife -- it's ENTERTAINMENT! And it entertained you, didn't it?
November 21st, 2007 9:20 PM
I am perplexed by this whole experience. I have read the comments about and appreciate all of the points of view shared thus far. I guess for me I was caught up in the fiary tale that was portrayed each week. I wanted so badly for Brad to pick DeAnna and when he sent Jenny home, it set the stage for just that. I was so caught up! When he walked off the podium, I too thought it was because he was overewhelmed with emotions, but, I NEVER EXPECTED what would happen next! I was truly stunned to say the least. Listen, I understand that this is t.v. and that it is rare to meet and marry your life partner after 6 weeks, but, I watched intently each week, and he seemed to be genuinely into these two girls. Why couldn't he have chosen to date DeAnna in the real day to day world. I don't believe he really gave the girl, or himself a REAL CHANCE. He says he invested 100% into the experience, but, he must have divided it into 50% for each girl, because I don't see how any decent person, having had
November 21st, 2007 9:08 PM
I am perplexed by this whole situation! I
November 21st, 2007 6:46 PM
I think Brad had no intentions from the start to pick anyone. He got a very nice "vacation", and it didn't cost him a penny.
He played right along with the show and then rejected them both. He had his 15+ of fame and now he probably thinks he is big stud.
He's big alright, a big A...Hole
November 21st, 2007 6:45 PM
I think Brad made a terrible mistake..he should have given either Jennie or DeAnna the rose. He should have taken time off camera to be with one of the girls...and then perhaps "I'm sorry...I don't love you" would have been a little less hurtful. This jerk wasted everyone's time...ABC..the viewing audience, and most of all those two wonderful girls. Where on Earth did ABC find this one? The girls are better off without him...they will realize this in time.
November 21st, 2007 6:31 PM
Brad is an uneducated, extremely phoney man with NO CLASS. The only way he got away with his dispicable behavior is that the two woman finalists are much younger than him and probably naive and gullable. He definitely lead them on, and they were swayed by the beautiful scenery, expensive dates, etc. No way would any mature, classy woman have anything to do with this overblown DORK.
November 21st, 2007 4:58 PM
While Brad may have been pretty to look at, the buck stops there. I've never seen a man who has less spirit. There is nothing lighthearted or fun about him. He is eternally serious, does not laugh freely and has no warmth. The women who he left will one day realize that he did them a favor by letting them go. They will now hopefully find loving, warm, caring and sensitive men who can truly appreciate how wonderful they are. Do not fret, ladies! You are gems.
November 21st, 2007 4:41 PM
He did the right thing. People need to quit being pissed because there wasn't a fairy tale ending. It's a television show, after all. He couldn't pick between them, so he did the honorable thing and let them both go. He didn't do what the other Bachelors did- make any decision for tv.
Get over it. He's an honorable man who did the right thing. His word is his word.
November 21st, 2007 4:09 PM
Most people do not have a problem with the fact that Brad chose neither of the final 2 girls. That fact, we can accept. What I have a problem with is HOW he did it...cold, cruel and without empathy. He indeed has some deep seeded issues regarding relationships that need some professional work done on them pronto.
November 21st, 2007 3:40 PM
What a waste...i mean i give him credit for not choosing one of them for tv purposes BUT how can you tell someone that they posess all the qualities you are looking for and then tell them you're not in love with them...ive been there and it is soo hard to love someone who just doesnt love you back..in my opinion (which we are all entitled to), he was a looser, the girls are better off without them, no other woman will look at him with trust or respect ever again....giving him any more publicity is insulting to the girls he dissed on prime time tv with an audience of millions....I WILL NOT EVER WATCH ANOTHER SEASON OF THE BACHELOR AGAIN and not just because of what happened this season, because its horrible to put soo many women through that to get crushed...for anyone who has ever had their hopes and heart crushed, we all know how that feels and should show compassion for the girls and not ounce for Him!!! Reality TV sucks, theres nothing worth watching on tv anymore!!!!
November 21st, 2007 1:39 PM
Brad is emotionally stunted and stiff. What 34 year-old man asks his momma who he should pick? He is a shallow party boy masquerading as a senstive lunk. I hated the dad who told him basically that he was stupid. But now I think he was right!!!
November 21st, 2007 1:38 PM
I never watch these types of shows but my husband and i tuned in this season because the two finalists were nice looking women (according to my husband) Brad knew what he was getting into and he did the show and all of the women a dis-service by agreeing to go on. What a joke. I wish these women understood that he did them a favor. Another, emotionally unstable and dis-functional man. Probably has erectile disfunction and likes men. He is blue collar, not that attractive and there is a whole group of women in my San Francisco office who would touch him with a ten foot pole. I hate to call a spade a spade, but this guy is a LOSER
November 21st, 2007 1:22 PM
He absolutely did the right thing. Love IS a reality. If he did not feel right about moving forward with a real life commitment, then he should not. All the other bachelors are *sses. They strung people along, unlike Brad. The others ended up hurting their selected girl and made a news story for all the magazines. Nice honesty Brad. Way to follow your heart.
November 21st, 2007 1:05 PM
Mixed feeling about this. If Brad didn't feel that he was ready to make a long term commitment after knowing them for just 8 weeks, then more power to him. However, why did he say the things he said to both of the girls? Even when DeAnna was leaving he AGAIN said he would be thinking about her. I think that this is VERY mis-leading to her if he really is not into her.